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I'm a mom of 3 kids in a long term relationship. I like to think I'm fairly smart(IQ 131), but I definitely don't know everything. I work a regular job, finished high school, but dropped out of my first year of college. I'm not religious, but I think of myself as pretty spiritual. I'm always watching and reading new things that interest me, because I love to learn new things. I guess you can really ask me anything, I love to give advice. I'm sure the people that will benefit best from my advice are other people like me, but don't take my word on it ;)
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Okay so I have been with my boyfriend now for about 6 months and I was really wanting to spice things up in bed. He wants to have a threesome with another girl, but I could never picture or let alone watch my man have sex with another girl so that is out of the question. there is one kind of problem. for some reason i am really shy in bed with him (with other boyfriends i haven't been). it may be the age difference and the fact that he is sooo sexy! he like intimidates me. LOL (J/K) but ya i'm looking for something different, but nothing too crazy...
Tell him you could never watch him be with another girl. What about YOU being with the other girl and him there, but not allowed to have sex with her? Maybe that is what he meant in the first place? If not, and you would be willing to do that, then talk to him about it. Otherwise... toys, costumes, crazy postions, anything that will make it fun and pleasurable at the same time.
Guys, What are the best ways to make a guy hard without actually physically touching him ?
How about pics? If so what kind like pose, besides nude obviously.
All my hubby has to do is think about sex to get hard haha! So I'd say talking about sex, dirty talk, stuff like that would work easily. It's fun too!
lately ive been trying to be healthy. for the past 3 months all i eat is organic healthy foods. but i still get cravings for choclate, donuts, and bread my favortie thingsss! so a lot of times ill go a week or two weeks without any of it and it can be pretty hard consideirng im 17 years old and im around that food ALL the time! so evntulaly ill have a bad item and then it just sets me off and because i feel like i never get this food i end up over indulging and i fill myself up a rediculous amount. i think this is a bad habit and somebody compared it to "yo-yo dieting" even though im not really on a diet. but could this end up making me unhealthy or make me gain weight? and is it a bad habitt
You can't go so long without fullfilling your craving. It's better to have a small candy bar once every couple days when you have a craving, then waiting forever then chowing down. split a donut with someone, and bread isn't bad for you. There's lots of multigrain bread with lots of fiber and nutrients. You should never eat white bread, its over processed. Also, what people don't think about, is when your body craves sugar, fill it with natural sugar, fruit! Buy fruit that's really sweet, like cherries, kiwi, melon, it will really help a craving, and you can eat as much of it as you want! Goodluck!
okay, my friend, A, was going out with this guy J; it was a long distance relationship and it had ben going on six monthes. but last night he broke up with her because 'he couldn't handle not seeing her all the time. and everytime he did se her he didn't want to say goodbye.' but i think theres another reason he broke up with her, i think he may have cheated on her or something like that. and she's not angry or anything she's just depressed. but should i tell her that i think he cheated or not? and do you have any ideas how to cheer her up? i've done evrything i usually do but none of it's worked. any ideas.
Even if you think he cheated, it really only matters what she thinks or believes. I wouldn't say anything. She may have thought the same thing, but it doesn't matter anymore because they broke up. If you want to cheer her up, just spend time with her hanging out, being a friend, doing girly things hehe. Don't mention him, don't mention guys at all, she will need some time to heal. When she is ready to move on to other guys, she'll say something.
i dont have any beauty parlours or hair salons nearby and i need to wax my vagina.. How do i do it? I have really sensitive skin.. I know u rip the opposite way of the hair growth.. Is it dangerous or bad to do it by self at home?
It is very painful, and not good for people with sensitve skin. My skin is very sensitive, and I tried once. It was so painful I stopped after 2 strips, and those areas got very inflammed and bled some. Then I got a rash when the hair started growing back, just like if you were to shave. If you want something easy for do-it-yourself at home, get some of the sensitive skin Nair. No waxing or shaving, and the odor of the cream isn't as bad as it used to be. If you really wanna wax that bad, I would suggest going out of town to a salon and having it done.
I am 17 years old, a virgin, and I have a best guy friend who I have known for 6 years and fully trust. We have A LOT of history together and recently I've been really wanting to have sex. I know he wants to also, we've talked about it. He is sleeping over my house on Saturday night, and I think it's going to happen. I am really excited and not at all nervous, only because it is with him.
