Question Posted Saturday September 10 2005, 12:40 pm
okay...theres this guy hu is in my school.... i have known him since like 2nd grade!! we are really good friends but ii like him a lot!! i am scared to tell him what i think of him because i dont want things to be weird around us. i talk to him on the phone a lot... and he told me the other day that my other friend likes him and hes thinking about asking her out!! ii keep on wondering if things would be different if ii just told him.... but ii just cant!! i am so much taller than him and ii guess u could say bigger than him too. ii mean im not fat but i am bigger than a lot of the boys..... this is why im so scared to tell him.. ii dont think he'll feel the same way!
PLEASE HELP I NEED MAJOR ADVICE!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? XXkaiiOO answered Friday September 16 2005, 9:12 pm: well i think that you should just tell him how you feel or have someone else tell him that you like him and just maybe talk to him.. because it is even worse if you dont tell him and he asks his other frend out.... and if he is a good friend nothing should be akward or diffrent between you 2.. and since you've known him since 2nd grade i mean that is a pretty long time.. i bet he knows when your birthday is.. but you should talk to him and tell him.. trust me.. or have someone else tell him.. you might regret it later.. hope i helped [ XXkaiiOO's advice column | Ask XXkaiiOO A Question ]
sunnyville answered Saturday September 10 2005, 6:00 pm: talk to him in a place where you too can be alone,start by asking him that if size would matter to him if he will plan to go out with a girl,if it is than is it that she is shorter than him or taller or get a friend to ask him and if it is the case then you will not have a chance with him but if he does not care about size don't waste time tell him how you feel but first start by telling him that it is very hard to tell him this but that you been keeping it because you were afraid that he would reject you because you thought size mattered to him.Hope things go out fine. [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
icey0990 answered Saturday September 10 2005, 2:41 pm: yeah the feeling of keeping it inside you like that is not good..i mean i hate it,you just want to get it out right? so i would do this before he asks out your friend..who knows maybe once he knows how you feel, he will tell you he likes you back.,,you just dont know! i would tell him how you feel...you guys are good friends so it shouldnt get in the way if he tells you he doesnt feel the same way....i think you should tell him..just my opinions [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
margarita_luvs_ya answered Saturday September 10 2005, 2:14 pm: Friends have to be honest with eachother. If you don't want to straight out tell him hint it to him. He'll figure it out eventually. Keep being firneds but lets say you told him and he hates you now, then thats not true friendship b/c friends will stick togehter no matter what. Invite him to hang out like malls or movies not on a date just a hang out. [ margarita_luvs_ya's advice column | Ask margarita_luvs_ya A Question ]
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