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i met this awsome guy at world changers, if u didnt kno world changers is where youth groups from all over the united states comes and worships. i found out from him that he likes me n i told him that i liked him. weve benn talkin ever since he left for home and well hes a cute, great n funny guy but the only problem is he lives in texas and i live in louisiana. what should i do?

TO: struggling

theres nothin rong with a long-distance relationship so just stay where you are...just so long as feelings dont change and you guys can meet each other every now and then thahd be coo..ya noe?

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I like this kid ALOT but he likes my BEST FRIEND and sometimes it makes me feel kinda weird. i wanna go out with him badly and he has called me pretty and nice and fun to hang around with but nothing else!! i envy my best friend. I dont no what to do whether i should ask him out or keep it the way things are?
Ps. She doesnt like him but he like hers and i like him but he doesnt like me and he noes that i like him!

TO: Luve? or not

so this whole thing is like a love triangle? interesting...well if he alredy noes thah you like him and he prtty much showed thah he dint like you then i say forget him...there are more guys in the ocean...just gotta get the rite one and if this one dosnt like you then why bother...ya noe?

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I'm a 15 year old with a little sister who's 14. We are not allowed to date and outr parents are pretty strict but they love us and just want the best for us. Anywayz lately my sis is rebelling(wearing revealing clothing, getting car rides from guys, etc) and i'm kind of worried about her, i just don't want her to get into trouble from rebelling or from my parents. Also next year i'll be able to drive and i'm expected to drive her but she's got plans to let her friends drive her to and from school and when i tell her it's not a good idea plus it's not fair that her rebelling may get me in trouble if she gets caught since she's supposed to be with me. She tells me that i can't tell her what to do. i don't know what to do can u give me some advice?

TO: Little sis problems

i hab an older sister too whos 15 and i hab just about this same predicament! (altho im the 14 yr old one and im not THAH rebellious...!! lolz) anyways i think thah you should either talk to her and make her understand and follow you or you should just let her be until she grows out of it...i mean this could be just a phase er sumthin and it mite pass...gib her time ferst before the talk buh not too much...like a week er sumthing...ya noe?

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Well my really good friend doesnt like my new friends what should i do? she always talks bad about them.

TO: uhh Friends !

your reallie good frend dosnt hab to like your new frends...just tell her you feel uncomfortable with her talkin bad about your frends...mehbe she feels uncomfortable around them too er sumthink...ya noe?

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A couple weeks ago, I met this guy and I thought I started to like him but I had a serious boyfriend and I eventually I realized I didnt like him. Today, my boyfriend came over and was looking at my buddy list and asked whos sn it was and I said "Oh some kid from summer school." Well he copied it and sent it to himself so he can talk to him! I'm so nervous if the guy I met tells my boyfriend that I sorta liked him... Any ideas on what I can do to get my bf not to talk to him?!

TO: kinda gay but...

i dunt think your boyfrend should eben noe wwat his sn is because its YOURS and he dunt hab business in thah kinda thing...then agin there are prolly some reasons so ill gib ya the skin... tell the guy thah your bf has his sn...just so hes aware and dosnt slip up er anythin...i dunt think theres much ya can do on keepin ur bf from talkin to the guy thah you like buh at least the guy noes and is prepared...ya noe?

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this question is kinda complex...but im gonna try and make it as simple as possible...Basicaly i see myself as getting less and less attractive by the day lol, and im getting the idea that the girls are thinking the same thing. See, i used to be pretty damn popular and liked by the ladies, and i still am, but its waring off, and im not getting the attention i used to, which is fine, but im wondering.....is a girl gonna loose interest in me based more on my looks getting better or worse...or are they gonna stick around for my personality????? Thanks, adam

TO: adam

looks shouldnt hab anything to do with a relationship...if a chick is going out with you one day it should be for the heart not the face doode...fer your question it prtty much depends on wat kinda chick...just dont depend too much on wats outside coz all thah aint gonna be around in a coupla years...ya noe?

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I have a little problem.
I Like my bestest guy friend ever. His Name is mike, i don't mind if you kno his name, but anyway. I asked him out and now he is like avoiding me or sumthing. It is weird.... When i asked him out he said.." Umm, let me think that thru a little." and i dunno why he can't just be like no or yes. and i think by him saying that, it is a definet NO! and since he won't talk to me and is like never online and isn't home when i call him, i dunno what to think..

what should i do?
- Signed
In guy trouble

TO: In guy trouble

as i sed to the last person before you gib him some time and space...who noes mehbe hes not into getting in a relationship rite now er if he is mehbe he has his own reasons...gib like two er three weeks and if you still get no reply then talk to him face to face and tell him you wanna noe there and then...ya noe?

