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my best friend is screwin up her life and wont listen
one of my bestfriends and i got ina fight over myspace earlier. she lies alot and she posted a bullitin all made sayin why does everybody say shes scene and why they say shes obsessed with certain bands and why people think she told everyone she cuts. she knows what scene is she says she is she even looked up on how to be scene. she is obsessed with the bands she says it and shows it. she does cut and i would understand why someone would say they didnt im a cutter too we were helping eachother through it but she TOLD EVERYONE she cut and she was showin off her scars and then she did it on the top of her hands wtf and told everyone. i told her and she went off on me sayin i better not talk to her today tomarrow maybe even next week.
i also screwed up my knee and foot with a broken ankle on the other foot. shes beggin me to come to the skating rink because she doesnt have a ride. i went last week with a broken ankle and my foot screwed up. my friends sat down with me because i couldnt take it skating. and she was saying just leave her come skate with me. my friends got mad at her i got pissed 2 stood up for me.
i cant really trust her before this she lied so bad she does anything to make her life sound so much worse or somedays better. she lied sayin she has over a million dollors in her wallet and another time she said her family is on food stamps. she says all her clothes is from hot topic and then she said the only thing she has from hot topic is bracelets i bought her. and all her clothes is pinks and stuff she says she wear all black everyday which i have never seen her like that(i wear black everyday) for myspace she posts fake pictures of scene people and say their her and she has a pic of me wearing all black and with my guy friends and the caption was me rollin with my homies. NONE of her pics are even of her and she says they are. she got me and my friend in the most trouble any of my friends have ever got in there was authority. she just acts like so many people mainly me and no its not even a little complimentary ITS PISSING ME OFF but i do still love her but i dont know why. the whole time weve been friends its screwed up my life and shes screwin up hers. none of my family or other friends trust her but our friends dont see it. were only 13 what can i do?! this has caused me so many bad things i lost alot of old friends but most of them will only like me when im not around my friend. i dont get this ANY OF IT. please help me with all u can for her sake and mine?!
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You're asking advice on what to do when its plainly obvious? Tell her to basically, get lost. She is not your friend, she has never been your friend and she is never likely to be your friend. She may help you at times, but only if it is beneficial for her. She is a very insecure person and has to belittle others in order for her own existance to seem worthwhile.
The best thing you could do is break your friendship with her.
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Honestly, if your friend is this much of a liar, and a backstabber, then why are you friends with her? I realize you're helping her get through her cutting, but she needs professional help. Sorry, but a 13 year old can't help another 13 year old stop cutting, it just doesn't happen. You need to refer her to your school counselor & get her help.
To tell you the complete & honest truth, I hate girls like your friend. She lies, she's completely fake, she doesn't know shit about life, she wants attention and she just acts like she's the shit & she just wants sympathy. People like that are annoying and hanging out with them will only drag you down as well. She's already begun to make you crash & fall so I honestly suggest you get this girl some help, and then stop hanging out with her slowly until the friendship is completely over. She's delusional, and she won't figure that out by you telling her.
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If you believe your friend is "screwing up her life" by acting like you, that doesn't say too much for your life. I suggest you seek professional help; you obviously aren't happy. As for your friend, cut her some slack. She's just going through what you're going through. However, hanging out with her as often as you did before might not be the best thing for either of you.
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