my friends always ask me personal questions like "who do you like" .. but i dont know if i should tell them bcuz they might tell other people ... how do you know when you can trust your friends?
first of all, if you dont trust them, then how good of a friend can they be?
i dunno when you can trust them..you just have to know that they are your friends and they wouldnt do anything to intentionally hurt you.
and so what if they tell people?? thats half the fun, talking about your crush with your friends. what other purpose is there for "girl talk"?
hope i helped..good luck sweetie ~*stefanie
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How do you put a picture on your column?
save it in your documents, then click on browse in the profile settings and open the file. hope that works for ya..~*stefanie
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So I'm doing the South Beach Diet and I cant have carbs for a while. Well I've been on it for 5 days, but yesterday I decided to cheat. Well this morning I woke up and my stomach felt gross. I was about to eat lunch and I looked at the food and wanted to throw up. I really love food but today its grossing me out. Of course, I cant go out with food so I'm forcing myself to eat but I dont know whats wrong! My stomach just gets grossed out when I see/eat food. Is this because yesterday I decided to cheat and have carbs and my body was just getting used to the no-carb deal? I dont know..Its confusing me and yeah. Do you know what could be wrong?
your body hasnt adjusted to the no carb thing yet. thats why south beach is not one of the best diets..it cuts things out to fast. instead of saying no carbs, ever, just try decreasing your intake. like say for the next week, youll only take in maybe 40 carbs, depending on how many you usually take in. then the next week, go down by another 10 carbs and so on and so on until you get to a low carb lifestyle that wont make you sick.
but to really answer your question instead of telling you what to do(hehe, sorry), you cut too many carbs out too fast, and then when you cheated, your body went on carb overload. you hadnt been eating carbs, so your body was storing them. then when you had a lot of carbs, your body went into overdrive and tried to store all the excess, which is what makes you sick. my personal advice would be stop the south beach. its not a very good diet. but thats just me..
hope i helped sweetie..and good luck
~*stefanie
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i have a friend, do you follow? well this friend of mine has it in her mind that i only use her for rides to school, do you know anyone like this? well she is soo cool and awesome (but she dosnt realize it) and i want to let her know that i love her for who she is not because she drives me to school (although i have to admit i have an awful lot of fun driving with her and im not scared of dieing with her cuz i trust her with my life)please give me some helpful ideas to prove i consider a true friend!
-dosnt use friends for materal objects!!!!
your friend sounds freakin awesome. i wish i could be as cool as her!! i bet she knows that you love her, i think maybe she was only joking. im pretty sure she loves you too!! and uh..i dont think you should trust your life with her..teenage girls tend to be crazy ass drivers. oh well, as long as shes never had an accident involving a school bus, you should be fine! just play along with her joke, she prolly gets her kicks by putting other people down. wow..she sounds like a real bitch..maybe i dont wanna be like her after all!! anyways, hope i helped sweetie!! ~*stefanie
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in writing we are writing biographies..does anyone have any good ideas on who i could do a biography on?
thanx
do Marilyn Monroe. shes america's original sweetheart..and she absolutely gorgeous. i wish i could look as good as her :( lol hope i helped ~*stefanie
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I have an annoying canker sore on the back of my tounge and it is driving me crazy. It hurts everytime I talk or eat because it is rubbing against my teeth. Are there any quick remidies to ease the pain?
gargle salt water three times a day to kill the bacteria, that might help.
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Im 15 and I have been going out with this guy for about 2 days now. i have known him for like 4 months and we just started going out. i really like him a lot too! hes the perfect guy for me! his birthday is coming up this monday which is in about 6 days. but i have no idea what to get him if i should get him anytbing. i was thinking maybe like a picture of me and him in a picture frame that i can go buy. is that good? i need a answer sooooon! so thanks yall!
