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things are kinda weird now
im 15 and my boyfriend is 16 and we've been going out for 6 months now and we've spent everyday together since and he would come over all the time i would never ask him to he just did and about a week ago he flipped out on me and said he was unsure about us and everything but he still loves me but he couldnt handle me right now he is gong throw alot right now i mean alot but later that night he called me back and said sorry about everything and asked be back out and we agreed that he needed to spend more time with his family and friends and thats whats been going on but now he doesnt pay attention to me like he used to and now hes not into sex any more and i asked him if there was some one else or if he's not into me no more he said thats not it sex isnt your relationship so i geuss thats fine but i've been asking the same questions like whats going on and do you still love me and he always gives me the same answers and now he gets mad when i ask so now i dont ask or call him he used to call me all the time now i call him but not today i didnt call him at all and so he called me twice and asked why i didnt call him but when i ask hows he is like emotionaly he always shuts down when i try to talk to him and i think this all came at a good time he is going on vaca with his friend and family for 10 days what do you thinks going on
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How am I supposed to know what's going on with him? I don't. Anyways, you're being kind of selfish towards him. He's going through a hard time right now and all you care about is yourself. You keep asking him if he loves you and if there is someone else, but it doesn't even seem like you took the time to actually support him in whatever he is going through. You need to be a bigger person about this and just be there for him and show him that you're there and support him. Stop worrying about other things and just talk to him and let him know that you're there to listen to him whenever he needs to talk. Don't wait until he calls you, just call him to say hi and see what's up. You have to let him know that you care about him and that no matter what happens that you're always going to be close. You need to get some confidence in him and since he's been so low lately, talk to him into going out with you somewhere and just have a good time.
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