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I just care about myself?
Ok well i have a friend who I can talk w/ abou my issues. Me and her go through the same stuff, right? Well, I read one of her and my other friends conversation. She was sayign how she htought she could talk to me about the stuff we're going through but she thinks I onyl talk about myself. And I only care abou myself. what can I do to prove her wonrg and show her that i realy care abotu her too? Thank-you
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Just listen more to her, even though you are going through the same things she might like to try and explain things for a bit. Let her talk and listen, give advice referring to your problems so she knows that you still have problems but you care about her too. The more you are there and the more you listen she will realise you care....you obviously do because you want to prove you do but the best way to show if by listening, and giving advice, also try and find more close friends (e.g. i have two best friends and 3 close close friends) so i can balance how much i tell them with how much i help them. The more people you can find to listen to you the less pressure she will feel under.
I hope I helped :P
xordinarygirlx
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When you two start talking let her talk first and nod your head and let her do all the talking for once. I'm not saying that you do talk a lot, but she might think that and you have to make her realize that you care about her to. Give suggestions on how to make some of her problems better, and let her show and let out all of her feelings. If she says thank you, say, hey, I love listening to you talk =)
♥ Kendall
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I think that when you guys sit down and talk that yo need to make just a little bit more of an effort to hear her out. Its fine to tak about your issues but when she talks about her issues make sure that you actually pay attention and listen and give her some feedback and dont compare evrything to yourself. just make sure she knows that she has soem one that will really listenh to her 2
hope this helps
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