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Ok so its really starting to bug me..X & O..Which is Hug..and which is Kiss??
X = hug
O = kiss
here's how i remember:
sometimes people say "hugs & kisses!"
instead of "XO"
so it's just that order
hugs then kisses
JOBROLOVER
okay so im 14. but my parents wont give me any money. so i cant go to the mall or the movies or anything. it tottally sux! so i was wondering if anyone has ideas for a 14 year old girl to earn money! :) thanx 4 even reading this! but please answer.
that does suck :(
you could:
-babysit
-pet sit
-ask your parents if they will pay you to do housework
-mow your lawn
-mow your neighbors lawn
-shovel snow/rake leaves (in the winter&fall)
JOBROLOVER
ok i am going on a blind date should i ahve sum of my firneds come with me or not incase it goes badly and so i will have sum one to hang out with instead ir what
i don't think you should bring friends. it might intimidate your date. think about how you would feel if you were alone and your date brought his/her friends. if the date goes badly you can just leave and call one of your friends. they don't need to be with you. :)
JOBROLOVER
ok so here's the deal... i like this guy in my grade and i see him everyday. I really like him and i don't even know him! i don't know if hes nice i don't know if he has a girlfriend and heck! i don't even know his last name... two qustions...
1.) is it bad to like somebody u have never met?
2.) What should i do?
1) no it's not bad.. the only thing is he may not really be the right guy for you because you are just basing your attraction to him on his looks. he could be a really bad, mean guy. you never know. but sometimes finding out is the fun part.
2) ask your friends if they know who he is and ask them to tell you about him :) also... you could probably look in the yearbook to figure out his last name. or you could just strike up a conversation with him (since you said you see him every day).
JOBROLOVER
Is there any way to stop the kids or teens from going to school in Sims 2?
yeah when the school bus comes and it says they're going to get on the bus then you just cancel the action :)
JOBROLOVER
what do you all do at the lakes?
other then the usual (tan,eat,drink,walk,swim)
well, at my friend's lakehouses we usually go out in her boat. we go tubing and waterskiing. (you can also go wakeboarding, kneeboarding, etc.) you can make sandcastles on the beach, have a picnic, play frisbee, volleyball, etc. or you can play cards. it's just a fun, chill place to hang.
JOBROLOVER
16/f
hey so i have been hooking up with this guy for a couple weeks, who is alot more experenced than me, hes has fingered me a couple times and i know i should give him a hand job, im ready and everything just a little nervous. Do you think i should tell him i have never gave a hand job before or just go for it and hope for the best haha. Thanks 4 your advice in advance!!!
yeah personally, i wouldn't tell him either. i know this sounds weird but type it into google. like type 'how to give a hand job' it will help you lots :) if it turns into a total disaster (which i'm sure it won't) then tell him that it's your first time and you're not really sure what to do. that way you won't look like a total idiot.
or you could take a totally different approach and put his hand on top of yours and tell him to show you how he likes it. :)
^ haha i wish i would have thought of that idea before it would have been really helpful to me
but anyways i think that would work really wellll :) woowww i'm smart :) :)
sorry it's late i'm tired hope i helped
JOBROLOVER
how is having sex defined?
like if he puts it in u does that count?
or does he have to actually cum in a condom? like i dont know what "counts" and what doesnt
thanks!
i mean it's kind of hard to say.
this is what i go by:
SEX: penis goes in vagina
ORAL SEX: mouth has contact with penis/vagina
i don't think it matters if they actually cum or not. because i've heard people say before "oh yeah we had sex but i didn't cum". hope i helped.
JOBROLOVER
what age do you need to be to skin deer? i really want to do it and im 16/f. one of my old friends did it and he was my age or 17 when he started i dont remember.
:(
to answer your question though, i'm pretty sure you don't need to be a certain age because you aren't the one actually killing it.
JOBROLOVER
Me- 16-female
Boyfriend- 17-male
we've been dating for almost a year and my idea for our year since we havent taken many pictures was take one of the pictures we have and put it in a little frame for him and then put it in a box with a shirt he'd like along with our favorite candy that we purchase and eat together quite frequently which happens to be gummy worms & put a few bottles of his favorite pop and maybe an energy drink in there and give it too him that way does this sound like something you would enjoy to get?
would you give this to your boyfriend for your 1 year?
((moneys an issue for me))
which is why i cant go all out like he does for me.i love him
I'd also like to mabe right a long note about how this year has made me feel and how amazing its been an remind him of the good times we've had together.
ive got 40$ and what i have so far i have an extra about 20$ and id like to spend it on something to add to this
please give me some good ideas
this sounds like a really nice gift. if you think about it it's a lot harder than just going and buying some type of jewelery like most guys do for anniversaries. you actually put a lot of thought into this gift. you made it more personal by getting his FAVORITE pop, gummy worms (because that's something special to both of you.. it's like YOUR candy) and a picture of you guys. these are all meaningful things. anyone can go out and buy a necklace.. but you actually put thought into this.
as for the extra $20 i would maybe get him the CD of one of his favorite artists, cologne (something you like.. so when he wears it he knows you're attracted to it hehe), a giftcard to one of his favorite stores or restaurants, his favorite DVD, or a giftcard to a movie theatre so you guys could see a movie together :)
JOBROLOVER
What's with the refferences about babies being born at proms or dances or whatever. I've heard jokes/songs/etc about it but I don't quite understand where it came from?
are you sure it's babies being BORN at proms or dances or whatever? because it might be that girls are getting pregnant at proms/dances/whatever because a lot of girls have sex after these kinds of events. when a guy takes a girl to a dance or something he may expect some action. so that's why. :)
JOBROLOVER
Heyy. Well, my 15th bithday is comming up and i really want a tattoo on my foot. Nothing big but something simple and cute. Any ideas?! Ohh, and how can i convince my mom cause my dad is cool with it. Thanks! Oh and im a girl :)
just tell your mom that it's not a big deal because it won't be very noticable and it's going to be very small. tell her that she can help you decide what to get (so she feels better about the whole thing).
some ideas:
star, heart, peace sign, your initials, butterfly, smiley face, your name, etc.
basically something small and cute.
