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Q: you know for a heart you just type in ♥
but whats the code for big letters?

type this w/ ith out the spaces

< b i g > text < / b i g >

or

< f o n t s i z e = number > text < / f o n t>

(theres one space between font and size)

Q: whats that song that goes like, "secret love" or something on that commercial, i think its a sprint commercial where you can have a top 5 and one of the guys asks "why is my girlfriend in your top 5?" and then the phone rings and its her and that song comes on. well i'm trying to download that song. if you know the name of the son can u tell me. or if you know if the commercial is even sprint or not.
thanks for any info.

its called secret lovers

Q: 14/f

is it okay for a 17 year old guy (just turned 17) and a 14 (turning 15 soon) year old girl to go out?

i dont want to get him in trouble

yea thats fine.
im 14 and my boyfriend is turning 17 on july 22 and i wont be 15 til october.
the only way it comes to an issue, is when he turns 18. but of your 16 while hes 18, then itll be perfectly fine. because thats not illegal

Q: I was at a pool party with my whole grade & this kid got a boner, why do you think he got it, was it for no reason, or do you think he got a little "excited" with all the girls in their bathing suits. haha this is kinda a stupid question but i was wondering :D.

lol it was probably because he could be one of those guys with a wild imagination, and had a little fantasy about one of the girls. haha

Q: My mom and i have not gotten to this topic yet.. so i was wondering.. why do guys get boners?

guys get hard because they are either turned on and horny OR it could be a narb ( no reason boner) like they just sping up randomly.
what happens is blood rushes to the penis and the pressure in it causes it to rise and become harder.

Q: hey! my name is marissa and i'm 15. i live in michigan. i love to shop, especailly with my BFFs Theresa and Katie. Its so much funn! I love stores like abercombie, hollister, american eagle, forever 21, and hot topic. My mom recently got married. My step-dad, Greg, is such an ass! Before him, my mom would just give me her credit card and I could go to the mall and spend as much as I'd want. Now I have a ton of step-siblings, Timmy, Marie, Amanda, Megan, Michael, Mikayla, Paul, and Danielle. They all live with us. Now, I only get $200 each time i go to the mall! My parents say finances are tighter now that there's more of us! i can't stand it! i wanna just cutt myself!! I dont wanna live anymore! Greg is constantly cheating on my mom and she knows this, and shes ok with it! shes an alcoholic. my dad lives next door. hes married to some guy named Tj, and they have kids: kaity, taylor, michelle, erin, shawn. i have a boyfriend. he means the world to me. i have 2, actually. i lvoe them both the smae. arthur, is 19. hes not in college, so thats not a problem. he works at walgreens, so its not a problem to get condems and stuff. my worry is: is his penis a normal size? my period is irregular. im supposed to get it the first. sometimes, i get it the 31, 2 or sometimes the 30! im so worried. my other boyfriend live in connecticut. help pleaseeeee?!

first off, dont cut yourself because you only get $200, most teens your age have to make their own money, and even then can only spend like $10, feel lucky.
let your mom do what she wants, she's teh parent and therefore probably wont take anything you say seriously. most parents dont.
why do you have two boyfrieds? if your complaining that this greg guy is cheating on your mom, your being incredibly hypocritical. YOUR cheating on both your boyfriends too!
and your too young to have sex. sorry to say, your 15..hes 19!
thats illegal!
he can get arrested for sexual abuse on a minor, even if you chose not to press charges the police can still arrest him. then hed have to register as a sex offender everytime he moved and he would have a limited selection of jobs he could get, because pf his past. if you love him you wouldnt put him through that.
and whats the point of dating a guy in conecticut if you live in michigan? long distance relationships dont work out too well for most people.

i personally think your incredibly spoiled. the fact that you complain about only getting $200 is really really disgusting.
but thats my opinoin. idc if you rate me badly. its time to face reality.

Q: 13/f
my bf and i have been going out for over a year. during the school year we're both really busy, so we only see each other at lunch and on the weekends. but now that summer is here, we can see each other all the time (he lives on my street). the problem is, we can never agree on anything to do. he never wants to do anything i suggest (swimming, bike rides, bowling, etc). all he wants to do is hang with his friends and do stupid guy stuff, and he always wants me to sit there and watch them blow things up, do crazy stunts or play video games. i want to be with him, but its soooo boring! and whenever we're alone together, all he wants to do is make out, which i don't *always* feel like doing. so we've been getting in fights because we're bored and we can't find anything we both like doing. i dont want us to get bored of each other or fight all the time... so what can i do to keep things exciting?

well, h eobviously likes video games right? challenge him to a few. im sure hell love that, and if you win, hell probably be impressed.

and tell him you want to do other stuff than makeout. that he needs to make sacrifices for your relationship too. and that once he tried something, hell probably have fun and let him invite his guy friends. so they can do theyre dumb stunts while you swim if they get bored of just floating around =]

hope i helped. good luck.

Q: ok me and my gf have been fighting alot and we are soo close we have gone out for a year and 3 months. and i really love her and i am scared i am going to lose my baby! i need help!

just so you know, 1 day ago, a girl asked for advice on her and her bf are arguing alot and theyve been dating for 1 year and 3 months.
so i think she might be your gf?
just bringing that to your attention.

but anyways. ask her about it. be like i dont want to fight anymore. i love you, and i dont want to loose you over dumb arguments.
short and simple. and im sure shell be glad to hear you feel that way, and that your opening up to her. express how you feel. make her know you trust her and that she can trust you.

