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Ok. One minute I'm all, 'I DO NOT need a guy just so he can break my heart and ruin me!!' The next I'm all, 'Oooh, he's cute, I wonder if he likes me...'

And, I've had a history of guys coming up to me (or having they're friends tell me) And saying they like me. For some girls, this is the best thing in the world, for me, it scares me to death, but I don't know why, am I just afriad of commitment?
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I feel the same way sometimes. I think alot of girls do. You might be afraid of commitment, or you might just be nervous when it comes to guys sometimes. Either way, when it happens, just take a deep breath and clear your head. It's all up to you. You don't have to be in a committed relationship or even in a relationship at all. It's totally up to you, and once you realize that, you might not be so scared. Hope I helped!


Hi uis there any good exercises that will tone up your legs to make them look nice and shaped? I rate thanx!! ^_^ (link)
Lunges are great! Also, running is one of the best things you can to do shape up your legs! You can try going to the local YMCA and using the bicycles, they really work out your legs too. And try checking out toneteen.com for some good exersise tips. Hope I helped!


i have a friend that's really mad at me because i got the star part for our class play at school. what can i do to make her friends with me again? (link)
She has no reason at all to be mad, unless you're bragging about it or rubbing it in her face, which I assume you aren't. Make sure you aren't doing it sub-consiously, then try and talk to her. If she doesn't respond very well, let it go for a little while, she'll eventually come to her senses. But don't just totally ignore her, that may be perceived as a I'm-better-than-you-because-I-got-the-lead-part kinda thing. Good luck, and congradulations on getting the lead in the play!


Ok, I was wondering, can you tell me how to flirt? I'm kinda bad in that section, I find myself blushing and running off when I see my crushes. All I really want to know is how to flirt AND how to bond with the oppisite sex. (I'm a Chick) (link)
You've just gotta know that if you are yourself, and they don't like you, it's their loss not yours. Just tell yourself one day that you're done with being shy and scared to talk to the guys you like, it may be hard but after awhile it will become natural. As for exactly how to flirt, it's kinda hard to say because everyone has their own style and everything, but just laugh (not too much) and smile, smile, SMILE! Also, don't just ask about him and don't just talk about yourself. Find a balance between the two. Also, look into their eyes when they're talking, but not too much or it may seem like you're staring, but not so little that it seems like you're self-consious. Flirting is kind of like finding a balance between too little and too much, just try stuff out and see if it works. And obviously, it's different for different guys too. But NEVER pretend to be something you're not, guys might end up liking you for things you said you liked but lied about, and it's never fun for anyone to find out they've been lied too. I hope I helped and good luck!


What is it
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What is what? *confused*


hjh (link)
If you're going to spam this, do it somewhere else.


Hey, okay I dont want to say my name but could u help me? (link)
I sure can! Just ask me! =)


All my friends have boyfriends,but I dont,I'm not really into boys(except Usher) but they all have had boyfriends,should I try to get one for the heck of it? Or should I wait? Or am I completley crazy cause I havent had a boyfriend yet and I"m 11?(Im a gurl) (link)
Definitley wait. Don't ever do anything just for the heck if it, girl! Wait until YOU feel comfortable doing it. And you're not crazy, lots of girls haven't had boyfriends by the age of 11. That's pretty young, after all. Need anything else, just ask!


Ok, I am like, A total romantic. I dream of love but have never had a bf or a kiss. I crush on guys a lot but have no idea how to handle it. I really think I'm ready for my first kiss, I pray for love, how do I find it? (I'm a female) (link)
Well, you've gotta flirt and find out who likes you and who you have connections with. Then, eventually if they are feeling it too, they'll ask you out, or you can ask them out. You can't really just go out one day and think, "I'm going to find love today." It just happens. As for your first kiss, don't rush it. It will happen when the time is ready. Hope I helped!


well there is this boy in my class lets name him john and for some odd reason he always goes out with everyones best friends and he just went out w/ my bff so im next in line. The only problem is that every1 just went out with him because they knew of wut he was doing which they thought was so retarded but i actually do like him and if my friends no i do they'll prob. laugh so what do i do (link)
If you like him, then go for it. But make sure you're not doing it just because you're "next in line," because that would be dumb. Be careful though, this guy seems like a player.


Okay,I'm goin out with this guy.And im starting to get sick of him pickin on me insted of loving me.Like the other day at a game he was like hittin my leg,i know hes just kidding.But its getting on my nerves.. (link)
Tell him that some of his antics annoy you, but do it in a nice way.


i want to make a quote site.. but i have no idea what hosting site i should use..anyone have any ideas? (link)
Geocities is great! =)


Hi.
If I don't wash my hair every night then my hair gets and looks so oily.I usually do wash my hair everynight but every once in a while i don't have time. Does anyone know any products that i could use to make my hair less oily or anything i can use so it doesnt look oily....please.

