hey brianna ok well let me get straight to the point....ive been out with alot of guys....ALOTTTTTTTTTT of guys,,like 10 in the past 4 monthes...and i bet hats not gonna be the end...so anyways..people r now saying that im sortof a player...and like thats not it at all...im just looking 4 the right guy...and non of them r the right ones..ther all a bunch of bad boyfriends..excpet 4 one..but we broke up.... so i dont rly want them to call me that..and i guess its b/c some of my relationships arent vry long..but thats jsut b/c they arent it...well..do u think people r just jelouse? or not? cuz its gettin rly annoying...like im not a player at all..what should i do? should i lay low..and not date anymoe guys 4 alittle bit?
People like to gossip is something we as humans always have to deal with. i don't think they are jealous, they just have the wrong impression. don't lay low and hide from them, but at the same time, if you date, make sure to give it time because sometimes we put it in our minds that it's not going to work that we quickly get it over with and tend to miss the right one. if people talk let them talk just to what you want for yourself because thats all that matters. at the same time don't go too overboard
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I was a new kid at school last year and I made a few friends, but only hung out with this one girl. She was kind of too stuck up for me, but we only knew eachother so we remained as friends. We were never really close, she wasnt the type that wanted to go and hang out, and I was. Now that she has graduated, I don't have any friends at school. For some reason, its just really hard for me. I just want a couple of friends i can hang out with all the time and who i can tell everything to, but im not very social. Help?
I can definitely relate to you. Being the new kid is not fun is something that i can understand. I wanted the same things to, friends, that friend that i can tell everything to and the problem was i wasn't social still Am not. The thing is if you want friends, don't hide in your comfort zone. it might be hard to leave but eventually you have to and i had to if i wanted to make friends and make things easier for myself. it might feel weird at first, but just do something simple like if someone asks for a pencil, if you have one give and then you guys might already be on the road to friendship. thats just an example though but i am pretty sure you know what i mean.
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Hello, my boyfriend recently told me he loves black roses, and for a date, i wanted to get them for him, then i read that they symbolize the death or farewell of something so would that be giving a bad idea? i was thinking 12 roses-6 purple, 6 black. would that be okay or be sending a bad message? thank you!
Well it's your choice, but if he told you that he likes them then i think it would make him happy if you bought it for him
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iv grown up in a catholic family and have went to all religious private schools but i dont believe. i am roman catholic but i am leaning towards athiest atleast agnostic. i want to believe i want to be helped, but i havent a clue where to start. how can i start again or can someone convince me? and another reason is why would god let me be tortured and put into trauma by jerks trying to steal me and take advantage, why. two years straight of this crap. 16/f
Hi Umm I am going to try and explain at my best.
First off God does things for a reason that no one can explain but if you have faith it will work out. you just have to believe in him which is what i think you are having problems with. You said you want to know how to start, well first off pick up a bible. ask God to help you, ask God to lead you, ask him to help you understand the things he does, ask him for guidance in your life and that you want to be led through the right part you want to be saved. I can't pressure you to believe in God. but i can help you understand why you need to. The decision is up to you. Of all the things that have happened to you, you have made it through and alive, that is God's works
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He is everywhere. He is omnipotent and omnipresent. just find a quiet place and pray and i gaurantee you, you will recieve and answer!
ADDING:
He is always there and he is everywhere. Just find a quiet place and just talk to him.
most people start with "God if you are there and i hope you are listen..." just pour everything out, and read your Bible as well. If you need help I am here
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Does God exist? Yes or no.
Give supporting claims for either answer.
HEY!
yes God does exits. just take a minute and think one of the greatest evidence we have is the bible which helps us understand more about his works.
lets say when something good happens in your life, or when you wake up each morning or each time you are blessed, that is God's works. he does exits because he sent his son to die on the cross, he does exits because each time we sin we are forgiving, he does exit because hell is real and there is someone we can follow to keep us away from going there which is him and only him!
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A question to those who are religious.
Christians?
Jesus believers.
Why does your religion believe that Witchcraft is wrong? Why do you seem to think that Witches gain their power and energies from hell?
Most Witchcraft doesn't even have anything to do with heaven or hell...?
Okay I am going to try and explain it.
lets see....
God's power doesn't include any spells, or summonings etc.
Witch Craft comes from the devil because if it was a power from God, you wouldn't be chanting spells, you will just have to call on his name and pray.
Witch craft is really that energy of hate that comes from the devil himself.
