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this past week i went on vaca with my friends and 2 of our guy friends happened to be staying in the same town as us. we hung out with them like every night. one of the guys there was the guy i liked(lets call him jon). one night down at the beach we were all laying on a blanket and i was laying next to jon and after like 15 minutes he was like "can i put my arm around you?"..so obv. i said yes. the next night after walking around the beach we all layed down on the blanket again and me and jon ended up next to each other and for a while i was just laying on his arm cuz it was well...just there. after a while my friend reached over and put his hand on mine..well a few minutes later we ended up just cuddling and holding each other and the rest of our friends left. the night was great but the problem is i dont think he kjnows i like him A LOT and i know he doesnt like me...i like him so much and i doubt that night meant anything to him and now im just confused and dont know what to do

hey hun, talk to him..ask him how he feels and if he feels the same way that you do & tell him how much he means to you..that's about all you can do..iduno from what you said, it sounds like he DOES like you..guys don't just cuddle and ask to put their arms around girls for no reason..trust me, you have to talk to him, you'll regret it if you don't & you never know..he could like you too..hope i helped..let me know how it goes..xO`lexi

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i've been going out with a guy for over five months, and i think he wants to but he hasnt tried to kiss me... how do i let him noe im ready?

5 months? and you haven't kissed?..girl what are you waiting for!? kiss him!! he's probablly just nervous, or like you not sure if the other person's ready..trust me..guys love it when you make the first move! ..have fun..happy kissing =)
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how far should you go with a guy at age 13...and don't say "however far you wanna go"--thanks

when i was 13..and all of my friends too..we only let them kiss us on our cheeks & held hands..stuff like that..i guess it really depends too on how long you've been together..if you really love him?..but i mean you're only 13..don't rush into anything you'll regret ..you shouldn't do anything you don't want to,respect yourself--you don't want to be known as a hoe or anything..=)..xO`lexi

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ok i have a job interview on monday...its my first job (im 15)...does anyone have any advice?! im so nervous!

relax..be yourself..make sure you wear something casual..nothing revealing,but not too dressy, not a lot of make-up or jewelry..go in be confident,polite,speak clearly..hmm that's all i can really think of..i'm sure you'll do fine..also you can go onto google or ask.com & they'll give you tips and example questions for job interviews..good luck..hope you get the job =)
xO`lexi

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how do you add columnist to you page??

on the side of their "advice column" there is a link that says "make favorite columnist"..just click it =)
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I'm 13 and a girl I hate dumping people and my boyfriend like me a lot and I dont really like him any more does any one have any good ways to dump him I need help with out breaking his heart...thnx

really, no matter what you say or how you do it, it's going to hurt and be hard. all you can really do is be honest. tell him how you feel and that you think you two just need to be friends. hope that helps a little =)..xO`lexi

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okay well im turning 13 in november... and i havnt gotten my period yet... is that abnormal??? all my friends got theirs already?? if ya help me out then thanx!

Kati

you're just fine! be happy you haven't got it yet..trust me they're no fun..everyone gets there's at diff times..i got mine when i was 10, but my friend just got her first one and she's 14..don't worry..your time will come..xo`lexi

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Hi..im just wondering how everyone out there who wears a bikini and all the ppl who wear swim trunks and has a flat stomach..how do you do it? How can i GET BIKINI BODY and KEEP it? Do I have to be watcing what i eat 24/7/365?

-Thanks for the help

hey i guess i was blessed..i have a very fast metabolism so i have a "bikini body"..but for a flat tummy i think doing crunches is your best bet..iduno about watching what you eat 24/7/365,,but my friend just lost a lot of weight eating salads, fruits, & drinking 1-2 slim fasts a day..hmm well hope that helps some..xo`lexi

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Hey my boyfriend recently got drunk and while he was drunk he said a lot of sweet things he has never said to me before. He told me he wanted to marry me and start a life with me. I was wondering if that really could be true. Because he was drunk. Do drunk people say whats on their mind or make up bullshit?

it could be he was bullshiting you or maybe that's really how he feels..i know i have a friend who tells the blunt truth when he's drunk..he'll tell you exactly how he feels about you and say things he would never admit to or say when he's sober..if i were you i'd talk to your boyfriend..tell him what he said & ask him if he remembers and if it was the truth..i guess that's all you can do to know for sure.
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xo`lexi

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I am going to this Volleyball day camp for 4 days and I really really like it but I'm terrible at it cuz I'm new and like everyone else can spike n stuff. I probly won't make the team next year but i really like the sport. Wut can i do?

PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICE! grab a friend or use the side of your house[with no windows] and practice practice all the different hits and serves! i play volleyball..it's fun and easy..just work at it..you'll do fine! =) xo`lexi

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wut is the best way to get rid of a pimple relly fast??

i have a percription so i haven't had a pimple on my face in a long time..but before i got the medication, i'd pop it, put alcohol on it, then apply aloe..it worked for me..hope it helps! =)
xo`lexi

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me and my friend meet a few guys at an amusement park and my friend and the one guy hit it off right there... but his friend likes me and i dont like him like that i would rather be friends with him... and i'm crushing on someone else.. and i think that person feels the same way... what should i do? should i tell him that i like someone else and i think he's digging me too, should i tell him that i just want to be friends... i dont know.... can you help me?

oX'confused

confused,
i think you should give Mike, the guy at the amusement park a try..or krystina..should i say at SANDCASTLE..! haha yah i know who u r & i kno wut u did last summer..anyways..you should def. go give the guy who REALLY likes you a chance, you don't even know him and already your judging him..wtf?..plus how do u kno the "other guy" or should i say jordan even likes you?..i personally don't think he does..he sure as hell didn't act like it..PLUS he's =(..yeahh mr. serious..so why the hell would you blow off the guy at the "amusement park" when he's absolutely in love with you & is sucha sweetheart!! Hmm anyways..lOl who cares bout guys this week..we're goin on vaca..member! hot guys, hot tub!..yeah but when we get back you best call mike!..i mean the "guy at the amusement park"..hehe love ya girl xO`lexi

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im the girl who asked about shaving down low...i already shave a little on the top and it gets itchy after..if i wanna shave it all how can i do it so 1 i dont hurt myself and 2 it wont be red adn itchy?

yea you can..use baby poweder and dry shave..the baby powder reduces the red and eachyness, and if you do it dry you won't get bumps..xo`lexi

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ok.. in 2 days im going to the eye doctor and im gettin contacts.. what i would like to know if what color would go best with dark brown hair? please help ( i rate mostly 5's ) thanx!

i really like the brown contacts , they're very pretty and still diff. from natural brown eyes..also the blue contacts look good with dark brown hair..=) hope i helped..xo`lexi

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can anyone give me like a load of good ideas for a girly/cute sn... hmm.. i rate good i wont rate you bad even if im not interested in ne of the ones you picked...

hey hun go to http://hellz-angelz.cjb.net..go to the right column and scroll down to where it says screename..there's a list of like thousands of cute/girly s/ns..! hope i helped..xo`lexi
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Male 15
Why is it that i am never able to ask a girl out?
Most people say im just a stupid chicken and make fun of me. I need help :( Wats ur opinion?

maybe you're shy or just lack confidence..or a lot of guys are just scared of rejection. no matter what the case, it's fine, you're not the only one..next time you find a girl you like, ASK HER OUT! =)..It'll get easier the more you do it. believe in yourself! i'm sure you'll be fine. xO`lexi
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How long do u usually have to wear ur retainers for after u get ur braces off? thank u

everyone's different but my dentist said every night for like the first year & then you're suppose to like once or twice a week for basically the rest of your life..=)..but like i said every ones dentist and mouth is dif..xo`lexi

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i have a huge problem. everytime i ask a question no one awnsers.. ahhh or they do..but the awsner dont help me at all..

haha sorry hun..need something ask me..i'm here and i do my best to help! =)
xo`lexi

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What does lol mean?

Lol Means *laugh out loud* xo`lexi

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hi. i have really long legs and im very thin... great rite.. well whenever i go anywhere and im wearing a skirt or short i get really dirty looks and stares from other girls! i cant stand it. i feel awful and so uncomfortable. Is there something wrong with long legs? do i look like a giant or something? they make me feel out of place :(
what should i do?
thanks

hun i have very long legs and i'm thin..other girls look at you like that b/c they're jealous..trust me i've been there..just walk passed them and smile knowing you have what they want..thats all you can do. & no i'm sure your not a giant..lol you know how many women would die for long legs?..i model & that's what agents want!! be happy--i'm sure you beautiful..ignore them! =) xo`lexi..hope i helped..plz rate

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