My name Is Kittzen, i have a fresh personalty and i never get old on you. i enjoy to have fun and i will love to help you with your life. got any questions for me just ask and i will answer. i have no problem being myself and i love to do anything crazzy and wild but always have time to be serious. don't worry I'll do my best to help you and i will never try to let anyone down. think what you want about me but that doesn't always make you right.don't let these pretty pink words fool yaa, i am no girly girl!
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My Girlfriends ex-boyfriend and i got into a fight and i was talking to him trying to say i was sorry, and he had asked her a few days before they broke up if she would have se with him, she said no then broke up with him, but when we were talking he told that she's not a virgin, she's 13 i'm 14, and i asked her about it and she told me that she has had sex before, what should i say, i don't want to break up with her but i didn't expect this (link)
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well the question here is do you love her? if you do you can try to get over it. and just not say anything unless asked than you tell her just what you told me, it wasn't what you were expecting.if she wants more than start spilling your guts and tell her how you really feel about it.
And if you don't love her. you an either dump her or keep her and try to love her. anything you pick you got to know she's going to be herself and you can't change that. she can be nothing more than what she is and you can excepted it or not it's your choice.
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what should i do if my parents get me really mad and start yelling at me for nuttin? my parents think that my lil sister is more respondisble cuz she lies and she gets away wit everything and i tend to cut my uppper arm and that but i dont know wat i should do instead of cutting my upper arm can u tell me wat i should do? (link)
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well there is always what i do and its not cut myself, but i do have my share of scars. try making a list, draw a line down the middle of the page and on one side write negitive and the other side possitive. than write all the effect of your little sister or what ever is botherin you. this can help with almost any sistution. but sometimes you can find that your answer is really not a possitive it can be a negitive and that's what you just found out about yourself. Also you should really try relaxing, try walking outside or just being alone for a while. a hobby can also relive this anger and stress. try a sport or anything that takes your time and you enjoy.
Best luck,
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Okay, well.... I just went to camp two weeks ago and I met this boy named Denver. The whole week I talked to him and he would sit by me. He already has a girlfriend so I thought that he didnt like me. After I came home I stayed in contact with my camp friends by texting and stuff. I found out from my friend that he liked me the whole time but he was afraid to tell me. Well now we text each other like 100 times every day and he always tells me that he loves me. I love him too even though I've only known him for two weeks. I love him more than I have loved anyone before. I would risk my life for him if I had to. He loves me too and I want to be with him. the only problem is that he doesnt live by me at all. We still get to talk all the time but I wish I could see him and be with him in person. What should I do?!?!? (link)
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well i would say that you just have to arange dates, you know times and places where you'll be in the same area. i also have to tell you that you got to be straigh up honest with this guy and tell him that you two need to get together some time soon. i'll bet he'll agree!
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how do i tell a guy i really like him but need to take it slow? (link)
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well first you want to see if he is even intrested in you. than when he askes you out and you start dateing just tell him. it's better to get things out front before you really get serious so like on the first date would be the best time to tell him.
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16/F
Okay, well when I started high school (Freshmen year) there was this guy named, Billy, who I liked. I had him for one class and he sat next to me. Anyways, we really didn't talk like best friends or anything, but we talked like if you were to talk to someone you sat next to. So, Halloween that year me and my friend spent it at his house. You can say that I liked him a lot. But then by second semester, we moved seats. And he really wasn't talking to me anymore. My friend would still talk to him over the phone and stuff. But me and him never talked after that. We would see each other in the halls and we would just look at each other. Towards the end of the year, I found out that he got into drugs. Sophomore year, I didn't have any classes with him. But I still was hearing we was doing drugs. By then, my friend stopped talking to him. But she talked to him on the phone and he told her that no one cared about him. And that it was better off if he died. Even though I haven't talked to him in a year, I still really like him. And I want to help him. But I am scared of being let down. Anyways; second semester, one of my classes was next doors to his. And I will always see him walking with his friend. And I would get jealous because he would have his arm around her. And I know that she really doesn't care about him. Because she does drugs too. Well, I am starting junior year next year. And I really want to forget this silly crush. Because I can't be with anyone, because all I ever think about is being with him. Even though I know it's never going to happen. But there's just something about him that I just can't forget and let go of. I want to know what can I do to forget him? And is there anyway I can help him without actually talking to him?
Thanks in advance. (link)
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hey, listen there is a way to help him without talking to him, find out who is one of close friends who cares about him and dosn't do drugs. than gather all of his friends, parents, family and such to one location. make sur he is there than let everone tell that what he's doing is going to distroy his life and all that. and also make sur they tell him taht they do care and stuff. you can also leave him secert admirer notes to let him know that there is someone out there that also cares as well. don't let him continue his life like this cause of all people i know what it's like on the family, children, you can say i have front hand experience on this one. and envently you will have to talk to him, you know get over your fears and such.
