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I want to be friends with them, but I don`t.
There are these two girls who used to be my best friends. Last year, they talked about me, made up stuff, blamed everything on me, & all of these other things so that they could get out of everything that they did & said about one of our other friends. They did that three times; I gave them three chances. Each time, they would apologize & say it wouldn`t happen again, but it kept happening. So, I just gradually stopped hanging out with them, but I was thinking the other day. When I was with them...I`ve never had that much fun with any of my other friends in my life. Plus, they would stand up for me if someone said something mean to one of us. No matter how much I cried cause of them, I also laughed just as much. I don`t know what to do. Should I just keep doing what I`m doing & staying away from them? Or should I give them another chance?
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even if you have fun with them, theres plenty of other people out there that can do the same without treating you like crap. i think you should just keep doing what you're doing, and try to make new friends, or you could be "friends" with them again, but don't trust them and tell them anything confidental.
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No,you had already given them enough chances for them to do the same thing to you they don't deserve you.They have to learn from their errors keeping your distance will keep you safe from being betrayed again like that they are very cruel people even though they backed you up when people would try to say bad things think about the other bad stuff they did to you.
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hmmm... well this is tricky. If I were you, i'd give them ONE LAST CHANCE. and if that last chance goes wrong, then don't even bother to hang out with them because even if you had lots of fun with them, you also got hurt many times. If you hang out with them and keep letting them do these mean things to you, they'll think it's ok and just keep doing them. You can find friends that are even better than them. You just have to be YOURSELF and not be a fake. If you are a fake, people will be attracted to your phony act and then when you are yourself, they will think you're a weirdo because they thought your act was really you, when it's not. and then it just gets ugly from there. So be yourself and people will like you for who you are. Even if you don't find any true friends really quickly, you still have your family to look up to and talk with.
I hope everythings goes ok
-volleyball2150
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