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I don't know, I've just been thinking about this alot lately. Okay, you know how people always say that to go to Heaven you have to believe in God and be religious and such? Well, what about a person who is kind and selfless and is just a good person in general and is an athiest? Does that mean that they wouldn't go to Heaven even though they were a good person who did good for other people? Because if you think about it, not every person who is religious is good. Like the terrorists who flew the plane into the World Trade Center, causing the deaths of all those innocent people. They claimed that they were doing that for God and their religion. I mean, wouldn't it seem wrong for a person just to go to Heaven because they were religious even if they weren't a good person, and a person who was a really good person not going to Heaven because they weren't religious? I was just thinking about this and wondering if anybody had some answers, perhaps?
I'm sure everyone has a different answer to this question, but this is aside my opinions and what I think is the facts.
If a person is an atheist, then it would not be in their morals to believe in a heaven. Heaven is an afterlife in which you are reunited with God and your fellow deceased brothers and sisters (figuratively). If you don't believe in God, then you should, technically, not believe in heaven or hell.
And yes, you're right, not everyone who is religious is a good person. I am not sure if Muslims believe in heaven, but those terrorists believe that their god, Allah, told them to kill people from the U.S. If heaven fits into the Islam religion, then most Muslims (the Sunnis, at least) would think that those terrorists did go/are going to heaven.
If those un-religious people did not go to church but were still good people, they may or may not go to heaven. If they believed there was a heaven, then they would probably go, but if they didn't care either way, I don't see why they would want to. In the example that you stated, those children could change their lifestyles. I did. My parents had stopped going to church over the years, and when I got old enough I started making my parents drop me off at church and pick me up. These are the acts that I know make God proud and will hopefully let me into heaven.
i am 13 years old and in seventh grade (female)
all the girls in my grade wear eyeliner except for me. My mom won't let me. (i asked her one time over the summer) what can i say to her or do so that she will let me wear it?
Approach her once more, and say something like "Mom, I would really like to wear eyeliner. Would you help me pick out a good brand next time we go to the store?" The idea that you two could go shopping together would make her favor the idea more. If she says no, don't bug her about it; if you don't, she'll be more likely to say yes in a month or two.
What's the differences between a Christian and a Baptist? there are two school where I live and I was wondering why don't they jsut call it a catholic school instead of saying christian,baptist.
The religion of Christianity includes a bunch of smaller religions inside of it. They all believe basically the same things, but a few smaller aspects of the religion may be changed. That said, Catholicism and Baptist is a part of Christianity. Since it is a Catholic school, it is not going to teach the principles of other religions in Christianity, such as being Baptist.
ok well when i was little like 10 i shaved my arms. and i'm 16/female now. and now the hair on my arms is dark. it botherd me some and i wish i'd never did it.now it does bother me.and now other people notice too. its not the fact that i care what other people think but i just dont think i can do anything about it. is their anyway not to make my dark colored anymore? thanks alot.
They have kits made for dyeing body hair at drugstores. Go to a place like CVS and you can pick one up.
Another tip-- trim them. My arm hair is dark and kind of long, so I do this often. Just go over a sink and use baby scissors. Just make sure not to cut close to the root, though.
I have no privacy in my house because of my mother.When I started my period for the first time she told my dad!I mean I understand yeah some time or another he's ganna figure out I have it but he has a big mouth!Now my holl family in and out've my house know's what happens in the bathroom.And there questioning why Im being so rude to my parents!I hate it my diarys been read, my stories EVERYTHING I cant have anything to myself.So yes i have stopped writing in my diary and kept my poems in a hidden binder along with my stories.Last friday I brought home my report card from school and got a's and b's I got in on top of the fridge jasons avg is a D OMG IM SO PROUD and huged him.She thinks im not even here she only likes my cause i cleaned the house.
I know you're not going to like this answer, but you just have to deal with it. Its not like you can tell your mom to stop, because she's your mom. Although I definitely understand where you're coming from-- my mom did the same thing, she even told my grandmother! Just be thankful that your mother isn't as bad as she could be-- my friend's mom told EVERYONE when my friend got her first period, and I mean EVERYONE. Even her neighbors found out! So yeah, be thankful for what you have.
