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Where are some good places that is just random to makeout at? I already took my boyfriend in a elevator! and we went to a park=] so yeah any ideas?


thanks in advance=]

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Well, my boyfriend got homecoming king and he told me and he said "I don't know who the queen is but I really don't care."


So, he's probably going to be dancing with another girl...I'm so scared tho..
what do I do?

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Okay, so I like this guy. I have for six years now. One problem is he lives in another country. How do I flirt/show him I like him?

I like him a lot. :]

(15/f)

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one time one of my girlfriends was talking with all of my guy friends. there's about 7 of them. somehow they got on to the topic of who was the prettiest of the bunch. i was not with them when they were talking about this. they said that another one of my girlfriends was the hottest but i was the most beautiful, and i wasn't there so they weren't saying it to be nice. anyway, i hear about this and before i never thought i was really pretty and thats why i never got a boyfriend. but now i know they think im really pretty yet still i have not gotten a boyfriend. well i had one but it didnt last long. i'm not slutty. i know i talk a lot but i try not to around the guys. i flirt occasionally but not with everyone. i've told some of my guy friends that i liked them but i get nothing! is there something i'm doing wrong? i still don't think im the prettiest so it's not because im concieted now.

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I have small breasts. and am pretty sure that they have matured as far as they will.. =/ and i was thinking of trying out some type of breast enhancement product. But not sure which may be best...
I tried looking through reviews and just trying to look for products, but there are just so many! Does anyone know that are actually good/work/ and or is the best????
...and if have some first hand experience which you would recomend and which to just avoid!

Thanks for the help! =)

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can you have sex while you're on your period?
what are the effects if you do?

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i've had sex with my boyfriend.
he used protection, and it didn't break nor leak.
the thing was, when he stuck his penis in me, it hurt for a while, but then i got used to it.
but i was on my period while we were doing it, are there any effects or anything? is it normal?

my stomach started hurting later on, so i wasn't sure if it was my period or it was because i had sex while i was on my period. but it doesn't hurt anymore, so is it just cramps? if so... are there any ways to help cramps?

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Hey. in drama class, we have to do an assignment in which we act out the top 10 moments in the average person's life. (eg, starting kindergarten, getting married, having a child etc)

I am the group leader and i came up with a few but their mostly applied to education. We have to act each one out, therefore, i need help coming up with 10 of them. I googled already, but couldnt find anything. (14/f)

So far I have...
1) birth
2)starting kindergarten

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need help!

Thanks!!!

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Me and my bf of 11 months have talked for a long time about sex. I'm 17 and he's 18. I'm still a virgin and he's not. I was all for it cause I know that I love him and I want for him to be my first. But when the time came I chickened out. He was really patient about it and told me not to worry about it that it will happen when it happens. I don't know what to do. I know that its something that I want to do I just can't help but let my nerves get the best of me. Plz help!

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i think i am about ready to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time. it will be both of our firsts and i am a little bit nervous about little things during this sex like if i get pregnant or just something bad happening! is it normal to be nervous and is there any little tips i need to know before doing this? and can someone please explain how the process goes like does he get a little hard then put the condom on? or how does that work?
thanks

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i want to give my boyfriend head.
im just not exactly sure what he likes.
you are supposed to put a lot of tounge rite?
and kind of pull the skin with it?
any tips you can give me?
im a little nervous but i heard it comes naturally..is this true?!
thanks!

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Well this guy keeps telling me that I'm beautiful. He always compliments me. Hes says you have a beautiful face and just plain out beautiful. Like today I got a bad grade on my test and I was really sad. He said its okay, your beautiful so that will make up for it. His friend was like true that. So I never really have been told I was beautiful by a guy. I have been called hot and sexy. Does it mean something when a guy calls me beautiful and not hot..also do you think he likes me or what? please help.

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im a 13 year old girl in 8th grade and i wanna know if it would be slutty or just cute if i wear this for halloween. http://www.wizardofozcostumes.com/sexy_cutie_scarecrow_costume.html
i mean it doesnt show that much.. just legs. and i'll also get the petticoat, and wear short shorts underneath. like at my school we have a dress code and i think its fine on that level.. originally i wanted my friends to be the 3 other costumes from Wizard of Oz for girls (you can see some of them in the link) but nobody wanted to be Dorothy, and Tin Man was kinda too revealing for school. so i'm gonna go as myself, and put on scarecrow make up and who knows, i could still win the halloween contest even if im not in a group.

An incase you wear wondering, yes i do have the boobs to fill it out so that won't be a problem. not that they'll really be noticable like they were with the tin girl outfit anyways. otherwise im completely blank of ideas.. i want to get my costume early cause last year i was stuck with a bee costume= http://www.partycity.com/cgi-bin/parties/costumes.cgi?name=Honey%20Bee&parties=Halloween&productstype=Flirty&products=107645&zoom=1&start=&originaltype= (but i wore a white long sleeve sweater in the bee costume and white tights (well its October and it can be cold)). and like 10 other girls in my school had the same thing, all from Party City. ugh. which is why i'm not getting costumes from there again, cause im just the type of person who likes to be different. i mean sometimes i like the same things as other people but i dont wanna wear the same costume unless we planned it. so i want a diff costume thats cute but not like slutty but not like elementary school-ish. cause if you really dont think this could work, i'll be really greatful for other ideas, and websites to see for costumes. (note that i cant spend like over 50 dollars.. the scarecrow is pushin it)

