The name is Kayla.
I'm totally cool with giving anyone advice. It's what I love to do. So ask away.
Hm. I'm 16. Brownish - red hair .. green/blue eyes .. 5 ft.
I love life. I've experienced many things in it.
Live it to the fullest, but never regret .. you can never take back anything you've done.
E-mail: KaylaH1303@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Georgia
Occupation: School
Age: 16
Member Since: October 5, 2004
Answers: 277
Last Update: May 23, 2006
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My hair is really long..and very very thick..I have trouble straightening it myself..but whenever anyone else straightens it for me it turns out beautiful..Does anyone have any good tips to help me get my hair super straight and look good..and does anyone know any good products to use? (link)
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Umm, I don't know any products, but I do know that if you put your hair up and leave parts of it down then straighten it and then let some more pieces down and then it wont be so hard and you will only have little pieces to straighten at a time. -Kayla
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i am in love with a girl, she used to like me but she for some reason "stopped"...i found out recently that she snuck out with her friend and two guys and went somewhere and was making out with this guy for like 2 hours and i thought me and her had something, she said he was really nice and they just clicked and hes a sophomore at my school, although me and her "clicked" supposedly and i was nicer to her than any guy could ever imagine being to her...she told me not to be mad at her, hate her, or stop talking to her because that would be fucked up...please dont tell me to get over it and everything...ive tried and theres more to it but im sure youll get bored reading this long page...ill rate a 5 if you give me a helpful answer...WHAT DO I DO!?!?!?! (link)
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It wouldn't be fucked up if you were mad at her, hated her, or stopped talking to her. It's fucked up for her to do all that to you! She shouldnt've told you all that and then went against what she said. Maybe she just wanted a little break and thought she needed to get away from everything and be single for a while. I hope maybe you can find another chick that you like and just see how it goes. For now you obviously can't talk to her about it, but you can try to hook up with other girls and find a new one. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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(14-f) Okay..i met this guy ova tha summa...n we r real g0od friendz..well i am crushin 4 his older brother big time !! hes a junior(im a freshman) and he can drive..well last night he came ova to my house n it was me him my friend steph & one of his friendz...well we were hangin out n stuff n it was SOO AWESOME !he has a g/f but they r sorta...ech right now...they r both confused n yeah but anywayz...i like him alot n last night we hugged n stuff..n today i was tlakin to my mom n she said that since my friend Steph wont be in town tomarrow i should call up th guy i like n ask him if he wantz ta go see tha movie Saw with me tomarrow...just as friendz...i like him so much..n i would pay for myself n stuff so it would be as friendz but it would be so nice to hang out wit him like just us !! n my mom REALLA approves of him n yeah...my mom n sisters n stuff think i should call n ask him but wit tha phone im SOO NERVOUS !!! PlZzZz help ! should i just go ahead n call him ?? PLZ HELP ! Sm0ochez (link)
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Don't listen to anyone that says you write bad, who cares! Anyways, go ahead and call him! You know you really want to and what do you have to lose? I'm sure he would love to go, all you have to do is pick up the phone and ask. Just be like, hey, would you want to go to the movies with me tomorrow night, you know just as friends? See what he says and I'm sure he'll say yes! Tell me how it goes! -Kayla
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There is a school dance tonight and i'm not sure if i should go!! i want to but there are these girls who are mean and i'm afraid they might try to pick a fight with me tonight! Should i go? and if i go and they confront me what should i do? what should i say? (link)
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Go to the dance it will be lots of fun and if those girls do say something to you just walk away. They can't do anything to you anyways, you'll still be at school!! Go with some friends! Have fun! Bye chick! -Kayla
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well.. i'm in 8th grade. i feel way too old to go out trick or treating, but i have nothing else to do!! plus, nobody is going with me. should i just go for my last time, or skip it?? when did everyone else stop?? (link)
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Dude go! You are never too old to go trick-or-treating and besides your still in middle school. In a sophmore in highschool now and I'm not going trick-or-treating this yr because I don't want to dress up, but I did go last yr with my sister. Just go and ask people who is going and go with them! -Kayla
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Alright, so a friend of mine's dad died on tuesday after a long battle with a brain tumor. i've known the guy for since like thrid grade (we're freshemen now) and his mom was my teacher. when i heard about this i was very upset. I couldn't bring myself to go to the funeral today, but i'm worried my friend's going to think i don't care about him, and that i'm not worried about him. I'm sending him a card and donating for the charity they wanted us to donate to instead of flowers, but is there anything else i could do for them? i feel horrible about not going to the funeral, but what else should i do? (link)
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All I can say is that you need to talk to him. Be there for him to cry on your shoulder and to just have long talks about it. Since you weren't there for the funeral then you weren't there for him when he had to tell his dad goodbye. Now all you can do is talk to him and it's good that you are donating and sending him a card. Go visit him whenever you get a chance and just give him a HUGE hug! It will make him feel a lot better! Hope I helped! -Kayla
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OK...telling this story is getting really annoying, and I'd appreciate it if I didn't get snide comments about it, I already feel like a whore.
