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boy problems
16/F
Okay, well when I started high school (Freshmen year) there was this guy named, Billy, who I liked. I had him for one class and he sat next to me. Anyways, we really didn't talk like best friends or anything, but we talked like if you were to talk to someone you sat next to. So, Halloween that year me and my friend spent it at his house. You can say that I liked him a lot. But then by second semester, we moved seats. And he really wasn't talking to me anymore. My friend would still talk to him over the phone and stuff. But me and him never talked after that. We would see each other in the halls and we would just look at each other. Towards the end of the year, I found out that he got into drugs. Sophomore year, I didn't have any classes with him. But I still was hearing we was doing drugs. By then, my friend stopped talking to him. But she talked to him on the phone and he told her that no one cared about him. And that it was better off if he died. Even though I haven't talked to him in a year, I still really like him. And I want to help him. But I am scared of being let down. Anyways; second semester, one of my classes was next doors to his. And I will always see him walking with his friend. And I would get jealous because he would have his arm around her. And I know that she really doesn't care about him. Because she does drugs too. Well, I am starting junior year next year. And I really want to forget this silly crush. Because I can't be with anyone, because all I ever think about is being with him. Even though I know it's never going to happen. But there's just something about him that I just can't forget and let go of. I want to know what can I do to forget him? And is there anyway I can help him without actually talking to him?
Thanks in advance.
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hey, listen there is a way to help him without talking to him, find out who is one of close friends who cares about him and dosn't do drugs. than gather all of his friends, parents, family and such to one location. make sur he is there than let everone tell that what he's doing is going to distroy his life and all that. and also make sur they tell him taht they do care and stuff. you can also leave him secert admirer notes to let him know that there is someone out there that also cares as well. don't let him continue his life like this cause of all people i know what it's like on the family, children, you can say i have front hand experience on this one. and envently you will have to talk to him, you know get over your fears and such.
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You can't do anything. I think your feelings for him stems more from a maternal feeling of wanting to save him than from anything else. Just because the other girl does drugs, doesn't mean she doesn't love him. Drug addicts are capable of love just like everyone else. I think this is more complicated than just a simple crush. You want to help someone, and you can't help them. It's hard to watch someone suffer and be unable to do anything about it. You just have to let it go.
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