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ok so i went out with this girl (we'll call her jane) ok so me and jane started goin out last year march 20th 2003 and we were good for the first 3 months talkin and hangin out like we were meant for each other and really havin a good time then she broke up with me but i kept goin at it and we started goin back out keepin our original date so bout 9 months into the relationship shyt started gettin bad and we hardley ever talked, hung out or nethin but we still loved each other and shyt but when we talked we constantly fought.. so when march 20th came up this year it would have been a year and i thought that was pretty special idk maybe that sounds gay cuz imma guy but i really thought it was special and i wanted to spend time with her and everythin.. but we didnt talk or see each other at all and she didnt even call me so i got mad like ne other person would.. so we talk the next day and shes actin like nothins wrong so i get tired of it and i ask her if she still loves me and all that and shes like i love u but i dont have the same feelings for u nemore so i was like iight well then i dont wann go out with u nemore..... so its been over 3 months since we broke up but im in love with her and i dont wann let her outta my life ya kno so i keep goin at it but she stays at sayin that shes not ready for a relationship and so my question is....should i keep goin at it with her or just move on?

thanx
-Anonymous

TO: -Anonymous

gib her some space and time to coo off...grls need thah...especially since, as you say, you were like going at her fer a long time...if shes thah important then let her coo...if shes not soooooooo worth it then try other ppl first...mehbe youll find some other "special person"...remember thah wen one loves anotha always gets hert so dunt rush...ya noe?

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ive been with mi b.f for 5 months and we love each other TO DEATH!! but lately he's been getting mad at his parents easilier. is it because of me? or no? help please!!!

TO: (blank)

his parents and you hab no correlation watsoebe... because his parents and him get in gites more often dosnt mean its coz you and him are going out...mehbe his parents and him hab been like thah fer a long time...ya noe?

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hey my name is rachel and i have put in alot of questions on the same guy and i am wondering i hung out with him last night and i am really bored right now and i wanna go over there but do u think that he'll think that i am obsessed? becuzz i wanna know ASAP!
thanks

TO: scared and embaraced!

going oba there is no problem...wats rong with it..ya noe?

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okay... i went out with this guy a few months ago, and then we broke up.. ever since then i have liked him a lot.. but when people ask me if i like him juss say no. now my other friend likes him a lot and wants to go out with him, i wanna go out with him too.. but i dont want her to be mad at me.. or think that i juss like him cuz she does. what should i do?

-confused :(

TO: -confused :(

tell your frend your predicament...i mean the least you can do is like confide in her and stuff so at least she understands wats been going on and stuff like thah...theres no prob with the two of you liking the same person...ya noe?

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there was this boy ive liked for 2 years his name is jordan he asked me out but i would always say no tha skool year that jus ended was really rough for us we kept getting in fights he thought i hated him it was horrible but we only got mad at each other cuz we didnt want to loose each other(if that makes sence)i apologized for eberything n he did too the last day of skool beckah whos also jordans bestfrend said jordan was planning on kissing me...but it never happened cuz he didnt want to do it where there was alot of ppl around cuz he knew it would be my first *real*kisssummer has cum and i havent talked to jordan ive heard hes talked about me alot and really wants to see me but he hasnt called but yet i havent called him ether his parents are strict and dont allow him to go out with girls (hes in 11th grade)so i guess i cant chyll with him i really wanted that first kiss alot of guys think im pretty and fun to hang out with and stuff but becuz i came frum a private skool wich only had 5 guys in my class we werent attracted to each other im 14 and feel likea freak cuzive never had my first kiss last year i had my first jus kiss wen i went to a festival im going to the same festival in 2 weeks should i find a guy to get my first real kiss with or wat??o and should i call jordan and talk with him??im kinda afraid to idk why

TO: my first real kiss and jordan

a) call jordan and talk to him and stuff...make a set date to hang with him and your frends somewhere so things dont get awkward and stuff...Just Coz hang outs and stuff...
b) dont herry fer your first real kiss...youll hab plentie of thah comin up soon i should think...just wait...wen the time comes then the kiss will come...ya noe?