Well, to start it out, I had just gotten this new account on vampirefreaks. My friend had some crazy-cool people posting on hers so I went to check it out. One of the guys was so awesome. His profile was freakin' long and crazy, and he seemed really sweet. I left a message on his site and toddled off. Then he left a message on mine and so on. Well, anyways, we started talking on IM. The first time, I thought I had thoroughly annoyed him, so when we spoke next I apologized. Well, during our second conversation, we started making out. We pretty far, but not quite THAT far. Before I'd really talked to him, I thought he was really great, and when I did talk to him, I began to develop a crush on him.
A few days passed, othing happened. But then, his birthday came around. We had talked a little bit...and then we started doing a few things. It was mostly me doing, well, everything, so it was sort of weird. but that time, we did everything... In the end, I thought it had meant othing to him, but it didn't really bother me. but then after we did all of that, I felt sort of guilty, dirty...
Later that same night, after talking to 2 of my very close friends (one online, one not), i still felt bad. Then I was IMed by another guy from vampirefreaks, that I had become friends with a few days earlier. (NOTE: i had been at school, trying to sign in to vampirefreaks, and I wandered aimlessly onto this one page and it said the name Eryk. I looked at the pics and thought he was pretty, decided to look later. I looked him up later, and it wasn't him, but this other guy. There weren't any pictures of him so I read his profile. I left a comment, then he looked at my profile and IMed me. Thats how I met him.)
I Started talking with him, and he seemed sweet and he was always really nice and funny. I did like him, yeah, but I didn't really know how much. So, on the same day as the incident with Dion, I also did stuff with the other guy (his name is Dan). After all of that Dani and I talked... and he said that he'd liked me. I did like him to, so we just talked. Then after a few days we're like in love... My mum finds out about the cyber because I had printed it *dolt* 'cause I needed to talk to my friends about it. Mum banned me from IM. I snuck on to talk to them both, last night. Turns out it did mean something to Dion, and now he won't tell me how he feels about me. Dan and I are currently split up because he needs to think about some things, but he says that once he's done, we can go back to that. So, everything with Dan is ok, I think. But what do I do about Dion? And what about mum? (link)
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Hey hun, all I can tell you is that you didn't actually do anything with them. It was nothing at all, sorry but maybe you need to do the actual thing. You shouldn't feel bad because it wasn't anything at all! Also, you need to find a guy you actually know not guys you meet online and decide to cyber with. Cybering is NOT cool! I wouldn't worry about either of them because like I said you didn't do anything with either so none of yall should feel something! -Kayla
PS- What the hell were you thinking of cybering anyways? Hmm .. weird!
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Should i ask out a girl everyone hates in school? (link)
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Yes, it doesn't matter what everyone else thinks. They wouldn't be dating her, you would be. Go with your heart! -Kayla
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hey well start it off im 13-m. ok well about how hard would it be to find a girl that is like only interested in sex after marriage for dating material? because seems like everywhere i look on here, theirs a pregnant girl or one worried about it. i'm just talking about like later in my life, in my twenties right out of college. just to be prepared. also, i was reading a book, and a guy asked the girl if she was a virgin, and she said that she wasnt even embarrased. so are you like supposed to be embarrassed if your a virgin?
(deeply confused in matters i shouldn't have my paws in) (link)
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Dude, I will tell you right now that there are plenty of girls like that. I do know lots of ppl that aren't virgins, but I also know a lot like myself. All my best friends are and I have to say a lot of girls out there are thinking the same thing as you. Your still young so don't worry, I promise there is a girl like that for you that's perfect. Just wait! -Kayla
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ok well a guy found out i liked him and he likes me but im not positive i like him becuz i like other guys too. what should i do when i see him tommrow? AHH ill rate u a 5! (link)
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Hmm, act like you normally do and if he says that he wants to get to know you better then just do that. Just make sure to tell him in the beginning that you aren't looking for a relationship right now and you like some other people too but it would be nice to hang out and get to know him better. Act normal like nothing happened and be yourself. I had the same situation, but I just acted normal and it was all good. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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i didnt know where to put this but when you get your braces off, how do they do it and does it hurt? thanks :) (link)
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Umm ... I'm not sure but I'm getting mine off in a few weeks and every one is telling me that it just feels very weird and like slimy or something for a little while but I haven't heard that it hurts. -Kayla
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Hey, aright well I have posted questions about my ex-boyfriend (at the time). Anyway this has to do with him. Well like on Friday on his birthday I started to go bak out with him, and once ppl started to kno about it they called us the ever lasting couple and I was happy about that cuz the first time we started to go out we lasted for 6 months. So I guess my question is after me and him have gone through all of this do u think that we will last for a long, long time or is this just a sign of trouble ahead for the both of us?
