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Q: ok, a wile ago i asked a question about headache's and tried the advice that people gave me but it didint work, and now im like getting headaches more often, can this be somthing serious?
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yes this cane be serious.. im not saying that it is in your case but it can be.. i would go to a doctor and tell them that you are getting frequent headaches... or it just might be that you are under stress or something.. but the best idea was to go to the doctor... or some kind of medical thing... hope i helped
*k La*
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Q: i have 2 questions...
1. what is the law about dating a person over 18 if your a minor? some people say its not illegal till u have sex some say its if you touch in any sexual way even kissing
2. i am 15 and the guy i like is 18 is that soo bad....
help if you can
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1. well the law is if you and him were to say have sex yes that would be against the law.. if anyone found out.. but thats the only thing that it says.. it is considered sagitory (not sure how to spell it) rape..
2. no it is not bad at all to be 15 and with a guy who is 18.. i knew people who were 21 and 14... and 40 and 19... so yea its not that big..
hope i helped..
*k La*
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Q: so,i want to get my cartilage pierced, but my friend says that the gun goes so fast it shatters your cartilage( if you get it done professionally )
so i was wondering, is that true?
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well i dont know if that is true.. but i know that it dosnt like affect you or change what your ear looks like or anything like that.. plenty of many people get it done.. so i dont think you really have anything to worry about.. i know a lot of people who have it done and there ear is the same way it was before they got it done.. hope i helped..
*k La*
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Q: what should i do.... today my boyfriend and i were fighting and i hit him... not to hard but he threw me down on the ground and hit me i think mabey 3 times... not hard... but enough to cut my ear open in 3 places... yea i know messed up... but ive been with him for 3 years and i love him to death and i cant leave him... thats not an option... what should i do?
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well you should maybe talk to him about it and ask him if he could maybe not hit you or throw you to the ground.. you could also go to counseling with him and you could talk about better ways you guys could control your anger.. and if it continues to happen you might want to say to him if you dont stop doing this im going to break up with you (just to threaten him) and see where it takes you from there... hope i helped...
*k La*
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Q: ok so i ve got iritis or rather uvitus or sumfing like that and ive been told thats its really rare to have it at my age im 14 but i asked my doctor if i can go blind and he said its a serious condition so im so scared its unbelievable and i dont no what to. i get a really bad hewadache nearly every day.
my question is
if you have any infromation on this condition PLEASE HELP ME IM FREAKING OUT ill rate 5's for decent answers
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nflammatory disorder of the colored part of the eye (iris). In the majority of cases there is no specific cause. Occasionally, iritis is just one symptom of a disease that affects other organ systems. These are called connective tissue diseases and include: rheumatoid arthritis, sarcoid , lupus , scleroderma , Behcet's disease , anklylosing spondylitis, Reiter's disease, Crohn's disease, ulcerative colitis, and B-27 disease. Sometimes, it is necessary to establish whether iritis/uveitis is a manifestation of one of these or some other underlying systemic disease. Your eye care provider may ask a detailed medical history, and may order a battery of tests including several possible blood tests, a chest x-ray, x-rays of the lower back, and a skin test for tuberculosis.
Treatment of iritis is often directed at finding and removing the cause of the inflammation. In addition, eye drops and ointments are used to relieve pain, quiet the inflammation, dilate the pupil, and reduce any scarring which may occur. Both steroids and antibiotics may be used. The application of hot packs may also provide relief from the symptoms of iritis. In severe cases, oral medications and injections may be necessary to treat the condition.
A case of iritis usually lasts 6 to 8 weeks. During this time, the patient must be observed carefully to monitor potential side effects from medications and any complications which may occur. Cataracts, glaucoma, corneal changes, and secondary inflammation of the retina may occur as a result of iritis and the medications used to treat the disorder.
