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yeah so only seventeen, but ive got a pretty good idea about giving decent advice. anything from serious relationships, not-so-serious relationships, friends, family problems, what looks good & what doesnt, and how NOT to be a bitch! i love to have fun, but im not an idiot! im just your typical clowner and i pretty much know it all - well, kinda : D ask anything!!
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i sorta REALLY flirted with this guy n made out n blah blah with him.. but one of my best friends all of the sudden likes him.. what should i do :\
you cant really do anything about this, if the guy likes your friend, then it really wasnt worth "blah blah blah" with him...
Ok- I usually am the one giving out advice... but I am stumped on my own problem. Well here is what happened:
I used to have a best friend named Justine. We hit it off great from the start. After the first month we'd known eachother, we spent the night at each other's houses almost every weekend. We had only known eachother for a year when the inevitable happened- but we'd shared so much together. I had told her all of my deep dark secrets, and she had told me some of her own.
Well- this summer, I had been at my cousin Ashley's house- and we had been chatting with boys on AIM. I told Justine about it when I saw her- and for some reason, she FLIPPED. She wouldn't talk to me, and she ignored all my e-mails to her.
This year, I went back to middle school, and Justine had changed completely over the summer. She had all these cheerleader friends, and she was acting like she was better than everyone else. She even sits in front of me in my English class.
This is where the problem comes in. I don't want to be Justine's friend anymore- she is such a brat- but I do want her to act civil towards me (in English she is always sighing, like she hated being around me- and she tells people, when I can hear- that she hates me). What can I do to make her stop acting so immature???
ok yes thats true, she is being immature. you dont deserve to have freinds that act that way. and the whole thign about u hangin out with ur cousin-ok that was stupid. why would she get mad because you have a life outside of your world with her?? i think you should forget about her (sorry if it sounds harsh) but its true! i dont know what her deal is but its not worth trying to figure that out.
i have a friend from school who is petite and very underweight (by society's standards) but she sees herself as "fat" & no matter what anyone tells her she still tries to loose weight. shes only 80 something pounds! shes one of the skinniest people in school, and we're 15... and im scared it might become into an eating disorder. her parents want her to GAIN weight because she's so tiny for her size and can get hurt in sports. what can i possibly do or say to her because i've tried so many times...? (ps her parents are concerned and know about this, and they told ME to talk to her about it because she wont listen to them!)
hey*
ok well your friend obviously has an eating disorder of some kind. if shes a 15 year old that only ways 80 somethin lbs. its defiantly not healthy and you need to talk to her. tell her that your scared and if she doesnt start eating then shes going to get professional help. if she doesnt listen, do exactly that. there are places u can call for people with friends that have eating disorders. tell your friend shes pretty and help her convince herself that when she looks in the mirror she doesnt not an overweight ugly person. plus if she thinks shes fat, and all of her friends are heavier or average weight then what is she thinking about them. let your friend know that its not healthy and shes defiantly not good.
i hope it all turns out ok!
does ne 1 you have any good tips for makeup that isnt far out nd wont give you a name but stuff thats different than the rest of everybody. lol.. sry if its a bit confusin.. but ill rate you!
xoxoox
i have always loved eyeliner!! i dont know what you look like and how it would look on you but you should try it out just to see how it looks.
i always like to wera it on top and bottom lids (black) cuz i have dark hair. try using a shimmery eye shadow for the top lid and a dark color for the bottom. do whatever u think looks good. eyes are really fun to pretty up !!
Okay well their is this boy at my school and we have gone out and broke up alot! Well now i think im startin to really like him again and he likes me to ! Im tired of breakin up and all but i really like him! Should i go out with him or say No??
Sighed
Boy TrouBle!!
well i think you SHOULD go out with him but b4 you say Yes, let him know how you feel and how you dont like going off and on all the time. he should understand, if not then dont do it unless thats what you want again. its your choice...
ok well these girls i dont no keep instant messangeing me sayin that im fat and ugly because they saw a picture of me on my profile and they say all these mean things to me and im not the kind of girl who can take stuff like that and everyone tells me oh dont worry about them ur pretty and all that but i cant just ignore them they go to my school now too
someone please help me figure out something to do
hey these chicks dont have anything better todo than talk about youa dn make fun of you?? what losers! well you can block them and now that they go to your school ignore them, making fun of them back wont do anything. your friends will be right by you and it doesnt matter what these freaks have to say.
Ok...Well My sister is 15 years old and has been doing alot of partying lately and messing around with guys much older than she is!Its been bothering me because im 17 going to be 18 shortly and i am going to be 8 months pregnant which dont get me wrong im happy about the baby and im not going to regret her but i just dont want to see my sister end up in the same situation at an early age if she keeps it up.She seems to think that what she is doing is fine but im worried about her ending up in a bad situation or getting a bad reputation.Any ideas on what i should do and do you think that what she is doing is wrong?
well if you used to party a lot when u were her age, you probably didnt think anything was wrong either. now that you have been thru a lot and know that what your sisters doing is gonna get her in a bad situation, you need to tell her and make sure she knows what shes getting herself into. your sister looks up to you. most likely, she'll listen.
hope i helped!!
