okay..this might be long but i just hope you can help me. ok i moved to a town a few months ago and i lived there for about a month and everyone warned me about this ONE boy, saying dont date him because he will hurt you. but of course ima see what hes about. well we started hanging out & before i know it. we started dating, hes the most sweetest guy ive ever met. we dated for like 5 or 6 months. then finally we just called it quits. & now he doesnt talk to me at all, you dont know how bad its hurting me. but i moved back to my hometown & now i try to call him sometimes just to talk to him you know. well ..he wont talk to me or anything. so im hurting pretty bad, just because he was the first guy that ever gave me so much attention & cared so much for me & then one day its all over. :( it hurts me so bad, i just duno what to do to get over him.. cuz i cant go on like this. like im depressed .. & i JUST cant eat...like i want to, but i cant cuz it makes me super super SICK! :( it sucks so much. but please help <3
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MelLeDisko answered Thursday August 17 2006, 3:46 pm: I've been in this same situation. I didn't really want to eat either, and I got super sick too. But for me it was just because I got so upset that my stomach got really upset and whenever I'd try to eat, it just wouldn't do it. But you gotta eat something. Just eating crackers or something cause that always soothes the stomach and plus, you're eating too. And about your guy, if you have his email or IM or anything, I'd try messaging him and asking him waht's going on. Is he mad or something? Because you'd really like to just be his friend and talk to him because you miss him. [ I don't know the whole story of why you guys broke up though ] cause maybe he's upset with you about that. But just ask him to at least explain WHY he's not talking to you, because you deserve to at least know. And if he still doesn't talk to you, I don't know what else to say. I know it's hard to get over him, but gradually, you will. That's what happened with me and my last boyfriend and then out of the blue, he IMed me one day and now we're on pretty good terms. :) I hope I helped and I hope everything works out for you. <3 [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
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