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Sex already?
My Girlfriends ex-boyfriend and i got into a fight and i was talking to him trying to say i was sorry, and he had asked her a few days before they broke up if she would have se with him, she said no then broke up with him, but when we were talking he told that she's not a virgin, she's 13 i'm 14, and i asked her about it and she told me that she has had sex before, what should i say, i don't want to break up with her but i didn't expect this
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well the question here is do you love her? if you do you can try to get over it. and just not say anything unless asked than you tell her just what you told me, it wasn't what you were expecting.if she wants more than start spilling your guts and tell her how you really feel about it.
And if you don't love her. you an either dump her or keep her and try to love her. anything you pick you got to know she's going to be herself and you can't change that. she can be nothing more than what she is and you can excepted it or not it's your choice.
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Why should you break up with her just because she's not a virgin? It's a stupid reason to break up with someone. If I had to take a guess, I would guess that she had sex once and it was a bad experience. As a consequence, she probably doesn't want to have sex again, because she's afraid of another bad experience. Maybe she was raped, or maybe she was pressured into it, and didn't enjoy it at all. She also probably thinks that if people knew she isn't a virgin, they will think they can just have sex with her, and that obviously isn't the case. You need to try and be understanding of her feelings. If she doesn't want to have sex, respect her feelings and don't have sex with her or ask her to have sex with you. You can ask her about it, but if she doesn't want to talk about it, just respect her feelings.
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