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So Confused....
My boyfriend and i have been going out for almost 4 months now. We both care about each other alot. His previous girlfriend and him broke up cuz she was moving to a different state. The three of us are all friends and we get along great. Well our town's home coming dance will be here soon and my bf called me and asked if he could go with her. Now at first i didn't mind. i know that they are going just as friends, and i don't really like dances anyway. But then i was thinking that how do i know if i don't like dances if i haven't actually experienced one. I didn't go as a freshman cuz i didn't have a date, but now that i am going out w/ him i would have a date. See i went to the middle school dances and they were boring, but i hear high school ones are different. So i guess i don't know what i should do. Neither of us have gotten to see bekah in a long time (the ex, my best friend, his ex) so should i tell him that i want to go with him even though they have been planing this for about a year, or should i just let them go?
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~Throughly Confused.
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Throughly Confused,
What I would do is just let them go, I mean, they've been planning this for a year. But I'd suggest bringing someone along so you have someone to hang with and all you guys could hang together [ maybe even someone your friend already knows so it'd be easier to talk and hang out together and stuff ]. And maybe every slow dance or two you and your boyfriend could dance together and Bekah and your friend can dance together. That way, everyone gets to have fun, and you get to enjoy your highschool dance. :D I hope I helped! <3
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it's going to be hard but let them go. you should find a friend to take too. it'll still be fun. you'll get to experience homecoming & maybe even fit in a few dances with your boyfriend. [:
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Hey,
I read your problem and I totally understand what your going through and how confused you are and you don't know what to do.
But for starters, i have to tell you that your boyfreind really does love you and care about you,but he has other friends and people who he likes to hang out with , and even if she's his ex. Its not a big deal. Your already handling the situation perfectly from the beginning and you didn't mind. What changed your mind?
Look, i know that you should be the one going there with him, but maybe because he knows that you don't like parties and stuff ,and because you trust him and you know that he is just going with her as freinds ,then its okay and you wouldnt' mind .And he was right, because you didn't really mind at the beginning, and don't change your opinion about it, because your doing the right thing.
On the other hand, if your not satisfied with my avice or if this is what you didn't want to hear, then i have another suggestion, why don't the three of you go to the party together. You could hang out and have loads of fun ,besides, you say that the three of you get along great.
And if you have any other friends, guys or girls (which ofcourse you do have, no offense caused), then maybe someone could tag along with you to keep you company or something.
Just act natural and cool and let things fall down to place alone.
Have a nice day, and if you need any more advice or help, then please be free to contact me.
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