Thanks! (link)
Try using a clarifying shampoo, it'll help get out all the oilies. Pantene makes a good one! Also, try not to use too many hair products, that might be the cause also. Hope I helped!


When I started Junior High, I noticed this guy and he seemed pretty cool. At first I kind of thought he was weird because of the way he looked (long hair,converse high-tops..etc) but then I got to know him and sort of developed a crush on him. By the end of 7th grade I became OBSESSED and one night with a box cutter, I just carved his name into my arm. He never noticed. It seemed like he had a crush on me too for a while, he would call me things like "cutie" and "sweetie" . The beginning of the year he seemed like he liked me still, and I hadn't told him about my scar. I needed to get it off my chest, so I told my friend who has him 6th period to tell him and she did. After school he looked scared and luckily he didn't see me. The next few days he would look at me and the stare at the ground. He supposedly said he "hated me" because I carved his name into my arm. It doesn't make sense, how could he change his feelings that quickly? Now he thinks I'm this weirdo. What should I do? I still have major feelings for him, even though I don't show it. Because I feel like I can't. Please help me. (link)
Hun, you carved his name into your arm. That would freak most guys out. Sorry to say, but things with him are probably not going to work out from now on.


Well I have a question that I think you could help me with. I am 13 year old girl and as you can tell if you are my age the 7th and 8th grade go in groups. I have some friends who are really nice girls, but last year we faught so much. Well anyways when I came to the school in third grade {catholic school pre-8th}. I made a pact with a couple of friends that I would do as much as I could to make everyone hate me! I know it sounds stupid, but they are doing the same thing. Well, I am tired of lieing to them. I want to be myself. At my old old school I was a really nice girl everyone liked me. Now I want to be that girl at school again. Do you think I should go tomarrow at school like myself?
Please help me!!! (link)
Hm, tough sitch. I think you should talk to your friends about it, tell them you're sick of pretending to be someone that you're not. If their good friends, they'll understand. But I would call them so when you come to school acting like yourself tomorrow, there won't be a huge scene of, "Why are you acting so nice? WE HAVE A PACT!" But I'd say, after you explain yourself to them, then you can go on and be your true seld. No one should have to hide who they really are. Hope I helped!


OK so I have my period, and Im really just not in the mood. You know cramps all that fun stuff. But what I really wanna know is well... this is embarassing but I wanna shave down there and every time i try the hair gets stuck inside the blade and it really hurts. What am I doing wrong?

thanks~ (link)
I'd try trimming it as short as you can first, then using a good amount of shaving cream to cushion it, and trying again.


i made out with my bf the other day and he has been telling everyone about it ever since, but i only hear that from my friends. he has talked about it to my friends and stuff like that. i dont really like it, should i talk to him about it? i'm not sure what to do, i mean it is true... its not like a false rumour he is passing around or anything. i like him, he's sweet, but i feel like i cant make out with him anymore or else he's guna tell every one about it... also, for the boys out there, why do you think he talked about it so much? thanks (link)
Talk to him. Tell him you feel kind of uncomfortable with him going around telling everyone about it, even though you don't mind doing it. Hopefully he'll understand.


Well, I dumped my ex a while back because I wasn't sure I liked him. But now, he's going out with one of my best friends, and I am really jealous. What should I do?

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Well, you cannot try and break them up, because she's your best friend. You know what they always say, chicks before dicks. Anyways, you've gotta figure out if you truly like him again, or if you're just a bit jealous he's got someone new now. If you really do like him, after him and your BFF break up, talk to her and see if she's alright with you liking him. If you are just jealous, try and find something else to occupy your time with. Hope I helped!


Ok last night i was kissing my bf and his saliva was thick!!! YUCK! what does this mean? does this mean that he doesnt brush his teeth?? HELP!!
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He could have been sick, like I know mucus gets thick when you have a cold or something.


Okay i seriously fell back in love with my ex boyfriend Chris!!! I dont know what to do!! Hes seriously cute and awesome to hang out with!! I love being around him. He knows that still love him. Okay i work at mcdonalds and whenever i leave from there he alwaya comes in to c me. But the thing is.. IM NOT THERE!! :''( What should i do? Should i talk to him or what? Im pretty sure he likes me again too. please help me!!!

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Talk to him. Try hanging out more, and if you're getting positive vibes, ask him how he's feeling about you two. Good luck!




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