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How do I get him?
I really like this guy. Whenever he IMs me it makes my heart jump. He know a WHOLE lot about me and my life. I think he knows to much though where hell think that im not good enough. Also I dont know if he likes me back. I have 2 classes with him tis year and Im scared ill embaress myself in front of him. How do I know if he likes me? Also hes a different race. Like not mexican but like sometin around there. My family doesnt really support mixed races but I really would like yo go out with him. I really dont care what they say but if I ever go out with him should I tell my family right away?
BTW>Im 13/f...8th grade
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ok listen i know how you feel because my family is the same way im goin out with an african american and my dad doesnt approve so i dont talk much of him. even if your close with your parents if you like this guy you should just be honest and tell him you like him. if you really like him and he likes you whether you parents like it or not you should still go out with him. i mean if you really do like this guy then tell your parents. they should respect you enough to let it go even if hes mixed. good luck. maybe you can help me with my question. search for the keyword: confused!
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Well I think you should tell your family but get to know the postitive things about the guy you like and when you tell your parents just say that he is a different race but hes a really nice guy and tell them some positive things about him to your parents. See if it makes a difference. Hope the advice works!!
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well first ask him if he would ever consider you as a girlfriend and if he says yes then ask him out tell your parents who cares if they dont accept it tell them you like him and you want them there behind you to support you good luck-Amanda
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If you really like this, if he is your friend, just ask him if he likes you as a girlfriend. if not then don't ask him out, if he does then ask him, if he does say yes to be your boyfriend just tell your family and doon't take a no just say i really like him and things to make your family feal ok about him being with you, hope i helped.
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well first of all tell him exactly how you feel and if he likes you back he will tell you , allso if you do go out with him then you should explain how you feel and i am sure they will understand
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See if you can take him on a "date" - it doesn't have to be a "real" date, just go out somewhere with him and see what happens. You won't embarass yourself if you remember that you like him, but you're also close friends. I wouldn't worry about your parents until you know exactly how he feels about you, and if you're going to be bf/gf. Then you should probably tell them what you like about him and see if you can do something all together, so they get a chance to like him. (If I were in your shoed, I might not mention anything about his race at all - if they start liking him beforehand, then it's hard for them to go back on that later, but I don't know if that's a really good idea.)
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i think you should go out with him if you really love/like him. you know? dont let anything stop you. tell your family that you love him. you know?
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Hey there! Hoo...this is a difficult situation. My family also feels the same way... Um, I suggest that you tell your family not right away, but some time into the relationship, and if they ask you why you're with him, you can explain to him why you like him, the qualities that he has that makes him such a great guy. If they don't agree to it the first time you are explaining to them, you can allow them to meet each other, like by bringing him to dinner and they will see and get to know him for themselves. I really hope it works out! And, just be yourself around the guy. If he can accept you for you, then that is a really great guy, and he is there to stay! Take care...
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All you have to do is sit and talk with him and tell him how you feel about him. You wont embarress yourself.
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Hi. ....Well it depends... when a guy takes so much interest in a girl it usually means he's interested in her. Unless he's like that with a lot of girls, in which case he's probably a nice guy being friendly. A good way of finding out if he likes you is the classic "getting a friend to ask for you" method. A lot of times guys are honest about it and just say "yes". But if he doesn't answer either "yes" or "no" maybe you should get a friend to tell him that you like him and asked your friend to tell him for you. That way he'll either say "really? I like her too! I'll ask her out!" but if he says "no, I don't like her that way" you can just deny the whole thing. l. o. l. But I really think he likes you since he has so much interest in you. (p.s. you sound like a cool person so don't think you're not good enough for him. If you really weren't good enough for him he wouldn't spend his time getting to know you. But he does.) Now, if you guys DO get in a relationship I don't see why you should tell your family right away (unless you usually do when you get a boyfriend). But if it starts getting serious (like if you guys want to meet each other's families) or if you guys go out after school or on the weekend than I would suggest telling them a little bit in advance before you went on the date with him. Well my best wishes!!
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