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i know what you're thinking...
another "guy question"... but I need some help. There's this guy. Now, this guy is kind of a redneck. He hunts, fishes, talks about trucks, ect. (sorry if i'm stereotyping). well, he likes me. He has liked me for the past two years, and I am beginning to like him. the thing is, EVERYONE in my school makes fun of him because he is, well, "immature". I've tried to hint to him that I'd like him more if he was more mature but he just doesn't get it. I'm afraid if he asks me out, I won't know what to say. I mean I like him, but he can be annoying. I know you're gonna say "follow your heart" but it really, truly isn't that easy. Please help!
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If you truly like this boy & you want to be with him, then you shouldn't care what other people say. & truthfully, I doubt anyone would say anything to you about you dating him anyways, and if they do, then tell them to mind their own business.
But let this boy know that if he is wanting things to work out with you, then he is going to have to straighten up or things will never progress.
But if you don't have feelings for him, then don't lead him on.
Good luck.
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You're gonna have to tell him that you want him to be more mature otherwise he will not keep getting the picture,don't be scared to not be able to know what to say you just have to tell him what's on your mind but,also think before what you're going to say to him,if it's something else that you don't like about him try saying it in a respectful way because you don't want him to get offended,so he takes it in a good way.
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What other people think or do to him should not be a concern of yours. The first step is deciding whether or not you like him regardless of what other people are saying.
How well do you know this boy? There is a chance that he is only immature at school or around his friends. It is quite possible that he can be mature when he is one-on-one with someone or when he doesn't have to make an impression. Sometimes guys act immature because they are nervous, shy, or simply don't know what to say. Take the time to get to know him better and I'm sure you'll see he can have his mature moments too.
I think it would be wise to be friends with this boy before you consider dating him. Start things off casual, see how you feel, and then I'm sure you'll easily be able to decide if you want to take your relationship with him further.
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If you like him, go out with him. Who cares what other people think of him? All that matters is what YOU think. Since the main thing holding you back is what other people think of him, what are you waiting for? Ask him yourself if you want to.
-LM
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