Hello my name is Diamond, I am currently a third year psychology major. My passion in life is to be of aid to mankind in any way possible which why I aspire to become a Psychologist no matter what it takes. I find complete and utter joy in helping others through giving them advice or by simply being an open ear for someone you just need to talk to or express your feelings to. I love to make others happy in anyway possible, it brings joy to my heart like nothing in this world. I have given advice to a large amount of people, usually people I barley know. The people I meet tend to open up to me and share their feelings and/or problems whether big or small. I have been the ears for many people who just want someone to talk to,when they feel no one else is there to listen or atleast cares enough to hear what they have to say. I have been a shoulder to cry on and I must say it is very fulfilling to have people see this sort of security and comfort in me. I am open to any questions, I am open to listen to anyone that is feeling alone or scared, I care about everyone in this world even if I have yet to meet them, I know that every human being is special,unique, and beautiful in their own way and I just want to be there for anyone who doesn't know or believe this. I want to install the importance of positive thinking into everyone I encounter in my lifetime. I am even here for those who aren't going through any particular hardship but just wants advice. Advice is always good because it is always good to have a second persons opinion to weigh your options and decisions even if you choose to use the advice or not. I am looking forward to your questions,conversations, or anything you would like. I am just a message/ e-mail away. Please do not hesitate to contact me. You will never be ignored or simply forgotten about.
E-mail: princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: I was born in Ohio,however I currently reside in California
Occupation: Current Psychology major
Yahoo: princessdiamond1314@yahoo.com
Member Since: January 25, 2009
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Okay, this will be long so get ready.. alright I like this guy named Matt so much! Like , I'll start from the beginning. Okay, I started likening him on the second week of school. I still like him even MORE now. I started giving him notes...telling him I like him...I heard rumors from my friends that he threw them away.So, I quite giving him notes. I gave him a Christmas card...and he took it...I am thinking about giving him a v-day card... but I don't think I should because...the last time my friend tried to give him a note from me ...he wouldn't take it!! So, should I give him the card ...or not ?? I don't think I should because ..he won't add me on my space ... In the request I told him that I liked him a lot and I wanted him to add me so we can get to know each other...he went on 20 minutes after I sent the request and he didn't add me... I sent it to him in like December.. I think...um... so all this time he hasn't added me. I think I should give up on him...even though..I love him..I feel like shit.... I don't know what to do.... I care for him so much... Someone please tell me what to do!!! Did I so something wrong? I think I shouldn't of gave him those notes...what do you think ? Thanks for whoever try's to help..
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Hello,are you sure you love him because love is a strong word,buy I am sure he has many alluring qualties that make you attratcted to him, I think it might be more of infatuation,I have experienced the same feeling it is really powerful so I can inderstand how you are feeling exactly.This emotion can cause you to do almost anything to get that guy, I think it is a great idea to try at something/someone you really want but at the same time do not try too hard, guys like to go after the girl more so than the other way around. He can obviously tell you are interested but now that you ahve displayed your interest be more laid back with your approach, don't go after him too much it will turn him away, if the guy has no room to want you then it will most likely not happen. Try to talk to him and send him notes less, it's ok every now and then but since he is used to you showing him lots of attention it will be a shock when you suddenly stop, this may make him want you in return, becuase you never know what you have until you loose it. He will more than likely start to say hi or small things after you show him less attention and if not then he is not the one for you, there are plenty of fish in the see and I am sure you are a beautiful,smart young lady your guy will come soon..I am 17 and have yet to be in a relaionshi[ but my optimism gives me hope..I hope this was helpful and comprehensible,I wish you the best of luck!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND
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What do people mean when they say "Don't do too many mind-stimulating activities before bedtime. That's the reason you're having trouble sleeping."
Isn't THINKING a mind-stimulating activity? Because you're like...using your mind?
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hmm mind-stimulating activites are usually as in the phrase activites, such as something that really cause you to work numerous parts of your brain to complete them, this could range from homework, espcially math problems, crossword puzzles etc.. these activities are concious activities meaning you are full aware that you are trying to complete these tasks at hand and this activates a copious amount of brain areas causing your mind to be fairly active before sleeping, you don't want this because it can hinder your sleeping process. Thinking is preformed unconciously, aw are constantly thinking all day about the smallest amount of things which takes less energy and brain activity. Thinking is relaxing and is encouraged before sleep to help you to relax.It is important to take the time out to think about your day, things you want to do, rather big or small, thinking puts your mind at ease and is extremly comfortable..So all in all the main difference between the two is simply utilizing the concious and uncouncious mind and the energy level needed to complete the two.I hope this was helpful and comprehensible,I wish you the best of luck!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND
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Can you buy waxing strips, like just from the
supermarket? Or would I have to go to a Chemist?