Some parts of the bible talk more about it than i can explain.
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I live alone with my dad and have since I was a baby. My mom died in a freak accident of sorts and so it's just been me and my dad all of these years. We get along great! The problem is that I started to have my period and I am going to need some pads (my friend gave me a few of hers to get me by for a couple of days). I know I should tell my dad so that he knows about it but I don't know what to say to him that isn't embarrassing for us both. How do I tell my single-father that I've started having periods?
I am sorry about your mom.
But sooner or later you are going to need pads. so tell your father. He is your father he knows that this would happen one day and that you period will come. so if you asked me, i think he is already prepared and is just waiting for you to ask
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today, i was hanging out with my new friend, we get along real well and i was telling her my life story and all the pain and struggles that i went through and my friend starts crying and telling me that i dont deserve any of this, i dont know about that but i am really insecure person and i have a low self esteem i really dont know why she cried because she didnt go through any of this, any clue on why?
sometimes when people tell their life story, the person they tell it to picture it in their mind and try to relate to it as if it were them. your friend feels sorry for you. she understands the pain your been through and she said that you didn't deserve that pain because she cares and is "sympathetic"
p.s: she is a good friend
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i have a crush on this guy. lets call him CG. now i am a very shy person so one day i had my friend find out things about him in a mock interview. CG found out about this and said he only liked me as a friend. some friend he just ignores me now. so one day CG was extremely upset at school. he wasnt his normal self. he didnt joke around with people he was really quiet. when one of the funniest guys at school tried to make him laugh he wouldnt even crack a smile. he just walked around with this sad little puppy face and it was pretty heartbreaking. so later on i asked him on facebook if he was ok, hoping that he would come talk to me about his problem and that i could make him feel better and maybe he would want to talk to me more. but he never answered he just signed off and the next day never said a word to me. as i wrote this it almost didnt seem like a big deal to other people but idk i feel kind of hurt by this. everytime i try to talk to him, its like he doesnt want to talk to me and that he wishes i would just go away. i apologized for the whole mock interview thing and he said it was ok but he still didnt talk to me. i was going to ask him to a dance next year but im starting to see no point of it if hes just going to ignore me forever :( is there any hope for me with this guy? do i just forget about him or keep trying
NO I don't think he is embarrassed by you. I do believe he likes you as a friend and maybe doesn't know how to act as a friend since he knows you like him more than a friend. Maybe he just need some time. give time and if you want to ask him to the dance, then go ahead, the worst he could do is say know to you. That wouldn't end the world, it will just show where you and him stand. Anyway maybe you do have someone else or maybe he is just afraid of starting something
hope i help... if any more questions, don't be afraid to ask me lolz
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Does anybody know any good songs that help them get through hard times in relationships? Or just songs that are empowering to women and talk about respecting yourself and confidence......my bf cheated on me and music really helps alleviate my stress and make me feel better...i would appreciate your suggestions thank you
Leon Lewis- better in time
I hope you dance (is a song)
never say never- by the frays
light on- David cook
Alicia keys-Dynamite
Alicia Keys-if i never see your face again
a lot others. but i have tot think about them
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I am thinking about killing someone. I know I shouldn't but I can't stop thinking about it
don't think about it. just clear your mind. you know you are not that kind of person. If its something that you feel won't stop until you kill it, then get help from a trusted person or adult. Guilt is not something you will like and wishing to redo things won't work.
Think before acting....... Don't think about killing though.
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i have wanted to move out to the country ever since i got my 1st horse 5 yrs ago since then i have got another i live with my young grandad and nanna and my mum. my grandad and i are certain we want to live out there andmy mum dosnt mind but my nanna manages to find 1 problem with every house that we look out even when there isnt one i even go to a school where i only have to go twice a week if the house is far out in the country we are looking a getting another horse and we have 6 other animals i would appreciate your help thanks is there any way of convincing her or should we leave it?
You Nana feels that if you leave you will forget about her. she loves you and doesn't want to let you go just yet. she is afraid of not having that connection with you if you move away. you two should talk, or all the family together should talk and find a solution.
hope it works out!
