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my boyfriend and i will soon celebrate our one year anniversary together and i want to buy him something special.
what can i get him that guys like and has some practical use. like, i was thinking an engraved ring but i wasnt sure if it would be appropriate.
what can i get him? price range is up to $150. maybe $200
Hey, well guys love chains. It doesnt have to be a big "rapper/ghetto" chain if thats not what hes into, it can be a regular sized chain. He will get use out of it and probably wear it everyday. If you wanted to add something else in to get him, what about his favorite cologne.
okey. so i look at all these sites for masturbating, and they all say that the person gets wet. what is that and how and when does that happen?
Hey, being "wet" just means that a girl cummed. Just like guys cum, girls do too. It happened when a girl is sexually excited and turned on.
15/f.my ex bf and i are like best friends. we ended up hooking up [making out] this past weekend. and then we just kinda talked about it [on AIM] and, well, i just dont know what i want. or how i feel about him anymore. even though it's kinda slutty && unlike me, i wanna keep hooking up with him ! but i dont really think i want a realtionship with him again. because obviously, we broke up for a reason. there was a lot of problems when we were dating so we mutually decided that we should be friends. then...we hooked up. so now i think we're both confused. but hes pretty much made it clear that he doesnt really want to go on dates with me or be my ''boyfriend'' anymore. personally, i dont really want to go out with him either. but i just cant stop thinking about him lately. i dont know what to do. i care about him, but i think it's only as a friend. and i'm pretty sure thats all he feels for me too now. is having a friends - with - benefits really that bad, as in slutty? it IS summer...but idk. is it bad to hook up with him when there's no... feeling behind it? ugh idk =/
Hey, well i have two different feelings on friends with benefits. It could be a great thing or the worst thing in the world, especially with an ex. It could bring back old feelings for one of you and the other one might just want to stay how you are, while the other one wants a real relationship. Its not slutty to have friends with benefits with JUST ONE PERSON, but when it comes to more than one, i consider it slutty. Also make sure that the guy that your having friends with benefits with is ONLY being like that with you and only you. Also before you get into this, make sure that this is what you both want and only what you both want. Say how you feel and dont hold back feelings, vice versa. That way if this is only what you guys want with your relationship, it works out and no one gets hurt.
okay so me and my ex boyfriend hung out and we had sex. he did not use a condom. we went for about 15 min. or less. he didnt keep it in the entire time we did it though either. i heared that if he did not cum and was not about to then theres no chance id be pregnant. but im still not sure. he said he did not cum and wasnt about to and he never did even after we stopped. so is there a chance i could be pregnant? all my friends say i should be fine and so does he.
also for 3 days it hurt when i peed and i blead a little. it stopped now, so is that just because i had sex for the first time?
Hey, the bleeding was normal. That guy took your virginity away and popped your cherry. Usually people bleed a bit (just like spotting) for about 1-3 days, so your normal. There is always a chance that you could get pregnant even if he did not come inside of you. Your probably thinking, "no way", but let me tell you how. When a guy is sexually exciting he cums. Now even if he doesnt come in side of you or even that much at all, cum is still on the head of the penis. Its barely noticeable, but it leaks out.
how do you do the laundry? like more specifically?
i know so far:
- separate colors from whites? is there anything else? like reds from greens or w/e?
- bras are put in these net bags so they dont break
and nothing else?
- do you turn the clothes inside out?
- what do you handwash? what materials?
Hey, you pretty much have everything covered. The most important thing is the seperation of whites/colors. Once you have that down, the rest is just putting in the soap/bleach and turning the washer on. As for handwashing, you have to look on the tag on your clothes, so dont cut out your tags. It will tell you on the tag if your suppose to handwash it. Also on tags there are washing directions, (example: machine wash cold).
what does it feel like?
