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Masturbating but not feeling anything??
Hi, I'm 19/F.
So, here's some background info that you may need to answer my question...
I lost my virginity in January 2010. When I was having sex with the guy, it burned (because of the stretching and everything and I was really tight because I have only worn a tampon ONCE. EVER. Because as soon as I got on birth control 3-4 years ago I have super light periods if I have them at all...I'm on the Depo Shot).
Anyways, so the first time it obviously burned a little bit. The second time I had sex with the guy it started to feel good right when he came. So that was a bummer I didn't have an orgasm.
So then, about a week later I had one of my guy friends over and we were flirting and he ended up fingering me. It was AMAZING. Like 10 times better than the sex I had the week before. And he was only using one finger! Anyways, so the guy was fingering me and playing with my clit as he was fingering me and I had body tremors and was almost screaming, lol. It was fantastic!
So, back to my point... I love reading erotic novels and I get really wet reading them so I when I got to this one part in this book I started playing with my clit and of course felt amazing and since I have never fingered myself--I decided to try it but I didn't feel anything.. Like it didn't feel bad but it didn't feel good either.
What are some things I can do to get me to orgasm. Since I am kinda tight would you recommend a vibrator? Like I said before, I've only had sex twice with the same guy and he wasn't really that big so yeahhh....
What are some techniques that I can do myself to get me off?
Thanks in advance! :)
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Stimulating both the clitoris and the g-spot at the same time usually drives girls crazy, in my experience. It sounds like the guy who fingered you knew just where yours was.
If you want to find your g-spot, make sure your fingers are well lubricated and touch the wall of your vagina with your palm up. It should be a 2-3 inches in, not too deep. But everyone is built differently down there. Experiment until you feel comfortable.
Move your finger(s) like you're telling someone "come here". You should feel a spot that's a little rough and spongy in comparison to the rest of your vagina.
Congrats. That's the g-spot! The holy Grail! Haha. Have fun.
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never use a vibrator because it can cut you and make internal bleeding and in some cases death. What i like to do is use other guys to do the fingering because as you said it felt GOOD GOOD YUMMY YUMMY GOOD.
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If you liked what your friend was doing, then just do that. It obviously worked for you.
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