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LOL!!! Hey my name is Samantha,
im 15, and im here for
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How did you get your title of your column bigger and all that?? and i diff. color>?

i dont know i just edited my profile and it just put the stuff like that. i got my backround the way i wanted it and stuff but i just picked crap...lol
love ya :)
sammie

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I have to do a project with this kid... and ever since... i think i like him... its weird because hes like that cool, funny guy but hes not my type?

Sincerely,
what should i do?!

I'm 13 and a female

i think that you should get his number, call him, and get to know him more. otay. who knows you may have SOMETHING in common with him and he may be YOUR type. think about it...:)

~sammie~

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I will admit I was smoking and drinking for quite sometime, but that was because I was hurt and I had no where else to turn. I don't have many friends, and I tend to trust to quickly and then be screwed over. I don't fit in with anyone, and when it comes to getting close to someone I break apart. I don't know what to do, because I am scared to get hurt. People will literally try and ruin my life because of some stupid rumor I have repeated. I am not known as a dramatic person, but sometimes you got to be. When it comes to friends, I have one person I really truly trust, and can tell things to. We don't see each other everyday because she lives far away, only on weekends. At school, I am alone, and all I wanna do is break down and cry. I have no one to turn to, and would like a friend or two that I can trust. I just want to be able to have a good time and know they will be there for me when I need them. Any advice? Thanks

hey IM me... you can talk to me more about this if you want my SN is Sammielubsu.

~sammie~^_^ there's something to make you laugh...

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My parents disapprove of a lot of my friends. One of them.. ok.. shes a slut.. and they know that.. and they think im gunna be like her (i sorta am.. but not NEARLY as bad.. shes been with like 15 guys.. me only 2) and another friend has been pregnant before (shes 16) and another friend Steals and gets high alot... (they only know about the stealing)
My parents dont know i've had sex.. and they dont know i've been high (AND THEY AINT GUNNA!)
Since I hang out with these people (nicest people i know).. they dont trust me to even be around them at skool.. how can i get my parents to trust me more? I havent done anything to lose their trust (that they know of)
Theyso wont let me stay the night with anyone.. even the people they trust.. how can i change this

DONT TELL ME QUIT DOIN THE STUFF I DO!! I DONT DO IT NOW! AND DONT TELL ME THAT THEY DO HAVE A REASON NOT TO TRUST ME CUZ I ALREADY KNOW THAT.. BUT THEY DONT KNOW MY LIFE.. SO THEY ACTUALLY DONT..

Parents are always not going to trust their kids because of the simple fact that they "may" have made the same mistakes as you are now, even tho they dont know some of the things that you do. Its they're ,honest to god, nature. Keep hanging out with the people that you hand out with. Try to meet new people ,you know the kind that are much appreciative by your parents, and if they're different then the friends that you have now then try to hang with them the same amount of time that you do with your other friends.

good luck
~sammie~

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my boyfriend wont look at me straight when i talk ta him or he will just leave me on hold for a long time when eva im talkn' ta him on tha phone.1 day he asked me was i cheating on him and i told him NO WAY bcuz i would neva eva do a such thing like that but i neva asked him was he cheating on me.cause when i call him he hangs up on me on purpose but when he calls me i do tha same u kno. i kno its wrong but if any1 kno's if thats actually a sign of him cheating, bcuz he makes me cry and wanna hang up on him just pleaze HELP and i will really appreciate if u dont delete this and only gurls will answer this question thanxxxxx

noh hatas
and i rate very high

if he is treating you like this then why are you still with him. im not gonna say that he is cheating on you or anything but if he wants to be the one to ask you that then he is one messed up mo-fo. i mean, your nice enough to trust him but yet he doesnt trust you. i think that a relationship is based on trust, companionship and honesty and a lot of other things. i just think that you should confront him on this. girlie dont let him treat you like this.

~sammie~

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Ok.. this guy... i like him so much, hes the reason i wanna get up for school everyday. I want to show him i like him, but im not sure he likes me. He did at the begining of the year but then he said he stopped. I dont wanna ruin our friendship over this, but i dont know if it could turn into something better by somehow showing him i like him a bunch. He always looks at me in class and smiles FORever and we flirt alot but what guy dosnt do that? what do you think?

First of all if he said that he stopped liking you, then i think that he is trying to start some friends with benefits bs. im not trying to sound rude but that's what i think. if its not that and he just plainly doesnt like you like that anymore then just be friends with him. I think that, that would be the best thing for you if you dont want to get hurt.

good luck hommie! ^_^
~sammie~

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Okay so I have this friend and she has a boyfriend and I am his friend a little bit like he talks to me and stuff and he gives me money but I asked him if I could have a sip of his Powerade and he said yes so I took a sip and my friend saw me and she got all mad at me and said that I have been flirting with her boyfriend, and that I like him even though I have my own boyfriend....I sent her a text message saying sorry and I even tried calling her but she won't answer. I need help what should I do

i know that you have said sorry and have tried to call her, but i think that you should give her a while to cool down and then after a few days i think that you should confront her and tell her how you feel. honestly, not trying to be rude, but i think that she is really overreacting. she also needs to chill.