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So, my boyfriend wants to finger me but i'm afraid.. I mean I want to!.. but i'm scared it's going to hurt, i've never been fingered before, or fingered myself or wear tampons... is this going to hurt????!
please help /: (link)
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you could build yourself up to it, start wearing tampons and practicing on yourself. than you'll know what to expect. plus if your not a virgin than it won't hurt so you won't need to anything about it.
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My husband and I purchased a cabin in the mountains four years ago. Along with that, we purchased two ATVs (four-wheelers) to ride the thousands of acres of mountain trails adjacent to our cabin property.
We love to have our children and grandchildren visit and have an open door policy where they're concerned.
Recently, my married daughter asked me, in front of her husband, if we would be willing to let them use the cabin for use with her husband's family. We told her we would have to think about it. We discussed it briefly with them and never gave them an answer.
My husband and I had already talked about this situation because we knew it would come up. I had expressed to my daughter shortly after we purchased the cabin that this was a "family only" cabin and was not open to in-laws. My daughter told me at that time that she understood. I feel like she was put up to asking me by her husband.
My husband and I feel strongly that we don't want my daughter's in-laws, or any other in-laws for that matter, accessing our cabin. Our cabin is as personal as our home, and I wouldn't lend out the use of my home to just anyone.
Also, I'm worried about the liability issue concerning the use of our four-wheelers and also who would be responsible if they damaged them.
I also feel like if we open up the cabin to this set of in-laws, our other children would assume that they would be entitled to bring their in-laws and friends to the cabin, which rightfully so they should.
Am I being too possessive of "my cabin"? I don't want to alienate my son-in-law, but, again, I don't feel I have any obligation to provide his family with a weekend retreat. I'm afraid if we allow it "just this once" that it will become expected that they can use it any time.
Please advise. Thanks
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well i would say that you have already commited yourself to this property and you should stick to your commitment. you told your daughter no some time ago, but tell her it will be okay it both families got together with you present. this will make you feel better and your not hurting anyone's feelings by doing this. Everyone wins!
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I can't remember the word, but it's a term learned in psychology. I'll try to explain it as best I can.. It's when something from the past makes it harder to learn new things.
For example, say a person played tennis their whole life, then picked up volleyball. They are used to serving the ball the "tennis" way, which makes it harder to serve a volleyball the "volleyball" way.
Thank you sooo much if you know what it is! (link)
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Normal age-related changes in the brain can slow some cognitive processes, making it a bit harder to learn new things quickly or to ward off distractions.
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14/female.
Okay, so I've been dating my girlfriend for two months now (going on 3) and I really love her to death. But there's this guy that I really like, and I've known longer than her. He know's I have a girlfriend, but we result in fooling around all the time. I don't know what to do. It feels wrong, but he's so caring. She's so sweet and wild. I don't know what to do about this, or who to be with. Not to mention, the other night, I was having some problems, and he sweetly walked me through getting over it. Then I slipped up, and said I love you to him. I felt horrible after, and cried for an hour. So can anyone help me out with what I'm going through? Anyone with the same case? It'd be nice to know I'm not alone. (link)
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hey, i have a friend that is just like you and i walked her through this countless times. Wow tuff one, ummm.... if i were you i would go on a date with each of them and see who i like to spend my time with more. also i would see on this date witch of them i could see myself with down the road. i would pick the one that I could tell my secrets to and they would never get mad at me for what I tell them. you would want the one that fit your life better, you know personal and junk.
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I have a huge problem. Once I got a cut, and the blood looked so good... And it tasted good too. Really good. It was delicious. I have no idea what to believe. And I don't like sunlight either. I like to stay up all night and sleep all day. And now I'm kind of freaked out. So can you help me out?
PS there were bats in the attic (where I live) that were trying really hard to get me. (link)
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Why Did you ask me to answer this?!!!
Well let me see, i like to sleep in the day time too, and i am a night hawk, so there is nothing to unnatural there.for the blood thing mine taste pretty good, just don't bite me, cause i bite back! and you'll know when your a vampire when your teeth get really long and vampireish. you don't like sun light, and the bats i think you need to stop watching so many horror movies and use sunblock!
this is kittzen's friend talking now..
I love to stay up late too end I sleep in the day all the time! Some of my friends like the taste of blood but I personally don't like it.
that's all i have for you!! oh, and my cell phone number is 243 8021 if you need anymore help or you just want to talk. but dont call me..only text first because if you call i wont know who it is so i wont pick it up.
