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did anyone ever read 'peaches' by jodi lynn anderson? i can't figure out the theme of this book for the life of me! it is driving me insane! could someone please respond and tell me a little about the theme, so i could understand it better? thank you very much =]

ps. i know this has NOTHING to do with sex, but i figured that people would probably go to the sex category first, and this way my question would get answered =] haha but yeah, thanks in advance

I haven't read this book so I can't really answer it, but you can look it up on Google and I'm sure they have lots of pages =)

♥ Kendall

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okay. i have this horrible rep. as the "Rich Spoiled Popular Bytch"! and it sucks. yeah i have money,& girls prob. wish they had what i have but im at a new school and i have only been there for about a month. since im 16 i drive to school. but everyone stares bc of my car. also everyone trys to be my friends just to see my house. i cant hide it bc i have already tried. and all my frieds have a lot of money too. i just dont like the rep i have for only being here for 1 month! please help me! i neeeeeed to loseeeeee this rep!

xox..
merzz

Talk to your friends and let them see your house, once they get used to it, it will not be such a big deal. Make new friends and don't go overly obbsessive with telling them. Good Luck!!! ♥ Kendall

PS: also, try to find a guy that is popular. It will help you loose the rich girl thing because if you don't act that way around him, then he will tell people that you really arn't, and then the reputation will be gone =)

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How do you get a guys (that you like) email? without being to obvious that you like him. Oh and i work with this guy. Thanx in advance

Talk to him and work and tell him that you want to send him this thing in email becuase it's funny. You can go to www.google.com and find a funny video and send it to him. That way, you will get his email, and make him laugh. After you have his email and you send the video or picture or w/e, you can email him for real and start a relationship.♥ Kendall

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okay well tomorrow i want to wear this long jean skirt. its not super long but it goes a little bit past my knees. and its like body fitted.. i dont know if thats the right way to say it.. like its thight not flary. but anyways i dont know what shirt to wear with it? like i know a polo would look stupid & i dont know bout a real fancy top? what would look good with that? thanks in advice

Sorry that it is already tomorrow and that you asked this question yesterday. But, if you haven't gotten dressed yet, lol, then you could wear not a fancy top, but a dark green, blue, or red sweater. If it's too hot for that, wear just a plain colored shirt with a cute jacket over top.

♥ Kendall

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Okay. So, i just broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago, it was a relationship that lasted about a week that i was pretty much forced into. After the third or fourth day this other kid that i've had a crush on for the longest time and that i'm friends with finally has started to notice me, we hug a lot during school and i film him skateboarding after school.
My ex although, once i told him i was interested in someone else, flipped out and told me to promise him i wouldn't give up on the relationship.
I never saw my ex and only talked to him through text messages and IM, this other kid calls ME, and it's great because we talk about the GREATEST things.

My ex is jealous and i'm not sure what to tell him to make him feel better. He was a good friend of mine before we went out and i care about him a lot and i'm still not completley over him. what should i do?
This other kid seems interested...right?

Yes, the other kid is interested, and I would rather go for him. He calls you, and he seems more like boyfriend material. Your ex boyfriend is jealous, and that is not a good quality in a boyfriend. Show that you are interested in the other kid and flirt with him like when you tape him skateboarding after school. When and if he asks you out, say yes, and tell your ex that you are going out with him. You need to completely get over your ex. goood luck

♥ Kendall

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Okay. So, over this school year i've gained some weight. I'm still thin, i know that. Not to sound conceded but I want to lose some of the chub around my stomach before summer and i have to go into the pools with my bathing suit.
There's this kid I like and we've already made plans to swim in his pool and hang out at the skate parks over the summer. And when i wear tigher clothes i feel big because i'm tall and have cute petite friends. What do i do to lose the fat and gain the muscle? I tried eating right but junk food is a part of me.

Do the bike exersize. Here is a picture of it. It helps you loose weight fast if you do it for 10 minutes 3 days a week. GOOD LUCK ! ! ♥ Kendall

http://exercise.about.com/od/abs/ss/abexercises.htm

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I caught my husband looking at things he shouldn't be on the internet. He has promised it won't happen again, but I am currently having a hard time trusting him. He knows how to delete his hisory and "cookies." Is there another way to track what he has been looking at?

If he is looking at things he isn't supposed to be, tell him that you are concerend and don't know if you can trust him anymore. Don't let him use the computer, or take it away or be on it a lot so that he won't be able to use it. On the internet home page, click on the little clock next to Media and see if the things are there. He might have deleted them from there or they might still be there! If he deleted them from there, then sorry, there is no way you can track them.

♥ Kendall

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Ok so im 17/f and my mums friend left a message on my phone and i must have told my mum that her friend phoned my fone and then deleted the message and forgot all about it!!Thing is i said to my mums friend ohh no i never got a message because i was ill and i forgot that i gave the message to my mum so i started getting upset about it and crying because i was ill and with her keep shouting accusing me of lieing when i was not it really got to me how shes so loud and in ur face. I got my mum to tell her that i gave the message the thing is she really gets on my nerves shes so demanding and sometimes i feel like shes pulling me away from my mum, What shall i do now i was in the wrong because i got annoyed on the phone to my mums friend and i was like I never got your message for gods sake bla bla can someone please advice me on what i should do??? thank u.