Since iritis is an inflammation inside the eye, the condition is potentially sight threatening. Proper diagnosis and prompt treatment of iritis are essential. To minimize any loss of vision, the patient should have a complete eye examination as soon as symptoms occur. If diagnosed in the early stages, iritis can usually be controlled with the use of eye drops before vision loss occurs.
hope i helped...
*k La*
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Q: well i dont eat a lot anymore....i eat like once every like 4 days and then im not hungry so i eat like a cookie and thats it ....its not like im trying to i just dont get hungry anymore and its like really bothering me...and all my friends are like i need help cause i do have anorexia but i just am not like hungry...and i think im fat but i know im not...but even the most skinney person in the whole world thinks they are fat sooo its normal in girls...right???? well
ill rate 5 for good answers
~to scared to focus~
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well i think you should talk to maybe someone professional about this.. i think you might be anorexic because if you only eat small amounts every four days this could amount to not eating at all.. you might just be telling yourself that you are not hungry even though you really are.. but you have convinced yourself that you are not.. i would maybe talk to a counsler or someone about it.. maybe even a doctor... hope i helped...
*k La*
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Q: the thing is, people are telling me my boyfriend is cheating on me ..he has been doing stuff with other people when he went out with other girls.. whenever i talk to him about him cheating on me he always walks away and doesnt talk to me.. i dont know what to do! he says he didnt cheat on me but he lies! what do i do.. i love him so much
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well you should keep trying to talk to him.. and talk to your friends who have been saying this about him and like ask them to kind of keep an eye on him.. like not spy but ya you know what i mean.. and if it dos'nt work just tell him that you dont want to be with somebody who is cheating on you.. and if he is your too good for him you deserve someone better... hope i helped..
*k La*
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Q: so i really like this guy and i dont know how to get him to like me. what do you think i should do? have you ever liked a guy sooooooooooooo much that you start thinkin what his last name saounds like with yours? if do did it turn out well? i would really like to get advice. and o yeah one more thing. my parents think that im to young to go out with guys. im a girl about 13 years old. thanks for your help!
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well just try to act kind of flirty and like dont make a total fool out of yourself (not trying to be mean) and like just be outgoing around him.. or you could start by like getting to know his friends and maybe they could set you guys up.. or something like a guy is more likely to like a girl who is friends with his friends... hope i helped...
*k La*
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Q: My friend i kinda like and i went to his house yesterday and he came ut without a shirt on just a towel around his neck.... we talk and talked about how our friends see a guy and a girl talking and they thought they liked eachother but didnt and them i heard tweo more of my girl friends coming down the rode...He said" o ill be right back i have to go get a shirt on' .. y was he okay having no shirt on with me but not his other two good girl friends????? does he like me or does he just feel more comfortable about me
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Well.. you cant really tell from just that.. but it seems like based on this that he might like you.. and that would always be good because you kinda like him.. so you should maybe kinda act flirty and like see what his reacation is.. and maybe you can talk to him about it.. and tell him that you kinda like him.. and see what he says to that.. if you dont you might miss out.. or have a friend ask him saying like ya do yo like _____ (your name) cuz it kinda seems like you do... hope i helped...
*k La*
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Q: ok this boy i think he likes me i asked like 10 different people if he does and i told them what he does to me like smile and stare.but the past 3 days it wasnt that way he doesnt talk stare or make me laugh anymore....its like he hates me now or something...whats going on
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well.. i dont think he hates you.. if he has no reason to.. he might just be starting to like you more and now becoming more afraid to talk to you and such.. but i would just kind of see what happens.. and you can ask him about it... like ask him why has he been acting diffrent (if this continues) and ask him if he is mad at you or something.. hope i helped...
*k La*
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Q: ok i like this kid named mike!! Hes really cute and stuff..but like one of mii best friends like hates him!! and there going to fight.!! and its hard..becuase i dont want Bryce to get mad but i like mike alot!! and its hard..!! I love them both!!!! idk what to do if i should go out with him or just b friends with bryce!!