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So i was hanging out with my ex, but i didn't want my mom to know i was with him because she gets weird about him and crap so i told her i was at my friends house. We were laying down and he accidently leaned onto my phone. It atarted calling my house and we had no idea. My mom answered as my ex talked about doing physical stuff with me and stuff. We didn't figure it out till 59 seconds into the phone call when i quickly picked it up and hung it up. She called back immediately and was like "WHERE ARE YOU? I heard a boy saying nasty things to you"
when i got home i told her it was just my friends joking around but she doesn't beleive me. she was liek "i know it was him"
what do i do!??!? if i admit it was him she wont let him in the house (link)
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tell her your friend had like a little get together and well, it got down right nasty. tell her the guy was totally buzzed and all. and you were sitting on the couch and your friends were like what? when he said those things. and tell her you got out of there real fast! it was just you know this one girl ask you if you could take her home so thats why you didn't get home that fast and all. if you are younger than sixteen than well tell her your friends wouldn't let you leave. and also tell her he like leaned on you and the phone went off and called her then when you figure it out he hung up on her and you ran.
but if you want respect and all that good stuff tell the truth. she will get over it and trust you even more.
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so...i like this boy..and argh...he goes to church...but this time..it's different..so we went camping together and it was great! we got a bit tighter as friends..yet there are times when he looks at me and i catch him glancing...yet we say were both bro and sis like yet why does he give the sense of the fact that he likes me?
and my friend from church..i asked her what she thought and she said if anything she thinks the boy likes me if anything a little at least.
WHAT DO I DO TO MAKE HIM LIKE ME..or like me more..or get the straight out answer if he does like me
and i'm really scared to confess because our friendship is so important to me. (link)
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i think you should make sure that he likes you before you go all out and go after him. try asking his friend if he talks about you or even likes you. you can flirt with him sometimes but dont make it too obvoius just in case he doesn't like you like that. but if he does like you like that than you should ask him out and if he says he's not ready to just go out with you alone, you can tell him to bring some friends.
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So there is this girl who i have been flirting with since last year. We don't really like each other enough to start dating, but she says she is open to being friends with benefits. The things the she says she would do with me are inappropriate for this page cuz i wanna keep it G rated. We don't always talk though and right now i feel like she is once again sending me mixed signals. I am not sure if i should end it with her because she changes her mind so often about me or whether i should wait it out.
what do you think? (link)
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i think you should wait it out, see if this girl wants to become more than just friends with benifits. dont end it with her yet because you wouldnt want to screw up a good relashionship. she might just be afraid to make a commitment. ask her periodically if she wants to be more and if she hasnt said yes by like a month or so then end it and find someone who would like to be in a relashionship with you.
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13/f
i like this guy, lets call him S.
Next month i will be a freshman, but it is not intill late next month intill i get to see him.
about 3 weeks ago his gf broke up with him. So i have not flirted as much as i wanted too becuase i figured that he would like so time to think. But now i want to step up and i would like it if he was interested in me.... but i dont know for sure if he is or not... we talk by myspace. Is there anything that i can say to hint that i like him? or that he can hint to me?
i want to know if he likes me, but i am to shy to ask... HELP PLEASE. (link)
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deffently exchange phone numbers. then you can talk to him and really get to know him. joke with him alot and ask him if he would like to get together with a couple of friends and go to the movies or maybe the mall or something. watch careful on what he says and than think about it. see if there is a hidden meaning to what he says. he might like you but he could be afraid that you dont like him back. he might just be a little embarresed. you could also get a his friend to see if he likes you nonchalantly.
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I seriously think I have a Yeast Infection. I'm 14, female of course. I looked up symtoms, and like I have like a lot of discharge and it smells like wine kind of? Its really weird. And it itches, not bad, but like a little bit for like a couple minuets then it goes away. I'm so scared to tell my mom. And like, I don't know. I don't really want to go to a doctor and have them "look" at it. Are there health risks to getting Vagasill and stuff? Ugh, I don't know what to do. It just itches sometimes, theres pretty fair amount of discharge, and it smells kind of strong. (link)
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what really good for a yeast infection is just to eat yogurt. see if that helps.
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hi so my mum saw some girls clothes in my room and thinks i have been wareing them (i have not worn them they are my gf's she left here) what do i do or say to my mum
Thanks People (link)
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hey boy,
listen i think you should tell your mom the truth and say that your gf left them there and your not gay. also this may leave to why her cloths are in your room. so be prepared to awnster so other questions as well.
