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She Scream She Wants Sex, Backs Out
My girlfriend is adorable, pretty damn sexy, and luckily for me she wants to have sex with me. However, when the time comes, and we're having crazy dry sex the last layers just don't come off. We both go crazy, and she told me that she has never been so open to anybody before: especially sexually.
After the thing happens she apologizes, and explains how she's sorry that she doesn't just give it to me. I'm not sure if maybe it's my fault, because possibly I'm not going in like force producing rolling thunder or that if it's just as simple as her being a little to shy at the moment, and patience will become a virtue. Well any thoughts?
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i would have to say it can be a little scary. esspecally if she has never done it with some one before.. so what it might be is that she is just so excited and like you say your both going crazy. it seems alittle fast it seems sper of the moment she has second thoughts at that very last moment. all the advice i can tell you is just dont get too frustrated.. just like you said just try to keep things alittle bit more simple. dont make it seem like your going all the way. take it slower. and try to ease her feelings while you guys arent both ready to get it on. anyways good luck and dont move too fast!
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Youre not ready. She's not ready, youre not ready and there is nothing wrong with that. Enjoy what you have... sex will change the relationship between you two. Just enjoy the ride... um, not literally.
Haha.. what I mean is... wait for it...
It will only be better when you do have sex. :)
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Wanting to have sex and actually doing it
are very different. Don't take it that she
is rejecting you or anything. She just knows
the possible consequences and isn't prepared
to deal with those.
You guys should worry about that too. I know
some of you probably do to a certain extent,
but its very serious business to any thinking female.
The possibility of getting pregnant,
even when using a condom is a risk. Its also
a major turn-off when it comes to doing the
deed.
Girls have to live with it (baby).
Guys can leave and just throw money at it.
So if you care about her reassure her that
what you're doing now is okay until she is
ready to move further emotionally as well as physically. :)
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You sound like a very good partner because you arent forcing her but maybe she feels that deep down she really isnt read for it. Or she may even feel that she doesn't know how to satisfy you in that manner, she could just be nervous? Talk to her about it and get her honest thoughts on it, but don't make her think without it you don't want her at all. Be caring and understanding with her.
Hope I Helped.
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i think that maybe shes just not ready but she wants to please you so she says she does but when the time comes she decides to go with her instincts. maybe you should wait and/or talk to her about the whole situation but dont sound like youre mad or frustrated or anything ok ?
tell me how it goes ?
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