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hey brianna ok well let me get straight to the point....ive been out with alot of guys....ALOTTTTTTTTTT of guys,,like 10 in the past 4 monthes...and i bet hats not gonna be the end...so anyways..people r now saying that im sortof a player...and like thats not it at all...im just looking 4 the right guy...and non of them r the right ones..ther all a bunch of bad boyfriends..excpet 4 one..but we broke up.... so i dont rly want them to call me that..and i guess its b/c some of my relationships arent vry long..but thats jsut b/c they arent it...well..do u think people r just jelouse? or not? cuz its gettin rly annoying...like im not a player at all..what should i do? should i lay low..and not date anymoe guys 4 alittle bit?
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People like to gossip is something we as humans always have to deal with. i don't think they are jealous, they just have the wrong impression. don't lay low and hide from them, but at the same time, if you date, make sure to give it time because sometimes we put it in our minds that it's not going to work that we quickly get it over with and tend to miss the right one. if people talk let them talk just to what you want for yourself because thats all that matters. at the same time don't go too overboard
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Hey,
So I believe that it is none of those people's business who you date. If they don't like how many people you date then they can shove it. Don't stop dating for their sake. People can say whatever they want don't let it get to you. It's a waste of time.
Like the person below me said, if you want a long term relationship you need to get know these guys before jumping into a relationship.
If it were me I'd take a long look at the person before I started dating them. First of all I would look at the kind of person they are. Are they the type of guy who is a known player? Avoid him like the plague. Or are they type who loves to party at all cost, with know thought to consequences. Somebody smart coined the term. "You get what you pay for." In this situation you need to make sure you don't forget it.
If you want the qualities of prince don't try to find them in a toad. A toad is a toad and they can't be anything other than themselves. I garauntee you that if take a minute and really listen to the way the person acts around their friends you'll have a window into the person they really are. One guy asked me out but, I knew the way he acted with his friends. (He was completely irresponsible and immature.) I politely declined. He spent the rest of his year hitting on girls and trying to have sex with them. Which made me happy I avoided him like the plague.
Basically, use your instincts if you don't want to keep dating toads. Wait for a little bit before jumping into a relationship with someone you don't know. I promise you you'll know a prince when you see one.
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People are going to think what they're going to think. There's not much you can do to change that. I'm sure some of it could be jealousy. You could be a saint and someone would still have something bad to say about you. That's life. You don't have to lay low or stop dating all together, but if you want my advice, maybe try to get to know a guy really well before starting a relationship with them. Start off as friends first. That way, you'll have a better chance of figuring out which guys probably aren't right for you.
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