I've made my mistakes, I have my faults, I've done my sins. I've been heart broken and have broken hearts as well. There's a lot I've seen, a lot I've heard, and a lot I've been through. I don't know everything but I have my opinions and if you ask me for adivce I will always try to help.
p.s. LOVE IS VILE!!
E-mail: vilelove@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Occupation: student
Age: 15
Member Since: August 19, 2005
Answers: 135
Last Update: February 5, 2007
Visitors: 9557
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i was wondering if anyone had any good ideas for a sweet 16 party. i have a little bit of money to spend but not to to much. i want something for a small group of girls thats not to expensive and is fun for everyone ( i have some non girly girl) friends. also its going to be in the evening/night if that rules anything out and i dont really want a sleep over (link)
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Hi! How about going to the beach and having a picnic in the sand (it's a lot prettier in the evening when the sun isn't so hot). Or staying home and playing gameboards and sherades and truth or dare and listen to lots of cool music and that kind of stuff. Or maybe if you got a jumper that could be cool. I don't have too many ideas, sorry. Well good luck and if you're brithday is coming up happy early birthday!!
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I really like this guy. Whenever he IMs me it makes my heart jump. He know a WHOLE lot about me and my life. I think he knows to much though where hell think that im not good enough. Also I dont know if he likes me back. I have 2 classes with him tis year and Im scared ill embaress myself in front of him. How do I know if he likes me? Also hes a different race. Like not mexican but like sometin around there. My family doesnt really support mixed races but I really would like yo go out with him. I really dont care what they say but if I ever go out with him should I tell my family right away?
BTW>Im 13/f...8th grade (link)
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Hi. ....Well it depends... when a guy takes so much interest in a girl it usually means he's interested in her. Unless he's like that with a lot of girls, in which case he's probably a nice guy being friendly. A good way of finding out if he likes you is the classic "getting a friend to ask for you" method. A lot of times guys are honest about it and just say "yes". But if he doesn't answer either "yes" or "no" maybe you should get a friend to tell him that you like him and asked your friend to tell him for you. That way he'll either say "really? I like her too! I'll ask her out!" but if he says "no, I don't like her that way" you can just deny the whole thing. l. o. l. But I really think he likes you since he has so much interest in you. (p.s. you sound like a cool person so don't think you're not good enough for him. If you really weren't good enough for him he wouldn't spend his time getting to know you. But he does.) Now, if you guys DO get in a relationship I don't see why you should tell your family right away (unless you usually do when you get a boyfriend). But if it starts getting serious (like if you guys want to meet each other's families) or if you guys go out after school or on the weekend than I would suggest telling them a little bit in advance before you went on the date with him. Well my best wishes!!
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Well my best friend is being a bitch l8y n then she chose her bf over me n now but that didnt mind me so we have been fightn l8y but we are friends n i went out with this guy she liked but we all liked him but then i found out that she made him break up with me but he told me that he would go out with me again n he told my other friend that he was gonna sk me out but should i say yes or no i really like him but i dont want to loose a friend over him but idk if i allready lost her ................. please anwser me (link)
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Hi. Well if you really like him... and she doesn't seem like a good friend. I don't think she's worth you sacrifising your happiness. It's true, boys aren't everything and I really doubt you'll marry this guy. BUT even if it's only for a week or a month or 3 months or 5 or a year (it really doesn't matter how long your relationship lasts) it will make you happy. It'll be an experience. You'll learn from it, you'll grow from it. You shouldn't let her deprive you from that or take away that opportunity. Maybe if she was a better friend and you didn't like him a lot than the story would be different. Besides, even if you do "choose her over him" it's not like she'll appreciate you more for it. You'll just be sad and maybe even heart broken. So I really think you should go out with him. again. Well my bestest wishes!!!
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hey - ok - you know how they have thopse slim-fast meal bars for like 220 cals? how can such a little bar like that fill you up?! the size of it is so small - how is that supposed to keep you full for like 5 hours?! i heard that there is like pellets in it that expand in your stomach that keep you full but i don't know if thats true! anyone know? (link)
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Hi. Well that's the snack bar. You're also allowed to take SlimFast milkshake (which I believe has protein to keep you full). When you start the diet you are allowed 2 milkshakes and 2 or 3 snacks (I forgot how many snacks) every so hours, but after a week or two you have to cut down to 1 milkshake (they come in different flavors like chocolate, strawberry, and a french vanilla milkshake which is pretty good). ALSO what helps A LOT is to drink a lot of water. It also keeps your stomatch full and it helps your body's system A LOT. Well take care!!