Hey, well to most people to be loved is one of the best feelings in the world. You may think that your in love at a point, but if you question it AT ALL, your not. Love is not a maybe thing, you know when you love someone. The feeling of love is actually extremely hard to describe. Just know that its a wonderful thing and that when the time comes that your in love, trust me, youll know.
heyy i have light brown, dark blonde hait and i want like a beige blonde/ baby blonde colour for my hair is there any decent brands that you can recommend that will definately work on my hair n make it how it looks on the box :] :]
http://i172.photobucket.com/albums/w23/babee_rae_of_hornc/hair2x.jpg i want it similar to this.. ^
thankyoo xxxxx
Hey, well i had dark brown hair. A few days ago i dyed my eyebrows and hair jet black. The namebrand i used was Clairol. There are two different types of hair dye. Semi-permanent and permanent. Obviously the one that lasts and stays in until the roots show is the permanent. Semi-permanent means that it fades everytime you wash your hair. Clairol is a permanent brand. I got mine at CVS.
I'm trying out for the poms team and my school. I really want to make the team but I haven't done dance in a while so I probably suck. I really really want to make the team...
does anyone have any tips,websites,workouts,or whatever that can help?
Hey, it really depends on what type of dance that the "POMS" team is all about. Im not familiar with it, so im not sure. If you want to tell me what type of dance in a message to my inbox, i probably could help a lot more. Anyways, im still gonna give this question a shot. Why dont you ask one of your GOOD friends (that will not teach you the wrong things or make you look bad) to help you out. You know just teach a few dance steps to you and a few do`s and donts. Also watching music videos on you tube or just mtv could help. Also "so you think you can dance" or any other dance shows like that could help a bit.
This may sound SOO televisioness but it's my life and its full of drama Im in florida right now with my family and my grandparents. I came to Florida to get away from all the drama where im from. Well on the way there I have Eric calling me saying he wants me to come back so i was like you have someone. You dont need me. He said he broke up with my best friend, D. Well i hung up on him and called her and she was crying saying its not far how i have 2 boys Josh and Eric that both like me and not one likes her. I said i had no idea he was dumping her and that i never liked Eric and never will. She accepted my apoligy and we came up with an idea to get him back. I apoligied for hanging up on him and he told me he was already in Florida! He told me his grandparents are friends with mine and that he's staying in there cabin thats across the street from mine gradparents. Well when I got there me and him are sharing a room, and im on a lap top right now. Our plan is that im saposed to pretend to like him and have him fall deeply in love with me and then when i get back from summer break kiss Josh (which he will definetly not mind :) and break hi heart like he broke D's. Well so far today rocked! it was the first day that me and eric have been away from my parents and grandparents and we got icecream and built a huge sand castle and i loved it... Eric still has no idea im using him right now but I wanna tell him without losing my friendship with my BFF its so confusing i know but I think i like him.. Ive been here a week with him and im already breaking my best friends heart if she found out that tonight, I wanna sneak out of his grandparents cabin ( that were in alone.) and go swimming with him at like 3 in the morning.. yeahh i already have it all planned :)
my question is how do i kep the guy and teh best friend because i dont want D mad and i couldnt live without Eric.
Help me!!
Hey, well you need to tell your friend straight out that you dont want to do that to eric because its not right. Yeah, its unfortunate that he did that to her, but it doesnt make it right for you to do to him, especially since he didnt do anything to you. Its also a bitchy thing to like him as soon as he breaks up wiht your BEST FRIEND. You need to give it time, but tell her that you will probably be close friends with eric because your spending so much time together up there. It might hurt her at first, but she has the right to know. Leave out the part that yuo like him tho, wait until you return from there, than explain your troubles with how you like eric. If shes a true friend, she`ll understand and not want you to miss out on an oppurtinty on a relationship, even if its with her ex.
I was just wondering can you masturbate if you don't have your period? Like, can you get an orgasm, or whatever it's called? Thanks.
Hey, yes you can. An orgasm is possible.
how many times does the average person have a bowel movement per day? how about people with a high metalbolism?
