Iam a girl with black hair and gray eyes. I like to go to the gym to workout because it relieves stress. I like to help people no problem whatever they ask I won't judge people I'm just a person willing to give you some advice that's all. I think its important to have a good education and a good carrer in life. I want this world to be peaceful which is one of my biggest dreams!I'm back!I apologize to you all for not being able to help you guys in need for help whatever help you ask for just write me in my inbox,I'll answer as soon as possible.
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Location: Brooklyn,New york
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Age: 17
Member Since: August 11, 2005
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So there's this guy.. I call him my best friend. We're kinda dating but not, because he's going away to basic training in a few weeks. He told me he didn't want a girlfriend while he was away because he didn't want to worry about what they were doing, hence us not being together. Anyways, it hasn't hit me about him leaving yet, but I know it will soon. I was just wondering what are some things I could do to keep myself busy and not think about him so much while he's gone? I don't have too many friends to really hang out with & keep me busy, but I definately don't want to be stuck at home all depressed. Thanks! (link)
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Go out with your family to places to go on tour or go shopping or go out with your friends to a concert or the movie theater or to a nice restaurant or to the park so you get your mind off the guy meanwhile he's gone.
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of one of my best friends is thinking about commiting suicide i love her so much as a sister and i never want her to do anything like that can you please give me advice on how to stop her i dont want to put her therough counseling it will only make it worse (link)
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You have to talk to her,whatever you do don't leave her alone,make her come to her senses,you have to make her understand that she has a gift that not everyone is able to live,others have diseases,they wish they could live for many years,she is fortunate to live a long live,also add the fact that she'll be throwing away her life,she should appreciate it because she was born for a reason,even if she is going through tuff times she'll be able to continue her life,you will help her,she has also her relatives,parents,who care about her.I hope everything turns out right.
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I've been playing soccer for the last 8 years. I've been on a select team for 5 or 6 years. My mom never supports me. She says I suck at soccer & I'm not aggressive & I'm the worst player in my city. It really hurts because I try so hard to show her that I actually have skills. All my friends say I'm one of the best players and they say I'm the best right wing they've ever met. And a lot of people don't make the select team, and I've made it every year. I've made it when people 2 years older than me haven't. So why does my mom say I'm horrible?
Oh yeah, and she says my sister is awesome at softball when her coach doesn't even know her name & it's only her second year and she can barely hit.
Ugh!! (link)
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The reason why is because she feels bad for her,since she knows your good at soccer she doesn't want to bring down her child by letting her know that she is bad at softball,you should be happy,because you are a great athlete from the things you just confirmed about,you need to talk to your mom,to let her know it would mean so much if she would support you and stand by your side.
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There are these two girls who used to be my best friends. Last year, they talked about me, made up stuff, blamed everything on me, & all of these other things so that they could get out of everything that they did & said about one of our other friends. They did that three times; I gave them three chances. Each time, they would apologize & say it wouldn`t happen again, but it kept happening. So, I just gradually stopped hanging out with them, but I was thinking the other day. When I was with them...I`ve never had that much fun with any of my other friends in my life. Plus, they would stand up for me if someone said something mean to one of us. No matter how much I cried cause of them, I also laughed just as much. I don`t know what to do. Should I just keep doing what I`m doing & staying away from them? Or should I give them another chance? (link)
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No,you had already given them enough chances for them to do the same thing to you they don't deserve you.They have to learn from their errors keeping your distance will keep you safe from being betrayed again like that they are very cruel people even though they backed you up when people would try to say bad things think about the other bad stuff they did to you.
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ok so i live in connceticut which is like this little kinda rich place in the us and i go to a really preppy school wereanytrhing that doesn't fit into the hollister look is emo. now im a guy so ofcourse im gonna get alot more crap about the whole emo look or whatevr but i dont think i shou8ld change for people i mean theres only like five kids out of the whole school that would fit into the punk skater look counting me and i hate being called gay or fag because i wear like skinny jeans and died my hair burguny. What do you think i should do about it. any advice helps =) (link)
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I love the way you think if they don't want to let you be yourself then that's just too bad don't let them get you into peer pressure real friends are willing to accept their friends just the way they are or want to be unless if they are doing something to harm themselves.
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Okay, so there's a guy that I really like. We flirt with each other sometimes.