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ok this boy i liked (mike) asked me out and i was really happy. he asked me to go over his house one day n i did. he asked if we were going to do stuff and i said yes. but i never mad out or n e thing .. can someone please tell me how to , and how do you no when they wanna make out or do something with you?

TO: please help

this is a quesion i can realie anser...i mean you just NOE...its all by instinct and stuff and ya just hab to feel it out..dunt werry too much bout it..youll noe wen its time...ya noe?

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me and my BEST FRIEND EVER went to pre-school together and thats how we met. we go to different schools, different dance places, and just about everything else diff except for our moms work together. we were born 2 days apart (mine december 18th and hers december 20th) and if we were standing next to each other u would think shes my little sister. im a head taller than she is. in the summer we do a lot of stuff together bc we used to belong to the same swimming club... but she moved so now she goes somewhere closer to her house. when we get together we have a such good times. i just feel that were growing apart though in some ways. shes inviting me over less and stuff idk what to do should i just hang out with her more or just dont worry about it?

TO: my best friend

totalie dunt werry bout it...theres nothin wron with alla thah stuff..you guys prolly dunt hang out as much because she er you is getting busier and busier so ya both prolly dunt hab as much time...if ya wanna see her more then invite her to more shoppin er sleepovas er watebe...ya noe?

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ok my boyfriend nelly thinks im mad at him because he called my bestfriend and talked about hot girls. i guess im not mad at him and im trying to explain to him that im not and hes all like uhhh yeah u r and im like omg im not mad at you mg cant u just believe me??? and im realy depressed like an old woman eatin icecream and cake. please help me!! what should i do!??!!??

TO: (blank)

heres the thing...you should look your bf in the eye and tell him thah your not...and wenebe he says "uhhh yeah u r" then tell him something like "no buh i do get mad at you wen say thah and dunt believe me"...so he noes thah your not mad...ya noe?

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ok...i went out wit this one guy..for not that long but i still have feelings for him...should i c if he has feelings for me too..or just forgwt about him and move on....what should i do


~~~shortnsweetxoxo~~~

TO: ~~~shortnsweetxoxo~~~

you should definitely find out...if he dosnt then move on...if he dos then ask him out agin... theres not much else ter do...ya noe?

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i know this isn't really important, but im doing a poll for summer school.. im not in summer skool, but were supposed to be doing this to get ready for our upcoming high skool year, and well here's my poll...

Bush?
or
Kerry?

moderators, plz don't rate this low, it's for skool, also please don't delete this Q!!!!

TO: (blank)

neither

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What does idk stand for?

TO: idk

I Dont Knoe

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ok, sry if this is real long:
last summer, at the pool i belonged to, there was this guy that i liked. he liked me too i thought bc we would always like give each other stares and stuff but we never actually met. we dont go to the same schools so i didnt see him but once the whole schools year and that was at the freaking vet. so now, ive seen him at the pool again this summer, but i dont think he likes me any more bc he never like looks at me or anything like he used too. i just relized how much i do like him and im really mad that he doesnt like me back (bc im pretty sure he doesnt) does he just not want to show hes """affection""" or does he just not like me and i cant stop thinking about him...I NEED HELP

**and i rate!**

TO: guys...

if you like him and your not soore then theres always one way of finding out...go on and ask him...theres not much to lose if he says ya er no...he barely eben noes you...ya noe?

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ok well i just asked a question about 3 guys. well u see i liked guy1 before i guy2 told me he kinda liked me. but guy2 is my best friend and idk wut i would do without him. and if he asked me out(which i have know clue if hes gonna) idk if i could say no. and that scrares me cuz ive always liked him on and off for awhile. but ive never wanted to like guy2 b/c ive told every one that i dont and i dont want to show that im wrong. but idk... i need help. i will rate.

P.S. ppl told me b4 to go out with them both but not serious. but i think i want a serious relationship.

TO: please answer quickly on wut i should do...

okie well this is kinda like me...i liked like two tony's before and i wadnt soore which one to reallie go for... my say is thah you should see if guy1 likes you at all...if not then you got guy2 who IS your frend and i mean theres notthin rong with likin a guy you tolod everyone you dint like...i mean you guys could always keep it secret er sumthin...on the other hand if guy1 does like you and your redy fer a serious relationship with him and you want him more than guy2 then go with him....now if guy2 asks you out then tell him you want to put him fer a hold ferst coz ur waitin fer sumone and if guy2 likes you thah much then hell wait...srry if this anser's kinda confoosing buh i rote wat i thot and i hope it helps ya...ya noe?

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