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When I was younger I shaved my vagina hair..It got all itchy and whatever, was it supposed to be? I want to shave it again but im scared that it will itch again and i cant just randomly itch it in school..Thanks for your advice in advance,
Gina

yea it is...if you keep shaving down there and youll get used to it and it wont itch (almost never anyways).

hope i helped =]

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okay well i'm sexually active, but still a virgin. so theres this one little bump right above my clit, but not on it, and it like hurts when I push on it. I was wondering if its anything I should worry about?

i think you should go to the gyno. at least if you have something to worry about youll know about it before it turns fatal.

hope i helped =]

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Do you have to pay for registering or sending pictures to your PIX Place or any charge of that sort?

thanks in advance!

it doesnt cost anything to register but im not sure about sending pics there, but i think it does.

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Can anybody help me out with this song... i tried like every lyric search engine i could find and i even googled these lyrics but does anyone know the song and artist that sings it?
it goes like this:
I'm just all alone walking down the road
no way to find my way back home
its been 24hours and im still alone
new underwear with no cellphone
but i guess you must have ment it when you said its just more than i can take
and is a promise that i won't break it just more than i can take
so you were gone for so long
imposible to tell whats right from wrong
doesn't really matter cause its been so long
..(i don't know these few words)....to the rest of the song
but i guess you must have ment it when you said its just more thatn i can take its a promise that i wont break its just more than i can take
lots of instrimental
then the "Chorus" a few more times
then at the end theres this weird like silly noises they are making. Seriously does anybody know this song??? it would be a big help. thanks for your time

i dont know this song but go on http://search.lyrics.astraweb.com/?word=I%27m+just+all+alone+walking+down+the+road maybe its one of those.

hope i helped ! =]

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What are some websites that you can go to so you can do mad libs?I mean like on the computer.I dont like to print them out because I dont have a printer.THANKS!!

eduplace.com/tales

hope i helped =]

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i really want a more emo hair cut i was wondering if any one had any ideas. i have really long brownish gold natural air right now but its kidna fried from straightening it and i want kinda sort.pictures would be nice. thanks :D

try going on this website: http://myemohairstyles.com/emo-girls.htm
i found lots of cute hairstyles
hope i helped =]

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ok well i'm dating my ex again and we get along really well consdiering we've known each other forever and have dated a couple times. but this time it's kinda weird between us.. he calls and we talk for like 10 mins then he says he's tired and he wants to go to sleep. i mean i can understand this sometimes but HE DOES IT EVERY NIGHT. and it makes me think that he's bored with me or something.. do you think he is? what should i do to make him stop doing this? HELP ME!!!

talk to him about it. or what i would do is not talk to him for a while so that next time you guys have something to talk about.
hope i helped. =]

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its swoods7

but i cant find you
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hey bestie!!!!! this is the only way i know how to communicate with you!
love ya!

do you know your username yet so that i can find you ?

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16/f..i have a boyfriend..we've been together for almost 3 months..and he says I'm the "only one" yet..he flirts with girls in my face..acting like nothing is wrong when he talks to me after! he changed his myspace status to "single" but he still treats me the same..(like his gf) idk what's going on. whenever i walk by with him..holding his hand..if he sees a girl that he knows..she'll obnoxiously walk over to him..(as if not noticing I'm there) and go..Jimmy(not his name lol)!!!! HEY BOO! And she'll give him a greeting kiss..I won't respond to it..I'll pretend it never happened..though I'm a bit hurt inside. He talks about how hot girls are sometimes...though limiting that subject of conversation when I'm around. Whenever we talk..he doesn't sincerely admit how he feels about me..It's all physical. He talks about watching porn. Something you wouldn't do when you're around your girlfriend. It's as if he has NO regard towards my feelings..as if I'm SUPPOSED to hear that from him and stand it. This is my first boyfriend..so I'm not entirely sure. I'm not one of those people to speak when something is bothering them, so I'll keep it in. I didn't confront him about the comments he sends to girls on myspace..or his status. Or any of that. His ex-girlfriends also give me weird stares..and glances. I just want to know..In your opinion..do you think I'm just a make-out buddy for him? 3 months seems long enough to grow up..And he's my age, so he should at least TRY to act normally. I know I'll never be able to confront him..I'm too scared. He gets mad when I do that..and he might break up with me, lowering my already lowered confidence...
What can I do?

