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What is going through his damn head ?!
hey
i like this guy who is 4 years older than me. he used to be my manager and we talked alot through text message and back when he was still my manager we were flirting alot and he said Rules are meant to be broken but you just cant get caught. he got moved to another store, and hes leaving in a couple of weeks to go there. for 2 weeks he was being cold to me, then i messaged him asking him to come to a party with me, and he said that he will try but wont be sure because he couldnt get a lift. i ended up getting him a lift, but he told me that he will call me when he is ready to go but i still went and when i got to his house he said that he will come later because he didnt want to ditch his friend. i understood completely because i would do the same thing with my best friend, but i was still a bit pissed off.
then i texted him after the party saying "Damn you missed out on alot tonight" and he was like "Were still young, nothing that i cant make up for another time i hope..are u working tonight?" and i said "Well you missed out alot :P"
then later i said "You have to make it up to me for ditching me.." and he said "Really? Well i have the weekend off if thats any help.." and i said "Yeah it helps .. so what you gonna do to make it up to me?" and he said "Im still working on it..i could use abit of help" then i said "Sorryy youre on your own for this one.."
i was thinking maybe i could message him saying "Are you interested in me at all..or am i just being a jerk..?"
i really want to know what is going through his head! any ideas ?
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I wouldn't ask him that yet. Since you sent the last text, it's his turn now. He sounds like a lot of guys I know who have very flirty personalities and don't realize it. Since he is so much older, I definitely suggest waiting for him to make a move. If he really does like you he'll make sure he gets to spend time with you before he leaves.
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hello there.
it's so pbvious that the guy likes you. he finds every excused to bring you to see him and find every way to see if you care that he is moving away. he wants to know if you will miss him and if in the future you will still think about him. like after parties and funny jokes etc.
well there you have your answere.
bye!
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A guy four years older than you? Sounds like he just wants one thing - and if you're willing to give that to him...cool. If not, I'd stay away. If he was the type looking for a relationship or something more than a friendship then he'd be acting on it and it sounds like he's not. Good Luck!
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This man sounds like he doesn't want to get into a relationship. Doesn't want to be tied down, perhaps? I really don't know, men can be so complicated.
I'd suggest just stop calling him or texting him. If he wants anything to do with you he'll totally get ahold of you. Plus I'm pretty sure there are other men in this world that would love to be with you.
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