About the diary-- you can still write in it, but hide it someplace else. Maybe under your bed?
Good luck.
when asking quesions on here no one is going to find out my name? right?
Right. I have no idea what your username is just because you asked this question. Everything is totally anonymous. =)
i'm sorry if this is super unspecific, but it's what i remeber lol. there's this song that's like a pop song, and i think that it's from the 90s and it goes
oh, oh, oh
i noe thats really unspecific but maybe the 90s pop thing helps
thankyou
You might be talking about Fallin' by Alicia Keys. Here are the lyrics:
[Verse 1]
I keep on fallin'
In and out of love
With you
Sometimes I love ya
Sometimes u make me blue
Sometimes I feel good
At times I feel used
Lovin you darlin'
Makes me so confused
I keep on
Fallin'
In and out of love with you
I never loved someone
The way that I love you
[Verse 2]
Oh, oh , I never felt this way
How do you give me so much pleasure
And cause me so much pain
Just when I think
Ive taken more than would a fool
I start fallin' back in love with you
I keep on
Fallin'
In and out of love with you
I never loved someone
The way that I love you
[Bridge]
Oh baby
I, I, I, I'm fallin'
I, I, I, I'm fallin'
Fall
I keep on
Fallin'
In and out of love with you
I never loved someone
The way that I love you
Im fallin'
In and out of love with you
I never loved someone
The way that I love you
Im fallin'
In and out of love with you
I never loved someone
The way that I love you
What?
There are more oh's before and after. I hope that's what you're looking for.
ive been trying to lose about 10 pounds for the past couple months. i eat regularly and everything. sometimes when i have a craving for something fattening i eat it then make myself throw up. (then i win both ways. i get it, and i dont lose weight) i dont make myself throw up all my food, just the fattening food right after i eat it. is this dangerous or bad for my health?
YES, it is. You're bulimic, even if you just throw up after eating fatty foods. There are mannnyyy side effects to bulimia, some of which being: erosion of teeth and dental problems, because of the acids produced when you throw up;
your salivary glands, which are visible on the outside of the neck, get swollen, because of the repeated vomiting; weight fluctuations; and irregular menstural periods. And the list goes on and on. There are many more serious side effects if you keep doing this, like poor kidney function, irregular heartbeats, muscle weakness, epileptic seizures, heart attacks, and strokes. That said--- stop what you're doing NOW!
Please take care. God bless.
ok well where do i start. when i was 12 my dad was my gero andi loved him more than anything, then he told me that he had been an alcoholic for many years and all the nights i spent with him he was drunk. my worl came crashing down and i still dont know how to get over it. On last year on thanksgiving week he went to a rehab to get better, and he did. Now i am 13 and still love my ad very much buti t seems like all of a sudden he just doesnt care about how many months he has been sober and just recently i evesdropp on my parents convos (puh lesse who doesnt) andi heard parts were he would say "i dont want her to smell it on my breath." usualy i would talk to my mom about it but she has been lying about thiss sitchuation. i cant trust them. and now today i heard my dad downstairs and i thought he was drinking something so i told my mom and she started talking to him and of corse, i evesdropped again b/c i dont want to not know things that are going on with my dad b/c i love and care about him. well i heard her go "we cant keep lying, they know, our kids know this" I really dont know what to do rite now and please dont say talk to them about it b/c for some reason i cant, and i dont know why i usually tell them everything it is just this sbject that i cant say anything about. PLEASE HELP!
There's no way to correct your feelings without talking to someone about it. You need to tell your dad that you know about his problem and that you're concerned for him. Make sure to let him know that you and your family will be there for him whenever he needs you. Then, ask him to check himself into a rehabilitation center again. Trust me, once you talk to them, you'll feel much better. Good luck to you, your father, and the rest of your family.
ok 14 years old and i've never had a boyfriend or kiss or anything. i don't know whats wrong with me. all my friends have had boyfriends but no, not me. im not ugly or anything like not to be conceited or anything but alot of people had told me i was cute and pretty. and i also have like alot of friends and they all say they love mt personality. i just don't get it. any answers to why i never had a boyfriend or how to get them to know im interested?