I am just wondering, what you all think of this? If you have any tips or suggestions that might be helpful? because i dont know a whole lot about sex..
Since you trust him, and I'm sure you love him, because we all love our friends, especially our best friends. Don't anticipate it happening, just let it happen. If you both feel ready for it, it will just happen. Just be prepared. Have condoms ready, and make sure you guys set guidelines on what is okay and what isn't. Take your time! As a woman, your first time can be a little painful, but it will be a little more enjoyable if you have plenty of foreplay before hand. Don't worry about positions and stuff, just do what feels natural. Goodluck and have fun!
okay so my boyfrined came over last night and we were kissing on my couch. and he like pulled my shirt up and started kissing my boob and sucking on it. i was so turned off by it. i pushed him off and moved to the other side of the couch it grossed me out. 1. because it reminded me of a baby getting milk.2. because thats freaking weird to me.
so my question is do people like that i mean on a guys point of veiw do they enjoy that? and how should i tell him that i think thats weird wiht out being rude?
Most women enjoy it very much. It actually feels very good and can be very exciting, but you pushed him away right away, so you would not know that. He should have asked tho. You need to talk to him about it, and tell him he really needs to ask before he does something like that. Boobs were designed for giving milk, but they are also sensitive and when fondled sends the pleasure part of your brain into full drive. I say try it once before you say if you like it or not.
I get how there is a difference between being on top and being on bottom during sex but like does there really make a difference. What would you say most girls prefer and why? and guys, what do you prefer and why? Also, what would you suggest [top or bottom] for your first time.
It is easier for the man to be on top the first time. It is going to hurt some, and if you are on top you may have a hard time dealing with it. It takes a while for it to start feeling good, it's never what you expect the first time(just a warning). I love being on top. It is easier to position yourself and control everything to make it feel best for you. A little tip for your first time, don't be afraid to touch yourself and stimulate your clitoris. It will ensure you have an orgasm your first time and don't be embarrassed about it, seeing you touch yourself will turn him on.
14/f
So about 3 and a half weeks ago, there was this new girl to my class... lets call her L. I thought she was kind of nice at first, cause, you know, she was like a new opportunity as a friend. It turned out one of my best friends (E) has been friends with her for awhile, so L sits at our lunch table now... but after the first day, I started to have my doubts about her, and same thing with the rest of the table (except for E). Here are some things about her that we don't like at all:
-She has so much acne her face is completely red
-She constantly talks about how she talks to ghosts... also how there used to be a mean ghost in her old house, and thats why the moved...
-She smells A LOT like smoke...
-Her hair is greasy and disgusting.. lots of dandruff
-She makes no effort to talk to anyone but E, even though she's hung out with us for about a month
-Also after a month, she still doesn't know my name. Or anyone else's for that matter.
-She's kind of a brat-she gets really upset if she doesn't get what she wants
-I think she's emo or something... I often see her in some class I'm in with her with her head down and her hair over her face, or just her hands over her eyes... it's kind of creepy.
-She is extremly clingy
-She's a total bitch to some of my friends
-No one likes her (except for the freak-girl clique...) and she's completely oblivious to it
-Every single day she has worn the same shoes-these obnoxious, calf-high, brown wedges that make an awful clacking noise when she walks
-SHE WON'T LEAVE US ALONE!!
And I could keep going but I think I'll stop now. And please, don't tell me to 'give her a chance because she's the new girl'. A-she's not exactally new anymore, and B- I think I listed at least 10 reasons why she's a creep. I really don't feel bad for her anymore.
So, I really need help on how to tell E that we really don't like L... without hurting anyone's feelings...? I don't know, I just really need some advice on what to do.
It sounds to me you are completely judgemental. Vanity isn't everything, I think you need a reality check. She is a person with feelings, just like you and everyone else on this planet. She deserves friends as much as the next person. So what if she is a little different? It's better to be different then like every other girl in the school, at least she is trying to be a individual. If your one friend likes her, she is probably a great person. You guys just can't see past the outside to see the inside. And what is wrong with talking about ghosts? Everyone is entitled to their own beliefs. It sounds to me you have just been living a sheltered life, there is a lot more out there in the world then you will ever know with that attitude. It's time to start growing up and except that everyone isn't like you, stop being so vain.