P.S thats a lot of pets for company. very lucky
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Okay well im at my friends house. First off to just let you know she has an ouijia board in the room next to us that we had played a few times in her room and all over her house, but we haven't played it in about 2 month. Okay well anyways we were in her room in the dark watching movies well she has this big photography picture like up against her wall well I was watching the movie then all of a sudden I seen like a scary face in the photograph picture it look like it had horns in the head coming out and the face was really scary and look like it was kind of popping out, but the rest of the picture I couldn't see. I even tried to blink a few times to see if it would go away then I tried saying god in my head whenever I closed my eyes, but it still wouldn't go away thats when I got really scared and told my friend to turn the light on as I was shaking and my heart was pounding. Then after that have happened I like got zoned out for a really long time while staring at the picture my friend told me I wasn't moving at all are blinking I was just sitting up staring at then all of sudden it felt like wind pressure hit me and I like jumped out of it. Then the 2nd time this occurred I was just sitting up staring at her bed then I heard a low knocking noise coming from the next room, I showed my friend were I heard it from and she started crying and was like thats exactly where the boards at. I didn't have no idea the board was in that direction ether whenever I pointed it out. Do you have any idea what's going on? Please help were freaking out right now scared to death. None of this is made up ether.
ummm I am not sure, but please i will suggest getting rid of the board as soon as possible.
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I'm 17. I went to a church retreat last weekend and never had felt so close to god. I started reading the bible (starting with exodus) and I'm starting to find it contradictory. Maybe I'm looking at it the wrong way, that's why I need help answering a few questions.
God wipped out all he had created except Noah and his family because they lived in the way god wanted the world to. He killed everyone else with a flood because they turned corrupt. After, he made the covenent with Noah that he would never do it again; the rainbow symbolizing it.
Here are the questions
1. If god killed the corrupt then why don't we believe in the death penalty; those who take lives are corrupt and killing them would be considered gods work wouldn't it?
2. If god is perfection and all knowing then why did he make that covenent with Noah saying he would never do it again like if it was a mistake?
3. In matthew 4 the spirit leads Jesus to the desert to be tempted by the devil. If gods love is true, perfect, unconditional then why would he lead his son to be tested? Wouldn't that be the equivalent to having a good looking guy talk to my girlfriend to see if she would flirt with him? I wouldn't do that to my girlfriend if I truely loved her.
That's all, I really hope someone can answer my questions. My confirmation is coming up
1)There is the difference between God's works and satanic works. those who kill have no love for God or haven't found God. each man has free will to make his/her decisions and it's either God's way or not.
2) It wasn't a mistake. did you read about the thoughts and filthiness the people toward the angels. the city didn't have more than five people save. All were nonreligious and corrupt in sins. God made that promise to Noah because he wanted man to be able to trust him and what he does. he made that promise to show his honesty. And yes you right HE IS PERFECT.
3)God sent Jesus there for a reason. God has a purpose for everything he does. TRUST IN HIM. God knew what will happen. he wanted to show the readers and his disciples that not all riches and un spiritual things are going to get you in heaven. He stated that it is easier for a donkey to go through a needle than it is for a person to get to heaven. we are all sinners. Trust!
if you have anymore questions please ask me. i will be happy to answer them.
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ever since i've been a teenager i've been having confusing thoughts and doubts about my religion. i'm methodist christian, and was raised that way. we go to church on sundays, but we're not overly religious. like, my parents drink and stuff, we cuss, they party, i party, we're not like all "ZOMG DON'T SAY GOD'S NAME IN VAIN" or anything of the sort. okay in all honesty, i'm probably the worst christian alive. but from what i was raised to believe, that doesn't matter as long as i'm on the right path. and i wasn't worried about anything up until about 3 or 4 years ago.
i had found out that my closest friend was an atheist and it scared me. i didn't wanna picture the thought of a sweet girl like her burning in hell for eternity. but i couldn't change her mind!! no one could. so i finally gave up a year ago and just let her believe in what she wants to. and after i switched to public school and saw how everyone was either atheist or satanist or wiccan or something, and only a choice few were still christian, i started thinking in terms of more of an atheistic point of view, and if not that, agnostic. i want to believe anything will happen to me when i die. i mean, living for however many years and then going straight to the ground for eternity? what fun is that? i mean, i know dying isn't supposed to be fun, but what about those 4 year old kids that get run over or die of pnuemonia or something? they barely have any memories and they're just going to the ground, never to live again? i want to believe that there is a heaven. and i suppose if i believe there is a heaven, then there has to be a hell. but then i started thinking, how could any of this be possible? if god is real, well then why can't i hear him? i've tried to, and at times when i thought he was talking to me, its just been my own thoughts or my imagination. i find it really unfair that jesus was able to prove himself to everyone in the bible, so that they knew what to believe. well what about the rest of us? what do we have to lean on?! i have ABSOLUTELY NO PROOF of anything, and my clock is ticking! i don't want to stop believing, just to find out i was wrong and then go to hell for it, but i don't want to keep believing, and find out i was wasting my time on the wrong god, or that there is just no god, period. i need help and i need it fast. i have other things to worry about and this helps absolutely nothing. and everytime i turn around, one of my friends stop believing. the love of my life just said he didn't know if there's a god at all, and how can i help him if i can't even help myself? i don't want to lose him like i did with my other friend. it was too late to change her mind but i want to save him.