I was in your same situation when I was younger. I didn't get my first boyfriend until I was 14. I remember spending tons of my time trying to figure out why nobody liked me. Like you, I had friends, wore brand-name clothes, and when I walked into a room, a lot of guys stared. The only flaw that I saw in myself was that I didn't hang out with the "popular" crowd, although I saw popular guys check me out. (Not to brag, just saying.) And yet, I hadn't even been asked out. Sure, *some* guys flirted with me, but nobody ever even hinted at asking me out on a date. My conclusion: the type of guys that would ask me out on a date (average to just-below-popular guys) didn't have enough courage to ask out girls yet. Just like I didn't have enough courage to ask out guys. Wait a little while, and soon a lucky guy will come along and fall in love with you. Besides, the best guys are the ones you have to wait for.
Good luck, and take care.
ok this is gonna sound like really gross but is it normal to get a pimple on your butt once in awhile? cause i have one and it really hurts when i sit down. any advice to get rid of it? thanks. and yeah i know its really grosss.
Yes, its definitely possible. Pimples pop up all over your body. Most people get them all the time on their butt, they just don't notice them; except when they get irritated, which yours has. There's not really much you can do for it, just put antiseptic twice a day or more.
My pimple butt story (lol): it was 4th of July, and there was a parade in the center of my town. I had brought a unfoldable chair that kind of had a mushroom seat. All of a sudden, it starts to pour. Me and my short and kind of tight jean shorts, and also the chair, get drenched. Can you see where my butt might have been irritated?? lol
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alright yesterday a girl pantsed me, right in front of the class when i was sharpening my pencil as i walked past her. i took it lightly and pulled my pants up and joked about it for a while, then a half hour later she got up, and i pantsed her back..as a little revenge/joke thing, only she was wearing a thong and well, yah enough said.
i got sent to the principle's office and got suspended for 3 days...it just snowed here so today doesnt count, but still im going to miss monday, tuesday, and wedsnday, for pantsing a girl that pantsed me, (also, the girl went to the principle's office and stuck up for me saying that she had it comming)
yeah uhm what should i do???
p.s. the girl is not suspended.
Pantsing a guy is different. Although it was rude of her and she should have gotten into trouble, you probably had boxers on, which are basically shorts. And guys let their boxers hang out all the time anyway, so there is really no difference. On the opposite side of the spectrum, there's girls, who's underwear use up much less material than guys, as you obviously saw today. Think of it like this: if a girl walked into school with only underwear on, it would be inappropriate, but if a guy walked in with only underwear, it would be kind of gross, and you might get into trouble, depending on how much they looked like boxers, but it wouldn't be a huge deal. Besides, girls and women should be treated with respect, always, no matter what they do to you.
How do you take screenshots of websites or little things on your computer?
First, bring up the window that you want something screenshot-ed from. Then, press the Print Screen key on your keyboard, which is located between the F12 key and Scroll Lock key (on most computers). You screen might flicker, or nothing may happen, but either way its fine. Next, go Start >> (All) Programs >> Accessories >> Paint. Then, press Edit >> Paste. A shot of the screen will come up. Press the dotted erectangle button a couple of times, which is on the top right of the left menu bar. Now, draw a rectangle around the part of the shot you want. If you don't get it right the first time, go Edit >> Undo and try again. Once you have your rectangle around your picture, right-click. If you want to bring your picture directly to another webpage, click Copy, then on the other webpage click Paste. If you want to post this picture on a forum or show it to a friend, click Copy To, title it, then click OK. Your picture is saved. To bring it to a forum, go to a website like http://www.imageshack.us and upload it. (Just click Browse, find your picture, OK, Upload.) Good luck =)
I've been noticing that lately I've been getting alot of acne lately. I usually break out on my chin, but recetly I started getting zits on my cheeks, forehead, and even my chest and back! :-\ So, I'm wondering if anyone has used an acne medication or facewash or anything that has worked reallly well. I was thinking about purchasing Clearasil for the acne on my face. So, has anyone ever used Clearasil and if so, did it work well? Are there any other acne medications out there that work extremely well? Thanks for your help.
