Hey everyone! The names Melissa and I'm just dying to help everyone out.
Sometimes i might be brutally honest but that's what people need!
If you need some help or have a question feel free to send me a message I would be more than happy to help!
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
Occupation: Sales Associate
Age: 21
MSN: missy_meliss@live.com
Member Since: February 18, 2010
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I am dating a guy who is AMAZING! he has a 4 yr old who i love! my problem is that when we have her EVERY WEEKEND he sleeps in her bed with her every night! and when i tell her or ask her to do something he underminds me because its not what she wants!
he says he trys to give her her way bc he only hets her on the weekends... but its making it where im about to GIVE UP and tell him to pack his stuff and hers and get out of my apt!
but i really love him... so idk how to handle all this! (link)
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Okay...He gets to see her 2 days out of the week. You get him every day.
Dont you think your being a bit selfish.
I dont think its appropriate for him to be sleeping in her bed at 4 years old. Shes not a baby, shes old enough to sleep by herself.
But you need to remember that this is not your child, and it is his child. His word is absolute over yours when it comes to her. If you two were married it might be different but as it is right now, your not, and its not your place to boss her around.
If your going to break up with him because he loves his daughter, then your messed up.
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Am I supposed to wipe every time I use the bathroom even though im on my period? (link)
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Yes.
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i reckon she is last night she had sex with her highschool girlfriend and the next morning she had sex with her grandmother lol so there you have it MissyMeliss is gay and inbreeding ha ha ha ha and i would like to spank MissyMeliss with her pants pulled down and her underwear pulled down (link)
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:D Ur dumb
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thats right MissyMeliss im coming to rape you and throw your body in trash and take it off to the dump so it can be eaten up by the garbage destroyers ha ha ha ha ha nice knowing you MissyMeliss (link)
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I bet you would totally like that wouldnt you. Keep sending me these fucked up messages
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My bf is just turned 24 and I really REALLY like him a whole lot, hes so funny. The thing is I told him I had just turned 18 yrs old. That isn't the truth tho. I'm really almost 15. I guess you could say I developed fast and am mature for my age? haha Anyways, he totally believes I'm 18 and I kind of feel bad because my bff just said it's illegal to date when he's so old and he can go to prison for it. He hasnt ever been to jail. idk what do I do? My mom don't know I'm dating even tho. (link)
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He can go to jail. You could potentially be ruining someones life. Not only are you a liar, you have made him into a pedophile. If your family finds out, they could sue him and ruin his life.
Stop talking to him. Break up with him, and if you must, tell him the truth, so he LEAVES you alone.
Very irresponsible on your part
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I'm fifteen,right.and I'm a girl. I can remember ever since I was like seven years old I've found myself attracted to both males and females (bisexual).plus,I'm really embarrassed to say this,but I have a porn addiction problem too,and that's the reason I've been liking girls for most of my life.
First of all,I really want my porn addiction to go away AND I really want to overcome my lesbian urge...BUT HOW?!
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Well firstly, you cant blame porn for your attraction to girls. Thats just how you feel. Porn cant make you feel like that.
You cant overcome, but you can come to terms. Just accept how you feel and move on. If you bisexual, just date guys. Being attracted to someone doesnt mean you need to go after them.
As for the porn, just stop watching it? Dont log on your computer, and you wont have access to it.
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so i turn my boyfriend alot. but he sucks at turning me on he does little things like pull my shirt up with his teeth but im just not feeling it. what are some good and some creative ways to get him to turn me on. also how can i get my boyrfriend to last longer. (link)
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Well first off...pulling up someones shirt with there teeth is just weird. Life is not a porno.
Im not sure how old you are, but some simple things you can do is have him nibble your ear lobe, kiss right around your belly button, (its very sensitive). He can kiss the inside of your thighs, or rub your legs while you two are kissing.
To get in the mood you two can also take turns giving massages, use oil, candles, nice music to set the mood. Its all about ambiance.
It sounds to me like your both a little inexperienced. Him lasting longer is something that comes with practice.
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thats right MissyMeliss you are toast when i get my hands on you im going to kill you and toss your dead carcus off a cliff (link)
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You spelled Carcass wrong. Good Job.
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long! (link)
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You need to ask yourself, why would someone make a facebook group about your personal life. That is a huge breach of trust, and wrong in so many ways. Your not telling everyone your personal life so he has no right to be doing that either. You need to approach him about it, and if that doesnt work then you should leave him. He doesnt respect you.
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If you give head to a guy at a party while your boyfriend is not there does that mean you cheated on your boyfriend? Yeah, the guy was really hot but it's not like we had sex or anything. I didn't even let him finger me! My boyfriend is really pissed and won't talk to me now but I really can't see his reasoning or point of view. I've done this a few times before but I haven't told him about it and regret telling him this time. Do you think giving a blow job is REALLY cheating? I mean, come on...it's like...kissing...sort of...I don't see a problem. (link)
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Yes you cheated.
If he thinks that kissing is cheating, then obviously sucking some guys dick is cheating.
You need to have more self respect for urself, and more respect for your boyfriend.
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What exactly happens if you have sex during your period? Is there a chance you can get pregnant? Also, dont guys thing its gross for having sex while your bleeding? I would like girl and guy replies please(: its urgent. (link)
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My boyfriend doesn't care. I personally feel very self conscious during my period, but he says that it doesn't bother him.
