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f/15 ok i have been going out wit this guy for about 2wks and he's really sweet, but the problem is that i want to break up wit him. got any tips to let him down gently?

ok there realli isnt a good way to break up w/ sum1. and mi advice is, after u break sum1s heart it may not be the best idea 2 b friends.. otherwize itz pretty ok wut u came up w/.

Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX

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i am very self consious on how i look because i am not the prettiest girl but everyone tells me that i am cute. i dont like how i look and i want to loose some weight too. i can sometimes be very confident but at other times i am not. what can i do to stop being so self consious?

okeyz well im not the prettiest gurl either, and like u i am realli self consious about it. i feel like ugly and stuff when im not. juzt think of how lucky u r. sum ppl are worse off. thats whut helpz me. and about losing weight, juzt watch wat u eat, and try to exersize more!

hope i helped,
nicole

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~15 female~
me and my best friend are really close...i was w/ her when she lost *it* and the sad thing is she didn't even know the guy..she only new him for a lil bit! and then she had sex w/ this other dude but shes kind of dating him...and i told her she shouldn't be doing that bC shes always going out to have sex w/ some other dude...and then i was staying the nite w/ her one nite and we snuck out and she had sex w/ these 2guys that she hardly even knew...and she still talks to one of them she goes overto his house and stuff...but she doesn't need to hang out w/ him either cuz his a lil man whore! well then she had sex w/ this other dude...and then another (but she knew the last one really well)...well last nite me and her sunk out again w/ my boyfriend and one of his friends...and she had sex w/ him...i mean i haven't even had sex w/ my boyfriend yet...and i didn't even have sex w/ him that nite...well my freind has had sex w/ at lest 7guys...how do i get her to stop...i want her to wait till shes dating a guy before she starts haveing sex again!...?? what do i do?

omg wow, geeze soo she had sex w/ ur boyfriend too? thats cold. maybe im not a good prsn to give u advice on this. but u know she could end up pregnent? and she can get a whole bunch of diseases? i think ppl shud think about all theze things b4 they have sex. dude u need to tell her that she has 2 stop, u care about her and she wut she is doing isnt rite. if she duzzent stop idk if u shud stay her friend.

Hope i helped

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i am 14 going on 115 and i have never had a boyfriend. i really want one, but everytime i like a guy, im too scared to tell him. i don't know how to go about getting a boyfriend and i need tips!!!

ok wellz be yerself! and u need a guy u r comfertable with. soo itz easy 4 u to tell him how u feel. and dont worrie lotz of ppl yer age dont have a bf. I want a bf 2. tear. lol ne wayz, heres sum tipz for u. flirt with him, tell him u like him, maybe juzt be tha one to ask him out. idk but good luck!! alwayz, nicole

I hOpE I hElPeD

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Well you see, me and my boyfriend will be going out for a month in 2 days. I like him and all but I don't feel anything anymore. He's away on vacation and my family might meet him there. Should I break the relationship off now or go out with him a little longer and see how I feel? *

(I will rate you!)

okeyz well juzt let it go a lil while longer. if u still dont feel ne thing. then break up w/ him.

Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX
nicole

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Ok, like i have liked this guy for awhile but like never talks to me nemore, like he use to awhile ago but now he never does! And i dunno maybe he has other things in his mind! But how would i get him to notice me again! Because i really like him n stuff! SO PLZ PLZ HELP ME!!

(Laterz)
(Nani)

ooookkkkaaaayyyy... does he even know u like him? does he care? lol wellz dude maybe he duzzent understand tha way u feel about him.. u seem confused urself! lol. okeeyz well soo u havent talked 2 him in awhile, soo talk 2 him now!! have his number? call him! have his email address? email him! have a brain? tell him how u feel!!! lol, ok just to tell u, u cant hide ur feelings it gets u no where. take chances. and if it duzzent work out.. then thats his loss. hes not worth it.
HoPe I hElPeD iF nOt Im VeRy SorRiE,
NICOLE

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I'm almost 17, and I've never had a boyfriend, Its not that theres something wrong with me, except for the fact that I'm shy, and now I kinda feel like everyone has someone except for me, and it gets lonely...
help please?

Ok well have u tried to get a bf?? i mean is there a guy u like?? idk but i think u shud be less shy and idk wut else 2 say.. dont worrie tho!! u'll get a boyfriend! member, tha best things in life are worth waiting 4

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I met a guy who was really nice and we spent like everyday together and just cuddled. Thats wat i had been lookin for for a while so it was great. Im 13 and he was 14 so it was good for meh cuz i like the lil bit older guyz. He was my friendz cuzin and he lived in PA but was visiting. Neways i kinda liked him on and off so it confused us both. I like being with him but his personality wasnt that great so i wasnt sure. When i only kissed him on the cheek and only let him do the same i think it really turned him off so he turned to another one of her friendz and they started goin out. I cryed and cryed and tried to talk to him about it and he was just a jerk. Now even thought he hurt meh and was mean i kinda miss being with him and kinda still like him. Why am i doing this to myself and is it a bad thing? I had pictures of us and i cut it up one day cuz he sayd cumin up was about gettin sumthin but then when i was like so u just used meh he was like umm no i dint say that. If i was gunna use u i wouda gotten sum booty. That stuff just makes meh so mad so i dont no y i bother. Thats y i need u. Plezzz help!

Wow... he seems like a jerk! ne wayz forget about him, he seems like a player guy!! i know tha type. soo ne wayz i have been going thru this 2 sorta and like it sucks cuz us gurls r all sad cuz they mean a lot to us and tha boys dont give a crap. but ne wayz itz normal to feel that way. and u really need 2 move on. that guy isnt good 4 u, u shud have a guy that cares for u and wont ditch u for another gurl!