Kittzen
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ok the song tim mcgraw the one by taylor swift what tim mcgraw song is she talking about?
much thx. :] (link)
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hey tim,
no taylor is talking about he boyfriend jon. his favorite song is wrriting by tim. so when she say when you think brinty spears that song i love you better think of me. watch the video on it it says when she puts the letter in the door it says JOn on it.it in the door
Kittzen
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one time in school i had to hold my boyfriends hand and i did when my friends were around and my face turned red! but i didn't feel embarressed and usually when i do, i feel my face turn red, and i start getting hot. and i get a red face even when im supossed to present a project in school, but sometimes my face doesn't get red! and i like that better. So maybe if someone knows a way that i can not make my face turn red when im with my boyfriend and infront of the class?!?! i would appreciate that! (link)
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Hey red,
this is what you go to do, you have to practice your reports in the mirrior or infrount of your family so you feel comfortable with them.
for the boyfriend i say your getting red because you like him and your getting hot because your blushing. what you have to do is simply practice with him to try not to get all controllably smiles. and just enjoy enjoy your self around him i relize that you may already do this but it does help it your comfortable. like knowing everybodies watching you and your okay with that and your probably worring that your going to embarres your self around him when you comfortamle have practice and arn't worring about embarring yourself you should see a major come down in your red face.
Kittzen
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my girlfriend broke up with me almost 2 weeks ago and we spent every day together. I got attached really easily and quick to fall for her. She went out of town then dumped me because of a complicated situation with her parents. I'm stuck, she's moving on but still kisses me and flirts a lot. I feel like were half ass dating. I just need to figure out whats going on I know that much. I worry myself all the time. I do have extreme OCD and it's hard to take my mind off things. I am about to go back on medicine possibly and I really hope it'll help. She is also my best friend and its hard losing that half of her in my life. She is hanging out with this guy on monday with her friend and she says she may do somethings with him and he has been to jail 3 times and is homeless and 20 years old almost but living with kids around 17. I'm 16 and I don't even know what to do.
another problem is tomorrow one of our best friends is playing a show at this place downtown and she is trying to get that guy to come with her and I just can't stand to see that. I'm not ready..I don't know how to do this. (link)
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Hey broken,
i know brake up are hard and things arn't always that easy, but since you have really good and strong feeling for her also she your friend and you don't want to see her get hurt my best advice to you is tell her how you feel at that show. pull her away at the begging so you have time to let her think about it. also tell her what she doing is stupid and she just useing this guy or what ever you belive she's doing with him.
i do say that it has to be done at the begging so she can think about what you said and other things like that. make sure you do not sit beside her when you tell her this sit people awy but still be in eye's veiw so she can look at you and think about what you said.
i don't know how she will respond to this all girls do it differently but the main thing is getting your feeling accrossed to her so you can let her go in the long run.
hope you see your friend safe and in your arms,
KIttzen
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I am considering ending a relationship
with a friend of almost 10 years, because I'm worried he may have an
incurable mental disorder. "Friend" is misleading, as our
relationship has been semi-sexual and... not very friendly. He seems
to be completely self-absorbed, emotionally retarded (not displaying
emotions), lacking remorse and empathy, incapable of intimacy in any
real form. Ex: He occasionally calls me late at night with grandiose
professions of love, but will claim the exact opposite the next day.
He instigates explicit sexual conversations, but cannot handle
physical contact with me except on very rare occasions (sexual
encounters in which he had to exercise complete dominance and control;
also he refuses to have intercourse). He regularly makes plans with
me that he has no intention of keeping. I stumbled across an article
about psychopathy, and he seems to fit all of the non-criminal
descriptions perfectly, with one major exception: sociopaths are
supposed to be free from anxiety, something he experiences in excess.
He is an artist and lives alone, and claims he has many friends, is
very intelligent and charming, and is generally functional. Do you
think this is an amalgamate of several disorders? What kind of
treatment is available for them? I admit I have strong romantic feelings for this man, is there something wrong with me? He and I are 26 and 24, respectively. (link)
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well let me say this and this now somethimes artist are hard to understand and it's not because there crazy it's because there minds in another place slowing make it easy for them to sit down and do their art, so that make be what your experencing. i won't tell you that you should end your relatiosonship with this man on;t just talk to him and see what he has to say and ask him if he has any problems with you or problems with his life. and than tell him of your medical condition and ask him if he has an medical when you get the list and it may not have anything to do with what you though it was than ask him your question but beprepared for him to get uset and mad cause with these kind of question they are normaly taken badly.
or so no one gets hurt you can leave the pappers in his mail box every day and by his door make sure he dosn't see you than when he says some person been leaving theses wird papers by my door with this stuff on them you can ask if he does have that problem and await your awnster.
you know you better have faith that it's the art thing and not the problem thing,
Kittzen
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