Thanx so much to who ever answers this!! (link)
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I think this will make yalls relationship a lot stronger and will grow a lot more with time and yes I do think that yall will have a very long relationship. It all depends on what kind of fights yall get in. Just remember one thing. It's the ups and downs that get you to the awesome things you've been looking forward to. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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Hello, My name is Serena and I am 14 years old and I attend a good high school. Anywho, I do have a question. I know this might sound a bit offish, but I just don't know what the meaning is... I like to go to this site every now and then, and I like to read the questions, however, I sometimes see a question with a person stating their age with this: 13/f. Frankly, I have no clue to what the f in 13/f means! Can some of you all please tell me? Thank you so much! Love much, Serena L., New York (link)
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Oh that's an easy one. It means female. Like if someone asks you. ASl. It means Age, Sex, Location. -Kayla
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okay recently i had this boyfriend who i thought was my everything. well everything was apparently nothing at all when i kissed someone else so now i am broken up with my boyfriend and the other guy my parents never want me to see the other guy again but we both really like eachother. We arent going out right now bwcause neither one of us want a relationship. Oh yeah and i have liked this other guy for about a year.So i have liked him b4 i met my boyfriend. I am 13 years old and a female!Plz give good advice!!!!!!!! (link)
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Wait! You confused me. So who was your everything? Your bf? So you kissed another guy and your parents don't want you to see the guy? Why can't you see him? I think you should hang out with him maybe at the movies or something and just don't tell your parents and if you don't want to date now, then no need to tell your parents. Talk to them about it though and see what they say. You are only 13 so you have plenty of time, just hang out with him outside of yalls houses and maybe meet up with him after school or something and say you have a project haha. I think you should go for the guy you kissed since you've liked him for so long. -Kayla
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Ya I have this situation with this girl. Like we hung out a couple times and it was an awesome time. Like we both cuddled with each other made each other laugh and kissed. Then the last time we hung out which was 2wks ago, like i kept in touch with her always asking her to c if she wanted to do something and she says ya but when it comes down to it, she always has something else to do. This just didnt happen once but a couple of times during the 2wks. I know she doesnt mean to cuz she is always apologizing saying she is srry that she couldnt hang out and when im always online, she will always i-m first just sayin hey. Like i know she wants to c me more and she knows i have feelings for her and that i like her but i wanted to know what u guys think about this situation.. Hope u can give me some advice for this... Also she like rlly never calls me. Like i feel im always the one to call her and i hate that. Im sure some of u guys know what im talking about. lol but if u anyone has advice to give i would like to know what u think. thx -TiM- (link)
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I'm thinking that you just need to give her some space and don't call her for a while or invite her over. Wait until she asks why you don't do either of those anymore and then when she does tell her that she doesn't seem like she wants to talk or hang out. See what she says and hopefully she will make some time for you! Hope I helped! -Kayla
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Ok well to start off the question...I have a boyfriend named..lets call him bob....well we broke-up over a really dumb reason, but we got back together yesterday....I like him a lot but He is always rude to me and He told me [when we broke up] that he was thinkin about it a week be4? and I think now that were goin out again hes just screwing me over I dont kno!..well plz help me
Also I have feelings like I just want to break up with him because I love bein single and I have a crush on sum1 else!
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It sounds to me like yall are just dating to date. I think you should break up with him so yall are both happy and maybe you can hook up with that other guy. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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this is wut i said
hey theres this one guy i went out with and we were really close...we said i love you and all that stuff, then one day he heard alot of rumors around the school about me and they werent true,but he didnt believe me cuz he said that over 10 people said all this stuff.So he broke up with me,but a couple of days later we were talking on the phone and he said he would go out with me again but hes afraid of breaking my heart again..and i said "its ok....im getting used to it" but i didnt think before saying it. Then he said "why because of me" and i said yes....then he said he doesnt feel like talking....and he got all mad and hung up. After that we were talking on aim and we got in a big fight over that thing i said and he said he just wont talk or look at me anymore....And at school yesterday he wouldnt even look at me...but everybody i tell that too says i can get better, or u dont deserve him, but they dont kno how much i like him.When we were in that fight on aim he said that he was going to ask me if we can try it again, but i said that so now hes not going to ask me...and i just want to tell him how i really feel, but im afraid i'll say something else to make him mad....
and this is wut u said
Ok, here's my opinion, since you asked. I think you should go ahead and tell him since you aren't afraid to and it will get a load off your shoulders. Plus, he's already mad at you, so if it does make him mad (which it shouldn't), then it doesn't really make a difference right? Just go ahead and tell him and make him feel loved. Maybe, tell him you want to talk face to face and say that you really like him and you really want to go back out with him and you didn't mean what you said and make him happy. Then, he shouldn't be very angry and if he does, well, like I said, he can't get very much angrier. Hope I helped! -Kayla
and i took your advice and i tryed talking to him and this is wut he said.....
