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heyy guys im jessica (jessie) and i love giving advice.♥ i may be younger than you but i will give you the best advice i can give =) .. ask me a question and if you want to keep it more personal or detailed you can IM me at unxreachhable , kisses♥

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ok well theres this guy that ive known since like 6th grade. and we're like best friends and like i switched schools and like we still talk. in the 7th grade i went out with him and like we borke up and then like im still not over him. i mean i still really really really really love him. like he was the best thing ever. and like we talk to each other about everything. and like i wanna tell him i never got over him but sometimes i hint like i love u and i always have...but like i want him to know i want him back and i really really like him and like i dunno what to do...please help! (link)
You should tell him yourself. Gather up the courage you need and confront him. Tell him that you've always had feelings for him and ask him if he feels the same. If you don't admit the truth someone else might take your spot.. so do it soon. =) Good Luck!

xOx Jessie xOx

By the way: You say "like" to much. If it was another person on advicenators they would have rejected this question. Luckly I have friends that talk like that. Well, Kinda.

If you need anything else IM me.


Where are some good stores to shop for clothes??
Lacey (link)
Hollister
Abercrombie
Abercrombie&Fitch
American Eagle
US tops
... if you need more IM me!

=) jessie xo


For health class i have to pick an anti-drug..like yeah kno...sports.. my anti-drug, but i can't think of any. I don't wanna use sports cuz sum1 already has it? does any1 hav some ideas? thnx (link)
Dance, music, friends, school. =)


I am so confused with math. We're doing addition and subtraction of positive and negative integers. Can anyone please answer the following problems and explain how you got that answer? I rate high!

-20 - (-10) =

-35 - 16 =

There's also a sort of word problem one too. Tell me what the math sentence would be and the sum.

Start at -6. Face the negative direction. Move backward 2 units.


Please help! (link)
I'll give you a little trick..

Neg + Neg =Neg
Pos + Pos = Pos

Neg x Neg = Pos
Pos x Neg = Neg

Neg- Neg = neg
Pos- neg = it depends.. this is one of the harder ones.


i like a gurl in our class but she wont even talk to me no more cause suran made shit up tat i said she gives head i told her i didnt and she still does not belive me and doesnt talk to me no more wat do i do (link)
Well she probably doesn't have enough trust in you beacuse she doesn't know you well enough. Tell saran to tell her that it was a lie. If he doesn't then I guess.. that's mean. I know who your talking about so I'm going to keep this to myself. =] Good Luck with her. You told her a few times and you need her to gain your trust. Maybe telling here stuff will gain trust. Let her know over and over again it wasn't you that said it.

Good luck,
jessie xo0ox


hi jessica, i know this is unexpected bhut i am your frend and u know me, and i like this gurl. and i am a girl, which would make me a lezbian, but i also like a guy so i gues that would make me im bi. i dont know what to do, i am confused. i dont know if i should tell the girl, becos she will freak out .and if i tell the guy then what do i do about the girl? help. (link)
Wow, this is unexpected. Maybe you should tell both.. I don't think the girl would go around telling people, and the guy will think hes hot shit! Well I'm really not sure how im suppose to expand on this so IM me if you need any more help. Most likely you have it but its unxreachhable if you need it.

Hope I helped,
Good luck,
jessie xo0ox

Edit:: If you do IM me don't worry. I will keep this private. You can trust me. =) I am very trust worthy!


i asked for advice earlier and i took it i told him and it didnt go well now im tellin you i like you ,i like the way you talk the way you walk to save time i like everything about you i had a friend ask who you like an i waz not on the "list" i like you a lot i think you are perfect in every way i know you dont like it when they dont face to face ask you but i just like you so much i could not wait till monday make a list of who you like n put it in your response if i am there i will tell you i like you the reason for this is the last girl did not like me so i dont wanna strike out again
signed your love (hopefuly)
ME

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Honestly, I really don't know who I like and i didn't know that i have a list. But, sure why not .. i guess ? I don't have a list to make because i don't like my "private life" to be seen by anyone that comes on my website.. soo umm .. ? just tell me who you are!

Thanks, i guess.
jessie xo0ox


0ok im dating this gurl...and well she is my first true love...and she says im her first true love...how do i knoe she means it? Amd if she does realy mean it when she says she loves me...how do i keep it that way? i meen how do i keep her interested and not bored>? i love htis one wut shld i do!!!! (link)
Well this girl that you say is your first true love. Think about it, do you know EVERYTHING about her? How long have you known her? Do you guys have good trust? Can you trust her if you leave for a while? .. Just some questions that should be asked. If she is your first love you should know that she means it if she says it. You can keep it that way by reminding her that you love her, cute notes, suprises here and there. No cheating along the way if this is your first true love. If you cheat it will be runined.. and to me it sounds serious so you don't want to ruin something good! =).. keeping her not bored.. hmm flavored condoms! haha jkjk well i don't know like i said suprises here and there and little love notes and such! You sound like a good guy.. so if anything happens between you you know where i am ;) lol!! haha.. well i mean don't let her bring you down! She's your first true love after all! =]

Hope I helped, Good luck!
If you need anything else IM me
xo0ox jessie


Well How do i know whoch one i like more iam going out with this nice, caring, sweet guy . But this other guy likes me to and hes always the one i am talking to on the phone a lot. Yea i do like my boyfriend a lot but he doesn't talk on the phone much. What should i do? (link)
Well i think that you should do maybe some Q's and A's .. see what one knows more about you =) .. maybe it will turn out good or bad.. don't cheat on your boyfriend though is all the advice i can give you 100% clearly =) xo0ox

hope i helped
if you need anything else IM me
jessie xo0ox


sorry i didnt no what this went under, so i put it under friendship.

anyways, im going to my friends sleepover tonight and if i stay up most of the night/all night then i get a headache, but the thing is, i think everyone is going 2 stay up all night and i dont want to be the only one asleep, while everone is having fun.

has anyone got anything i could do to help me not get headaches??