I've had a huge crush on this guy for almost a year now. He know's I like him, but he tries to ignore it like most guys do. He's in with the "popular" croud, but he's still acts really sweet and out-going and doesn't care what other people think. He waves at me a lot, he stares at me a lot, he plays with my hair and asks me to do stuff with him (in school, i.e. be his partner), and he also talks with me a lot more then other people. And just little stuff like that.
I know that a lot of people say "If you like someone, you automatically think they like you back", but I really think he likes me. But that's just me, and my friends think it's stupid to talk about, so does anyone have any adivce? Does he like me? o_O;
he probably does. but u need to see if he treats everyone else like that to and hes just a big flirt. but i think u should wait a little bit to see what else happens then maybe ask him out.
hope it helps!!
ok my best friends boyfriend was supposed to call her today and they were supposed to hang out nd' he hasnt even call yet nd' shes like all crushed n crying n everything...i cant stand seeing her like this...what can i say to her to help her feel better(theyve been together over a year)help me quik!! plz if ne1 can
ill even rate you 5'z
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ok your friend is kind of makin a big deal out of this.. but if shes really upset then dont tell her that!! lol like well theres probably a reason why he didnt call her or maybe hes just bein stupid and forgot. believe me, its no big deal if he didnt call her back. make sure to let her know that.
hope i helped!
Just for the info, I'm the shyest girl in the grade. Okay well I'm friends with this girl and she has a tendency to brag...a LOT. Okay, she is not very popular but she is the only one I can hang out with because I can't get to the next "group" in popularity levels. Then I made friends with this popular girl but I don't know how to approach her and talk to her at school, they all seem in one tight group. So basically I need to make new friends, but I'm supershy and I have a big fear of being rejected.
ok. using people to get popular isnt the way to get popular....alright did u get that?? be yourself! AND DONT BE SHY!!! im guessing none of the popular girls at your school are quiet. im not saying change your whole personality to be liked, but speak up!! when you talk to the girl, dont act as if shes any better then you, but dont act as if you are better either. they are humans too!!lol talk about whatever comes to mind. BE YOURSELF!
hope i helped! let me kno if you need anything else!!!
I like this guy that I have been friends with...but we weren't close friends before..but now when we talk...it's like we both see something different. Here are some situations that happened while we were talking...
Well we were talking yesterday online for a real long time. He was sayin how the convo was so fun..n he wanted us to rate each other.....and he gave me a 10! he said im really hot and that i have a great personality..he said that once he comes back from vacation he really wants to see me right away
We made this plan after talkin about stuff
Well u see....
im real sore from swimteam so he said he would give me a massage.....
n so we would chill in my hot tub while givin each otha massages watch a movie on my widescreen...model skirts ahahaha...go shoppin then go on my hammock n watch the stars n talk to each otha...lol it was mostly his ideas
we have like the same dream date!
he is so sweet!
well
i came up with a starburst kiss
so i told him tht ive always wanted ta do it and hes lyke wow that sounds koo
and lata he brought it up sayin tht we both wanna do it........n stuff lol n then he was lyke jp i was lyke no u werent n then he was lyke yah i kno
n we talked on tha phone
we can talk about nething!
hes jus open ta me
hahaha well u nevah kno wit guys
i mean what if hes jus flirtin to every gurl?
he says that he treats a gurl rite...lyke we were talkin about a walk to remember
and he said i cant build a telescope but i do treat a gurl rite..if u seen tha movie u get it lol.....
Do you think he likes me? Thanks!!
WOW! that sounds like a perfect date and i hope you guys have a lot of fun! he defiantly likes you. you should ask him out unless he asks you first. but dont worry about whether or not he'll say yes becuz there arent any signs of him turning you down.
good luck HoPe I HeLpEd!!
i'm 13 and i want to find a job to raise money. is there any places i can work at? i rate realli high! but there is one problem..i love babysitting..but there isn't many people i know with younger kids. so besides babysitting..what else?
well u cant do much when your only 13, but hey everybody needs money. babysitting is a good way to do that. put up flyers. you can also mowe peoples lawns n help with yard work and stuff. and hey, you can always wait til you turn 14 and get a work permit. good luck
okay im not fator anything..im only 105 BUT like my stomach is so weird looking like its thin and tight then like rigt under my belly button theres this huge buldge..i hate it..how do i get rid of this? cuz like it looks so nasty its like all skinny then BAM this buldge/roll thing under my belly button..HELP!
ok well when you do sit ups (if you do @ all) exhale. it will make your stomach less pudgy and not to mention comes along with a six pack after about a million of them! lol
Heyy...i want to wear a lil makeup its lite but im in 7th grade and my mom wont let me wear it out of the house.....should i just not wear it ask her or just wear a lil lipstick?
umm i was in 7th grade and i wore make up all the time and i wasnt supposed to lol. but i think its not a big deal. u can wear lip gloss and cover up and maybe some mascara. just dont over do it!