Talk to your mother and your mother's friend about it. Try not to shout or get annoyed. This question is kind of hard to understand :\ For what I can see, you just need to talk to them and tell them that you were ill and you didnt get the message.

♥ Kendall

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I have so many peoples around my mouth and fourhead. I get them all the time even though i was my face every morning with acne rudusing face was (clearisl).

I don't eat that great but yet i'm still thin-ish.
should i work out more and drink water or what?

i need to get rid of my acne within a week before i hang out at this party i'm going to.

I have acne too, so I can relate. I have pimples on my face, and I wash my face 2 times a day. You might want to make a dermatologist appointment and tell her that you need them gone...FAST! I went to the dermatoligist last Thursday and got perscrbied with new Diffren Cream & an acne pill. The pill is a swallow pill and it helps the inside, while the Differn cream helps the outside. Your pimples will not be gone in a week, I am sorry to say. When you go to the party apply make up and wear very nice clothes to bring the attention away from your face
♥ Kendall

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Ok well i have a friend who I can talk w/ abou my issues. Me and her go through the same stuff, right? Well, I read one of her and my other friends conversation. She was sayign how she htought she could talk to me about the stuff we're going through but she thinks I onyl talk about myself. And I only care abou myself. what can I do to prove her wonrg and show her that i realy care abotu her too? Thank-you

When you two start talking let her talk first and nod your head and let her do all the talking for once. I'm not saying that you do talk a lot, but she might think that and you have to make her realize that you care about her to. Give suggestions on how to make some of her problems better, and let her show and let out all of her feelings. If she says thank you, say, hey, I love listening to you talk =)

♥ Kendall

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ok let me start off by saying my name is meghan and i am 14 and i am an 8th grader and i feel so embarrassed when my friends talk about their periods well the problem is that i have not started mine yet and i don't know what is wrong with me but i play soccer all year and i have no clue if that has something to do with the issue.well i am 5'0 and 125lbs. and i have "boobs" and i have hair down there and i know that this sounds weird but i will do anything just to get my period.i promised myself when i was younger i would never kiss a boy until i got my period and now i don't think i can wait that long!PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
meghan2492

Okay, hold your ponies. I have my period and it comes naturally, when ever it wants to. You can brake the promise to yourself that you can kiss a boy before you get your period. You made it when you were little, and what if you don't get it until your 16? You are going to be missing out. Trust me, you do NOT want your period to come. Once you have it, you'll wish you never had it again.

♥ Kendall

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kay well i've asked questions on here before
*previous* http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=418941
* and this is kinda long but plesae and thank you for your time*

well im only 14 and like i've heard people say b4 there is no way you are depressed! well i am! at school i hide it! i smile i laugh i do whatever not to make myself upset!!* my friends have no idea what i go through and have gone through* most of them think im some happy teen whos life is pretty good** anywayssss

the teacher i talk to about this(call him coach)well i no he cares but you know how when you talk to someone about something and you know that there probably gettin annoyed by it! well thats how i feel sometimes when i talk to him! he says he doesnt and that he wants to help! okay well my main question or w.e well just recently i've been thinkin about suiced..I DONT THINK I EVER WOULD but im always upset when im not around people and i used to cut myself! i wanna tell coach but i dont want him thinking im a freak or a loser or i have some serious MENTEL ISSUES! i promise that i would never go as far as killin myself but i think about it alot! i might cut myself again but i dono sooo should i tell him or should i just keep it to myself or what??

Ok, do not cut yourself or commit suicude. This would make everything worse than it already is. If you tell him things and then commit suicide, and you tell him not to tell anyone, and he DOESNT and then you commit suicide, "coach" will feel bad because he wasn't supposed to tell anyone why or what was happening. I would keep it to myself for a while, but you need to tell SOMEONE, tell your dad maybe about your brother. If you are scared to do that continue telling coach or the counsler. Tell them that you do not want to talk to the social worker.

GOOD LUCKK!!! GOD BLESS YOU.♥ Kendall.

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okay stright to the point! im 14/f
my brother has done some pretty bad things to me! he hasnt all the way raped me! but done enough to bother me and it depress me! i also have a bad home life with like my dad.. i've talk to a close teacher about it. he got me to talk to the conslor..which made me talk to the school social worker! i hated tlaking to her! i told my teacher who i was close with that i didnt want to ever talk to her again! he promised me he wouldnt make me do anything i didnt want to! well the other day i was updating him because he told me to when ever i needed to! i told him i rather not have him tell the conslor so i wouldnt have to talk to the socail woker! he sad he wouldnt! but he ended up tellin anyways!.. so then i had to sit in a room with the social worker again!! after he told i made me feel so bad.. ike i dont want to hate him! he was the only one i could trust! so after school i went up to him and said why did you tell! he said he had to! so i looked at him and walked away1 he didnt bother to say anything else!
and now im confused. now i dont know if i can trust him or if he even cares about this! please someone what do i do now???

