Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
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Me and my boyfriend were fighting a few days ago. We were swearing and stuff, and he goes "shut up you cooctie eyed bitc*. I don't really know what cooctie means and I tried looking it up but maybe he spelled it wrong so if anyone could help me figure out what he meant, that would be great. And I can't ask him because he's not talking to me anymore. Thank you. (link)
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Well, first of all, [ I'm not saying this in a mean way or anything ] but you should be focusing more on the fight itself and patching up with your boyfriend than what he called you. But anyways. Cooctie? I've never heard of a word like that. But, I think I do know what word he was saying, because the "t" is very close to the "h" so I think he was referring to coochie. You're a "coochie eyed bitc*" which, I'm sorry, is a pretty weird insult to call someone in my opinion, haha. But I'm pretty positive that's what he meant. Like the other girls, said, maybe he could've meant cock-eyed, but I think if he were to type that, there'd obviously be more letters and stuff. I hope I helped.
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Hi, I'm 17/f and I'm worried. How can you tell if your wisdom teeth are going to grow in properly, and does anyone know the amount of space you will need for them to grow? Not precise, but about how much? thanks. (link)
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Mm, you don't really need that much space. You just need about the same amount of space as any other tooth, except wisdom teeth are a little wider/bigger or whatever I believe. Luckily, some people have enough space and don't even need to get them pulled out. Just next time you go to the dentist, ask them to make check for you or they might take an x-ray. Another way to know if you need them pulled out, is once they start growing, the back of your mouth might hurt. I've never had mine pulled out, but my brother did and he said it didn't hurt that bad ( it s different for everyone ) and he was out of school for two weeks, but I've seen people who've gotten better like, two DAYS after they get it. It just depends how your mouth takes it and all. My brother didn't even need to take the painkillers he said he didn't feel no pain. But I think at average it takes a week or so. I hope I helped.
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hey, well my boyfriend used to have a bestfriend named marc. i used to be friends with marc too. like me, my boyfriend, marc, and lucy could hang out together. even any combination of people. but then marc went away. so to replace marc for being his bestfriend he made bestfriends with this kid named eric. now eric was from his football team and i dont know eric at all. but now my boyfriend is with eric every single day like no lie and has no time for me anymore. and its not like we can all hang out because i dont know eric. also my boyfriend has mentioned to me that eric doesnt like me, but what i dont get is i never even met him before. a month ago we broke up because we never saw each other, but that time it was my my moms fault because she didnt trust my boyfriend yet. so i called him and explained to him what happened. he understood and asked me back out again. but the last time i spent time with my boyfriend was not last tuesday, but the tuesday before that =/. but on last tuesday after football and cheering i saw him for maybe 5 minutes and we talked for 5 minutes, but i dont call that spending time togethter. ive hinted to him many times that we dont see each other and say that we should hang out soon, but he always says oh i have plans with eric and stuff like oh baby im sorry ill call you tommorow, but he never calls cause hes with eric. monday-friday my boyfriend and eric have football. monday-thursday i have cheering. so you think that monday-friday would be enough time to spend with eric. the only real time me and my boyfriend can hangout is saturday and sunday, but of course he already has plans with eric. i mean we could hang out before and after cheering but again he usually has plans with eric and if he doesnt its hard to do because of rides and stuff. when hes with eric he basically never calls me. sometimes there will be 1-2 days of him not calling me because hes been with eric for 1-2 days. if we do talk its only for 30 minutes and its 30 minutes of him yelling at his paintball game. before we used to talk for 3 hours straight and i felt some type of connection and now im not so sure if i do anymore. im starting to feel really bad about this and im getting sort of jealous that eric gets to spend more time with him then i do! schools going to start soon and me and my boyfriend go to different schools so summers basically the time we need to hang out, because of all the homework and football and cheering at night. also yesterday he actually did call me with eric, i was with my two friends allie and jillian, but that didnt make a difference. so he called and said lets meet on razon st. [ near my house ]. so he said to figure it out and call him back. so i did and i was like were not going to meet you there because we cant. then he was like good because me and eric decided that we didnt want to walk there anyways and they were already walking to somewhere else. i foudn taht rude. so today he actually called me and was like hey. i was like oh where did you go yesterday. he said to this girls house. i felt hurt and im usually not this sensitive. i was like oh was it erics friend or yours. he said mine then he said you dont know her. i was like how do you know, i wanna know who it is. then he said too bad. today we only talked for 30 minutes and it was yelling at his paintball thing again most of the time. please help i just dont know what to do anymore. thank you os much for reading! (link)