I'm 14/f. I have medium/shortish wavy hair. It's at my shoulders, a tiny bit longer. I hate my hair. It's thin, no doubt about it. After a day or two it gets greasy and I have to wash it. When I was smaller, I could easily grow out my hair and it was long and thick. After 4th grade, everything changed. My hair was just... visibly thinner. I don't think I did anything wrong. In middle school around 6th ad 7th grader I would straighten my hair once a week or once every few weeks. Now, in 9th grade, I don't think I've straightened my hair since the beginning of 8th grade. Only my bangs, which I haven't since September. I'm seeing a specialist who is currently trying to figure out why my hair is so thin. I've tried Nioxin, Rogaine, homemade methods..but nothing. Nothing has improved it at all. And not only that, my hair takes incredibly long to grow. After 4 or 5 months, my hair grew an inch. The specialist cannot find a single thing. It doesn't run in my family. Nothing is wrong with my hormones. I'm healthy--I don't even get pimples. I have a pretty good body, I have some stomach and love handles but it's nothing anyone notices and everyone tells me I have such a great body. I eat healthy, fast food hasn't entered my mouth since I was maybe 6. I get my hair trimmed once a month but nothing is working. I'll admit it, it bothers me so much. I've always, ALWAYS wanted long, thick hair. I don't care if it's out of control and wavy, I absolutely love that kind of hair. I don't straighten my hair because it's just flat and short. My hair bothers me so much. I hate it. I would go bald and regrow it all if I could but that's way too risky. I don't know what to do anymore. The doctors cannot find anything wrong with me. My last appointment was in December and I'm scheduled again for March but nothing has changed, I'm using Rogaine but that's not the right thing for me because I didn't lose my hair, it just kind of got thinner. I want to have long thick hair, I'm tired of not being able to just let it down because it's so light and thin. I've desired thick and long hair for so many years now and I don't want to be fake and get extensions or a hair transplant. It makes me so sad to look at my small thin hair in the mirror. I don't know what to do.
Have you been tested for Alopecia? I grew up with a girl that had Alopecia Areata. I believe there is multiple forms of Alopecia. It causes loss and thinning of hair on your head, and sometimes your body. Certain deficiancies can cause thinning of the hair, especially iron, so make sure you are taking vitamins everyday. Recommend some things to your specialist. They are missing something, your can't be thinning at that age for no reason.
I have heard that there is a tiny lady on display at the fair grounds and that she is kept in a small area. People have said that she looks really angry. Do you think she is paid to put on an act or is she being mistreated? Why hasn't anyone reported this to the police, it soudnds horrible!
Have you seen this lady in person? Maybe she doesn't even exist? Working in a fair is a job, and all of the people working there get paid. Any one working in a "freak show" gets paid, and yes they get paid to put on an act.
i am from india.is there any need to worry if i get my periods every 26 days?will there be any problem in becoming pregnant?which day i ovulate?
The middle of your cycle is usually when you have a higher chance to become pregnant. If you want to make sure you get pregnant, start having sex with your husband every night 1 week after your period ends. Have sex every night for 2 weeks straight, you should definitely have a much higher chance.
17/f
I've been having stomach problems for a couple months now, and they seem like they are just getting worse. My doctor isn't taking me seriously, and my parents trust that doctor and don't want a second opinion. Here are my symptoms:
- horrible stomach aches and diaharria when I drink diet coke or coffee. I understand this can happen to people, but I used to drink coffee every morning since middle school and at least 2 diet cokes a day. Now a small sip makes me sick immediately.
- acid reflex (or at least that's what my doc said). This makes me nauseas after every meal and I almost always throw up a little bit of my meal because I burp it up. It's uncomfortable and disgusting.
I have been on prevacid for 2 months now, and it hasn't done much. I also take zantac to prevent throwing up because of the acid. Pepto bismol helps sometimes, but not all the time. I even increased my fiber intake because my doctor said it would help but it hasn't done anything! With all of these precautions, I still get sick.
I checked mayoclinic but couldn't find an answer. help? what do you think???
I know you guys probably aren't doctors, but maybe you or somebody you know has gone through this? or you mighthave better luck researching. Thank you to all who reply
p.s. I am not lactose intolerent
sounds to me it could be a couple things you could get checked out.
1. an ulcer- coffee and soda are high in acid which can cause a stomach ulcer.
2. acid reflux can be caused by the muscles at the bottom of the esophagus to be weak and let acid up.