maybe breaking-up would be the best for you guys. you should talk to him but dont sound like youre mad, frustrated, etc. just tell him that it hurts you that he flirts back to all those girls and about those messages and the status. and then again, say it hurts your feelings but you dont want to sound like a baby. then just leave it at that. if he doesnt change, im sososo sorry but you have to break-up and find someone better. but give him time.

let me know how it goes =]

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Ok so my boy friend Dylan is really a great guy and I really do like him...The thing is that i don't have those "butterfly's" any more about him now all he does it piss me off all the time and what really makes me mad is that he said that he doesn't care if I'm mad because it doesn't effect him and he just treats me like crap all the time and I really do lie him I just feel like he is using me for sex.... like we haven't done anything yet but he is always wanting to make out and he is always hinting about it but I pretend that I don't know what he is talking about... like he said that "we are going to have fun when we turn 16...." and that "hopefully I want to too or will accept".... "but he has to wait until I'm 16 because that is what his dad said" and I turn 16 this month on the 20th and I don't know if I'm ready to have sex yet.... and I have a feeling that if he doesn't get what he wants from me that he is going to leave me..... well I talked to my best friend about this and we decided that I should deny him if he tries anything once I turn 16 and to see if that is all he wants from me..... but it makes me sad if that is all he wants because we have been dating for like 4 months now.... but yeah so like I don't really know what to do... so help me and give me your opinion on all of this....

i think you should dump you especially because you think that he is using you because i think so too. i know its hard to break-up after so long but he might pressure you into doing something and might, not saying he will because i dont know him, even eventually rape you if you dont give him what he wants (when you guys are still together) and also, if all he does is piss you off and doesnt care about your feelings then he is definitely not the guy for you and you are waaaaay to good for him so just let him go and find a better man who cares about you. like my mom says "there's plenty more fish in the sea"

i really hope that i helped you :D

let me know how everything goes =]

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I'm a senior in highschool and my day is pretty much over at 10:30, because I have early release. English is my last real period of my short day so, expectedly, it's hard to focus. I usually tired and read to go home.


My English teacher, I believe, is seriously worried about me. She's always asking me about life and if every thing's okay. I try to explain that I'm just tired but it doesn't work. She bought me a journal as a gift and in the card she wrote that when life gets you down and is hard to manage, I should "let go" adn write in the journal. She also recommended a book to me...a book on how to take control of life and only focus on the positive things.


I'm quiet puzzled as what to do. There's really nothing wrong, but she doesn't believe me?

maybe try an energy drink or something that will wake you up ?
i hope this helps you =]
let me know if you solve the problem and how =]

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doesn anyone know any websites i can get cute things(mail forwards about love\love tests\comptibilities)to mail my guy????

www.rom101.com the tests are kinda long though..www.truelovequizzes.com/..../www.lovequiztest.com....also one with funny love poems is http://www.peculiar-poetry.com/paul-curtis/funny/love-poems/

hope it helped =]

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Well, I just found out that this guy, John [not his real name], likes me. I've seen him look at me a couple of times. Today, his friends came and sat at my lunch table, because their table was full and my table was the only one that had open seats. Anyways, his 2 friends and I talked a bit, and we talked before that too. One of his friends was like 'Oh, by the way, John likes you, but he's too shy to come and talk to you'. I was like 'Okay.. that's fine'..

Anyways, I asked this other guy that talks to John if he liked me and he's like 'Ohh yeah, big time'. So I think that this is past just a little crush. I've heard that he can be a jerk sometimes..

I talked to my older cousin and she said just to play it cool and let it come to me, because when guys find out that girls like them, they get ego's.