always here for advice
~Sammie~

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I fall for men to quickly and then end up getting hurt. It is usually when you like a guy they don't feel the same way or vice versa. Now, I don't technically like someone right now, but I'd like to find someone I can spend time with and get to know so that I know something will happen. Any adive? I am nice, attractive, open minded, opinionated, spiritual, funny, love sports, love to talk, and just have a good time. I don't know what I'm doing wrong, but there has to be something. People are always telling me how beautiful I am, and then they end up asking me why I don't have a BF, and I ask myself the same questions. Thanks!

falling for a guy isnt gonna help that much at this moment for you. trust me that has happened to me plenty of times but i have realized that i sould wait for that one that will like me for me and all of that good stuff. let me tell you one thing tho...you will know who the right guy for you is. so keep being yourself and your guy will come sooner or later.
dont give up
~sammie~

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I am 13/f
I have a friend. We'll call her "N". Well N is very moody sometimes. And, yes, I do know about PMS but its everyday. It seems like shes nice to me on and off or when she wants to be. I don't know if she is using me or anything but she just sometimes have this attitude when I talk to her. She doesn't listen or look like she is. And thats one of my BIGGEST pet peeves. But then she talks to me about her day and everything. And I listen and set the example. I think my friend is personally full of herself in ways cuz she thinks she can have any guy she wants and can be conceeded at times. And then calls herself the ugliest thing or not that pretty. (and she is absolutly soooo pretty) It bothers me cause she brings me down. I can never talk to her about my problems. But I have to listen to her?
Please help me
What should I say or do? Because she is very nice but the thing I just typed above..I want to stay her friend.
xo0x :)

Honestly i think that you should just go ahead and ask her if anything is on her mind. if there is then talk with her about it. if there isnt then tell her how she's been presenting herself towards you lately. she'll understand.

~sammie~

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ok well i really need some help cuz c i have this guy friend named ryan and we r real good friends. but hes 2 years younger than me. but i love him as in WAY more than a friends but he only sees me as a friend and i cant get him 2 c how much i really do love him. what should i do?

signed confused

if you really want him to understand how you feel talk to him about it. he'll understand.

good luck girlie
~sammie~

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Hey, please help me. (14/m) I was with this girl and a friend of mine, and we were all just hanging out, the girl that i was with is my girlfriend, but she's been since Thursday. She really is kind of creeped out by my friend because he likes her, but she won't like him because she likes me, and we're going out. Now my friend (we're going to call him F from now on) is good friends with my gf. Anyways, my gf and I were holding hands and everything until about 6:15 (PM), where my dad was going to drive up and pick me up. So right before he drove up, I asked her, "Hey.. (Gf's name here)... can I kiss you?" (Well my friend was making 2 fists and showing like making them kiss, and he wanted us to, so I asked) Anyways my gf says "Uhhh no," in kind of a laughing way, not meant to be mean, but she still meant no, so I said "Ok.." In kind of a quiet voice, and then my dad drove up as I waved goodbye. My question is, how come she said no? I don't know if maybe F was making her nervous or she wasn't ready or she was scared, or other things like that. Could someone please help me out, and explain to me what I did wrong and/or maybe give reasons why you think she said no?
Thank you for reading, please help ASAP...

ok sweetie, honestly i think that the reason she didnt kiss you was because she didnt want to do that in front of your friend knowing good and well that he likes her... but trust me its not you. its just the fact that she wanted to wait until you and her were by yourselves.

*kisses* ~sammie~

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Ok... so there is this guy, he is a senior. I am a freshman. He came over to my house this afternoon and at first we sat across the room from eachother and then he threw a pillow at me and the we got in a pillow fight and then my dad came downstairs and told me to behave so "adam" says yea sit down and behave and pointed to the seat next to him, so I say down, then he put his arm around me and we just flirted around for and hour. Do you think he likes me?
Thnkz

let me just say, LMAO!!! hun if yall were flirting then i'm pretty SURE that he likes you. me personally, what i think, GO FO IT!.

LOL ~sammie~

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13/f

Hi,
I am doing a play with a kiss scene. And the person that I happen to be kissing is my guy friend. So its really akward. I really try to make it non-akward after but somehow it just is. And I was going to do the "theatre illusion" of kissing someone but the drama teach says it looks to obvious (putting your thumbs over the person's mouth and kissing your thumbs). Is there any other way to make it illusion? so its not all akward. We already kissed for once and for real. Boy, I was mad. All my friends are like aw, you should go out with him. I mean for heaven's sake! It was a staged kiss!
Any adice?
Por Favor :)
xo0x Pucker Upp

ok, just to let you know....kissing your friend is awkward because you are making it awkward. its just acting. dont worry about what your friends say because they are just saying that. and if you really like the play then it wouldnt matter. otay.

~sammie~

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my boy friend is always calling my bf a bitch..shes like awsome though and i tell him not to call her that infront of me..but he still does..what do i do?

ok gurlie...if you really want your boyfriend to respect your friend then you need to talk to him about it instead of just letting it go on like this. you know what i mean?
love ya
~sammie~

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