I use Cetaphil Gentle Skin Cleanser 2x daily. Then I also use Aveeno cream at nighttime. I really recommend the Aveeno... the Cetaphil alone doesn't do much, but it works well as a soap.
Alright, So I have a BMI is 23.21. I'm about 5'3 and I way 131 pounds.
My main issue is my stomache, the rest of my body I think looks pretty good.
I have a fat stomache, I've been doing crunches, sit ups, trying to eat healthier. Can anyone suggest anymore good ideas? Or workouts? Or types of food that increaces your matabolism?(sp)
But my main question is if I keep working on my stomache, and running, and exercising, through the this year, and during the summer, maybe by next school year I will be skinnier?
I want a flat stomache:(
[if seems like i'm the only fat girl.. I mean im not like REALLY FAT, but it seems everygirl I see, has a flat stomache, and isnt fat at all. And I see other people but its either they are skinny and have flat tummys or they are obvoiusly really obese. I dont think its obvious for me, but when I wear a bathing suit, my stomache isnt flat.
I want my stomache to be as flat as like where my underwear is? Like above my crotch, this sounds bad, but I mean like I want my stomache to be flat and match up and be completely flat. Like if i wear a bathing suit, theres not roll.
Sorry this was so long :(
Just keep doing what you are doing. You'll get it, eventually. Don't work yourself too hard, either.
Be happy with your body. I'm about your height and weight, and I love my body. I have a pretty flat stomach, except for my "gut," the area right above my crotch, like you. Most of my weight got distributed to my hips, thighs, and butt instead of my stomach. (Yes, I have a big butt! lol) So yeah. I bet that as soon as you get close to being that thin, you'll want to be curvy. Really think about it, and consider what you'd feel like in all situations. Good luck =)
i'm a freshman in highschool and i am taking bio honors, and i'm not doing too good. i really need to find a new way to study...i copy all my notes as studying, and i look them over. i still don't do too good. any advice on how to get better grades and any better ways of studying that have helped you greatly??
thanks in advance
xo
My history teacher taught me this way of studying a few years ago. Its amazing, and it works. It can be boring, though, but if you study for at least 20 minutes day for 3 days before a quiz/test, you'll do fine.
Make a list of all the important key terms-- people's names, dates (that probably doesn't apply to biology, but if it does...), events, important topics, and things like that. This can be on a scrap piece of paper. Now, take another piece, and write the first key term. Write everything you know about it. Then write the next key term. Again, write everything you know about it. Do this without looking at a notebook or textbook. Skip about 2 lines between every key term, because at the end of your list, you should go back to a notebook or textbook and make sure there is nothing you missed. IT IS GOOD TO REPEAT INFORMATION IN EACH DEFINITION. Repetition is review. (For example, say you were talking about how to find volume, then how to find density. For volume, you would say to measure LWH and multiply them together. Then, say 'M/V=D.' Then for density, you would say, 'Find mass, then find volume by finding LWH and multiplying them together"... I think you get it.) This is studying in itself, but after you finish, quiz yourself on it. Put a check next to the ones you don't know and an X next to the ones you do. Then review for the topics with X's next to them.
Good luck =)
Right so i know a few people who were their jeans low and then their boxers show..do girls get put off/ turned on by this ? or does it dpend on the person ?
Usually it turns me away. It shows that guys have no class and don't care enough about themselves to pull up their pants. Its only kind of hot if your jeans aren't reaaally baggy, really low, aren't totally strait-legged, and aren't girl pants. And even then, you can only pull it off accidentally. You can't look good if you do it purposely. Its like when most girls try and look sexy, it comes off looking either dorky or snobbish.
I've had the same old style for a good amount of time.
Do you know any stores with good style so i dont look dull and boring like usual?
These are the most popular stores:
Hollister