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I'm into the goth decor. My house has black walls, ceilings, and curtains. Is there another gothic color i could add to this? Keep in mine i don't like red, orange, yellow, green, blue, purple, pink, brown, white, grey, or anything in between. Please answer quickly as i plan on doing something this week.

I was going to say grey but you don't like that...I'm not into gothness, but if you want to know all about it.. ask sporkster.. her boyfriend is into a little goth.

Hope it works out

~aeromonkey~

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i was thinking about highlighting my hair with blonde. my hair is dirty blonde and lightens up in the summer but i want my hair a little lighter. but some people have told my any thing done to your hair like dying it or highlighting it makes your hair gross and dry. i dont want to put any product in if it will make my hair look/feel weird. so if anyone can tell me if highlighting your hair does anything to it thanks.

I've only had my hair highlighted twice(dirty blonde-blonde), but at first it makes your hair dry a little, but after you wash it for a few days, it gets back to normal. Don't worry if it's dry.... it's normal

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Hey ummmm what do u no about Bo Bice on american idol.

that he's awesome! Lol. For as much info that I know about him.... check out the show's site! www.idolonfox.com

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I am going on a date tomorrow night...and I just broke out on my forehead and nose! The ones on my forehead aren't that bad, but I would still like to get rid of them. The one on my nose is pretty obvious, however. I have been using the clearasil ultra (that's supposed to get rid of acne in 3 days) about 5 times a day, but it isn't working! Help please I want to look good for my boyfriend (b/c I want to get my first kiss maybe tomorrow)!

One.... um... washing your face too many times a day can make it worse.. two) some products can make a break out worsen due to reactions from certain skin types. three) If he loves you... he won't care how big a zit is.

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so i`m getting my belly button pierced tomorrow afternoon, but i also play soccer. So after i get my belly button pierced how long will it take until i can sprint again? and also when can i take it out?

It has been my past experience with ear piercings alone that it is a bad idea to get an earing while the season is still going on... i would wait till after the season was over to ensure a pain free season... plus... if the regulations are the same, i don't think you're aloud to have any jewelry of any kind in place while playing in a real match.

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hey i asked earlier about possible duets for dating couples for the talent show..well today everyone was like saying my boyfriend is gay because hes a good singer, and they were like, guys dont sing. only a couple people said it though. and today we went and watched the seventh grade talent show and i sat next to him and all the little seventh graders were saying it to.. well some of them. it's getting really annoying, what should i do? i mean, im not gonna break up with him because i love him but i just wanna make them stop.

That's what happens too often today. People judge others and call them gay by the way they sing, dress, or wear their hair. The same with the guy I like. If they say it around you, imagine what he goes through. Just let him know that you don't believe them and you love him too much to dump him for what others think. They will always talk, but you just got to laugh because most likely the ones that say stuff.. have no one and are jelous that you've found love and they haven't

HOPE IT WORKS OUT!

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do you like the jackson 5?

um.. never listened to one of their songs other than ABC,123. If you like them then my opinion doesn't count. MICHAEL SCARES ME!!!!

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hi, i broke my leg when i was playing soccer and then som1 was chasing me in school and i tripped over a book bag and broke my other leg. then i was playing video games and broke my thumb. should i go to the doctor? i think i can take the pain. doctors are over rated...what do you think?

duh....1) if you love soccer like i do, you'll go to the doctor. If your legs are broken then you can't play till they get a cast and set back into place. 2)doctors (some) are not overated. They help people (those who arent out for your money) sorry, not much help other than.. BE CAREFUL OR YOU'LL KILL YOURSELF!

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I can dislocate my head.It hurts bad but my friends think it is funny.What should i do.

umm... IF something hurts you. It's not worth the pain for a few laughs.

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OK I think i LOVE one of my best friends.We became good friends in the 7th grade but i met him in kindergarden.He knows I like him and all that but he always tends to like my best friends.I just don't know what to say to him or anything.He's leaving to Florida saturday for 15 days for spring break and im in the 8th grade and i never had a boyfriend yet and he's my first REALLY BIG crush.HELP!

first of all, OMG! It's same way with me. I've known this guy since kindergarten, im in eighth grade, and its the first real love i've ever had.. sorry.
You are not going to like what i'm about to say, but... you have two choices. 1)move on...not so good to believe 2) don't let him control you... if you obsess over him like i do the guy i like... he knows that you always follow him and he knows where you're going to be at all times... make him wonder... "where is she" "is she coming" "Is she over me?" play with his mind.. it drives them mad

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sry if im like dissing(did i spell that right) your site but this is kinda funny. All these people writing advice to a little 12 year old who locks her self up in her room all day to give advice. So do you write to yourself or somthing because alot of people have written in. owell...Peace out

1... im 14
2 I dont have time to lock myself in my room
3 unless you have a serious question then... w/e
4 sure i have issues like the rest of yall, but what help do i get from asking myself when i have no clue... I like other opinions and answers.

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hey there, some of you know that I answered a LOT of questions in this site. My friend doesnt have internet in her house so she asked me to ask for your opinion.
She likes her best guy friend, a lot, she cant stop thinking about him and she always gets upset when hes around other girls. I know he considers her as his sister, HE TOLD ME!
What she wants to do is let him realise she likes him more than a friend but I told her it would screw up everything! things would get awkward and stuff. So what she's asking is, should she tell him? Personally I dont think she should.
And she also asked why he hangs out and fools around with other girls instead of her?
I told her because you dont have the same interests and he thinks youre too calm (he told me). So do you agree with me or do you have another opinion?

