I am fifteen years old,and is attending grade eight.I want to make decisions on things i want to do.However, my mother doesn't approve of this. For example i want to go to night clubs with my mates on Sundays but my mother says that it is impossible."If you go to night clubs, then you are a bad daughter.That makes me sick." says my mom.This brings us to conflict with my mom.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? Myrrha answered Thursday January 22 2009, 2:18 pm: What kind of night club? Most night clubs are for adults, not children. There are nightclubs that have alcohol-free teen nights. If this is the kind of night club you are talking about, then there is nothing wrong with going to a teen night. Explain to your mother that it is an alcohol-free night for teens, and that it is just music and dancing. Going to a night club does not make you a bad daughter, mothers shouldn't say things like that to their daughters. Is she very religious or conservative? If that is the case, she may disagree, and ultimately she decides if you stay or go. You can at least explain things to her, what you will do while you are there, who you will be with, what time you will be home, etc. Instead of fighting about it(cause that will make it worse not better), talk about it and try to come to a middle ground. Good luck! [ Myrrha's advice column | Ask Myrrha A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.