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hey theres this one guy i went out with and we were really close...we said i love you and all that stuff, then one day he heard alot of rumors around the school about me and they werent true,but he didnt believe me cuz he said that over 10 people said all this stuff.So he broke up with me,but a couple of days later we were talking on the phone and he said he would go out with me again but hes afraid of breaking my heart again..and i said "its ok....im getting used to it" but i didnt think before saying it. Then he said "why because of me" and i said yes....then he said he doesnt feel like talking....and he got all mad and hung up. After that we were talking on aim and we got in a big fight over that thing i said and he said he just wont talk or look at me anymore....And at school yesterday he wouldnt even look at me...but everybody i tell that too says i can get better, or u dont deserve him, but they dont kno how much i like him.When we were in that fight on aim he said that he was going to ask me if we can try it again, but i said that so now hes not going to ask me...and i just want to tell him how i really feel, but im afraid i'll say something else to make him mad....
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Ok, here's my opinion, since you asked. I think you should go ahead and tell him since you aren't afraid to and it will get a load off your shoulders. Plus, he's already mad at you, so if it does make him mad (which it shouldn't), then it doesn't really make a difference right? Just go ahead and tell him and make him feel loved. Maybe, tell him you want to talk face to face and say that you really like him and you really want to go back out with him and you didn't mean what you said and make him happy. Then, he shouldn't be very angry and if he does, well, like I said, he can't get very much angrier. Hope I helped! -Kayla
and i took your advice and i tryed talking to him and this is wut he said.....
BaByGuRl7212007: hey.....i kno u dont wanna talk to me, but i jus wanted to say im really really sorry for wut i said that day and i didnt think before i said it and that its not tru..... i miss u soooo much and i just want us to be friends again.........
Str8BallaBlockin: w/e...u don't give a damn about me...well guezz wad I have feelingz 2 even though u don'; think so I do
Str8BallaBlockin: bye
BaByGuRl7212007: i never said you dont have feelings i know you do and im trying to be friends with you..
Str8BallaBlockin: No....I loved u I mean I fuckinf realy did love u and I waz gonna ask u out but u didn't give a damn
BaByGuRl7212007: how do u kno i didnt
Str8BallaBlockin: they way u treated me
BaByGuRl7212007: how did i treat u
Str8BallaBlockin: Like I waz da scum of da earth
BaByGuRl7212007: ok, wut did i say?
Str8BallaBlockin: No wad we can't be friendz, no more den friendz, all we can be iz acomplishes
Str8BallaBlockin: U hurt me way 2 bad
Str8BallaBlockin: ur da 1st grl 2 make me cry
Str8BallaBlockin: bye
Str8BallaBlockin signed off at 10:11:12 PM.
what should i do? i really do like him and i kno and my sister knows that he hurt me more then i hurt him and hes getting all upset about this..im so sorry but everyone i tell this too, tells me to get over him or that hes just a jerk and i can get guys better then him, but i cant...its like i cant believe how i lived without him. He means sooo much to me to just get over and he was the first boy i ever cryed over too. But i just need some help from someone who probably knows what to do if u were me.....
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Well, don't listen to your friends then because they are wrong to tell you to get over him. Obviously they haven't been in that type of position before and don't know what it feels like. Well, from what I read, you should tell him exactly what you told me. You only told him that you were really sorry and you wanted to be friends with him and he told you EXACTLY how he felt and how bad you hurt him. Tell him that you love him very much and you don't want to be just friends but if that's all yall could ever been then that's good enough for you even though it makes you sad. Tell him his heart isn't the only one that has been hurt by this, yours has to and you wish you could change what you said because you didn't mean it, but you cant. Apologize to him again. Tell him that you want to talk to him about EVERYTHING, then tell him exactly what you feel for him. Like tell him what you like him in and if he makes you happy then tell him that. Say, everytime I'm around you I get so happy, and I wish I could have you back, that your truly sorry and ask for forgiveness. Then tell him he's the only guy that has ever made you cry too because you are so upset about all this. Just tell him everything you feel about him, why you like him, how much you miss him, how badly you want him. Just everything that you can think of and make sure it's sweet. Tell him you just want him to listen while you tell him and then when your done keep talking to him and see what goes from there. Tell me what happens! I hope I helped! -Kayla
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