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Im starting High School in 10 days. Im excited/nervous but whatever. Does anybody know any school supplies that will be needed? Or could anybody recommend school supplies i should have? Except for pens,notebooks and a backpack because i already have those things? (link)
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Hi. Pencils (not the same as pens... some teachers-like my algebra teacher-only like pencils) and 3 ring binders and paper (free sheets besides your notebook, sometimes you have to turn stuff in). Withe-out isn't necessary but it's good to be prepared. And of course, your P.E. clothes. Well I hope you like high school. High school years are pretty important because they build up a lot of who you will become on the rest of your life. But don't let the high school stuff get to you because in a way high school is a lot like Las Vegas... what happens in high school, stays in high school :-)
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My best friend N and me went out. we were mad about each other. we would chill all the time, and just talk about things. Well I loved him and he loved me but than i started hanging out with B my neighbor and I fell for him. than i didnt like him but me and n had broke up already. He doesnt want to date me cuz it will mess up our friendship were still super close. I want him back sooo bad. How should I go after him or should I give up on him?
Sorry this was long. Please answer seriously (link)
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Hi. Does he know how you feel? If he doesn't, you might want to tell him you still like him as "more than friends". If he already knows or if he keeps telling you he doesn't want to mess up the friendship it might be a pretty good idea to staright out ask him how he feels about you. There's no point if he doesn't like you as "more than friends" and he's jsut making you think the only reason you two can't be together is to save your friendship. However if he DOES like you but is still scared of the risks try reassuring him and telling him you'll be friends no mater what and that you will try your best to make your relationship work out. But it is really important that you know how he feels about you. There are really only two optionsm it's either he likes you or not. It seems to me he still does but the only issue is the friendship, but it's better to make sure and hear it from him. Well my best wishes!!
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Ok i have so many friends, but one of the mjus wont like leave me alone! She wants to were her hair like me and wants to dress the same but i cant deal with this until senior year!and im only goin ot hte 7th grade!! I am starting to get real tired of this and i dont kno how to tell her with out hurting her feelings or anything. PLEASE help me
Signed
Headache&Miserable (link)
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Hi. Well a simple suggestion would be to encourage her own uniqueness and her differences. For instance, if you like to wear your hair up and she stars doing it you can say "you should do your hair in a pony tail again. It really looks much nicer and it's so you." If you guys are really close maybe you should have some space from each other. If she's always following you around try introducing her to some friends so she won't smuther you so much. Also ask her about her own opinion before telling her yours. Well good luck with!!
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What is HTML? What does it stand for? And what does it do? (link)
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HyperText Markup Language
codes entered in the internet to make certain things show or appear. for instance when you are writing and you want the font or style of your writing to look different you insert something like < font > (without the spaces) before what you write. "< font >" is a form of HTML.
it makes up text looking like this.
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So we just started school back up this Tuesday and I like it just fine. But the only problem is that I don't have any friends. And I sit alone at lunch, and all the kids look at me like "OMG what a loser.." I actually heard some kid behind me say to one of his friends about "oh look at the girl sitting by herself" and he laughed like it was the funniest thing in the world.
I am a very shy person, and I have actually tried to go up to a few people and ask if I can sit with them. They say yes but don't talk to me and make me feel really uncomfortable around them so it's pointless to sit with them. I have contemplated just going to sit in the bathroom or library at lunch.
But the only problem with that is I have to eat during lunch, because if I don't, when I come home I'll eat alot. My mom and I get food stamps and every month they lower the price so I can't eat all the food. What do I do? Do I just suck it up and sit by myself everyday? Or do I just not eat so much? Please help! I will rate! (link)
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Hi. Well asking people if you could sit with them is a great start. Now, what you should do is listen to their conversation and see if you can jump in. If they are talking about a movie they have all seen say something like "oh, I've seen that movie! Leonardo De Caprio was really cute in it!" Basically observe their conversationa nd jump in at an apprpriate time and make yourself interesting so they will ask you to sit with them when you're not sitting with them. If they are really into celebrities and that kind of thing why not buy a magazine and take it there during lunch and then they will start asking if they can see it wit you and it will start a conversation. This will create a bond. If you see any of those boys/girls in class or in the hallway be polite, say hello to them. Or you can start talking to people in your class before lunch and then when the bell rings to go to lunch ask them if you can sit with them and talk to them on the way to the lunch area. I really hope it works out for you. I myself have been in that situation once or twice and I know it's pretty awkward.
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Im really bad at making myself a sn. So I was wondering if you guys could help. I like ;; the color pink,carebears,im in the class of 08, juicy couture,i love the song damaged..(by tlc. idk what else to tell you guys. if u need to know more ask. and ill put it in additional info. (link)
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hi! how about
damaged08
i_am_damaged
pink008
pinkflowers
pinkroses
cybercarebear
the_pink_carebear
well good luck in finding a cool screenname.They are defenetly hard to make up.