BTW I live NSW, Australia. (just so you know) (link)
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Ofcourse you can get these strips and the wax itself at any hair store..such as Sally's if they have this in Australia..lol but no Chemist needed in this situation.. hope this helped and if you have any further questions I am here..I wish you the best of luck
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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Hi!!
I love this guy SO much. He just recently added me on my space. I need to tell him how I feel about him..I want to tell him that I do like him a lot...but it's alright with me to just be friends. He's never on my space...so I can't tell him. He goes to my school...but he's and 8th grader...I am a 7th grader. I am way to shy to talk to him.Even on the phone! He's in my study hall.... I really want to talk to him...but I can't!! I need some advice.... I also think he might like me.. might. We use to be in the same gym class...so the day before... we changed classes. I was playing volley ball with my friends...he was a little way's down from us playing basketball with his friends. I was talking to my friend. He was walking back from the boy's locker room...he was looking at his feet than he looked up, at me...for like about 2 minutes than played basketball again with his friends. This, Friday I was walking to s.s class ...with my other friend. I just randomly glanced in and 8th grade room and BAMM!! There's Matt....he was sitting in his desk facing the doorway..and he was literally STARING at me...for about 5 minutes. I blushed...and walked passed. Do you think that means anything ? Do you think he's interested....in me?? In a friend or maybe more than a friend? Someone help!! Give me some advice!! I really hope Matt and I can become friends and eventually become...more than friends.
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Hello, well Love is a very strong word I doubt if you are in live with him after all you have barley spoken to him and gotten to know him,that is what love is all about. The adding you on myspace and the random stares shows he has a general interest in you, he most likely thinks you are attractive he really has not the much to go on to say he likes you, you two know little about one another. Do not directly come out and say you like the guy be vague an laid back. you van show your interest by going slow, make random stares back at him,say hi when you see him but do not overwhelm him with attention it may make him want to avoid you. Be casual you can start by sending a message or somment on myspace by saying hello thanks for the add and go from there depending on his response, take it slow it is vital to be friends first and get to know him, onceyou get to know him you actually dont know if you may want to be with him or not. Once you guys start talking here and there he will get to know you and if he is interested it will show and you two can seee where it takes you! hope this helped and if you have any further questions I am here..I wish you the best of luck
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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are there any diet pills or anything like that...that actually works and doesnt harm you?
I have been eating healthy and working out regularly and im getting no where...I just need a jumpstart or something (link)
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Hello, honestly I dont think you need a diet pill,diet pills are known as placebos, they create a palcebo effect where it gives you a misconception that it is really altering your metabolism, amount of food intake,etc. They do give you the sense that the pill is in fact helping you to drop the weight but in actuality it is changing the way you think and almost giving you the motivation to make you work harder, it gives you a sense of security that you are tryingto stay healthy in some way. Getting in shape takes time, motivation, and alternate routines..doing the same thing week after week is not going to give you the best results nor fast results, you have to chane up your routine becasue your ody gets used to and trained to do a specific exercise and doesnt aid you properly, yiou have to challenge your body over timeif you want results. Howevet if you fell you need that extra boost go for it but rememmber it is all in your mind, be focused on your goal and you will be fine!!:)..Detox teas and pills are hollistic and can be helpful in cleansing your body while also aiding in weight lose, and ginseng is a good energy booster. do what is best for you, everyone's body is different so do what is best for you.. I hope this helped and if you have any further questions I am here..I wish you the best of luck
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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ok sometimes i get really angery when I see thing undo when i asked them to get done. i also get the feeling of being over whemled when i see stuff that i need to do. like if someone makes a mess of one of the cabinets i get over whemled by it like it is too much to handle. I get mad an angery. I start to freak out and everything. and i really get upset when things dont go my way. i think i have a mental problem. sometimes i start something and do finsh it like i have alot of great ideals but never start them i want to stop this behavor so i can chill out i hate getting like this and i hurt the feeling of the ones i love. i make nasty comments and everything what is wrong with me (link)
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Hello sounds like you may have a mild case of anxiety when it comes to getting things done, I wouldnt lean more toward a mood disorder because you mainly get frustrated when things dont get done or do not go the way you want. Sounds similar to a form of perfectionism,impatience, and feeling bogged down bye the simple things in life. What i would advise for now is to try to realx and go with the flow. Everything is not worth getting upset over, their is so much going on in the world that the small things you frustrate yourself over are not worth it at all. You sound like you might be overwhelmed by your job, family issues..etc which can cause you to get very frustrated over little things when you are in actuality overlooking the real problem.It is a defense mechanism know as transference you transfer your anger into different things and all of your anger spills over to little things and unfortunatley to the people around you. Try to sit down and think about what might really be bothering you it can be extremly helpful! I hope this was helpful, If you have any further questions and or comments I am here..the best of luck to you!!!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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i have a TON of pet peeves. like i have a list that fills up over a sheet of paper. some are the weirdest things too like wet paper towels. if something oocurs that i cant do something about (like throw away the wet paper towel) i end up on the floor crying and shaking and being extreemly mad. why is this? are they just pet peeves? (link)