HoPe I HeLpEd,
Nicole

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its so wierd...whenever i like a guy, i sooner or later get the feeling he likes me too. i've been right a couple of times, but i just think its wierd. does anyone else feel this way? i mean...if i do make this assumption, and i am wrong, i feel so hurt. this may sound stupid, but is there anything i can do about it?

please answer....i always rate well :)

-britski-

i know wut u mean cuz i feel that way too!! like when he gives u these certain looks. sumtimes im rite, sumtimes im wrong. i know how ud feel hurt, and itz normal. wut u can do is maybe ask tha guy if he likes u. and if he says no, then just say o ok or sumthing like "o well i like u, but since u dont like me" idk lol. that was dumb... but juzt maybe let him know.. cuz like maybe he duzzent want u to know he likes u, and if u tell him u like him, he will prolly tell u!! LoL this advice may not help u, but HeY i TrIeD!! (did it even make sense? lol)

HoPe I hElPeD,
nicole

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well i still realy like my x bf i dumped him cuz i am dumb and i regret it. but ne way while i was going out with him i gave my friend his sn for this reason and told her not to talk to him..well i found out today that after we broke up (she still knows i like him alot) she IMd him and was flirting with him alot..this just bugs me becuz she knows i wouldnt do that to her and how much i like him. so i didnt find this out till today it happened like a week or something ago but that day he ran into my friend at the mall and they talked and then that night he called me and i am just really confused..i guess its jealousy but idk anyone have anyone to say anything about this if u actually kno what i a,m talking about..? thx if u do

i know wut u r talking bout!! ok maybe u shud tell ur friend its buggin u that she talked to him, when u sed not to. tell her u wouldnt do that to her. Maybe he likes u still, how do u know she was flirting? idk but i cant realli come up w/ ne thing else sorrie

Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX

*nicole*

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k, so let's c...i realli like this one dude... and this dude use to realli like me...but now he's all kinda not kewl and stuff, and duzn't even wanna talk to me. and i still like him a whole bunch. i don't even think of any other guy. like if sumbody asks me for a list of let's say... The top 5 guyz I like..., i couldn't even give it to them, cuz it's only him... i don't even think of any other guy. and i kno he's pretty much not worth all the hurt and stuff at all. i mean, he's alreadi broken my heart once, but i still like him just as much or maybe even more than the last time, like wud do i do??? oh yah, he still sorta gives me reason to make me think he still likes me too...

~*NINA*~

okay nina, maybe he duzzent feel tha same ne more. talk to him. u sed that he is tha only one rite now u think of, is it tha same 4 him? tell him how important he is 2 u. and if he duzzent show that he likes u, move on.

alwayz, nicole
Xo HoPe I HeLpEd Ox

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I'm 13 and i'm havin a lil bit of guy trouble.Ok there is this really cute guy i know but we havent really seen much of eachother.Well the thing is when i was in 3rd grade i really liked him but then i moved when i was starting 4th so i never got to really talk to him again.Now it's summer '04 and im goin to start 8th.So one night i was stayin at my friend's house and he had told her to call well we were havin too much fun to call him so she gave me his sn and we started talkin to eachother online.It turns out that he liked me in 3rd grade also so he asked me out & i sed ok but then we broke up cuz we weren't sure if it was going to work out.But he always asks me how my love life is so the other day when i asked how his was he sed bad so i just went ahead and asked y is it....he answered cuz i broke up with you.is that really believable????He has also been talkin to one of my other friends and telling her that he likes me and everything but i don't know if he really does or not.I mean i kinda like him since we've been talking to eachother but does he really like me too?plz help.

Believe It!!! itz retarded if u dont!! dude he sed he likes u, and he tells ur friend. give him another shot! if it duzzent work, o well.

HoPe I hElPeD
alwayz, nicole

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what do u do if u like ur EX-girlfriend and u know u cant get her back but yet u cant get over her or stop thinkib bout her?

Get over her!! there is sooo many more gurls out there. and just date other gurls. and u will start 2 forget about her!!

alwayz nicole

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i always flirt with all the guys at school or where ever i go. does that make me a slut bc everyone calls me one

haha no!!! i mean every1 has tha rite 2 flirt!! maybe they r jealous. they prolly r. or maybe they get tha wrong idea. idk you, soooo i have no idea if like u flirt in a way that ppl would find slutty. i would just say not to overdue tha flirtyness.. but who cares wut they think!!

xo HoPe I HeLpEd ox

alwayz, nicole

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Ok theres this grl that i dnt like at all we have gotten into soo many fights and she makes me feel like shit when we get into fights..((there over the stupidiest things too))No body really likes her caz of her bitchy attitude..:x i have alot of confidence so im sticking up fer myself i dnt need herr Sh*t! But she wants to be friends with me and again..should i become friends iwth her again or stand my groound? And if i stand my ground then how do i tell her to bak off and not call me ne more because if i dnt do it nice she will spread shit about me!! :`( Help me plss!!
**RR**
rate fives to who ever helps mee!

OmG there is a gurl like that to me 2. i ended up juzt b-ing her friend (sorta) but wut i think u shud do, is tell her that u guyz will be okay with each other (not being enemies) but u guyz still wont exactly be friends cuz of all tha crap shes sed. wellz i dont know wut else i can say... but i hope that helped...

AlWaYz XoX, NiCoLe

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im sick of always changing myself for everyone else and now i just want to be myself but idk who i am anymore...what can i do???

alrytey, u shuddnt change urself. every1 is different and unique. nobody is tha same!! sooo just be chill with who u r and u'll get a lotta propz 4 that!!

HoPe I HeLpEd~!!
Alwayz XoX, nicole

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