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my girlfriend broke up with me almost 2 weeks ago and we spent every day together. I got attached really easily and quick to fall for her. She went out of town then dumped me because of a complicated situation with her parents. I'm stuck, she's moving on but still kisses me and flirts a lot. I feel like were half ass dating. I just need to figure out whats going on I know that much. I worry myself all the time. I do have extreme OCD and it's hard to take my mind off things. I am about to go back on medicine possibly and I really hope it'll help. She is also my best friend and its hard losing that half of her in my life. She is hanging out with this guy on monday with her friend and she says she may do somethings with him and he has been to jail 3 times and is homeless and 20 years old almost but living with kids around 17. I'm 16 and I don't even know what to do.
another problem is tomorrow one of our best friends is playing a show at this place downtown and she is trying to get that guy to come with her and I just can't stand to see that. I'm not ready..I don't know how to do this.
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I don't know if telling her how you feel and that this 20 yr old guy is bad news will solve anything. It might cause her to resent you. But maybe not. It depends on whether your dating relationship or your friendship is stronger. You could just try and talk to her about her feelings for this other guy casually. If she dumped you because of a situation with her parents, I imagine it would be much worse if her parents knew about this other guy though. If she does choose to date this guy, continue to remain her friend, and don't bring the other guy up. Don't talk about him at all. Then, when she dumps him, you could try to get her back. In the mean time, become friends with other girls.
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Hey broken,
i know brake up are hard and things arn't always that easy, but since you have really good and strong feeling for her also she your friend and you don't want to see her get hurt my best advice to you is tell her how you feel at that show. pull her away at the begging so you have time to let her think about it. also tell her what she doing is stupid and she just useing this guy or what ever you belive she's doing with him.
i do say that it has to be done at the begging so she can think about what you said and other things like that. make sure you do not sit beside her when you tell her this sit people awy but still be in eye's veiw so she can look at you and think about what you said.
i don't know how she will respond to this all girls do it differently but the main thing is getting your feeling accrossed to her so you can let her go in the long run.
hope you see your friend safe and in your arms,
KIttzen
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