if you know me, then you know what my answer is gonna be..A PET ROCK..but i dont feel like being a smartass right now, so im gonna be serious. if youve been going out ofr only two days, then dont buy like a mushy boyfriend/girlfriend gift. buy him a gift as if you were friends. the picture idea is AWESOME..thats a really cute idea, and its cheap too!! just dont go too mushy on him, were tryin to flatter him, not scare him away ;) anyways, hope i helped, sweetie. ~*stefanie
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i have been crying lately soo much bc i feel like im losing my man.. i kinda broke ^ with him idk what to do anymore... when i think about it i cry bc it makes me sad i love him 2 death man.. idk what to do anymore can somebody help me!!
if it makes you so upset, then maybe you made the wrong choice in breaking up with him. Go to him and tell him you made a big mistake. Tell him you dont want to break up after all and want to get back together. hunny, dont cry over stuff like this!! it can be fixed. just tell him how you feel and hope for the best!! hope i helped. ~*stefanie
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My best friend is dating this guy that my entire group of friends can't stand. This guy has NO personality. Plus, he's mean to people. Do we say something to her or let her figure it out? (they've been dating for almost a YEAR!)
open a can of whoopass on him. tell him hes a mean inconsiderate jerk and that if he doesnt stop, you'll make it to where he can never have children.
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I've liked this one guy I've known since we were 5 for about 11 months. He's only known since June, and rejected me flat out. I know that there's not chance for anything between us...but idk...I keep holding on. My friend a few days ago suggested that I might be in love with him. And I'd never given the subject a thought, but now that I am, I'm even considering it. Is it possible for me to actually be in love with this guy that is absolutely perfect for me? And if I am, how do I come to admit it or let him know without confessing my feelings straight out to him? Please let me know what I should do...
-Hopelessly In Love-
you should really talk to him. the worst thing you can do is hide it from him. thats awful, when everyone knows you like him...except him. so just let it all out, whats the worst that could happen? hope i helped ~*stefanie
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Okay, I'll put it to you this way: I'm OBSESSED with mashed potatoes. I make them all the time when I come home from school. I normally eat them plain or with corn. I need to mix it up a bit. Does anyone have any thing I could put in them to make them good? Anything will be good for me. I eat anything pretty much, especially mashed potatoes. Heh. Anyway, if anyone has any ideas as to how to spice up my mashed potatoes, that'd be great! Thanks if you can help!
i know this sounds weird, but soy sauce is great in mashed potatoes. or try italian dressing..it gives it that twang i love so much(twang...what a redneck word!!sry..) my cousin likes to make them with ketchup and calls them "pinkies" i know, i know...we're freaks, but its in out nature. hope i helped ~*stefanie
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Hey I've got this faker stealing my pictures and pretending to be me, and its really getting on my nerves. How do I go about telling her about it without lashing out too much?
forget being nice!! open a can of whoopass!!
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i have a really good guy friend and i waz wondering wat to get him for christmas. He likes skating and hackie sac. i'll rate!
I'll say it again...You can NEVER go wrong with a pet rock. They're just..cool!
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Ok.. this guy... i like him so much, hes the reason i wanna get up for school everyday. I want to show him i like him, but im not sure he likes me. He did at the begining of the year but then he said he stopped. I dont wanna ruin our friendship over this, but i dont know if it could turn into something better by somehow showing him i like him a bunch. He always looks at me in class and smiles FORever and we flirt alot but what guy dosnt do that? what do you think?
sweeite, just tell him. whats the worse that could happen? hes not gonna stop being your friend just BC you have feelings for him. Just go for it, is all i can say. Heres a quote for you:
"Life is way too short to be shy. You have to live every moment as if it was your last."
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Ok... I am 14/f and I weigh 100 lbs. My friends think I am anarexic and last year my teacher turned me in for anarexia. I eat, alot, do you think I should she a doctor about my weight.
maybe you should. i have a friend who eats constantly and she never gains a pound. she actually went through this, where all her teachers kept referring her to the counselor for anorexia. Just keep up healthy eating habits, and dont let people get you down. hope i helped, good luck sweetie!