Well, anyways, I went to this pizza place yesterday with my family and 2 of my guy friends met us there, too. Well, anyways, we went off to go play some games, and then I came back, leaving them there, cause I ran out of money. So I was walking to our table, when I saw the dude that I like! Right when we both saw each other, he looked like he almost choked on his drink, and his eyes were all big! So, I went back to go play foosball with my guy friends; me versus them. So we started playing, and then the dude that I like came up and was watching us play. And, of course, when he came up to us, I was all nervous and was totally sucking at the game.
Then, last night I went to the high school football opening game, and he was there! My friends that I was with said that he kept on staring at me!
What should I do? Does he even like me or am I just wasting my time?
Thanks! (link)
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He does like you otherwise why would he be checking you out take control of the situation,go for it,you like him also at the same time make sure he's single because you don't want to get hurt by knowing later on.It looks like you too might be meant for each other the fact that is like destiny wants you too be something don't you think.This is good news.
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well i know this guy (jake) and he was my first kiss and my first friend in the nieghborhood but later on we got in a fight for 4 months but then he apologized to me. so we started hanging out again and one thing lead to another and we had sex (no. he didn't take my virginity. i felt bad for a while because he has a girlfrind in another state he's had for over a year. then after that, summer started and i wasn't home for most of it so we never saw eachother. then when school started we started hanging out again. we haven't really talked about it bt he's told me he's been thinking about us. i didn't really say anything because for a while i really like him but i've moved on and the incident was just a memory now. he's a great guy but i'm not sure how i should feel around him. i mean when i'm by him i feel protected andi care for him alot but does he feel the same. i mean he was there when my heart was shattered by the guy who took my virginity. (he pounded on him like crazy) he was the shoulder i cried on but he still has a girlfriend & i'm starting to feel like a side girl. but then i think to myself if i was just another girl why would he have stood up for me, why would he have been there for me and not just somewhere else? i'm not sure on where to be in this mess. am i suppose to care or do i forget? is he the real thing or just a fling after a year? help please!!
thanks =]] (link)
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Since Jake has a girlfriend you can only see him as just a friend,someone to see as a person who will look out for you when you're in danger it would of been different even he didn't have one,he does seem like a great guy.It could be that he felt the same way you felt or maybe he see's you as a good pal.It's okay to feel this way but you should forget about him and try to move on.
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My mom is gone on a business trip for 1 week and she left a couple of days ago, my dad is busy with work and my siblings are always with their friends... I spend a lot of time at home, since a lot of my friends are gone on vacations. Yesterday my dad told me to start acting more mature and helping around the house. Like doing the dishes and doing laundry. I can do the dishes but I'm not very good with laundry. So my question is,
- How do I seperate the piles.... Whites, colors and darks right?? ok but what about whites that have some color designs on them? Is it ok to wash colors that are not the same? Like blue and pink together? What about socks? My dad has socks that are white and gray. I know you wash towels and sweatshirts together right? does the color matter for those? I want to do laundry, but I'm scared I'll screw something up and my dad will be mad at me. I googled up laundry but there was only 1 good result, wikipedia and that was a little help. So any other helpful laundry advice? (link)
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Whites go with whites,colors go with colors,if the whites have some color on them then put then with the colors.You could put blue,pink together as long as they are colors,it goes the same for socks.The same rule applies ro towels,sweatshirts.Lets say you were to use a detergent that doesn't have clorox you could mix up the colors but just in case always follow the colors rules.Never put delicate clothing into the washing machine stuff like silicon,silk because it will get ripped up.Also remember to check the pockets because it might have money inside or an important paper.
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I completely shaved my vagina yesteday. It now itches a lot. How can I soothe the itch? (link)
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You can buy the itching cream,they sell them at any pharmacy or use a teaspoon of powder,fill it in the bathtub with warm water,stay in for a while then the itchness will go away or an infusion made with myrtle and witch hazel.
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hey..
im a really really scared and paraniod person
i can like kill myself for the stupidest things in the world..
i always think the wronge way
then thoughts enter my mind
and get me all scared
can somone help me?
just give me advice to like keep my mind of things or something
thank =]
bye (link)
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Stay on the path where only good thoughts are present,you need to face the things you fear,have courage so you can go on with your life,please don't try to kill yourself your life matters even though you may not see it that way,when you start to think negative,shake off those horrible thoughts,you can control yourself,fight it saying I don't believe those things will happen,they won't everything will go right,nothing can stop me from living a normal wonderful life that was given to me,then postive things will come along your way.Lose those fears,insecurities because if not you're not going to be able to be live in peace but if you don't fear anymore,think postive,have bravery you will be able to.