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well you should try to explain to bryce that you truly still want to be friends with him.. and you should try to get him to understand that you like mike alot and that you want to go out with him but explain to bryce that you dont want to stop being friends.... if bryce a good friend he should understand... hope i helped...
*k La*
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Q: i asked a question similar to this before..but i didn't get the answers i was looking for.
i asked how to politely turn i guy down when he asks you to a dance.
my ring dance is in april and i know its a while away, but when someone asks me to be their date and i don't want to be..how can i turn them down?
is there some unwritten rule that you have to accept the first person who asks you?
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well you dont have to say yes to the first person who asks you.. you can tell them that you have someone else to go with or you can just say you would rather not go with them... but try to be nice about it and try not to hurt them.. or anything like that.. hope i helped..
*k La*
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Q: im 14/female
sorry this is kinda long..
there is this boy at schol we dont talk much but he is in a few of my classes.Today the teacher put us in groups and i was in his. We finished our thing early so me and him were just sorta talking...Then he was like soo what is your name again and i told him my name and he said ohh i kno a girl by that same name she looks just like you you must be twins and he kinda smiled... so i kinda was just like oh and then he was like yeah she is really pretty... I didnt really kno what to say so i just kinda smiled and we didnt talk much the rest of class...soo my question is do you think he likes me??
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Well.. he might like you but he might just want to be friends.. i would just kind of try to act flirty around him and maybe compliment him and see what his reaction is.. and he might be shy thats why he might not talk to you that much... but you could have one of your friends ask him if he likes you or something along that lines.. hope i helped
*k La*
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Q: Ok there is this guy I like and his name is Cody. Me and my friend met him at an assembly and ever since he has been talking to me. Everytime I see him in the hall me and him talk and stuff. But my friend is always there when i talk to him. Sometimes he will kinda poke me and go " ewwww " but in a joking way. And he comes and sits with us sometimes at lunch when his guys leave. There was this boy bothering me today and he goes up and tells him " You better not be bothering her! " So What? Does he like me? Please no smart ass answers. Thanks In Advance
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Well.. in my opinion he might like you because how he sticks up for you and jokes around a lot and how he sits with you at lunch and stuff... but he might just like you as a friend.. my advice would be to try to flirtt around him more.. or have one of your friends ask him if he likes you or something like that... hope i helped..
*k La*
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Q: First i would like to state i am a m/13
Amd i am terribly sorry to everyone who has been answering my ?s. That i keep talking about my best friend who i have a major crush on and she knows it. Anyways...
Ok my best friend know i like her and when we talk about the boys she likes i sometimes ask her "but what are looking for in a guy" she tells me now somtime in the the conversation she always says seriously "Well maybe one day i will just go out w/ you"(something along those lines anyways) Now is she hinting something to me(she has clearly satated she has no crushy feelings for me. so what does this mean.
Is she lying to me when she says she doesnt like me
Does she want to go out w/ me
If she does want to go out w/ me how do i ask her
This is my most important ? yet
And i would just like to say thanks truely and deeply for all the people who have/will help/helped me out.
Much love, thanks, and prayers for you all
Carpe Diem
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well... if you want my opinion she does like you thats why she always talks about the people she does like to you to make you jelouse... and she might think it will make you like her more.. and i think she does want to go out with you she just wants to act like she dosnt becuase she might not like people knowing.. and i think you should just ask her out either in person or in a note maybe or like on the phone or in a text or online.. hope i helped...
*k La*
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Q: ok soo theres a guy ..and i really really...REALLY like him. he just found out i like him about 2 days ago cus my friend told him. we're in alot of classes together i gave him something kinda weird...ok i gave him a vegtable becus he carved a face on it. he was really happy. he always smiles at me. i also heard him in the hallway talking to his friend and his friend said "you have to let her know." does he like me? and im just confused i dont know what to do. i dont know how guys think. if ur a guy and u have a answer please please tell me but s are also welcome to help! please anyone i need alot of advice thankss soo much and sorry i took so long!