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Hm. If I was you, I'd probably be jealous too. Your boyfriend just seems really distant with you and maybe he's possibly lost interest. Or that other girls house.. he could be cheating. [ I'm not trying to say he IS, but I'm just listing options ]. Before football/cheerleading and what not, I would go up to him [ and Eric if he's there ] and just be like,"I have to have a serious talk with you like, now or I'll never get the time with you to talk about it." [ or if erics there ] "I need to have a serious talk with you. Eric, do you mind if I just pull him over for a second?" And then just be like,"I want to know whats up. I mean, I'm really glad Eric's your best friend and all, but I never get to see you anymore. Don't you like me anymore or what? Because you know that since we go to different schools, summers really the only time we really have to spend together and everything. I just think I deserve to know what's going on and what's going to happen with us." [ or something like that ]. I think it's really rude of your boyfriend to do that, especially when he's just like "I'm going over a girl house you dont know too bad I won't tell you" and being like "I wasn't going to walk there anyways". He's seriously not considering your feelings AT ALL, and who needs a guy like that? If I was you, if he doesn't want to fix this, I'd just dump him. You deserve a guy who'll give you attention and not just his bestfriend.
Another thing I might wnat to try and do is talk to Eric. Ask him why he doesn't like you, even though you two have never really even met. And maybe try and work that difference out so then all three of you can hang out together so everyone wins in a way.
If you want, you can always IM me on my screename thats on the site or just post more! I hope I helped you though and I hope everything works out!
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So my friend has been havin relationship problems. right now shes not going out with him but they hav kissed several times and hugged and cuddled. from wat shes heard about him she thinks hes usin her. she had 1 of our friends ask him and he started cursin at her and i asked him and he just said he had 2 go. shes felling really low but she still likes him, i troed convicein her her not to but it didnt work. please help me. I want my baby to be happy. Please help me i dont know what to do! (link)
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Well, I could understand why he'd be cursing. He might be getting frustrated that all these girls are asking him and assuming he's using her. But if she really wants to know, she needs to ask him if where he sees this relationship as serious or not. And she should tell him now that if he's just looking for stuff, he's not going to get it so he knows. And if he stays with her, then it sounds to me like that's not what he's looking for. They just need to talk. I hope I helped.
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i have to go to the doctors tomorrow, and they always make me pee in a cup, what do they find out from your pee? (link)
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It just tests you to see if you're possibly pregnant, if you have any STD's or anything, um, if you have taken any illegal drugs lately, just to see if you're healthy and everything. I hope I helped.
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You know on Xanga, how you can make a blog private? Can you do that on Myspace?
I have a blog on Myspace with thousands on posts. My problem is, how do I make them all private, where only I can read them, without deleting them?
Is there a way to them all at one time? Instead of one by one?
Thanks! :D (link)
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I don't think there's a way to do them all at one time, but to do it, you go to your blog and go near the bottom and right about the "cancel" and "preview & post" buttons there's podcast enclosure and then right about it says privacy and then all you have to do is click if you want everyone to read you, just your selected friends, just the people on your myspace, or etc. I hope I helped.
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Does anyone know how to figure out your bra size at home? I hate going into the stores and having the people measure you. (link)
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What I do is I just take a measuring tape and I put it around my bust and measure that. I hope I helped.
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I'm new to this... anyway. I had a dream about my best guyfriend (me and him had a little dissagreement a week or 2 ago). His name is Iba.
