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im fourteen and mi name is sarah.
i duno what to do n e more bout jordan my boyfriend. i mean, i think I love him. But then other times, I just feel it would be better off as us just being friends. But everyone says he loves me so much. But... i mean... ugh. I dont see myself being with him forever. Im starting high school in like 30 days. I wana get into a relationship there. With new guys, and new people to hang out with and everything. I don't want him like tagging along... kinda ya no? I duno.. I want to start off fresh. But he cares so much.... if i told him i couldnt go out with him anymore then he would kill himself. Thats what he said to me b4. in front of mi face he just said out of no where... sara if i lost you...... i dont think i would be able to go on. I dont think id be able to last. like that scared me. I mean... ugh it sux.. im so confused.
Do you think i should dump him?? or just keep going out with him?

if u want to so bad u should dump him im pretty sure he'll get over it eventually, just let him down slow.. lol u kno wut i mean.. hope i helped

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ok well i am 5' 5" amd weigh bout 130. i dont think i am fat but i wanna keep in shape for sports ect. itd also be easier to get in shape now then later. i RELE try to work out and eat healthy but i can never stick with sumthin long enough to see results. we have so much tempting food and i never get around to my work outs is there ne tips ppl have to stick with sumthin? thx

**i could also use some good ab work outs too**

u could go runing like a mile like once every two days but not like sprinting, nd just do a ton of sit up after

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I would like all Days of Our lives fans opinions on this-
they changed the person who plays Belle Black yesterday without warning.
I think that they should have left Kirstin Storms playing her and they could have at least given some notice.

I know this isnt an important question to many but it is to me so give me your opinion!

wut they changed her?? thats not cool! lol!! i dont watch that show very much but wen i did she was good as her character even tho it is kinda weird lol its cool tho!!!

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how do you get stars next to your name??

umm shift 8??? or do u mean diff stars? ahh now im confused!! lol!! hope i helped..
***Ker~Bear***

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alright well im still scared haha but i have a tiny little belly button and i think it will really hurt...lol i dont know how to get myself to go in there and get it done cuz i want it sooo bad but ahh THE PAIN!!

u could hold an ice pack on ure belly button for like 2 straight hours watchin a good movie rite before u go and then keep the ice pack on it as ure gettin to the piercing place and it wont hurt as much if it hurts at all thats wut i did but my mom didnt kno :-O so i got in trouble.. oops lol hope i helped

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does anyone know any good songs? i like alternative music. but i would like songs that u never hear, but have a good message or are about couples.

boys and girls by kill hannah
or
any song by My Chemical Romance
or
any song by 311

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hey can some1 pleaze tell me what song this is nd who singz it..i kno it but i forget-the lyrics are..
If I traded it all
If I gave it all away for one thing
Just for one thing
If I sorted it out
If I knew all about this one thing
Wouldnt that be something

kick ass song!! one thing by finger eleven

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see i want a classic guitar but i don't exactly know were to get one and i don't have the money to buy oneand so what should i do?

-bubba78

P.S.i am a girl who needs advise

you could go to ebay.com and find one and then save ure money and eventually save up for one hope i helped

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idk if i should have sex yet i think about it alot i want to try but then when i wit the guy my body is tellin me a whole different story if u know what u me i just dont know what 2 do

16/f

if youre not ready for it you really shouldnt cuz u'll regret it, some of my frends had sex and after that the first time they regreted it cuz they werent ready for it yet, but if u think ure ready nd ure safe u should just do wut u feel would be right

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is it ok to have stretch marks or like scars of some sort on ur breasts?

yea teens usually get them wen they go through puberty or wen they gain more weight than usual and then lose it hope i helped

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I've decided to start using tampons because I get my period every two or three weeks and it lasts for a week and I dont wanna sit home for a whole week for most of the summer and do nothing. Well the other day I got my period so I used a tampon and when I took it out, it hurt. Is this normal? This question is to the girls so please help me out!

yeah its normal its just cuz ure not used to using tampons after a while u dont even feel it wen u take it out

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hey i have decided to use tampns b/c i am hate pads. and when i used tampons i mean it went fine for a while and then when i tryed to take one out it was like stuck and it had a piece of skin the was preventing it from getting out. i was wondering has this happened to ne other girls ?

that could hav happened cuz at the end of ure period sumtimes if ure period isnt heavy enough ure tampon can dried out nd if u leave it in too long it can absorb more than just wut its supposed to nd get stuck

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Hi. I wanted to know. If my boobs are too small and I wanted to get boob pills! How could I get them if im not 18 and I dont have a credit card?
Sigened.
Flat Chested!

dont get boob pills theyre bad for ure health nd u'll get boobs eventually if ure under eighteen then u haven fully gone through puberty so u could still be growin just wait til ure older hope i helped

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Hey umm im 15 and im preg. i need to know will i get my period?

wen ure pregnant u dont get ure period

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okay, so here's the situation..in 7th grade i used to be how do you say it..the ugly duckling..then in eighth grade my body matured and i was still unhappy with myself..then people started complimenting me and i have had no trouble finding people to do stuff with..not meaning sex but...yah know..i just don't know what to do ..because as much as i want a boyfriend im soo used to my usual thing..i don't know what to do..what if i cheat on that boyfriend..or what..is it like wrong not to have boyfriends..becuase i don't think im ready for a relationship..maybe in time but i mean right now im not gunna settle down ..but is it wrong or what?

its not cool to cheat so maybe u should just stick wit wut ure doin plus boyfrends suck ass mostly lol just do wut u want

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I know you can never have too much love for a pet, but after you meet my friend you probably won't want to see another cat again... my friend is always talking about who, what, when, where, why, about her CAT! It's driving me crazy! Whenever she stops talking about guys she's always on to talking about her cat. I need so major advice to help me to avoid her talking about her pets!

Signed, Someone who never wants to see a cat again!

u could always tell her to shut up lol but in a nice way nd let her kno that it gets really annoyin wit all her talk bout her cat hope i helped

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okaii... i have a boiifriend and he lives far awaii and i really like him and im going to visit and then comeing bak and i dont even kno if the relationship will work i have mii douts but then i really like him and i dont care where he lives and sometimes people tell me i shouldnt be with him because he lives so far awaii but i start crying when they tell me that because i dont wanna lose him... what sould i do?
Sigened,
wOrRiEd!

if u really like the kid theres no other reason to break up wit him then u should stay wit him it doesnt always matter wether they live far away or real close by if ure happy then it all works out. hope i helped!

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my bff just told me she was liking gurls. do I treat her different, or the same? help me.
signed
***/confuzzzed/***

treat her the same its not like its gonna totally change who she is

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What does first second and third base mean. I know what a home run is.(sex wise not baseball)

first~ french
second~ feel
third~ finger
fouth~ fuck

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