I met a guy who was really nice and we spent like everyday together and just cuddled. Thats wat i had been lookin for for a while so it was great. Im 13 and he was 14 so it was good for meh cuz i like the lil bit older guyz. He was my friendz cuzin and he lived in PA but was visiting. Neways i kinda liked him on and off so it confused us both. I like being with him but his personality wasnt that great so i wasnt sure. When i only kissed him on the cheek and only let him do the same i think it really turned him off so he turned to another one of her friendz and they started goin out. I cryed and cryed and tried to talk to him about it and he was just a jerk. Now even thought he hurt meh and was mean i kinda miss being with him and kinda still like him. Why am i doing this to myself and is it a bad thing? I had pictures of us and i cut it up one day cuz he sayd cumin up was about gettin sumthin but then when i was like so u just used meh he was like umm no i dint say that. If i was gunna use u i wouda gotten sum booty. That stuff just makes meh so mad so i dont no y i bother. Thats y i need u. Plezzz help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? aCciDenTaLlYInLoVee answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:41 am: that was very low of what he did but just remember he wasnt staying for very long - just visiting .. but he did make you believe that you guys were somewhat a "thing" .. and then turned around and went out with another girl because you both only kissed on the cheek and cuddled?? -thats ridiculous - he obviously never truly liked you in the first place .. its sounds to me that he was using you just forget about him - its really that simple - i know it may be hard but try to forget about him and go for guys that will be STAYING in your town and liek you for you no matter what u'll do with them <33 best of luck
Mercy_x_Me answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:12 am: hun, looks like you just need to schedule a date with a box of chocolates and chick flicks all day long. Because this guy is a bit too flaky and probably no good for u. Also talk to your friend, (the one whos cousins with this jerk) and have her help you sort things out. I think the healthiest thing would be to move on, but if its really killing you then get advice from someone who knows him well...
MizAdviceGurl_04 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:04 am: Wow... he seems like a jerk! ne wayz forget about him, he seems like a player guy!! i know tha type. soo ne wayz i have been going thru this 2 sorta and like it sucks cuz us gurls r all sad cuz they mean a lot to us and tha boys dont give a crap. but ne wayz itz normal to feel that way. and u really need 2 move on. that guy isnt good 4 u, u shud have a guy that cares for u and wont ditch u for another gurl!
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