Hey, i think the normal thing is once or twice a day. It really depends on the person. Sometimes people dont have one every day.
I feel like such an asshole.
I don't even know if I should.
ugh.
So I like this boy right and today was our last final so me and some friends were just hanging out in this part of the school so I was going to walk down this one hallway then I saw this guy I like coming. I was like "SHIT" and ran to the next hallway. I'm pretty sure he saw me make a bolt for it considering that my friends were yelling "HEY WHY ARE YOU AVOIDING THIS HALLWAY?"
I feel like a jerk.
I don't even know why I ran.
I like him so much and idk it was just impulse?
I was planning on asking him out on friday (since we go in for report cards then we're done school) but I dont even know if I can look at him without feeling horrible.
Should I feel bad?
I don't know what to think.
It probably sounds really reallllyyy stupid.
I don't know what to do :(
Hey, well i can just tell you now that if your running away from him in a hallway, a relationship between you two wont work out. But anyways if you should feel bad or not depends on if he likes you back or not. If he does, yeah, you should feel bad. That was a bitchy thing to do if you know that he likes you. You could have also lost an opportunity. Who knows - maybe he was gonna go up to you and talk to you or maybe even ask you out. I would talk to him on aim, myspace, or the phone to clear things up and let him know thats theres no hard feelings.
ive been talking to this guy for ever now! it seems like forever. weve gone out once before and we talk constantly on the phone and on the internet. he calls me pet names like baby and stuff. but he says that we arent going out. its true he hasnt askd me and i havent really called him on it. he doesnt really act like a boyfriend around me when were with his friends but then when were alone he acts as if he is my boyfriend. i am so confused! what do i say to him or ask him..or what?! idk! any advice is welcome.
thankyou
Hey, well that seems unfair to you. I feel as if hes just leading you on for a potential heartbreak. You need to let him know how you feel. If he cant straighten his act out and let you know where you stand in the relationshipp, then i would try to move on.
Has anyone heard the song "I walk like a playa, walk walk like a playa, walk walk like a playa, I talk like a playa, talk talk like a playa, talk talk like a playa..?" If you have can you tell me who sings it and the name? Because I need it for a quince dance.
Hey, ive never heard that, but suggest a different song.
http://www.lyricsondemand.com/l/lilwaynelyrics/worrymelyrics.html
FYI: I am a 20 year-old recent college grad. Both men I am referring to in this question are only slightly older than me and finishing their degrees.
"Joe" and I began dating 2 1/2 years ago. Our relationship was generally good when last summer (1 1/2 years in)he decided that he didn't want a serious girlfriend. Nothing mean or ugly, he was just being honest. I tried all summer to change his mind but finally gave. (We remained close friends.)
After dating around for a little while, I began seeing "Michael". Our relationship was somewhat rocky because we had both come out of relationships and he had been hurt many times before. During this time, Joe began to develop interest in having a relationship. I thought it over and eventually decided to try things again with Joe. (I stayed in close contact with Michael.)
Joe and I have a really easygoing relationship, but he refuses to discuss a more serious commitment. When we discuss it, he says he doesn't see us going in that direction at this point but is always careful to avoid losing me entirely. In the past few months, Michael has attempted to see other people to no avail. He is convinced that I am the only one for him. We have been getting along beatuifully, and Michael has done everything he to prove to me that we belong together. (Both are fully aware of each other and the current status.)
Michael wants me to leave Joe and become engaged to him. (He's even looking at rings.) I am seriously considering this. I love both men very much (in somewhat different ways) and could she myself happily married to either (in 2-5 years). The difference here is that Michael is willing to commit and Joe is not. Both have treated me very well; although Michael is romantic (flowers) while Joe is considerate (fixs my car). Is there any point in continuing to wait for Joe or should I leave him and accept the proposal from Micheal?