I agree with the fact that you don't want her to get hurt. I got hurt and it's really bad. Tell her that he hangs with other girls, because he DOESN'T LIKE HER! sorry to be harsh but he doesn't. TEll her if he doesn't like her then he isn't worth it. Make sure she doesn't change herself to get him to like her. I did that and it only made things worse. It did get awkward for a while, but now me and the guy i liked are best of friends. It all works out for the better if you're just friends. Unless, he has other ideas and likes you too. So, what im trying to say is.. she should say. "I like you as more than a friend, but if you don't like me, then we should just be friends so we don't mess it up." not that obvious though. Good luck, sorry if i didn't, most likely, help.

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if you have read the previous post, you'd know how pathethic my love life is (20m never had gf). Anyway, where can i meet a nice girl? And how do i get to know her?

(any nice girl out there?)

well... concidering there aren't that many nice people out there, this is going to be harder than you can imagine. First, you have to be a nice person to get a nice girl. Secondly, just be your self and mrs. perfect will find you. Thirdly, being a gentleman always help. Open doors, pick up book, pen, ect. if they drop it. This should work. Hope you find a nice girl.

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Please read! This is the most confusing and hurtful thing that happened to me!

I have a boyfriend and I really love him. Even though I still am going out with him I've liked this guy soooo much this whole year! This guy knew that I liked him and he liked me to. Like 2 weeks ago him and his girlfriend broke up. While they were going out he was telling me that he really does like me and that he wants to go out with me. Well, he asked me out but I was still going out with my boyfriend. This weekend we didnt talk much. When I did he told me he wasnt over his ex girlfriend! I dont know what to do! Im heart broken! He told me he liked me and now I`m not in the picture anymore. He forgot about me and moved on! Please help! What did I do to change his mind that quick. I cant talk to him about this and I wont so please dont tell me to! Help! Im so confused and hurt.

This probably isnt what you want to hear but im going to be honest. You have a boyfriend right? You like another guy? I'm not saying it's abnormal, plenty of people break up because of another guy/girl. I think you've been the victum of a crush. He did like you but he's moved on. IT will be the best for you if you move on too. You won't think so now, but you will. The reason he moved on is because he told you he loved/liked you and you didn't respond. Well, you didn't respond the way he wanted to you.Who knows? you may get another chance in this soap opera that is junior/ highschool. When it comes, if you still feel the same way.... go for it. sorry I can't help much....it is a hard predicament. Hope everything works out.

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Okay so I went to this party last night and this guy that was there was like "why the hell are YOU here?" because I'm straight edge and I don't do drugs and stuff.. And he kept insulting me and saying crap and it really pissed me off because we have mutual friends and he thinks I'm a "loser" because I don't do drugs and drink and have sex and stuff.. So what should I do to keep myself from kicking his ass? because he's really really starting to piss me off.. And I'm going to have to deal with him for a really long time.. So yeah.. Sorry if this is long.

ONe... what are you doing at a party like that if you don't do what they do? If you don't do the stuff they do then don't hang around them or you'll start. You shouldn't feel like a "loser" if they dont accept you. They'll all probably end up on america's most wanted or in jail or dead doing drugs and stuff. If you want to avoid the temptation to not kick some ones... butt...don't hang around with them. You wont be tempted if you don't hang with them.

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theres this guy i like and he likes me too... but i dont think my mom would approve of him because he smokes. everytime i want to hang out with him i have to lie to my mom, which i feel bad about. i've tried talking to her but she doesnt listen. any ideas?

umm..*tilts head* You may not like this answer, but its kinda the truth. Your mom/ parents opinion matters a little bit. if you truly love him and you want your mom to accept him, try to get him to quit smoking. While you shouldnt depend souly on everything others think consider this.... you get to stop lying..your mom will accept him.. and he wont die of lung cancer...everybody wins.

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Okay- Ready?
I am going to make like a powerPoint for my boyfriend!
Like with all of our pictures, and little things offline that say stuff like "I Love You" and things like that. We have been together over a year. Do you guys think that that would be cool? like with all of the memories and stuff??

:)

What do you think?
or anything else i could do to it to make it even more AWESOME!!

*-KeLs-*
Thanks!

Well.. if you think its a good idea, go with it! It's cool! You don't need to ask us about that... go with your heart. My sister made her boyfriend a scrapbook of everything they did together and personalized it and it was really special.. He so totally loved it. It's not the quality of the gift, it's the love that goes into it.

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A year or two ago i went out w/ this girl. i liked her, she liked me. i dumped her ,because i relized that she wasn't that actractive, and she hated me. she wouldn't talk to me look at me etc. now i see her in the halls and at dismissle. now she really actractive. i don't want to go out w/ her or anything, i just want to be her friend again.what should i do?

p.s. she has a boy-friend now

APOLOGIZE! You idiot! looks don't matter! it was stupid to break up with a girl because she is not that bad looking! She has a good reason for not liking you!
Sorry, I just know how she feels. *clears throat* Tell her you made a huge mistake breaking up with her. Tell her you don't think you should go out, but you just want to make everything right again and want to be her friend. You're sorry.

hope it works out

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ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female

hmmm... guys are always hard to tell.. They never know what they really want. This probably isnt the best advice, but you can take it or not. You said his friend murphy likes you? Well, I'll just tell you what i did when i liked my best guy friend. I ignored him and talked to other guys when he was around and he finally got jealous and started talking and flirting with me extremely. Guys like what they cant have, so if he thinks he cant have you anymore, then it makes you more desirable. Try this if you want, and I hope it works out for you

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There is this girl i like and we are really good friends.I don't think she likes me but i want to be more then friends but not have things seem akward.How dod i get her to like me.I have liked this girl 5 years.

awww...well i should warn you that it could ruin your relationship or make it something more special. I've unfortunately experienced the bad in that. You should let her know little be little or just out front. You never know what your gonna get. Just be honest and let your feelings show. If you can write a poem, that's the best expression of love. Just let her know...hope it works out for you.

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