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My best friend is going through a lot. Something very serious and bad happened to her. Me and my boyfriend told her to go to the police and tell them...but she can't. This girls like my sister. I know this is going to sound crazy, but she's from the internet. She's 13 years old. Please tell me what to do. Thanks!!! By the way I'm 19/f (yeah) (link)
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Try convincing her to call the hotlines like I don't know what it's about exactly what is the bad thing that occured to her but here are some emergency numbers like the domestic violence hotline 1800-621-4673,crime victims hotline1800-247-8035,child abuse hotline 1800-342-3720,or the teen help line,give her all the support that you can give her,that's so nice of you to care for her you will be rewarded for such good in you and your boyfriend.
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ok well i'm gonna try to help my guy friend get some girls...first i want him to watch some of the vh1 pickup artist shows...then at a football game try to approach a girl and get her # or whatever...what else can i do to help him out? (link)
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Tell him about what girls like,love doing for fun,what they see in a guy,how to talk to a girl,keep a conversation going,how a girl likes to be cuddled,to have the attention that they need,what things he should buy a girl you need to also test him later on just to make sure when it's the actual girl he goes out he knows exactly what to do.
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ahhh im doing a stupid spanish project and i need a verb that starts w/ L and a noun that starts w/ L.. its supposed to be stuff that i like/like to do.. but whatever i just need some ideas bc i cant think of any! thanks! (link)
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A verb would be like leyendo for a verb,for a noun it would be lentes or lapiz for a noun.You can say "me gusta ir al cine","me gusta usar lentes cuando voy a la playa",Cuando escribo me gusta usar un lapiz especialmente para examenes","en la biblioteca me gusta estar leyendo libros interestantes"
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Hey! Well before I made the volleyball team, people told me I was really good. Now that I'm on the team, I'm not doing so hott. Like my serves aren't consistent and I just feel like people are doubting my skills now. I don't know. I't made me really sad and dissappointed. What do you think I should do to gain more confidence and how to become a better player?
Thanks (link)
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Practice a lot so you get better at the sport,let them know that you will do way better,don't doubt yourself you need to believe in yourself so you can reach your goals,don't expect to win with lack of confidence you need to stay active,strong,pick yourself up,think that you will succeed,pray to play as great before you got in the team or like a pro,don't let them see you get upset they need someone to look up to and who knows you may just be their leader.
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hey ppl.. i need your helpp badly! please
anyway so here it is!!!!
my school starts real soon about a week nd some days.. anyway i really wanna lose weight im "average" but i have a stomache and i gotbig legs well the exercise stuff is easy i got tht covered up i did lose wieght because of my exersicing but The prob is is that i dunt kno how to stop my cravings i get hungry so much please help me:!!! i really need it
thank u!!:D:D (link)
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I sugggest you go to the store where they sell videos,buy the ones where it contains various ones with different exercises like the girls next door who demonstrate them,people who are already professionals,you choose,workout at your home which will be much easier,go on a strict diet,have someone help you to avoid you from eating,eat once in a while if you can or not everytime you get hungry eat a granola bar or I have another idea I have something else I recommend you should take nutrition drinks daily which will make you clean your system,burn the fat,at first it makes you dizzy but the next day you drink them you will feel better it's called the "nutrition club", the club helps a lot,you can order them too.
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well ok, you on here probably all know my story by now... i kinda got a lot of advice about my relationship... well anyway if you dont know...