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me and my friend used to be the best of friends and then like all of sudden we stopped talking then lil bit after that we passed notes =p and talked alot and then this year we did stuff together but we used to tell eachother everything and now I dont even know who shes crushing on!!!! its very confusing i mean shes soo nice and she rele cares and well i just wanna be bffs again (link)
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Hi. Well then you're going to have to in a way "make the first more". If you want her to tell you persoanl stuff than start telling her things. Say something like "there's this guy in my 2nd period and he is sooo cute" or "I just like that guy so much, but I don't think he likes me" and then she will probably give you advice. if she doesn't than you could always ask her for advice so she feels needed. And than you should ask her "so, how about you, seen any cute guys lately?" To be best friends forever you really HAVE TO BE best friends forever. Call her at spontenious moments... just to say hello. Talk to her about you, your life, your interests, your dislikes, your friends, your crushes, your boyfriend and exboyfriends, and ask her about HER, her life, her interests/dislikes, her crushes/boyfriend/exboyfriend. The more you show you care and trust her, the more she will care for you and trust you.
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so I was over my godmothers house today and her son *george* in 10th grade was with me, my little brother and his little sister. I started talkin to my little brother about hanging out with one of my ex boyfriends and *george* was like "are you messed up why are you thinking of goin back out with him you know that kids messed up in the head. Plenty of guys would love to go out with you so why would you pick this messed up kid. you must really be desperate if you wanna be with him!!..it's not like you LOVE him or anything" but the truth is i do really love him and I know it's definately a fact. I just wanna know why he went off on me so bad about me liking this kid. Does anyone have any advice on what I should do about my ex and why *george* flipped out so much??THANK YOU!
my ex is 14/m, im 13/f, and george is 15/m (link)
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Hi. Well it depends... does "George" act funny at other times or ever give you hints that he likes you? That might be it. OR his life isn't so great and he's not dating much and he thinks you're pretty altogether. In that case he kind of likes you AND he is just eager to have input on a situation, even if it's not his own. About your ex, if you really do like him a lot or love him than DEFENETLY hang out with him. (one last thing, is your ex really "messed up in the head" or does George have any reason to believe so? If he DOES have a reason to believe so than he is just looking out for you and minding other people's business... but if he doesn't have any reason to say that then he is just jeolous)
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ok.. im 14/f and i know this guy that likes me.. and so does my best friend.. shes the one that wants me to go out with him.. but whenever its the 3 of us.. like if were at the movies.. she makes it so that she sits in the middle.. and i dont know how i can flirt with him if shes inbetween us.. and i dont know how to tell her that i cant flirt with him if shes always between us.. please help in any way possible (link)
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Hi. Well why not asking the guy if he ever wants to hang out (just the two of you) without inviting your friend. And if your friend IS hanging out with you make up an excuse to be closer to him. For example, if you are at the movies on your right is your friend and on her right is that guy, say "I can't see from here, do you mind if I move there with you?" and go sit next to the guy. The excuse doesn't have to be a good excuse, you can't jsut say something like "the screen looks weird from here", that way both your friend will get the hint that you don't want her in between and he will get the hint that you like him and he will start wanting to be "sitting next to you" by himself, even when your friend DOES come in between.
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Hey. I'm 13/female. See, my mom just sent me to go live with my dad who.. well he hits me a lot, and sometimes he touches me in places that..ehh your father shouldn't go. And yes, my mom does know this, she just doesn't want me and my sister living with her full time. I cant tell the police because im the only person he does stuff to and it owuld kill my sister and step-family if he were put away... and the would all hate me. I'm thinking about just..ending everything but i don't want to hurt my friends. Can anyone help.. ? (link)
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Hi. I'm really sadden to hear your story. ...I hope my advice doesn't upset you but I think you have to tell the police or someone (like a teacher or counselor) that will tell the police for you. I kunderstand why you wouldn't want to tell the police and your reasons are valid, but your family will be hurt by your father if his behavior isn't stopped. I don't think you should "end it all" because then your siser would be alone and you wouldn't want himt o do anything to her. Don't leave her alone. What that man is doing has to be stopped. You cannot live with him and your mother should know that. You may love her and understand her but when it comes down to it your own health, emotional, physical, spiritual, mental, and your sister's are at risk here. The only way for things to start getting better is if you go live with a different relative and stay away from your father, and make sure he gets help and is treated and can never hurt you again. I'm sorry if I'm giving you an answer you don't want to hear, but it's for your own good and for your sister's. Please consider what I say. I wish you well. Feel free to email me or leave me a message if you need more advice.
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How do I tell my parents I want to date? I dont want to flat out say it
I rate high (link)
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Hi There,
To make things a lot easier on yourself you should only ask one parents. The one you are closest with and has direct authority over you. If someone has already asked you out or if you already asked out someone you can say "there's this person at school that asked me out" or "I am very interested in someone at school." and see what your parent(s) think about it. They will usually say something encouraging like "maybe you should talk to them more" and then you should say something like "I would like to go out with him/her. ...What do you think?" That's kind of how I told my mother about my first boyfriend and she just told me that if I was sure I liked him or if I was sure I wanted to give him a chance than it was OK. After that guy I never asked if it was okay to date a new guy anymore. Well hopefully it'll work out OK.
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