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one of my bestfriends and i got ina fight over myspace earlier. she lies alot and she posted a bullitin all made sayin why does everybody say shes scene and why they say shes obsessed with certain bands and why people think she told everyone she cuts. she knows what scene is she says she is she even looked up on how to be scene. she is obsessed with the bands she says it and shows it. she does cut and i would understand why someone would say they didnt im a cutter too we were helping eachother through it but she TOLD EVERYONE she cut and she was showin off her scars and then she did it on the top of her hands wtf and told everyone. i told her and she went off on me sayin i better not talk to her today tomarrow maybe even next week.
i also screwed up my knee and foot with a broken ankle on the other foot. shes beggin me to come to the skating rink because she doesnt have a ride. i went last week with a broken ankle and my foot screwed up. my friends sat down with me because i couldnt take it skating. and she was saying just leave her come skate with me. my friends got mad at her i got pissed 2 stood up for me.
i cant really trust her before this she lied so bad she does anything to make her life sound so much worse or somedays better. she lied sayin she has over a million dollors in her wallet and another time she said her family is on food stamps. she says all her clothes is from hot topic and then she said the only thing she has from hot topic is bracelets i bought her. and all her clothes is pinks and stuff she says she wear all black everyday which i have never seen her like that(i wear black everyday) for myspace she posts fake pictures of scene people and say their her and she has a pic of me wearing all black and with my guy friends and the caption was me rollin with my homies. NONE of her pics are even of her and she says they are. she got me and my friend in the most trouble any of my friends have ever got in there was authority. she just acts like so many people mainly me and no its not even a little complimentary ITS PISSING ME OFF but i do still love her but i dont know why. the whole time weve been friends its screwed up my life and shes screwin up hers. none of my family or other friends trust her but our friends dont see it. were only 13 what can i do?! this has caused me so many bad things i lost alot of old friends but most of them will only like me when im not around my friend. i dont get this ANY OF IT. please help me with all u can for her sake and mine?!

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I am writing a movie script, which should be in production next year, and I need advice for a few of my teenage characters. It's been a few years since I have been a girl in high school and, although things were hard back then, I can only imagine the abundance of peer pressure you guys face these days. I want these characters to portray real life feelings. Say real life words that teenagers say. And react the way kids react in certain situations. By using your own or someone else's experiences I would appreciate advice on how girls and boys would act or respond if faced with situations such as:

GIRLS:
A girl and her boyfriend had sex for the first time then he breaks up with her a few days later. What would she feel or do? Would she consider doing something desperate? Is it no big deal? What reason would the boy give for breaking up with her?

Would a girl ever lie to her friends about being sexually active when really she's a virgin? If so, why is being a virgin so terrible to admit?

If a sexually active girl had an opportunity to go back in time and say no to sex, would she? Why, what would she have realized?

BOYS:
Do guys have any regrets about sleeping with a girl? What are they? Be honest.

What are some good lines a guy would say to have a girl say yes to sex?

And I really hope someone out there can advise me on this one...Are there guys who choose to refrain from having sex until they get married? Not because they can't get a girl, but simply because they choose to save themselves for their wife?

Thanks in advance.

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Does anyone ever get that feeling that like EVERYONG has a boyfriend except for you?? I mean like how do I get a boyfriend? How do I try and get a guy I like to like me without being too forward???? I hate thisssss

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Okay, so there are some girls at my school who send naked pictures of themselves to guys. And they hang all over guys (even guys who are taken) and talk dirty and stuff. So I've always been told that guys don't really like girls like that. But I've heard guys saying that these girls are hot. And one of my guy friends wants me to set him up with one of those girls. So I'm confused. Do guys like girls like that, or not? (I guess girls can answer, but I'd really like to hear from some guys too).

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PLEASE READ (FACT: SORRY ITS LONG) i GIVE YOU 5
--Okay So pretty much all my friends ask me what do you want to be when you get older..
i always reply with a i dont know;;
thay already know what thay want to be
we are 14 15, i cant just pick anything (right?)
anyways i know what id like to be but people tell me diferent!
-1. i want to act nothing big like movie act like some one huge! just like someone off of newport harbor like that kinda of stuff or just be in a movie something good you know
-2. modeler or do there cloths like the hills tv show from mtv
-3. i cheerlead so id like to be come famous cheerleader something like that!
but alot of people say i cant do that!
thay say i cant be come and actor because i havent ever tooken acting classes and stuff like that' and thay say i cant be a modeler or do stuff like thay because i dont live in calfornia and california is where everyone becomes big!
and thay also say i cant be a big famous cheerleader when i know i can do that!
but what gets is what if i dont want to do that what if there right?is california where it happens me and my bestie want to move there when we get older and stuff like that!

and thing you can think of that might help please do! im dyeing over here and ill help back
just any advice would be great thanks for reading for those who did!

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15/f
you see im about 5'6" and i weigh about 120 lbs and my measurements are 36"26"36" and i can wear a size 5 in juniors, and i wear a 36DD. everyone thinks im pretty, not hot or sexy, but not ugly either! i also have naturally wavy red hair, but the down side is im deathly white so i guess if i ever got into a modeling carrear id have to fake bake (cauz redheads dont tan)!

out of all this info about me is there any hope of for me to ever become a model, or even just having a slight chance to make it?

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13/f

Okay, I'm emo. Well, my other friends are emo too, but they cut themselves. I don't. I want to know, to be emo, do you have to cut yourself? People are spreading rumors that I cut myself and that I'm a pervert. I mean, sure I have a perverted mind, but I'm immature, give me a brake! can someone explain to me why they would say I cut myself, which I don't, even if I am emo. do I have to cut myself???

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