So I looked in Iba's Profile in my dream and it said- STATUS:ENGAGED. (iba isnt really into girls yet but hes NOT GAY and i know it for a fact. We're aged 15/16). I asked him what his profile ment and he said that he met this fantastic girl and stuff. I was shocked that i didnt know about it. He told me how wonderfull she was and then he said to me: "I love her" (Iba has never in real life said he loves anyone... with an acception of religious stuff and family and stuff (We're Muslim)) So when he said that he loved her i lost ALL hope in ever having him as my own. Deep down inside i knew they were perfect for one another but i couldnt admit it. I told him i was happy for him and i was in a way. I was happy that he found someone so wonderful but i was sad because I wasnt the one who made him happy.
Iba and I are complete opposites. Hes shy, quiet, funny,nonchallant and very religious whereas I'm outgoing, spontanious, over dramatic, sensitive, and paranoid.
my question is: what do you think my dream ment? and WHY do you think i had this dream? and any other advice?
(Age: 15.5 EXACTLY SEX:FEMALE) (link)
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Well, it's said that our dreams are usually our subconcious telling us something. So your dream could be that you're afraid of him dating a girl and not you or you miss him. Why you had this dream? I'm not totally sure. You can't really explain why you have the dream you have. Because I've had dreams where I've fought the evil barbie and stuff haha, but I never know why I had dreams. It was just my subconcious telling me something, and I guess that's how it decided to do it. And you never know, it's also said that opposites attract. If you really like this guy, you should go for it. Ask him to the movies sometimes or ask him if he'd like to go on a date sometime, or at least just let him be aware of your feelings. I hope I helped.
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i have a friend who like always has a boyfriend. like they aren't bad boyfriends, they're pretty hot and she even dated one of them for 2 years. anyways, me on the other hand.. i've never even really had a boyfriend before. she's also a year younger than me, which makes it worse (shes in 8th grade). anyways she's single right now and claims she NEEDS a boyfriend, even though i need one way more. but the thing is, i'm just as attractive as her.. not to sound conceited. she's shy and i'm outgoing. i don't really get it. i'm not so outgoing i'm completely annoying but idk... and we're both single and really wants guys so we're going to look for guys together over the weekend at the mall and stuff. but i just don't understand why all the guys like her and not me. (i dont go to school with her btw). and how can i get a guy?? do you think we'll find a hot SINGLE guy if we look hard enough at the mall/movies? (link)
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Hm, well the mall/movies may be a little tough to scope out guys because usually they go with alot of people [ some with their friends who are girls ] so you never really know if they're single, taken, or what. But if you look hard enough, you might. I would just mainly focus on the all-guy groups whenever they go to the mall, because if one guys not single, then I'm sure one of his friends are and plus, it's good for working on your flirting skills and talking to guys and stuff. To get a guy, you just have to be nice and yourself and don't come off as some stupid fake girl [ which I'm sure you're not but some girls pretend to be stupid to get their attention ]. Just make them laugh, and try to feel a connection with them and then after awhile of talking, start to flirt a little and see how he repsondes. If he flirts back, then continue flirting, but if not he might be taken or just not interested. But it'd be especially good to meet a guy at the movies cause you can always go up to them afterwards and be like "Hey, what movie did you go see? What'd you think of it? Have you heard about that movie that's coming out soon? Yeah, it does look like a pretty good movie. Hey, you and me and some people should all go together and go see it. [ or even suggest just the two of you going. ]" I don't understand why all the guys like your friend either, you sound like a pretty cool person. I don't know. Some girls just are like guy magnets [ that's how my one friend is and even alot of people say we look alike so i don't know how she gets all the guys but she does ]. Haha, sorry it's so long. I hope I helped though! You can always IM me if you want to talk more about it or just drop by the site and leave another.
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hEYYY GURL!! i just wanna say THANKS SO MUCH FOR THE ADVICEEE!! YOU ROCK!! i lovee you sweetheart !! ♥ (link)
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heyyy.
no problem!
:D
if you need any other advice,
you know you can always stop by here.
i'm glad i could help.