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Hello, I would say you may have a form of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder as well, it is an anxiety disorder which explains the anxiety/panic attacks you have when you are unable to do anything about it..when did this behavior begin? These are definatley not just pet peeves, if you didnt end up upset and shaking on the floor I would say it was a pet peeve. I would say you show all the major signs of OCD I know a great deal on this subject from tips to coping with this disorder through behavioral therapy to the proper medication to ask for when seeing a psychiatrist..A good start is to write down all of your compulsions(actions you cannot control) to get a general idea of all of your symptoms and the amount of time you spend on them daily.I hope to hear from you soon, I have lots of informaion on this topic, you can ask me any question and I will be open to answer, do not hesitate to contact me..i hope this was helpful and I wish you the best of luck!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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so my (first) boyfriend of about 2 months is suicidal... he tells me that he's really scared that he'll lose me--i dont even no why because-- and he loves me so much. he tells me that im like air-if he doesnt have me, he'll die. i really love him, and i would never want to lose him. I don't know whats gotten to him. please help, im desperate. (link)
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Hello, well in this situation communication is key, since he cares for you so much he will more than likely trust you and tell you atleast something involving his reason for wanting to kill himself. He must have a serious issue to even contemplate taking his own life, this is serious.Sit down and have a hear to heart conversation with him to try to get to the bottom of this,once you know why it will make this situation that much easier, no one just wants to kill them self for no apparent reason especially if he has someone he cares about and that cares about him equally. Continue to express your care for him and be there for him, the last thing he needs is to feel alone. If you dont mind and you are still confused you can ask me any question you would like involving your situation on here or privatley. I however cannot be of too much help without first knowing what his suicidal thoughts are, if the situation becomes to extreme he should seek the help of a professional.I am looking forward to hearing from you in regards to your situation, stay positive and I am always here if you need to talk, through column or email do not hesitate to contact me..I hope this helped the best of luck to you!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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Anyone know any exotic or different sex positions out there?
I feel like trying something new with my boyfriend. (link)
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Hello,good for you for inquiring it is always good to spice things up..sexual positions can be very difficult to describe,seeing the positions visual is much more useful..google search exotic sex positions and or sex101 they have quite a number of clips and animated pictures of different very exotic positions:) goodluck,hope this is helpful SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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Sorry, I dont know if this is in the right category. Is masturbation bad if you are a Christian? (link)
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Hello,that is a very frequently asked question.Almost everyone in the world by the age of 18-20 have masturbated or attempted to,it is instinct and it gives you a chance to explore and understand your body. This is not a sin although it may feel wrong to receive sexual pleasure from yourself,all things related to sex has been correlated to sin but masturbation itself is not,however when you add in pornography for arousal while masturbating it does become a sin because it is form of fornication.It is stated that sex before marriage is a sin and sex is an act done with two or more people..usally the penetration of the penis into the vagina,oral sex etc..It is natural to feel uncomfortable when you first contemplate and or begin masterbating because you may feel that God is watching etc but God installed this sexuap drive inside of us and in the meatime until you get married it is natural and healthy before you delve into sex. I encourage masterbation ovr sex before marriage for a number of reasons.So have fun and get acquainted with yourself,because if you are not comfortable with your self it is not good idea to become involved with someone sexually.I hope this helped,If you have any further questions dont be afraid to ask..the best of luck to you SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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Hi there
I'm going to start seeing a psyciatrist. In the past four months my life has been falling apart through multiple horrible ecvents. I don't want to get in detail about it, but basically I'm depressed. Ive started taking Xanax because my dad has them (he let's me don't worry)... They're the only way I can stop myself from crying at night and help me fall asleep. I also hurt physically all the time , like someones been punching me. For this, ive been taking oxycodeine. This I got from my friends, but I'm careful and only use whatsnecessary. So when I start going to see the psychiatrist, what should I say to him so that he'll give me a prescription to both? Please, don't say there are other ways bc I needthis help at this time in my life. Thanks