So now what?

i say make the first move. just approach him. if hes shy hes probaly not going to come to you first and besides some guys actually prefer it if a girl make the first move. hope i helped. write back and tell me what happens. =]

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some people tell me if a guy shaves his pubes he must be gay
well my boyfriend shaves down there
and trust me, hes not gay
so is it just a stupid thing people say?

yea just like people talk about earrings and a pennis being curved a certain way and all those stupid rumors. theyre simply something people make up to entertain themselves when obviously they have no life. hope i helped. =/

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what are some really great yet not too expensive perfumes that guys LOVE. my bf doesnt know what scents he likes and i kinda prefer sweet smells but i dont really care. i just want a smell that will drive him crazy! thank you so much! :)

there is this great smelling perfume at rue 21 and its pink and i think its called sparkle. also britney spears' perfumes are great. i also prefer daisy and paris hilton's perfume.

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The topic that I just read by the girls saying that the male body part is ugly,while the female body is so pretty.We are what we are.Why did the good lord put it on the outside,probaly so we can do the job that you are unable to do yourself.You can stick all kinds of objects up there but that won't give you what you want most.When you get ready to marry,who do you come to,us.When you want to have kids,who do you come to,us.Who is going to support your butt the rest of your life,who is going to pay for the home your going to live in,in other words,let me think,oh I guess it us.If you think the male organ isn't worth playing with,have fun with your tooth brush honey.You may be ashamed of showing yours but at least we are out in the open and proud of it.I do realize that at a very young age if you saw one for the first time your scared but remember that many girls still don't know what there's look like still.I like this site but some of the questions are from girls way to young to be thinking about sex with boy friends.At pre-teens you should be out there having fun in groups.Where are your parents?Do they know that there 13/14 year old are thinking of,let alone doing? Grow up first.There are enough Britney Spears out there,give yourself time to know what the world has to offer you and what you have to offer it.

#1 you shouldnt be critisicing (however you spell that) young teenagers. they make mistakes. we all do. its part of human nature. #2 women arent as needy as you make them out to be. let me rephrase that women arent the needy ones.there are actually women who have a job or two and pay their own rent and/or bills and for their own car. there are lots of good/great guys out there but some are only good for making kids and sex. i made my point. and #3 i dont have the slightest clue what you are talking about britney spears and running around having sex. the headlines were clearly how she shaved her head, lost her kids,lost millions of dollars, and used prescpription drugs NOT running around having sex. i do NOT appreciate men like you who talk about stuff they have no idea about. have a great life.

i appreciate that you added that additional info to that =]

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okay so i have this friend and i went to school with him in sixth grade, then he left and now he goes to high school with me [ironic, i know] and i didnt like him in sixth grade but he liked me and he liked me at the beginning of this school year, and i didnt like him still but now i like him and im not sure if he still likes me, and he talks to a whole bunch of girls but some think that hes really annoying but like idk what to do because we have one class together and i kind of want a bf, but not really i just get jealous when i see couples like my sister and her bf together and like idk what to do. cause i dont want to like come off on him as like oh my god im totally in love with you cause im not like that and like we go to catholic school so its not like i can wear somthing cute and have him be like oooh.. niicee. or watever. im just really confused and i dont know what to do, should i like give up? or should i like wait it out a little bit more, pleaasee heelp=[

i think that you should tell him how you feel and ask him if he feels the same way. the worst that can happen is that hell say no. sorry i couldnt be more helpful.

write back and tell me if you guys go out ok ?

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My girlfriend is adorable, pretty damn sexy, and luckily for me she wants to have sex with me. However, when the time comes, and we're having crazy dry sex the last layers just don't come off. We both go crazy, and she told me that she has never been so open to anybody before: especially sexually.

After the thing happens she apologizes, and explains how she's sorry that she doesn't just give it to me. I'm not sure if maybe it's my fault, because possibly I'm not going in like force producing rolling thunder or that if it's just as simple as her being a little to shy at the moment, and patience will become a virtue. Well any thoughts?

i think that maybe shes just not ready but she wants to please you so she says she does but when the time comes she decides to go with her instincts. maybe you should wait and/or talk to her about the whole situation but dont sound like youre mad or frustrated or anything ok ?
tell me how it goes ?

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I AM SO EMBARRASED

i dont go on here much but i went on the otha day and forgot to log off, my sis posted this thing about how she had sex with my best friend and all this shit i cant look at him or my sister the same at all she knows i saw it

what do i do?

first of all i would talk to your friend and see if its true and if it is, maybe you need to try and talk to your sister. is shes older or younger ? i dont think you deserve this and im really sorry =[
tell me how it goes ?

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