BaByGuRl7212007: hey.....i kno u dont wanna talk to me, but i jus wanted to say im really really sorry for wut i said that day and i didnt think before i said it and that its not tru..... i miss u soooo much and i just want us to be friends again.........
Str8BallaBlockin: w/e...u don't give a damn about me...well guezz wad I have feelingz 2 even though u don'; think so I do
Str8BallaBlockin: bye
BaByGuRl7212007: i never said you dont have feelings i know you do and im trying to be friends with you..
Str8BallaBlockin: No....I loved u I mean I fuckinf realy did love u and I waz gonna ask u out but u didn't give a damn
BaByGuRl7212007: how do u kno i didnt
Str8BallaBlockin: they way u treated me
BaByGuRl7212007: how did i treat u
Str8BallaBlockin: Like I waz da scum of da earth
BaByGuRl7212007: ok, wut did i say?
Str8BallaBlockin: No wad we can't be friendz, no more den friendz, all we can be iz acomplishes
Str8BallaBlockin: U hurt me way 2 bad
Str8BallaBlockin: ur da 1st grl 2 make me cry
Str8BallaBlockin: bye
Str8BallaBlockin signed off at 10:11:12 PM.
what should i do? i really do like him and i kno and my sister knows that he hurt me more then i hurt him and hes getting all upset about this..im so sorry but everyone i tell this too, tells me to get over him or that hes just a jerk and i can get guys better then him, but i cant...its like i cant believe how i lived without him. He means sooo much to me to just get over and he was the first boy i ever cryed over too. But i just need some help from someone who probably knows what to do if u were me..... (link)
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Well, don't listen to your friends then because they are wrong to tell you to get over him. Obviously they haven't been in that type of position before and don't know what it feels like. Well, from what I read, you should tell him exactly what you told me. You only told him that you were really sorry and you wanted to be friends with him and he told you EXACTLY how he felt and how bad you hurt him. Tell him that you love him very much and you don't want to be just friends but if that's all yall could ever been then that's good enough for you even though it makes you sad. Tell him his heart isn't the only one that has been hurt by this, yours has to and you wish you could change what you said because you didn't mean it, but you cant. Apologize to him again. Tell him that you want to talk to him about EVERYTHING, then tell him exactly what you feel for him. Like tell him what you like him in and if he makes you happy then tell him that. Say, everytime I'm around you I get so happy, and I wish I could have you back, that your truly sorry and ask for forgiveness. Then tell him he's the only guy that has ever made you cry too because you are so upset about all this. Just tell him everything you feel about him, why you like him, how much you miss him, how badly you want him. Just everything that you can think of and make sure it's sweet. Tell him you just want him to listen while you tell him and then when your done keep talking to him and see what goes from there. Tell me what happens! I hope I helped! -Kayla
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i took a girl on a first date with a girl and she is a sophmore and i am a freshman. she made me pick the movie and i accidently picked a blood and guts movie. she said she liked it and i asked her the next day for a second date and she said yes. do you think this is a second date out of pitty? (link)
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No way! Girls don't go on second dates out of pity, trust me. I'm thinking she likes you. Go on the next one and think positive thoughts. She obviously wants to hang out again. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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I think I like my ex boyfriend again..but I'm not really sure if he likes me the same way anymore..we broke up a lil while ago, but sometimes when I see him I feel like I wanna be with him again, but whnever we don't talk..it's like it's awesome just being friends..it's mainly just whenever I see him though! I can't talk to him about it, because I'm afraid he might not like me the same way anymore, and I'll feel like a complete fool!! We're going to homecoming together, but I'm not sure if that means anything! What should I do? (link)
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I think you shouldn't worry about it until after homecoming and see if he dances really really close to you, or yall kiss. See what happens and write me back! Hope I helped! -Kayla
Ps. - I have a friend like that and everytime I'm around him I feel like I want to date him again but when we aren't around eachother I love being his friend. Maybe you should just be his freinds with benefits.
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hey u guys im a 15 year old male, and i was of course playing truth or dare with mostly grls and a few guys, and a grl dared me to go in the bathroom right then and there and SHAVE MY LEGS! well i wasnt gonna turn down a dare so i did it, but im wunderin if i should like wear pants to school until they grow back cuz usually guys wit shaved legs r gay, or do grls think is hot?? (link)
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No way dude! Wear pants to school until it grows back, it isn't cool, no offense. Hope the hair grows back soon! -Kayla
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