Q: well what does it mean when people say they are into bonding now...or bondaging? i know it means something sexual..it it like going down on someone and all that good stuff?? lol

its means like kinky stuff.
such as whips, and handcuffs and tying people up.

Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for like a year and 3 months, and I really love him, but lately we have been arguing a lot! and it's not like once a week it is probably everyday. and it is over little tiny stuff. and i just dont know what to do anymore. do you have any suggestions? I know it is a kinda stupid question i would just like somebody else's opinion.

thanks. :)

hmm, arguing is healthy ocassionally, but not everyday like that. i would suggest to bring it up, but that may start another argument..
i think, he may be insecure about himself, or maybe he fears you leaving him, and is trying to test the waters with arguing to see how far youll bend.
or
sad to say, he may not feel the same way about you anymore and could be pushing you away, because he doesnt want to hurt you. because he still cares about you, but doesnt love you that way any longer.
or
you might just be discovering new pet peeves about eachother. and youll work it out soon. =]

i sure hope i helped. i know how it feels to be in that kind of situation.

Q: Okay, so I know everyone asks tips on how to lose weight, and I'm sorry, but I am another one.

In three weeks, I am going to live at a beach for about a month. I would really like to be confortable with my body in a bathing suit.

I am not like obsese. I am about 5'4, probally a little less. I have fat thighs, and a not flat/kinda chubby stomach/hip area, everything else I'm okay with.

So please, just tips on more things I could do [I don't have access to a gym] Would just running/eating right be enough? but then how often/for how long should I run? Also how could I motivate myself?

you should eat a total of 1200-1500 calories a day, and do cardio (running, swimming, etc) for 1-3 hours a day.
that should get you in shape, and if not, at least tone you up.
motivate youself with how much you want to look good in that bathingsuit. hang it on your wall, or somewhere youll see it everyday. =D

Q: ok well i used to go out with this guy sean. I went out with him for about a year, and we were always off and on, maybe bc we lived so far apart and we didnt get to see eachother that often. Soon after we broke up, i started to see a kid named brennon. ( i went out with him too wen i was off and on with sean ) he was ok. Sean was better. So me and sean havent talked in 2 years and now he suddenly texts me and wants to get bak together and so does brennon. But for all this time ive been crushingg on brennon... what should i do ?

well, you go out with who you like. who is obviously brennon. so tell sean no, and that he had his chance. and just stick with brennon.

Q: "Don't like to feel distanced or outofplace.
Sometimes, things end because of indifference.
Serendipity. "

does anyone know what it means? thanky you

it means whoever is saying this, doesnt like to feel alone, or different, because he/she thinks that things end because people have different beliefs discovered accidently

such as relationships and jobs and stuff.

thats i what i inturpreted it as, it could be something different

Q: Ok so some chick stole my gf's ipod. now are vice principal says if she can tell us the serial number, he can get it back, but the probleam is we're not sure how, we searched apple.. com but couldnt find anything. does anyone know a way to get the serial number if you don't actually have the ipod with you

you could look on the itunes or on the box the ipod came in

Q: hey,
i was wondering if you guys knew any sites that have good quotes/sayings about love, being in love and crushing on someone... for example something like if oyu cant get someone out of your head, maybe their suppose to be there.
Also if you guys could find any other quotes sties with quotes like cinderella is proof that a pair of soes could change your life!...
oh and any with icons/ pics would be great also!!
thank you sooo much in advance!!

eh, i made one up myself. idk why though

its

"its harder to love than to hate, but life's too predictable to take the easy way out."

i thought of that a couple days ago.
if thats the kinda thinng your looking for.

Q: heeyy guyss,
would any of you reccomend any good books?
i like mostly teen fiction.

i read "looking for alaska" by john green.
and it was the most amazing book ive ever read in my life.
idk why.
but its a real page turner, i definalty recomend it, and anything else by that author.

Q: I'm not talking about in age but like their bodies. I'm short and little. I'm smaller then most girls my age. do guys like tall bigger girls or the ones who are short and little?

all guys have different preferences. some want a girl they can wrestle around with, some want one they can hold.
depending on how a guy wants to treat a girl, and what he finds attractive, shows his preference on size and shape.

Q: i'm not sure why, but i just so happen to be a girl that moans and breaths heavy a ton during anything sexual with my boyfriend... should i try to contain myself, or do you think my boyfriend enjoys it?

he probably likes it, it gives him confidence that hes doing a good job =]

Q: i know it sounds stupid but how do u jack off for a guy. do u do it like really fast and then stop or slow?

move up and down at various speeds with a firm grip. if you do it all fast, or all slow, he may get bored, or used to the same movement, so it wont excite him.
have fun with that haha

Q: my friend wants to know if she is overweight
she is about 5'8 5'9 and 173 pounds
is she overweight?

yes, but only slightly.
her BMI (body mass index) is 25.5
the highest desired BMI you would want is a 24.9
and she is about 11 pounds over that standard.