interesting...
you know there is a God but you don't know if his real or not.
i won't lie... sometimes i wondered how God was created, or how he came about. (and i used to think that ones i get to heaven, i will ask him the questions). the truth is push that out of your mind. you asked what you have to lean on? THE BIBLE! you have that and if you follow every single thing in it, the you are on the right path. Believe in God, have faith in him, He wants our faith to be as small as a pea. Can you have that faith? trust? God has a plan for you. believe in yourself is the first step. allow God to show you his miracles. If you listen hard, you will hear him speak, you will see him show you the way, you will hear of his miracles. Just keep that image of heaven and don't get consumed with humans man made items......
if you have anymore questions, i will be happy to answer
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where dose it says in the bible that preacher sould or not get paid?
It doesn't...... their Rewards is the people that they inspire to come to God.and also thier reward will be in heaven. when a preacher or pastor gets paid, it's just the church's way of thanking him. so they give him/her money for personal or church uses
hope this helps
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i was watching hannah montanna as i was going to bed and it was the episode where she has dreams that her horse is warning her.
then, as i was watching the episode my eyes got heavy and i began to dose off. i have a tendency of dreaming something and something similiar to it happens eventually. when i fell asleep, i had a nightmare that everyone was telling me that the world was gonna end in 4 days. i got VERY scared. and there were bombs everywhere and there was war everywhere and i was just terrified and when i woke up, i was SOOO glad that it was just only a dream. did this mean anything???? i'm really scared of death & especially the hypothesis about 12/21/12. Do you think that this is all just my fear in my dream? wills something happen in 4 days? i'm very scared. i woke up with cold sweat. or is it just a nightmare and should i just move on?
sarline here....
First, you should pray. Always pray about any dream you have to make sure that it has no negative impact on you. second your just scared and the devil is trying to scare you. no one knows when the world will end. So u should always pray, thanks God for what you have. And pray that when he comes to take his disciples, you will go with him..... No one knows when the world will end but God..... Not even Jesus knows.
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i am insanely scared of the world ending. i am soo scared that 12/21/12 is true. is it true? if it's not true, what is proof that it's not true and what are some sources to lead to the idea that it's not true.
sarline here......
No one knows when the world will end. if you read Revelation in the bible, God says that no one knows the time, nor the day, nor the place when he will come. Not even his son Jesus knows. You see things that people say like eathrquakes and etc happening, those does not cause the end of the world only God knows when the world will end. But when it does, there is no second chance. so we best be ready by being saved by God!
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I cut my wrists for the first time about two years ago when my boyfriend of 8 months and I broke up, but I only did it once or twice and it was more of a scratch rather than a cut. Between then and up until about January of this year, I've done it, maybe a total of 7 or 8 times because of break ups, family issues and issues with myself. Lately though, I can't seem to stop. I sit around and think about it all day until my mother finally goes to sleep so I can cut again. Is it possible I'm addicted? Maybe even obsessed with it? What do I do?
hey sarline here..
well to me it sounds like the issues you have going on need to be dealt with immediately if there are so big to cause you to do this to your self.
talk to your parents or a trusted adult about your troubles. please just stop cutting yourself. You may not know it but it does get addicting without a person even knowing there are. just ask for help and if you think about cutting, think about something else. And how u are soooooo much better than all those boys who dumped you. because they don't deserve. don't give them the satisfaction of being lonely and sad. show them. if you that you have strength. if you have any other questions write back if you want.
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the teacher suposly asled me to spit my gum out and i did but she wrote me up and she said that she had asked me more than twice and that i still refused to spit my gum out
well did you spit it out the first time she asked you or did you fuss and make a big deal about it. Like someone said, it's kind of her rules so just follow it and avoid trouble. but if she is as fault, and you did what she asked you, then just consult her about it..
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