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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.
I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.
Much love, Teza
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ive only kissed 1 guy, do you think im prude?? How many guys have you kissed so i could compare since you seem like the cool unprude type of girl?
Just because you kissed one guy doesn't mean you're prude. I don't know how many guys I've kissed but you shouldn't compare yourself to me.
Do you know like 3 really good websites for quotes?!? By the way i think you give great advice.
Thanks .
I have one and it's really good. It has every kind of quote. http://qm.your-memory.net/ and there`s also this blog thing where there are tons of quote websites. http://www.xanga.com/groups/group.aspx?id=264809 and thanks hun!!
Hey I'm 13 and have been "going out" with this kid on and off since last July. He always breaks up with me then wins me back, but he's always talkin about sex. I'm ok with it but I know he doesnt have the guts to do anything and when we are suppose to go on a group date he's always "sick" or "can't go" Do you think that he's just all-talk and won't do anything he says he will? =\
He seems like he's all talk and no guts and he might want to do that stuff, but he doesn't have the balls to. I think he just needs the girl to make the first move.
What is it like for a guy the first time.. i've heard that it is hard for them to keep it up?
You should ask a guy this question because if I knew, I'd answer it.
What are some really good quotes?? Thanks a bunch!
http://qm.your-memory.net/ It has every kind of quote.
What is the price range for Frankie B jeans?
Google it.
is ashley tisdale really 21?
Does she look 21?
i got head yesterday and today my ballz have been itching what does that mean plz respond
You need to take a shower and wash them.
does vanessa anne hudgens really have twin babies?
No, she has 5 kids.. wtf, google it if you really care.
My ex called today to say “happy easter”. We dated for 4 months, he dumped me, and it’s been 3 months since the breakup. We go to school together, have lockers next to each other, and have the same friends, but somehow we’ve managed to ignore each other. We were at the same small party last night, and he smiled at me a few times across the room, but I thought it was just coincidence. Why did he call? He has a new gf, but I think they might have broken up. Any insights into what he might be thinking or trying to do would be much appreciated.
There could be a lot of different reasons on why he called and why he's talking to you all of the sudden. I think he just wants to be friends. He probablly doesn't like that you guys ignore each other and don't talk so he just wanted to be nice and say happy easter. Keep talking to one another and then see how things turn out. You'll be able to notice if he wants to be something more than friends.
uuum when you're putting a layout in xanga, what do you put the code in under look & feel?
thanks xo
It should say Input Your Own Header HTML and put the code under there.
i really hate this about me and its so werid.. but like if i start to like a guy, or think i like a guy and then end up going out with him.. then i suddenly dont really like him anymore. i feel like when a guy isnt really into me or doesnt show it i like it more, and like if he is then i guess i like it but then i suddnetly loose intrest when we go out. i dont know what to do really.. should i just be like i like you but lets just like each other and not really go out?
That's completely normal and a lot of people are like that. You're the type of person who likes when a guy playes hard to get, correct? You like attention but it seems like you like it more when you have to work for it. It's kind of confusing but it makes sense. When you lose interest in a guy, they're probablly just boring you. They aren't showing you what you first saw in them and you're just a picky girl .. nothing wrong with that. I don't really get what you mean about liking one another and not going out.. I don't really see the point in that. I mean you guys can still like each other and not go out of course, but if you lose interest in a guy, doesn't that mean you don't like him in that way?
do you think sending naked pictures at age 13-14 is bad online, and like going to 2nd base with someone and talking about doing it with them? if you8r not going out
Sending naked pictures is bad no matter what age you are especilly if you're 13 or 14. It's just slutty and really pathetic. Going to 2nd base with someone isn't bad and also if you talk about doing stuff with that person. If someone is all talk & no guts, then it's bad. Anyways, people don't have to go out to be sexually active. It's just friends with benifits.
Hi!
I was reading your column, and I have to say it made me horny as hell! (The Sex one)
I'm still a virgin, and I was wondering, since that girl said it felt all watery like when her boyfriend fingered her or whatever, and there was blood on the sheets, when you have sex for the first time do you bleed right there, or do you bleed the following morning, kind of like your period or something? Could you please explain! Because me and my boyfriend have been talking about sex lately and I really just want to know that, also, does it like hurt like really bad when he breaks your hymen, or is it just like a pinch? I rate high.