I think it's more likely an ulcer, but I would get it checked out, it could be something very very serious, like even stomach cancer. But don't get too worried yet, just get more opinions.
I will be 37 weeks pregnant tomorrow. When I had a pap smear today I started bleeding. So my doctor told me to keep an eye on it and if its like a regular period call the doctors office. Well here it is about 8 hrs later and I'm having quite a bit of having brown bleeding. Should I call, go to the hospital or what? Thanks
Brown bleeding is nothing to worry about. Your cervix is sensitive at this point in pregnancy, and a pap smear can really irritate it. You only need to worry if you are having bright red bleeding. I just had my 3rd baby in december. I had some bright red bleeding at 37 weeks, then my water broke and was full of blood. I had a placental abruption. Bright red bleeding can be that or placenta previa. Brown blood is just from small irritation, I would wait it out and call your doctor if it all of a sudden gets really really bad, or if you wait a day and its not going away. Just remember at this point your mucous plug can come out and that can cause bleeding also.
So, I'm pretty weird. I don't really like going out in the daytime. But I want a day time job. So, what are some dim lit or dark stores? Like there was this one place that used to be at a mall near me, that had like all kinds of austrailian things. It was called Urban something. Oh, and the shoe store Journey's is pretty dark. But I'm not going to work at either of those. So what are some more? I'm 17/f if that helps.
Spencer gift stores are dark, have a lot of black light displays, but they sell a lot of adult type items. They are a fun a store to go in to tho, and usually get a lot of business.
kind of a weird question, but what are the signs that the penis is done growing?
I would think it keeps growing thru puberty, and with men that could be until you are 18-20 possibly.
im only 13, but i think i need a bikini wax. how do i tell my mom and what method should i use?
Waxing really isn't the way to go. Creams work very well. Shaving with a razor will get you the smoothest results, but if you have sensitive skin you will get horrible razor burn. Electric razors down shave completely clean, but no one should be that close to your crotch to see that. Also, the only time you need a bikini wax is in the summer when you are going to be wearing swimming suits.
okay, ive been going out with this boy for about month...and i dont know what to get him for valentines day! he does no sports, has no hobbies and hes not skater or surfer or punk or prep..idk what he is. but i have no idea! im also broke so i wanna make him something...but idk if that will make me look like i dont care about him
I know this may sound corny, but make him a friendship bracelet. It's something sweet, personal, and sincere, and most of all... cheap! You can buy materials for it for a few dollars at a craft store.
before my current boyfriend, i had slept with two guys.
one guy twice, and one guy once, so only 3 times.
my boyfriends good in bed, but even though its feels good,
i never orgasm from him.
i've actually never orgasmed during sex...
am i doing something wrong or what?
i don't want to say anything to him because i don't want him to think he's doing a bad job.
any help would be much appreciated.
many women don't orgasm from just vaginal stimulation. It is possible to have a g-spot orgasm from vaginal stimulation, but that is a lot harder to achieve. Clitoral stimulation is the key. Sometimes a lot of foreplay and clitoral stimulation right before intercourse will help stimulate you and make it easier to orgasm during sex. Easiest way is to just reach down there yourself and stimulate your clitoris while having sex with him. This ensures you have an orgasm and it will turn him on watching you touch yourself. You can try being on top. You have much more control and can position yourself so you are getting clitoral stimulation during sex. That is my favorite position and gives the best results if you don't want to stimulate yourself manually during sex. Good luck, have fun and experiment!
I am fifteen years old,and is attending grade eight.I want to make decisions on things i want to do.However, my mother doesn't approve of this. For example i want to go to night clubs with my mates on Sundays but my mother says that it is impossible."If you go to night clubs, then you are a bad daughter.That makes me sick." says my mom.This brings us to conflict with my mom.
What kind of night club? Most night clubs are for adults, not children. There are nightclubs that have alcohol-free teen nights. If this is the kind of night club you are talking about, then there is nothing wrong with going to a teen night. Explain to your mother that it is an alcohol-free night for teens, and that it is just music and dancing. Going to a night club does not make you a bad daughter, mothers shouldn't say things like that to their daughters. Is she very religious or conservative? If that is the case, she may disagree, and ultimately she decides if you stay or go. You can at least explain things to her, what you will do while you are there, who you will be with, what time you will be home, etc. Instead of fighting about it(cause that will make it worse not better), talk about it and try to come to a middle ground. Good luck!