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Hello it is a great step to know you have a problem and realize exactly what it is..have you ever spoken to a professional Psychologist or Psyciatrist before. It is unsafe to utilize others medicine,it may help but you may have a totally different problem/illness than can effect you in unforseen ways..medicine is very complicated and specific. Everyone is affected differently by different medictions whether you have the same illness as another person,becareful. When you begin your sessions with the Psychiatrist you should be very detailed in your description of your symptoms and be up front, try not to hold back although it may be hard,but the doctor needs to know exaxtly what is going on with you so he/she can properly diagnose you. The doctor will know what method of treatment is best,in your case it may be medicine but medicine is not always required,there are a number of different methods of treatment. I know sometimes life is so hard that it seems like medicine is the only way out but medicine is a temporary aid that you can become reliant on. What you want and need is mental growth,it is always best to deal with issues in the present so they wont have a huge effect on you in the future..whatever has happened to you in the past can be worked out,it may take time but it will be well worth it in the future, and hardtimes do not last forever,everything is temporary in this life and everything definitley happens for a reason. I know it is hard to be optomistic at a time like this but just know that things will get better in time,dont hesitate to contact me anytime,I am interested in hearing of your progress.I hope this helped,the best of luck to you! SINCERLY DIAMOND:)
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so i had sex with protection a few days ago with my boyfriend, and the condom didnt break or anything but he muffed me. He was a little rough therefore my vagina muscle outside n clitoris was quite painful for a few days and i also got some brownish discharge, i dont really know if it was bloody.. Just very little discharge. And now its become yellow again, a light yellow, not exactly off white as i use to have, and slightly thicker than the usual.. And it smells a little stronger than before..
please dont advice me to go to a doctor, because its not an option right now.. Maybe a doctor whose also an advisor on this sight can help too.. Im getting quite worried! Its been four days since the night we had sex. Thank you.. (link)
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Hello I would like to start off by saying rough intercourse makes you more prone to vaginal infections due to microscopic vaginal scarring and or cervical bruising. From your symptoms I would say you may have a vaginal infection..may I ask how long have you been having these symptoms?and have the symptoms been consistent daily?. I need to know this simply because it may be a vaginal infection or if may just be your bodies adaptation process. When your body is introduced to new things it tries its best to adapt to its best abilities to protect itself from harm.Do not panic or worry if it is in fact a vaginal infection,dozens of womens have vaginal infections maybe once or more in their lifetime,it is usually not related to sex just to bacteria,they are fairly common.These vaginal infections are also highly treatable,they can be treated with a store bought antifungal cream and or antibiotics.You cannot however use just any vaginal infection medicine,it has to correlate with your symptoms:)so there is nothing to worry about I am sure that whatever is going on it is not serious. If you have any further questions,comments,or concerns I am here, do not hesitate to contact me..if it is really personal you can e-mail me. I hope this was helpful and keep an eye out on what your symptoms are specifically..I wish you the best of luck:) SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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Hello this may be a little bit of a weird question.
But during sex when a girl is on top is she meant to move her whole body or just her pelvis area?
And also does she move up and down towards the ceiling and floor or slide up and down his body??
I'm not a virgin but I've never really been good on top because i dont know what im doing.
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Hello, well there is no specific technique to riding a guy..The whole point i to makd sure you are sitting secure and stable enough so that his penis goes inside and out of you just so he can be pleasured as well as you. It his however recomended to move your pelvis because that is what gives you that basic up and down motion for you to thrust him inside and out of you. Once you get comfortable doing this you will find different techniques that work best for you and your partner. Don't be shy or nervous to ask if you are riding him properly but you will most likely know if you are or not. Communication is key!so take your time and pactice a couple of times with your partner or even on your own so you will be comfortable, because if you arent comfortable it will show and you and/or your partner will not be fully satsfied..and that is what sex is all about right..SATISFACTION!:)..If you have further questions do not hesitate to ask, I hope my advice was the helpful,the best of luck to you SINCERLY,DIAMOND
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what do you get a guy for valentines day???? i need to get something for this guy i really like and have been spending a lot of time with. i don't want it to be like "just a present" but something that's like "duh boy i like you." lol. but cliche things like teddys and chocolate and roses seem more female-aimed. i don't know! and i also don't have an infinite amount of money...so...ya. any ideas? (link)
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Thank you soo much for the positive feedback it is greatly apprecited..hmm that is interesting..do you guys happen to have a favorite bible verse,chirstian song or band you might like? I would also suggest that you might write a very telling poem about how you feel since you want him to know that you care:. Since he adores writting peotry it would be very original and show that you show some general interest in the things that he likes:) do you happen to know how to play the guitar as well? I hope my advice was helpful,the best of luck to you, SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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