When you have sex for the first time, your hymen will break and that will cause the bleeding. You can bleed other times during sex but that's if the guy is rough. I can't really tell you if it's going to hurt and how much because that's something you're going to have to expirience yourself. Some girls say it hurts, some don't but when you have sex for the first time, it will hurt.. other times you should just feel pleasure.
oki well im 17 and hes 17 we waz togather 4 about 6months. i broke up with my boyfriend 2day and i hurt him alot he cryed and asked me why im doing this to him but i cant force my self 2 stay with him if i dont love him. i tryed but i just cant keep on lieing to him. i dunno what 2 do it hurts me inside 2 know that hes sad and, im scared that he will do something stupid.he calls me all the time and i dunno if i should should still talk 2 him? will it hurt even more if i do? thnx teza i hope u can help
Instead of lieing to him why you broke up, maybe you should just tell him the truth. Yeah it's going to be hard for you and him but he deserves to know the truth. If you don't love him you don't have to stay with him no matter how bad he feels. You need to talk to him and tell him that if he cares about you as much as he says he does, he would respect your decision and want to be really good friends. He shouldn't do anything stupid and it's not the end of the world for him. He needs to learn how to move on and just because you guys aren't together in that kind of way, does not mean you guys can't be really good friends and you need to make sure he understands that.
im a girl and i guess i masturbate by putting the faucet in the bathtub 'down there' and it gets a little red after so is this bad?
No it's not bad.
what should i wear too a family members house on easterr ??
im preppy if that helpss
If you have any skirts wear that with a cute top. You can also wear capris but since it's easter, wear light colors.
well whenever i try to talk to my best friend about something that i need to get out or like a problem.. it seems she never listens like she'll always be like "yeah that happened to me" and go on about her problems. i dont want to sound selfish but im there for her to talk to and she just seems like she never really listens. should i tell her or what else? im not sure. thank you
Of course you should tell her. You basiclly just answered your own question. She's your best friend and you should be able to tell her how ever you feel.
im 15 and my boyfriend is 16 and we've been going out for 6 months now and we've spent everyday together since and he would come over all the time i would never ask him to he just did and about a week ago he flipped out on me and said he was unsure about us and everything but he still loves me but he couldnt handle me right now he is gong throw alot right now i mean alot but later that night he called me back and said sorry about everything and asked be back out and we agreed that he needed to spend more time with his family and friends and thats whats been going on but now he doesnt pay attention to me like he used to and now hes not into sex any more and i asked him if there was some one else or if he's not into me no more he said thats not it sex isnt your relationship so i geuss thats fine but i've been asking the same questions like whats going on and do you still love me and he always gives me the same answers and now he gets mad when i ask so now i dont ask or call him he used to call me all the time now i call him but not today i didnt call him at all and so he called me twice and asked why i didnt call him but when i ask hows he is like emotionaly he always shuts down when i try to talk to him and i think this all came at a good time he is going on vaca with his friend and family for 10 days what do you thinks going on
How am I supposed to know what's going on with him? I don't. Anyways, you're being kind of selfish towards him. He's going through a hard time right now and all you care about is yourself. You keep asking him if he loves you and if there is someone else, but it doesn't even seem like you took the time to actually support him in whatever he is going through. You need to be a bigger person about this and just be there for him and show him that you're there and support him. Stop worrying about other things and just talk to him and let him know that you're there to listen to him whenever he needs to talk. Don't wait until he calls you, just call him to say hi and see what's up. You have to let him know that you care about him and that no matter what happens that you're always going to be close. You need to get some confidence in him and since he's been so low lately, talk to him into going out with you somewhere and just have a good time.
Last night I found out a bunch of my best guy friends smoke, drink, and do weed. I broke down cause you never really think it'll happen to you. Me and some of my other friends want them to get help, before its too late. What could we do; ( Annonymously if possible ) ?
So many teenagers do weed, drink and smoke and they don't want help. I know that you want to be a good friend and help them, but you're basiclly butting in their buisness. You can try to talk to them and explain to them why they shouldn't do it, but I honestly don't think that will help. Most people don't care about the consiquences until it's too late and since they're still young they won't stop. Be their friend still but just because they do that stuff doesn't mean you have to.