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well... .if you ask me i think he likes you because he always smiles at you and stuff.. and like what you hear his friends say.. ive seen alot of similar situations and it ended up that the guy liked the girl.. the best idea is to either confront him or have a friend ask him for you...... hope i helped..
*k La*
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Q: ok well kind of asked this question before but now im confused this boy he is really nice and funny ..and he also stares and smiles at me a little too much ..but like today and yesterday he didnt do that at all..many people told me he liked me in my other question but im confused cause today he wasnt making me laugh or staring at me ...i dont know if he likes me or not anymore ! im so bummed out seriously and now in reading i sit next to him and i get all nervous and shy ..do you think its a crush on him or something ?? so my main questions are do you think he likes me and do you think i like him ..
CONFUSED GIRL
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well i think that he does like you based on the facts you gave because he does try to make you smile and laugh.. and the other days that he dosnt he might be feeling kind of shy or something or just hes not very cheerful himself those days.. and i think you do llike him as well because if you get all nervous and shy when you sit next to him that probally means that you like him... but that is only my opinion... have someone ask him for you to know the real truth...
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Q: Heyy .. well i'm kinda new at my school & there is this kid in my history class that sits by me & he always teases me but you can tell that he's just joking around & he always makes sure that he's looking me right in the eye & then he smiles at me.
His locker is right above mine & usually he doesn't talk to me but today after school he was like "come on hurry uppp get your stuff" & he was like kicking my shoes but you could tell he was just kidding. So I was wondering if you think he was just being friendly or if he might actually like me. Thanks for your help & I'll rate high! :)
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well first you should determine if you like him.. maybe wait it out and see if he acts more flirtyish and then if he keeps acting like that then it sounds to me that he likes you.. and like if you like him tell him that or have a friend tell him.. and you could also have a friend ask him for you as well... hope i helped...
*xxkaiioo*
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Q: okay...theres this guy hu is in my school.... i have known him since like 2nd grade!! we are really good friends but ii like him a lot!! i am scared to tell him what i think of him because i dont want things to be weird around us. i talk to him on the phone a lot... and he told me the other day that my other friend likes him and hes thinking about asking her out!! ii keep on wondering if things would be different if ii just told him.... but ii just cant!! i am so much taller than him and ii guess u could say bigger than him too. ii mean im not fat but i am bigger than a lot of the boys..... this is why im so scared to tell him.. ii dont think he'll feel the same way!
PLEASE HELP I NEED MAJOR ADVICE!!
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well i think that you should just tell him how you feel or have someone else tell him that you like him and just maybe talk to him.. because it is even worse if you dont tell him and he asks his other frend out.... and if he is a good friend nothing should be akward or diffrent between you 2.. and since you've known him since 2nd grade i mean that is a pretty long time.. i bet he knows when your birthday is.. but you should talk to him and tell him.. trust me.. or have someone else tell him.. you might regret it later.. hope i helped
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Q: I've liked my best friend for a year now. we've been very close friends for three years, and we're just very happy being friends and never talked about a relationship. the thing is .. i've been getting jealous lately because he's been talking to this girl about hanging out and hooking up. I normally wouldn't mind, but he hasn't hooked up with anyone ever .. and we are seniors in high school. Eveytime they are supposed to go on a date or hang out, he cancels it and end up hanging out with me, which is understandable .. but when we hang out .. it's like we have a stronger connection other than "just friends".
i feel like he sends me mixed signals, and i know if i try to take it to another level and he's not up for it .. we won't be as close anymore. what's a good way to find out without asking?
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Well.. i think that you could always have a friend ask... but if you dont want to have anyone ask then you could just try to flirt with him and see if he flirts back... or something like that... hope i helped...
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Gender: Female Member Since: May 22, 2005 Answers: 176 Last Update: June 17, 2013 Visitors: 18579
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