JOBROLOVER
Is it true that they all come in different shapes? Do guys love them no matter what? I'm kind of self conscious about mine..
yes they come in all different shapes. different guys prefer different things. i'm sure there is nothing wrong with yours :) everyone is just different. most guys will be happy just to be able to see/touch boobs so it doesn't really matter.
JOBROLOVER
i shaved my arms when i was little.now im 16 and the darkness and how much hair their is bothers me. should i continue shaving? should i bleech?
what are your suggestions?
i would bleach it. shaving is too much of a bother and it gets all prickly when it's growing in. my friend used to shave her arm hair and it was all prickly and gross when it grew back in.
JOBROLOVER
so my crush ansked me to hang out with him hes a sweet guy and i think he just wants to go out on a walk or watch a scary movie somthing we can do at his house......but the thing is he knows i like him and he invited me over...but he has a girlfreind so im confused what he wants to do cause before i told him i liked him which was like a month ago we never talked so its not like were the best of friends...well anyways can anybody help me with what we can do and how to act when im with him!!!
please and thankk you!!
hmmm this is kinda a weird situation. whatever you do don't let him kiss you or anything because REMEMBER: he has a girlfriend. this means he just wants to hang out as friends. or he just wants the attention that you will give him because he knows you like him. just act like a friend. don't give him the attention as if you like him because it will cause problems between him and his girlfriend. you can flirt a little.. but not too much. also.. you should ask him if he thinks his girlfriend would mind the two of you hanging out by yourselves and see what he says because this can help tell you how you should act. if he's sneaking around behind her back.. that's bad.
JOBROLOVER
On the site teens.sparkpeople.com, there's a meal maker thing. It helps you set goals, fitness and nutrition. It tells you what you should eat all day, depending on how much weight you want to lose and by when, etc. For example, for breakfast, two waffles with syrup, turkey bacon, yogurt, and apple juice. It tells you exactly what kind of bacon and how much. Is there any other site that will do this? Thanks.
i've never heard of another site like that. if you buy a diet book or something it will tell you how much of things to eat in order to lose a certain amount of weight in a certain amount of time. :)
why can't you just use this site?
JOBROLOVER
Okay, So i have a Verizon CHocolate, And i want to upgarde it and get another phone. I had my phone since May 2007. My plan ends in May 2009. How does upgrading work. Do you get certain ammount of money off? and I have warranty on my phone. It broke 2 and i got a new phone both times. (Same Chocolate, since it was under warranty)And In august I got my number changed. So my question is, Can I still upgrade it, even hough i got 2 phones under warranty and a new number, And then How does upgrading work? Thank you!.
you have to wait until your plan is up in may 2009 or they will charge you a ridiculous price for an upgrade. (i wanted to upgrade to a blackberry and they wanted to charge me $500). if you break your contract there will be a fee also. your best bet is to buy a new/used phone on craigslist.com (which is sort of like ebay but in your local area so you can get things faster.. or you could just use ebay) and you might even be able to cell your chocolate phone on there too. that's what i'm going to do :)
JOBROLOVER
when is the best time of day to work out?
when is the time that you're going to lose the most weight...does it matter?
adding to what the person said below me.. right after you exercise your body burns calories faster so actually that is a good time to eat a snack :)
working out in the morning is good for that reason
but basically it's just whenever you are the most energized and awake and feel like exercising
JOBROLOVER
Okay, well, me and my boyfriend had sex, but he didn't have a condom, so he just pulled out. Is there still a high chance of me getting pregnat? Any answers would help, thanks.
YES THERE IS STILL A CHANCE. when you have sex, it doesn't matter if the guy cums in you or not.. you can still get pregnant. there is something called precum that comes out before he cums which also has sperm in it.. which means it can get you pregnant. the chance is probably not very high, but there is still a chance. good luck =)
JOBROLOVER
im 15, im american! And i am hairy!! Its really ugh! i dont like it! my legs are hairy, my stomach is hairy. thats about it! my stomach and legs! i hate it! i trie everything and it keeps coming back! I wish i can get rid of it forever! im the only one in the family with this problem, and IM AMERICAN! im white! im from new york city! i dont know why i have this problem! i wanna get rid of it. i want it goooone!!
i hope there is a way. please get back me.
-Phoebe
it doesn't really matter that you're american.. although i can see how that would pressure you into feeling like the hair needs to be GONE. but yeah most girls have to shave their legs, it's annoying but it's part of life. you could also get them waxed or talk to your doctor about laser hair removal. ofr your stomach i WOULD NOT shave the hair. it will grow back darker and stubbily. and that doesn't look very good. haha. you should just bleach the hair on your stomach blonde :)
JOBROLOVER