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i'm 15/female

i'm scared incase my friends think i'm a lesbian,..i'm not u am straight,..but i just have a funny feeling they all think i am and because of this when i talk to them i always make sure i look at their eyes incase like i look them up and down,...but i can't remember why i started thinking this cos before i never bothered at all but now its like when ever i'm near them i'm scared to look at anywhere other than their eyes incase they think i'm a lesbian

why am i like this
i no i'm not a lesbian i love boys wayy to much

i'm just confused
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just tell them you're not a lesbian.

then get a boyfriend.


So right now I'm in a dance intensive that consists of 3 hours and 15 minutes (roughly more or less depending on the day) of actual dance classes. 5 days a week.

And I was eating 1200 cals a day but I've stopped that and i'm taking it up to 1400 now b/c i couldn't maintain 1200 and it was too low. Is 1400 too low?
(5'2" and 154 lbs)

How much weight do you think I will lose by the end of the summer? (after the dance thing ends in 3 weeks i'm going to continue working out 5 days a week)


I've hit a really bad plateau recently, i've been 154 (and fluctuating 2-6 pounds around there) for about 2 months. And I've kept my eating and exercise habits the same. I can't lose anymore weight it seems. So help.


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You need membership to the YMCA or a gym if you are serious about losing weight.

At the gym, there is a machine called an elliptical. Use that for an 70 minutes. Make sure there is some resistance. You should burn roughly 650-700 calories.

Do this 6 times a week. And boost your calorie intake to 1600.

You should lose 2-4 pounds every week.


hey,do you know where i can get shiny toy gun's shirts/merchandise? online,stores,anything! (link)
walmart.


buut, what are good techniques to giving good massages?
thank you. (:
& I rate accordingly. (link)
karate chops on the back and shoulders are always nice.


I just made a facebook and I meant to set it to class of 2011. but I set it to '07 instead. I went under education to change it, except it still says '07 in my facebook?! How do i change it so it says 2011 for my school year? (link)
you can always make a new account.


okay so i want to get a tattoo of a small butterfly on my shoulder (color: dark blue, dark purple, or black), but i'm asking for honest opinions whether people will think that it looks trashy with a wedding dress when i get married because you will be able to see it.

honest opinions please!

thanks in advance (link)
get it after the wedding.


The guy I like is hated by so many people at our school. Like he dresses extremely preppy (but I LIKE that stylleee). So I heard he's gonna ask me out, but I don't want to say yea, because then my reputation would go bad. Basically, he acts exactly like a girl, which is why so many people hate him. But we get along GREAAATT!
But I really don't want to go out with him beacuse I'm kinda popular and my reputation would die.
Please don't say "do whatever makes you happy," because its much more complicated than that, and I'm really confused... =[
THANKS FOR ANY HELP!!! (link)
say no to him if your reputation would really die.

you will find another boy.


just listen to you heart!


To make a long story short, I really want to write my own songs. The lyrics are not much of a problem, however, the melody is a different story. I've been playing the piano for seven years, but I can't seem to figure out how to put chords together well. Does anyone have any tips on how to write a melody? I'm a little overwhelmed.

15/f if that helps. (link)
study and play the chords in christian hymns.

see which chords you like and write it down into your notes.

then tweak them a little.


is it normal to shed a lot of hair? i usually dont, but in the past few weeks i've shed so much hair. does it just have to do with summer or what? (link)
hair shedding is natural. whenever my sister takes a shower.. the bathtub is covered with hair. and somehow my sister has a full set of hair..


ok i've been walking well power walking three miles a day for a while now is walking the best thing to do to lose weight on your thighs and your legs basically??? also if i eat really healthy and drink lots of water and keep exercising everday or like 5 days a week howmuch weight do you think i could lose by the end of sumer just like an estimate??? (link)
you won't lose much weight from power walking. maybe 2-4 pounds by the end of the summer.

just to get rid off 1 pound of fat you need to need to burn 3500 calories and you roughly burn 150-250 calories/hour from power walking.


I have a problem saying thank you to people older then me..I don't know why it's not like I have a grudge or something it's just that it jsut doesn't come out.

I used to say thank you in school to everyone and the teachers everytime they hand me a peice of paper but now when people give me something the word thank you won't come out. =S

Liek as a treat, the teacher handed us candy and I couldnt' say thank you and it really slipped off the back of my mind

I really wanted to thank my mom for walking all the wya to the drug store to get me cough drops when i was sick but i dunno..the word just won't come out (link)
instead of thank you, try gracias.


I don't have many extra curricular activities
All I have is: field hockey, piano, track, lacrosse, and a lottt of community service hours.
I also speak three languages fluently, but I don't think that's an extra curricular activ.
Does anybody know if this is enough to get me into a GOOD college, like UCLA. My GPA is also a 3.8.
Any other extra curricular activies I could do?
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make an abstinence club at your school. that will look pretty good.

anyways, you're good enough for uc davis and irvine.

but if you want to go to UCLA you need strong sat scores and must have taken "rigorous" classes.


My birthday was June 30th. It was my 16th birthday. I don't know why they forgot my birthday.. they've never forgotten anything of mine before. There wasn't anything going on around that time.. I don't know what the problem is! I am not a bad girl.. my GPA is a 3.85 and I'm always doing chores. Why did they forget? Should I say something? Because every time I tell them they did something wrong, even if it was that they didn't put on their seatbelt, I'm grounded for 2 weeks, and I'm not even exaggerating.
Its been almost 3 weeks since my birthday.. (link)
just tell your parents they forgot to tell you happy birthday and ask for some birthday money.

I doubt they will ground you for doing that.


i have a few stretch marks on my inner thighs... and i dont understand it. im not overweight or anything. so why do i have these? and how do u get them? from losing weight, gaining weight, both? And finally, how can i get rid of or reduce the appearance of them?? thanks!! (link)
you can get them from losing or gaining weight.

you can drastically reduce the appearance of them by letting your inner thigh hair grow.


My parents completely ignore me. All the things that i do are never noticed or good enough for them. They are always too busy with work so they don't notice any of my accomplishments. Last week i tried something to get thier attention. I drastically colored my hair to see if they would notice. They said it looks ok and walked away. What can i do to get them to notice me? (link)
get a boyfriend who's 10 years old than you.


Whats the diffrence between a vasectomy and castration? (link)
castration hurts 12098049809 times more than vasectomy.


Which cell phone service gives you the "Couples talk for free" thing? (link)
t-mobile lets you call any 5 people for free.
altell lets people call any 10 people for free.


my boyfriend and i are both virgins and never went past making out with anyone else until we met each other. for sure. are we still at risk for STDs? (link)
There is no risk for stds unless he has something growing inside his mouth..


I have fat near my stomach and some on my legs and arms. I'm not possitive it's fat though...but I'm sure it's fat near my stomach.
Anyways, what I have in mind is to stop eating dessert and exercise. I don't even need to loose weight though, just fat.
Thanks for your help!

(14/F, I'm about 95 pounds at 5 feet.) (link)
Do 500 pushups and 200 situps every day.

The fat will come off. You should have arms and abs of steel within 2 months.


Okay. Well I'm going to be a sophomore this year... I need to get straight A's... How hard was your sophomore year? What grades did you get? Any pointers? (link)
my sophomore year was somewhat stressful. I got 7 b's and 5 a's for the school year.

study and do you homework asap once you get home. don't turn on the computer, ipod, cellphone, or tv until you're 100% done with your work. don't procrastinate.




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