If your afraid of a mess, you can just do it in the shower. Everything just goes down the drain.
If you have sex, you will bleed more. Everything gets all stirred up down there.
You just have to ask your guy how he feels about it. Its all a personal decision.
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MissyMeliss i read the answer to my question was offensive all i wanted was to have that damn topix website to no longer exist but all you said was get over it well guess im going to gut you and throw your body off a cliff (link)
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Well, thats a threat. Reported.
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im fourteen and looking for a job concerning helping out animals. i've tried to volunteer, but every place says the same thing: that i need a parent or legal guardian with me at all times if under 18 yrs., and i know i'm mature enough to work things out myself. i want to earn some money and i love to work with animals, so i would love any advice in that field. do you know anyone who will pay me a little bit for work in an animal field? (: (link)
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Try a farm, you could get paid under the table and perhaps you could take care of the horses, or other live stock?
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somebody named MissyMiliss answered my question called how to hack a website and get it shut down and the answer was offensive so can you please remove her answer (link)
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Lol, you spelled my name wrong its MissYMelisS. And no, my answer is not offensive its the truth. You cannot remove a website just because you dont like it.
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Hi, I'm 19/F.
So, here's some background info that you may need to answer my question...
I lost my virginity in January 2010. When I was having sex with the guy, it burned (because of the stretching and everything and I was really tight because I have only worn a tampon ONCE. EVER. Because as soon as I got on birth control 3-4 years ago I have super light periods if I have them at all...I'm on the Depo Shot).
Anyways, so the first time it obviously burned a little bit. The second time I had sex with the guy it started to feel good right when he came. So that was a bummer I didn't have an orgasm.
So then, about a week later I had one of my guy friends over and we were flirting and he ended up fingering me. It was AMAZING. Like 10 times better than the sex I had the week before. And he was only using one finger! Anyways, so the guy was fingering me and playing with my clit as he was fingering me and I had body tremors and was almost screaming, lol. It was fantastic!
So, back to my point... I love reading erotic novels and I get really wet reading them so I when I got to this one part in this book I started playing with my clit and of course felt amazing and since I have never fingered myself--I decided to try it but I didn't feel anything.. Like it didn't feel bad but it didn't feel good either.
What are some things I can do to get me to orgasm. Since I am kinda tight would you recommend a vibrator? Like I said before, I've only had sex twice with the same guy and he wasn't really that big so yeahhh....
What are some techniques that I can do myself to get me off?
Thanks in advance! :) (link)
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If you liked what your friend was doing, then just do that. It obviously worked for you.
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i have a lot of problems when it comes to shaving by pubic area. my skin is very sensistive and my hair is too dark, so even when i do shave you can still sort of see it under the skin. i want a really smooth bikini area that is flawless. any tips? i have tried everything that has to do with shaving. ive soaked in a bath before shaving, exfoliated, used new razor and shaving cream, and shaved in the direction of my hair. no matter what i do i always get an ingrown hair, or red bumps, or the apperance of hair under the skin. i just want to have a very flawless bikini area. so ladies, what products or techniques do you use to get a nice bikini area?
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Wax it. It lasts longer than any type of shaving. And there wont be any razor burn, or bumps, and you wont get that "five o'clock" shadow effect afterwords. It will lasts for 1-2 weeks as well!
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I mean, to a certain extent I can understand.
I'm talking about average women.
No bikini model shoots to attend, but not like you mistake her for a whale either. Just a totally normal, within her weight range, woman.
-She's has a little bit of tone, but she's definitely not all that active and fit.
-She's soft enough for you to grab a good handful, but she doesn't have cellulite or anything.
Does it completely depend on the guy?
Of course, I know, there's always gonna be the shallow ones who only go for the perfect, "hott" bodies, but what about the rest of us?
Is there any hope for us to be absolutely comfortable with no thoughts of "ugh, he's probably grossed out right now" ?
It keeps me from performing my best in bed. I know I could be so much better if I wanted to, it's just my insecurity with my body that's holding me back from my full potential.
It makes me sad sometimes when I think about it.
I could really use some reassurance.
Especially from men. (link)
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My boyfriend loves what i look like and im not a bikini model. Yes im not obese, and all my friends say that im really pretty. But we all have our insecurities.
Everything i have problems with, he loves. You just need to find someone who you can be completely comfortable with. I know thats hard but believe me it will happen.
20/f
Dont give up!!
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What should i do if a guy that i like a lot smokes weed and asks me out?! :"( (link)
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Say yes?
You've answered your question, you like him. Personally don't believe weed is a dangerous "drug". Its something that more people then you know do it.
Personally, I know parents and grandparents that smoke weed, and I don't live in a "dangerous" city neighborhood.
As you get older your going to realize that more people smoke weed, so, if you like someone, go for it. You dont need to smoke weed, and if you dont want to but he pressures you, thats wrong, but if he just wants to take you out thats not a big deal.
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Ok I keep seeing about it on here and it seems like a lot of people swear by it and others say it isn't true so I want to ask YOU: Does rinsing your hair in cold water make it shiny like they say? Honestly?
If it does is there a special way that you have to do it so that it works right?
Thank you!
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Yes!!
Only, i dont take a cold shower. I take a nice warm shower, and then when im all done i turn the cold water on and rinse my hair for about 30 seconds
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the answer i read to my question was offensive so please delete it (link)
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No
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