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I recently got a photo contract with playboy magazine. they wanted me to be nude... with nothing on... and nothing covering me. i acceptedd... because i need the money. i told them i was 20. but i have a secret. i am only 13 =). i have DD boobs... and quite a large downstairs. do you think i will get in trouble with like the law if they find out im 13. helpp=[
the photoshoot is in 4 days. on monday (link)
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Yes, you'll get in trouble with the law, and so will Playboy. Because you being 13 and all and being photographed nude is considered child pornography. Besides, you probably need to show them your birth certificate and everything, so they'll probably find out your thirteen anyways. If you really need the money, try doing chores around the house or maybe babysitting someone's kid or something. And just keep saving it all. I hope I helped.
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okay..this might be long but i just hope you can help me. ok i moved to a town a few months ago and i lived there for about a month and everyone warned me about this ONE boy, saying dont date him because he will hurt you. but of course ima see what hes about. well we started hanging out & before i know it. we started dating, hes the most sweetest guy ive ever met. we dated for like 5 or 6 months. then finally we just called it quits. & now he doesnt talk to me at all, you dont know how bad its hurting me. but i moved back to my hometown & now i try to call him sometimes just to talk to him you know. well ..he wont talk to me or anything. so im hurting pretty bad, just because he was the first guy that ever gave me so much attention & cared so much for me & then one day its all over. :( it hurts me so bad, i just duno what to do to get over him.. cuz i cant go on like this. like im depressed .. & i JUST cant eat...like i want to, but i cant cuz it makes me super super SICK! :( it sucks so much. but please help (link)
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I've been in this same situation. I didn't really want to eat either, and I got super sick too. But for me it was just because I got so upset that my stomach got really upset and whenever I'd try to eat, it just wouldn't do it. But you gotta eat something. Just eating crackers or something cause that always soothes the stomach and plus, you're eating too. And about your guy, if you have his email or IM or anything, I'd try messaging him and asking him waht's going on. Is he mad or something? Because you'd really like to just be his friend and talk to him because you miss him. [ I don't know the whole story of why you guys broke up though ] cause maybe he's upset with you about that. But just ask him to at least explain WHY he's not talking to you, because you deserve to at least know. And if he still doesn't talk to you, I don't know what else to say. I know it's hard to get over him, but gradually, you will. That's what happened with me and my last boyfriend and then out of the blue, he IMed me one day and now we're on pretty good terms. :) I hope I helped and I hope everything works out for you.
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my birthday's coming up in 2 weeks. i know its kinda late to think about this, but i have no idea what im gonna do. i might just not do anyhting, but i kinda would like to do something with some of my close friends. any ideas? (link)
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That's what happened this year with my birthday. I decided we could all go to an amusement park or just go to the movies or something. Or maybe even possibly hang out at the mall or any other local spots you guys have [ a resturant even ]. Or you could always do the infamous sleepover/movie binge with all the junkfood. And I don't know when your pools all close, but you guys could even go to a swimming pool and swim around for awhile. Last year, I had all my friends go bowling with me and then they came back to my house and slept over. I hope I helped. Happy early birthdayyyy.
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My boyfriend and i have been going out for almost 4 months now. We both care about each other alot. His previous girlfriend and him broke up cuz she was moving to a different state. The three of us are all friends and we get along great. Well our town's home coming dance will be here soon and my bf called me and asked if he could go with her. Now at first i didn't mind. i know that they are going just as friends, and i don't really like dances anyway. But then i was thinking that how do i know if i don't like dances if i haven't actually experienced one. I didn't go as a freshman cuz i didn't have a date, but now that i am going out w/ him i would have a date. See i went to the middle school dances and they were boring, but i hear high school ones are different. So i guess i don't know what i should do. Neither of us have gotten to see bekah in a long time (the ex, my best friend, his ex) so should i tell him that i want to go with him even though they have been planing this for about a year, or should i just let them go?