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alright, if it helps, im tara and im 14.
i've been cutting myself for some time now. always on my wrist and always in the same general area. whenever its a cold day i wear a jacket, and whenever its hot out i just wear bracelets. nobody has ever noticed or said anything. so last night i was laying in bed and i forgot to put on a jacket. my mom came in and saw my arm and said something like 'what's that?' .. i freaked out and pulled it away and said i was drawing.. and she asked why and i said i couldnt find any paper. she asked me if i wanted to talk about anything so i just yelled no and she left. i dont think she has even heard of people cutting themselves. so this morning i covered my wrist with coverup and a few braclets so that she'd think it really was drawings that had washed off. it was very akward and i tried to pretend nothing happened. all she said was 'is body art a new trend or something?' i dont know if she believes my excuse or not.. what do you guys think? and do you have any ideas of how i can cover these darn cuts up? mucho thanks in advance.
PS: oh and please dont tell me to stop cutting. im working on it, i promise. but its like cigarettes or drugs, you cant just stop. it takes time and effort.. =)
dont tell me to not tell you to stop cutting, bc thats exactly what im gonna do. i actually am a "cutter" myself. i just went thru a tough time and now my whole left arm is sliced open. honey, i dont know what it is that makes you wanna hurt yourself, but its important that you get some help. my friends have been awesome thru this whole ordeal. i love them soo much, they make me wanna be a better person, a person who doesnt inflict pain to be happy. im actually working on getting professional help. i think maybe thats what you need to do. talk to a teacher or an aunt or uncle. or hell, talk to your mom, im pretty sure she HAS heard of people cutting themselves. i just know that after awhile, cutting just made me sadder than happier. i hope you get the help you need. if you need to talk, hit me up on AIM : IGotTheHemiUDont or you can email me dramaMama06@msn.com good luck sweetie!! im serious, if you need to talk, im here for ya. ~*sTeFaNiE
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The girl who hooked me up with my boyfriend now is obsessed with him. She flirts with him, she hugs him, and she talks to him on the phone. I can tell he doesn't like it that much, but I just don't want to lose him because of my so-called "friend". What should I do so I won't lose my boyfriend?
use a leash..keep that bizatch away at all costs!! or if all else fails, open a can of whoop ass on her. just make it clear that if she doesnt stay away from your man, she's gonna regret it.
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People say I'm skinny, but I think I could lose weight. I'm 13/f, and weight 108 pounds. Is this a little overweight?
it would help if I knew how tall you were, but 108 sounds good for a 13 year old. just be healthy is all i can say. hope i helped!!
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okay...all my friends tell me that i'm turning punk little by little...and most of my friends are punk. i listen to punk and am starting to dress punk too. if i totally change my style over christmas break do u think that the people in my school will call me a poser? i'm 13/f in 8th grade. thx...*changing*
yeah, chances are they will call you a poser. but if youre not a poser and you truly like punk, then it wont bother. so then you should open a can of whoopass on the ppl who call you a poser. hope i helped.
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im friends with all these guys and when im around them they always tickle me but sometimes it isnt in the right spot like either right under my breasts or where my hips are...i told them 2 stop and they listened and all but when i was with this one guy lets call him bob. well i was talking to bob and we were talking about sex and i felt really comfortable with him but then next thing i know we're at his house and we start making out.... i dont have a bf so it dosnt matter but at first we were in his car and then we went to the family room and sat on the couch i told him that i like him and he said u only like me and im like yea and he said well i love you i stoped talking and i was sorta scared but then i kissed him and said i love you too. i took his hand and asked him where his room was but when we were walking we were kissing and all but when we made it too his room my pants were already off and his shirt was off but right when he was gonna turn the doorknob we found his friends and i ran in the family room bob came back out and he said he really didnt know they were there and i said ok but now all my guy friends look at me different because they have seen my ass and shit bc i was wearing a thong and when im around them they always ask me dosnt it hurt and sometimes they mean with the thong or sex
i need to know how to make them shut up!!!
HELP!
THANX
if ive said it once, ive said it a thousand times before...
OPEN A CAN OF WHOOPASS ON THE MO FOs
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