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my relationship is screwd
ok me and my gf have been fighting alot and we are soo close we have gone out for a year and 3 months. and i really love her and i am scared i am going to lose my baby! i need help!
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Well, what you should do is sit down with her and talk 2 her,ask her whats on her mind every time you 2 start a fight.
You should always try to catch her reactions when she is having a bad day or a good day.You should always say she is beautiful not pretty..
You should ask her what she thinks of you and ask her what you are doing wrong.But, if she thinks she is doing something wrong then you should tell her what she is doing wrong.
Never lie to her otherwise it will make it worse!
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just so you know, 1 day ago, a girl asked for advice on her and her bf are arguing alot and theyve been dating for 1 year and 3 months.
so i think she might be your gf?
just bringing that to your attention.
but anyways. ask her about it. be like i dont want to fight anymore. i love you, and i dont want to loose you over dumb arguments.
short and simple. and im sure shell be glad to hear you feel that way, and that your opening up to her. express how you feel. make her know you trust her and that she can trust you.
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Ok whatever the problems are that are between you...write it down on a paper...put a list of what she needs to change about herself and tell her to do the same.Exchange papers and discuss it.Because beilive it or not,its easier to write it down,cuz when your confronting someone you love face to face you can mess up easily.Whatever youve done to hurt her,stop doing it so you dont ruin your relationship,for the babys sake too.
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Ok, well there is not enough information here. How can we help you? I would say that you guys are probably fighting about stupid petty things....and maybe you both need some space.
Here is the bottom line.....
choose your battles. It takes two to argue, so just refuse to argue no matter what the issue is. It's not worth it, especially if you two break up. YOu said so yourself. Simply refuse to be drawn in. It would even help greatly if on occasion, you even said: You're right Honey!"
And maybe you gF will follow your lead and choose not to argue also. Life's too short anyway. So why spend it arguing.
Michele
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