Signed
~Throughly Confused. (link)
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Throughly Confused,
What I would do is just let them go, I mean, they've been planning this for a year. But I'd suggest bringing someone along so you have someone to hang with and all you guys could hang together [ maybe even someone your friend already knows so it'd be easier to talk and hang out together and stuff ]. And maybe every slow dance or two you and your boyfriend could dance together and Bekah and your friend can dance together. That way, everyone gets to have fun, and you get to enjoy your highschool dance. :D I hope I helped!
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is there any type of body wash that can get rid of all acne? that is REALLY affective. i could use your help..please? (link)
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Well from what I've seen on TV Proactiv looks like a really good acne-remover. And my friends has Proactiv and it worked really well for her. I hope I helped.
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Does anyone know anything about Fung Shui?
Like where to put stuff in your room and stuff?
Thank you SO much! =] (link)
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I actually just read about some feng shui in Seventeen magazine, I believe. Well, I can't go upstairs and like, show you obviously lol, but I found an internet version of it.
http://www.seventeen.com/funstuff/shuistrology/detail/0,,3,00.html
and there's also:
http://www.care2.com/channels/solutions/home/2127
I hope I helped!
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i don't get what pushup bras are. like i know they make your boobs look bigger, but when i saw a picture of them, they just looked like normal bras. i know there're like sports bras and normal bras, and they just looked like normal bras. are there two diff types of bras that look like normal bras, or are they the normal bras?? (link)
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Push up bras basically do exactly what they say: they push up your boobs so they look bigger and give you more clevage. Yeah, they basically look like normal bras, except this have a little more padding at the bottom so it provides the "push-up". I hope I helped.
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K..so my friend of about 3 years is having a birthday party. I'm looking forward to her party, but the only problem is she invited 3 other girls to go out to eat/spend the night that I really don't like. I wanna have fun because I know the little party means a lot to my friend. Does anyone know of ANYTHING we can all do so we can all have fun. We're gonna have the house to ourselves tomorrow. Anyone have any ideas? 13/f
Thanks. (link)
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Well, you can do anything you want and have fun. You just have to rough it out. I've been in situations like this before. But you got to think: it's your friends birthday. Her day. So she'll probably want everyone to have a blast, and be drama-free and just have a good time and remember it as a good thing. Something I did at my birthday party [ because some people didn't know others ] is I brought out my school yearbook and we just flipped through it and talked about the kids at school and the classes and teachers and its a good icebreaker cause we all [obviously] went there and could tell lots of stories and felt the same way about the teachers. So just stick it out for a day. And I'm sure they'll be on their best behavior too for your friend. I hope I helped.
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my friend always tells me how everyone tells her shes sooo pretty. & like it gets annoying. & like im not jealous, because twice as many people tell me im pretty. so its not like im jealous. i just dont go around telling people, what other people say to me. like she does. so how can i make her stop?? besides saying like i dont care. bc i already tried that.. & well right now i just did & i can tell its turning into a fight. soo yahh
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It seems to me like your friend has self-esteem issues. She probably feels like she needs to reassure herself and let everyone know that people think she's pretty so she feels good about herself. There's a big chance if you say something a fight might be a result of it, but the nicest way I could possibly but it is,"_____, you are reallllyy pretty, and it's great that everyone [including me ] tells you you are, because you should hear compliments, but you're beginning to say it on a daily basis now and it's starting to get a little... bothersome. I'm not jealous or anything, it's just, I don't want to hear it over and over again. And besides, you don't need to tell me your pretty I already know. :D" And I know some of those sentences sound like they come off in a mean way, but that's if it's in a mean tone. If you say them just calm and nicely, she should be able to understand. I hope it all works out and I hope I helped.
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Me and my 2 friends are all 13, and were going to the mall on saturday alone, like without a parent or nething. We all are probbly going 2 go into JC Penney's and get push-up bras lol so i was wondering if stores alow young people (like minors) to buy push up bras without an adult or older person there. (link)
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Ha, it's perfectly fine. I don't think there's any clothes at JC Penny's that you have to buy with an adult. :]
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