He does CARE, that is why he is telling. i know you don't want to talk to the social worker, but this could be serious. Your brother is bad for doing this, even though he didn't do the whole rape. But even getting close is bad. Tell the teacher that you arn't going to talk to him if he tells them and tell him that if you think you need to tell someone other than him then you will

I will answer you other question too. =)

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my problem is pretty simple, but i think that one wrong move in it will make everything fall apart. ok, so, this is my story. december last year, a day after one of our school dance, a friend of mine told me that my crush wanted to ask me to dance and then ask me out. my crush didn't but i e-mailed him saying that i like him and i was hoping that we would still stay good friends even with thte whole crush thing. i did this because after the day of the dance, me and my crush barely talked which is very unlikely because we always talked. that's why i e-mailed him. nowadays, it's been improving between us. i can still feel a tension between us, but i'm glad it's still improving. but just yesterday, the same friend that told me that my crush wanted to ask me out IMed me saying that he heard from somebody that my crush was gonna ask me out by the end of this week. i was really happy, but at the same time, i didn't want to keep my hopes up, because if he doesn't ask me out, it'll just hurt more. what should i do around my crush now? i mean, i'm trying to keep it normal between us, but sometimes i just don't know what to do. what do you think?

thanks for helping!

Talk to HIM and ask him if he is going to ask you out. The tension will be gone once he does, and you two can just be BF & Gf. The friend could be lying just to get your hopes up, or your crush could have learned how it hurt you last time and might be really doing it. You just need to talk to him.

♥Kendall

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okay, so i have known this girl for a long time, and i think she is the most beautiful girl on the planet, and i absolutely love her, but last year, i asked her out, and she said no and completely shunned me and the whole school makes fun of me now. i love her, and i would really like her to know that, and i want her to be my friend at least again, but she won't even talk to me since then. i even had to spend 2 hours with her during this group activity the other day at school, and she didn't say A WORD!!! not a single thing (to me, anyway). so does anyone have any thing that could get her to like me again? a certain charm, something to say, a style change, anything? it would really help...

THNX!!!!!
( i rate high for good answers!!!!)

Start a conversation, a question directly to her so that she has to answer. Don't be flirty, and tell her that the past is the past and you just want to be friends

♥ Kendall

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ok so friday my friend tells me my friend who ive known for 3 years likes me. i didnt know what to believer b/c well yea but i mentioned it to my best friend who had been texting w/ him and she asked him if he would go out with me and he said yea but she doesnt like me. so i have choir banquet next month and i decided that i would ask him b/c yea ok i like him and my sister decides to tell his sister and she askes him what he would say if i asked him to choir banquet and my sister gets this text back saying " my dads making him say yes" whats going on! hes told all my friends he likes me and now i hear his dad is making him say yes? can someone please explain this to me? PLEASE!

It might be that his dad is making him say yes, but he was going to say yes in the first place anyway. It seems like he likes you, and ask him if his dad makes him say yes when you ask him.

♥ Kendall

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hi! i'm 15 and a female. i'm plus size and i dress really nice, some guys tell me that i'm pretty but none of them seem to want to date me, why is that? how do i get atleast one of those guys to wanna date me?

They're stupid if they won't ask you out. Try to be more flirty, by complimenting them, and giving them glances and winks. If they go red in the face or wink back, they like you.

Good Luck!
♥ Kendall

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Hi, everytime I open Windows Media and try to play one of my songs, it says a license is acquired. What does this mean/how can I fix it? Becuase I used to be able to play any song, now it gives me this message. Thanks. :]

It might be that your subscripition to Windows Media has expired
Uninstall & then reinstall Windows Media. the same thing happened to me and after i did that it worked

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I'm 16/f and my mom gave me her 2000 Lexus but my dad wants to sell it and get me a 2000 or 2001 Honda Accord and I looked at pictures of them, they seem very old style and I don't want to be driving in a grandma-style car. The two door Honda Accords are nice, but my dads making me get a four door. I dont have a lot of knowledge in cars -- so should I go for the Honda or beg to keep the Lexus?

I would keep the lexus. Tell your dad that you want to keep the lexus and give reasons why. It will be more convincing. If that doesn't working, you could at least try to let your dad get you a two door. Although...4 doors fit more friends =)

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My friend Amber and i have a crush on the same guy. I love Amber to death and everything but i really like this guy. Amber and him compeltely flirt and i dont want to tell her i like him because i wouldn't be able to stand having her mad at me. I dont want me liking her to influence her to not go out with him because im all for their happiness together. People say he's just a big flirt get over him but when i talk to him i get happy inside. In chorus he actually acknoledged my piano playing which no one else does. He ran up to me and started singing with me. I just dont know what to do.

It seems like he likes you more then Amber, so maybe flirt with him a little more, but don't do a lot of it around Amber. Try to find another guy for Amber, maybe a better one. If he asks you out, say yes, and make sure you tell amber. Relationships are built on honesty.

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