14/f
Im going out with a boy named Mike(hes my first bf), and hes a couple months younger than me. and we've been going out for 10 months, we started going out on October 25, 2006. and anyway we've only held hands once, like when we were at a school dance, and we hug sometimes after school, and everyonce and a while we kiss (only a peck) well i dont have enough courage to go up to him and hold his hand, or hug him, or kiss him. I love him, but i dont have to courage to show him! and dont tell me to tell him i want to, cuz i cant do that either....
what should i do??? please just give me some ideas of what i could do to give me courage, and everything!!! I REALLY NEED HELP! (link)
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Pretend that no one is there but you, him alone,try holding his hand don't be ashame,say on your mind "hey he's my guy there is nothing wrong showing my feelings,that's what couples do,believe me others won't say nothing they have no reason to because you too are going out and period.You're very lucky to have him,other girls don't have guys,they would give anything to have one,express their love without caring what others think.Tell him something that makes you happy then hug him after that go for the kiss,don't get scared you can take it slowly so he gets to enjoy it a whole lot then start to do that everytime you see him,and you'll get used to it that the fear will disappear trust me.
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ok i am going out with this guy, and it is going good expect one thing!!!!
he NEVER talks to me!!!!!!!! like we talk on the phone but it is like all silent and everything!!! and then when we are on yahoo we talk all the time and stuff!!! and then at school we dont talk but we give each other eye contact and when i am in the hall way he will come up to me and like pump me and will say o i didnt see u there and stuff ina funny way!!!!
but i just dont know if it is going on the wait track!!!!!!!
i like him a lot too!!!!!!!!
so can anyone help????
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I see that it's a lot easier for him to say what's on his mind on yahoo but when it comes down to seeing each other in person it's just hard for him you know since he likes you he get's nervous,the words he wants to express don't come out so have more patience at least try to,until he feels more comfortable around you he will then be talking a lot with you,his nervousness won't get in the way no more so stop worrying too much.
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I need ideas for my boyfriend's birthday gift, but the thing is, its in the same week as our one year anniversary. So I'm undecided as to whether to purchase two separate gifts... or just make it all into one occasion. There really isn't a limit on money at the moment, I just need some ideas as to what to get.. (link)
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You should get the two gifts at separate occasions,as to what to get you can get him like nice chain with his name on it or like a very hot shirt with his whole name on it,into a picture frame where he could hang it in his room somewhere,or a gold waterproof watch or a collection of perfumes that are all great different brands.
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another "guy question"... but I need some help. There's this guy. Now, this guy is kind of a redneck. He hunts, fishes, talks about trucks, ect. (sorry if i'm stereotyping). well, he likes me. He has liked me for the past two years, and I am beginning to like him. the thing is, EVERYONE in my school makes fun of him because he is, well, "immature". I've tried to hint to him that I'd like him more if he was more mature but he just doesn't get it. I'm afraid if he asks me out, I won't know what to say. I mean I like him, but he can be annoying. I know you're gonna say "follow your heart" but it really, truly isn't that easy. Please help! (link)
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You're gonna have to tell him that you want him to be more mature otherwise he will not keep getting the picture,don't be scared to not be able to know what to say you just have to tell him what's on your mind but,also think before what you're going to say to him,if it's something else that you don't like about him try saying it in a respectful way because you don't want him to get offended,so he takes it in a good way.
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Okay. I was on the phone with my friend Eric.. we were having a wickedd fun the conversation when I started hearing like yelling and screaming in the background. I was like ERIC are you okay?? What's going on?? And before he answered the phone went dead. I know it did because it said that. Wel sorta I know though. Well I tried calling back and everything but it said it was disconnected.. and err. Well I talked to him on AIM. He seemed like wicked sad. I dont know how I could tell I just did. I asked why his phone didnt work and he said they didnt pay the bill. Well I went over his house and noticed the phone was thrown across the room. I asked him about it but he didn't say anything. Then I noticed his Mom was still in bed and it was like 3 in the afternoon. And that beer bottles were everywhere. I asked him whats wrong whats going on and he started crying. Like I dont know.. flat out crying..So I listened to him and his parents are fighting a lot lately and his dads drinking a lot. I was really worried about him so my parents being there awsome cool and understanding selves let him like move in with us, and his parents want him back. I wont let him back what if he gets hurt! I love him..(were just friends) and i wont bare to see him go through that. So now my parents are fighting for i think custacy of him but I have the feeling he wants to go bac, for his mothers sake.
What Do I Do?
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Keep supporting him,but I agree on that he can't go back with their parents fighting all the time,if Eric decides to want to go back I think you have to accept it but under one condition that both parents go through some time in therapy until they both change,do it for their son then he could go back.Or keep trying to convince him that your place is the right choice,that he won't be more better,secure than with you guys.
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