So there is this girl who i have been flirting with since last year. We don't really like each other enough to start dating, but she says she is open to being friends with benefits. The things the she says she would do with me are inappropriate for this page cuz i wanna keep it G rated. We don't always talk though and right now i feel like she is once again sending me mixed signals. I am not sure if i should end it with her because she changes her mind so often about me or whether i should wait it out.
what do you think?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? laynemayhem answered Sunday July 6 2008, 10:21 pm: friends with benefits is just stupid. you're going to have sex with a [friend]?? tell her you either wanna go out for real, or just stay friends. JUST friends. nothing above "G-rated". unless, you just wanna keep doing what your doing. but if i were you, id just end it. waiting takes too long, and the signals are too mixed. she sounds like a slut and a bitch. you deserve someone a lot better, and you know it. try to find someone else. you'll be happy you did.
Kittzen answered Sunday July 6 2008, 8:35 pm: i think you should wait it out, see if this girl wants to become more than just friends with benifits. dont end it with her yet because you wouldnt want to screw up a good relashionship. she might just be afraid to make a commitment. ask her periodically if she wants to be more and if she hasnt said yes by like a month or so then end it and find someone who would like to be in a relashionship with you. [ Kittzen's advice column | Ask Kittzen A Question ]
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