Hey, well it seems like Micheal is more of what you want and more of what youre looking for in a relationship. I would just let Joe know that your ONLY looking for a more serious and more commited relationship. Also let him know that if he is not willing to do that, that your going to move on. You shouldnt have to wait forever for someone to decide if there ready for a more serious relationship. As for the proposal, give it serious thought. I wouldnt say yes if you still have STRONG feelings for Joe. Really think this one out. Good luck.
alright soo i just made out with a guy for the first time in my life. but all we did was stay in one spot with our mouths and push our tounges in and out. arent you suposed to move your mouth around? just wondering.
p.s. i rate high : D
Hey, yeah your suppose to sort of move your head around a little. Also experiment with the placement of your hand. Put it on his head, shoulder, back etc. Run your hand through his hair to make it cute too.
well i just bought the Remmington Wet 2 Dry hair straightener and you know how it has those 3 levels: blue, purple, and red? well i straighten my hair while it's dry and the blue is meant for the dry hair and it doesn't work well on me at all. so is it okay if i use the red on my hair? or will this severly damage it? (i use a heat protecting spray if this helps)
Hey, i had that before too. I thought the same thing as you, it doesnt do anything for my hair on the blue and it takes forever. Yes, its okay to use the red. I always did and my hair was fine. Just make sure that you get frequent 4-6 week haircuts.
I have a REALLY important ballet thing coming up THIS MONDAY- and I recently gained 7 pounds, but 2 of them I just gained yesterday. I'm PMSing right now, but I need a way to lose these pounds (or at least 2-5 of them) by monday. Today I'm trying to not eat anything, but It's REALLY hard because i'm starving! If I succeed, how many pounds should that take off? (i weigh myself first thing in the morning)
How much green tea do you have to drink to effectively boost your metabolism? The brand I have is called "legends of china" if that helps.
any advice appreciated.
Hey, well since your on your period, your probably bloated. That adds 2-3 pounds. Theres nothing you can do to stop your period and no tea is going to take away the bloatness.
Hey,
So, I've been wanting to lose a little weight over the summer. I'm aaaalmost five foot, and I weigh about 98 pounds. I guess I'm not really fat, but for some reason, in my opinion I look kind of 'thicker'?
Like, I actually look like this:
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=4zmiyxv
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=6hhj53p
While, I'd rather look like this (size-wise):
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=4g83hoz
I would never want to look anorexicly thin, just thin. I need to be thin for cheering, actually. My bases complain too much weight, when I am 'pulling up'.
But anyway, I am going to have running for cheering three days a week, and I'm planning on doing a certain amount of curlups for every snack I eat. (like, yesterday it was 50 for each peice of chocolate). That should help me stay away from fatty foods, because seriously, at both my mom's and dad's house, all there are are fatty snacks, and they all get mad at me if I reccomend healthier, diet foods. They wont let me diet. So, Will this help at getting me thinner, or will I just look really muscular?
Anyways, straight-forward answers are good.
Thanks for any help, and I'll rate accordingly!
Hey, well i definately understand you. Im fourteen, 5"0, and weigh 100 pounds. Im also a cheerleder and a flyer as well. Now according to my doctor, at 5"0 100 pounds is the perfect weight. Everytime you go up in height, you add 5 pounds. So when we reach 5"1, were suppose to be 105. My bases always complain to me. Dont take it personally, its not our faults. The reason why we feel heavy is because were muscular (even if we lost weight, muscle weighs more than fat, so it wouldnt make us lighter). Also another reason is some bases arent that off from what we weigh (probably 120-130). We are all starting to weigh around the same (some girls like us are thinner), so it gets harder.
okay well i straighten my hair a lot, there's no other choice. i use a heat protecting spray but my hair still gets damaged. what's some good shampoo & conditioner that will 'restore' my hair? yesterday i just bought Suave Humectant and i didn't use it yet and it says it restores dry/damaged hair and gives moisture if this helps at all.
hey, well Herbal Essences "Breaks over" works great.
http://www.areyouabeauty.com/50226711/hessences1.jpg