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Take advil or Tylenol =o) if it doesn't work.. try putting an ice pack on your head. If you want them all to go to sleep turn the lights off and say night guys.. and if they complain tell them its a rule or something. If they are true friends they will be like ok.

Have fun,
Jessie xo


Ok I'm in 8th grade and my one of my friends said that I should ask out this 7th grade girl, she kinda hot and a little sluty and i know she likes me but I dont know if I love her, and what if she already has a boyfriend. And why am I stresing out over this girl I should just end my pain right here and now! Please help!!!
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You should ask her out. I say i mean you don't have to love her right now, get to know her more and talk to her. If worse comes to worse and she has a boyfriend you'll get over it, and give it time. Just let her know how your feeling and see if shes the same.. If she is then ask her out =) !
Best Luck,
Jessie xo


I i got the dancing game i wanted (DDR). I cant stop playing it. My mom says i acn lose a lot of weight playing it. Is losing a lot of weight good or bad? I need help. (link)
It can be bad in a way because if you loose too much weight you can look anorexic. But i mean if you loose a little weight I mean sure =) just as long as you keep those curvvesss! hhahaha
xOx jessie xOx


I've never had a boyfriend, because my parents think I'm too young, and I think I am too. But now in high school (i'm a freshman) it's really hard not to want a boyfriend. Another thing is I don't know how to tell my mom that I like someone. Every time I do she always walks away or laughs. She won;t take me seriously. What should I say/do to make her listen. I just want someone to talk to! ;( (link)
Talk to your mom about it and be like I serisouly like someone and I think that im old enough to have a realationship now because I am in highschool. She may not take you serisouly now, but think about it. If she doesn't take you serisouly now she may never take you serisouly. So you need to sit her down and have a heart to heart chat with her. Tell her that you want to have someone to talk to and not someone to laugh at you. Just let her know how you're feeling and then she will take you more serisouly.
Hope it helps,
xOx jessie xOx


Ok, There is this one guy that I know and I've known that he has liked me for a while. The day I was finally going to say yea I found out that he had a girlfriend now. And I didn't really care. I still talk to him and everything and I can tell that he still really likes me. He always says how awesome I am and everything, and I don't know what to do. Because he is like flirting with me but he has a girlfriend. What do you think I should do? Help soon plz (link)
You should tell him that he has a girlfriend and you are not the type that helps people cheat. SO let him know when he is flirting with you and remind him he has a girlfriend. Maybe he will dump her for you. Just let him know that until he breaks up with her that you don't want to be flirting with him and that you feel guilty. Just try to be nice when you tell him though.
xOx jessie -;-


Ok this is a real question i really want to know why do most girls think all guys want is sex it drives me mental because i actually flipped out on someone who asked a question and said anyways dont all guys just want to get laid it drives me mental and i just want to know why they think this cause i know when i get a g/f i actually want a relationship. (link)
Well because some guys are scum bags like that. Apparentely your a whole nother story, and you would make a good man. If you have any more "mental" questions IM me @ unxreachhable =) xoxo jessie


I have really straight dark brown hair..When I blow dry my hair i have little fly aways.. so I straighten it a little... so then my hair is even straighter then what it normally is... But.. I would love to have like wavy curly hair.. is there any products i could use to make this happen without having to get a perm or doing something that will make it that way forever? (link)
There is Aussie scrunching spray and hair spray that works amazingly. There is also sami scrunching spray and hair spray that works amazing also. I get the arosol (sorry for the wrong spelling probably) kind.
Let me know how it looks =)
jessie xo


i comfort eat a lot, how can i stop this its starting to make a difference in my weight. thanks appriciate it (link)
Thikn about something good before you pop the food in your mouth. Or listen to some good music, or turn on a good movie =) .. sometimes i "bored eat" and im trying to stop by like cleaning or reorganizing things or reading a book =)
good luck,
jessie xox


I know this isn't a question relating to "advice", but I'm going to ask it anyways. I was wondering, does anyone know any sites that you can go on to listen to music without downloading? (You just look up your song and your able to listen to it!) (link)
If you have Windows Media Player, and you click on music or guide and you type in the song that you want, it will have a few seconds of your song. =) xo0ox


what are some good fonts for aim?? i have book antiqua now, but its getting boring (link)
comic sans MS

franklin goth book

=) xox


hey jess... i have a problem. my best friend is becoming friends with the wrong people. and im not just saying this b/c im totally enemys with them, but bcuz i no they're known 4 backstabbing... bcuz they've done it to me. i love my bff to death but now shes starting to act like them. ive tryed to tell her to watch he back and all that stuff but she wont listen... i just dont want her to get hurt. how do i tell her in a way that wont make it seem like im jealous?
- VERY confussed (link)
hey VERY confused,
tell her what happened to you , and how they stabbed your back. also explain to her what could happen and the consequences of what might happen if shes hanging out with the wrong people. tell her that you're worried about her and your afraid that she might be doing the wrong things if she continues to hang out with them. and if she says "your just jealous" say im not jealous.. im just a true friend thats worried =) xo




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